Excuse me and I apologize if I'm not understanding some aspects of the culture, but why was Bao trying to learn their names in Mandarin. It would have been just fine to call them Frank and Joanne as their chyron said. After all, it would have been her first time meeting them. If they wanted to, F & J could have told Bao their Mandarin names there, at the party.
To me, it just came off as Bao trying to be a Little Miss Perfect and "look at me, like me," type of person.
I can see how Johnny is annoyed with her constantly trying to impress people. When they first married, I remembe