I dont think demi is like jed, but they are both dishonest. I will tell you when I was in college i started dating this guy and I really fell for him hard--a few weeks into he admitted he had a girlfriend back home and let me tell you, if he had told me up front he was just playing around and was waiting for school break to see her, i wouldnt have gotten involved. even though it was a few weeks, it was very hurtful to me AND a few years later we saw in the college alumni newsleter he ended up marrying this same girlfriend. So really all the girls he dated in college (and I was one of many) were just little games for him to occupy him while waiting for his true love. I dont like people who arent 100% clear about that.