Geoffrey and Varya: Russian Roulette

[mamadrama]

6 hours ago, Dustbunny said:

It puts the lotion...  😐

 

 

Jesus, what a fucking sight to see in the dark at 2am when you're on the toilet...

[mamadrama]

Someone help me out with the timeline here...

So Geoffrey was in Russia last summer, right? July? Yet one of his dv arrests was in June. So was he talking to Varya and dating another woman all while he was still technically married? 

[DEL901]

2 hours ago, mamadrama said:

Someone help me out with the timeline here...

So Geoffrey was in Russia last summer, right? July? Yet one of his dv arrests was in June. So was he talking to Varya and dating another woman all while he was still technically married? 

His last domestic  assault arrest was a girlfriend.  They weren’t married.   

[mamadrama]

7 minutes ago, DEL901 said:

His last domestic  assault arrest was a girlfriend.  They weren’t married.   

It's 2 different women. He was supposedly still married to his last wife when he attacked the girlfriend. 

[DEL901]

5 minutes ago, mamadrama said:

It's 2 different women. He was supposedly still married to his last wife when he attacked the girlfriend. 

Wow.  He is even more of a winner.   

[mamadrama]

10 minutes ago, DEL901 said:

His last domestic  assault arrest was a girlfriend.  They weren’t married.   

Yes, here it is. He wasn't yet divorced when he attacked his new girlfriend. He claimed she was framing him. 

https://www.knoxnews.com/story/news/crime/2020/01/17/90-day-fiance-before-tlc-show-geoffrey-paschel-varya/4498658002/

 

[sainte-chapelle]

On 5/7/2020 at 2:56 AM, Dustbunny said:

It puts the lotion...  😐

 

 

 

[Mrs. Hanson]

So who thinks Geoffrey knew he was not going to get his way (over the long haul) when Varya said she would not sleep with him on their first night?  He of the smooth talk and nipple tattoos is used to getting a woman (girl) into bed asap and when Varya said, yeah....no....he was like uh oh - I have a fighter on my hands!!  I think (and forgive me for caring but I am printing out Every! Single! Email! with parents since March 17 and it is not exciting......) he proposed knowing she would say no just so he could victimize himself up and play poor poor pitiful me.

Thoughts?

Also, on the promo for next week he was all "I am heading home with a broken heart" but it looks like he is on a date.  Shut it, Nipple Tats.

[silverspoons]

On 5/7/2020 at 7:46 AM, mamadrama said:

Someone help me out with the timeline here...

So Geoffrey was in Russia last summer, right? July? Yet one of his dv arrests was in June. So was he talking to Varya and dating another woman all while he was still technically married? 

Varya did a live on IG and she said filming was over a year ago. People said Wow and she confirmed so I pretty sure she understood the question. So was filming earlier then thought and were does that put the time frame of being married, arrests etc.  The live is posted on youtube. 

[TMI]

On 5/13/2020 at 2:51 PM, Mrs. Hanson said:

 he proposed knowing she would say no just so he could victimize himself up and play poor poor pitiful me.

Thoughts?

Also, on the promo for next week he was all "I am heading home with a broken heart" but it looks like he is on a date.  Shut it, Nipple Tats.

I think if Varya said yes and took the ring and said that they should get married right away in Russia...he would have dropped DEAD!!.(that would be have been great to see)...anyway...he had NO intention of marrying her....he was just on tv to be on tv....How could he marry anyone...had a court date looming,,had a wife...and who knows what other things he has in his closet....this guy is a manipulator....as soon as she said...no...he began to lay the pity guilt trip on her and did not cease until he was on board the plane...his love for her went from 150% to -150% after she rejected him...Watch when he hugs her for the last time in the airport, and she is in tears....he looks at the camera with a "shiteating"grin that he tries to hide as he is saying wish me a good trip....Broken hearted ...NIPS you are just BROKEN...of course he is looking for another....to prove how sincere, and valid his love for Varya is.

I think all parties who are not free to marry >>SHOULD not be participants on 90 Day....got that Somemeat ....and Geoffry Nips..all money should be returned to program since they are the ultimate scammers! and you have wasted our time!

[mamadrama]

3 hours ago, silverspoons said:

Varya did a live on IG and she said filming was over a year ago. People said Wow and she confirmed so I pretty sure she understood the question. So was filming earlier then thought and were does that put the time frame of being married, arrests etc.  The live is posted on youtube. 

I don't know that I believe that. The bruise on his face is identical to the one he got last summer. 

If this WAS filmed over a year ago, though, then he was definitely still married.  

[RealReality]

21 hours ago, mamadrama said:

I don't know that I believe that. The bruise on his face is identical to the one he got last summer. 

If this WAS filmed over a year ago, though, then he was definitely still married.  

Geoffrey is an asshole with a super punchable face.  

Out of all the participants I could see him and David getting punched multiple times.  But David has the good sense to make a quick and dramatic exit before things escalate. 

[Mu Shu]

Geoffrey May or may not have done a sex tape with super gross youtuber Trisha Paytas. She did one with Chad from the Bachelor, who revealed he had to use a device and viagra to get it up, as he was disgusted by her. Maybe Geoffrey had more self respect than Chad did, and declined to man whore himself out. Either way he sucks. 

[sainte-chapelle]

Please tell me Geoffrey and Varya are broken up. I fully believe he used Mary to humiliate Varya after she rejected his marriage proposal. He acted shocked but he was loving it.

[Twopper]

On 5/18/2020 at 8:17 AM, sainte-chapelle said:

Please tell me Geoffrey and Varya are broken up. I fully believe he used Mary to humiliate Varya after she rejected his marriage proposal. He acted shocked but he was loving it.

It isn't like it was a real surprise visit.  Production would have had to have checked with  the crew filming him to make sure he was home when she arrived.   He did seem to be enjoying it too much.

Edited May 19, 2020 by Twopper

[Persnickety1]

6 minutes ago, Twopper said:

It isn't like it was a real surprise visit.  Production would have had to have checked with him to make sure he was home when she arrived.   He did seem to be enjoying it too much.

I thought about that, too, but decided to give a benefit of the doubt that he was also filming with Thirsty Mary and they may have thought they were filming their own snoozeworthy segment.  

I really hope V was given a substantial TLC bonus for letting herself go from a smart gal who pretty much dodged a bullet to an inexplicably lovesick woman showing up on his doorstep in America to "win" him back.  Ugh.  

[Mondrianyone]

3 hours ago, DEL901 said:

Varya, Varya.  There is only one reason I can think of for such an about face and that is she is pregnant.

I'm pretty sure this has more to do with contracts than with contractions.

[DEL901]

I am sure production started working on Varya as soon as Geoffrey got on that plane. Not yet?  Don’t let him get away.  He is just hurt when he lashed out.  Go, show him how much you want to marry him (for that green card).  
 

There is only one reason I can see Varya making that trip without producer interference...she is knocked up.   Hoping that isn’t the case.  

[Alonzo Mosely FBI]

2 hours ago, Persnickety1 said:

I thought about that, too, but decided to give a benefit of the doubt that he was also filming with Thirsty Mary and they may have thought they were filming their own snoozeworthy segment.  

 

This, I read somewhere (?) he said that he was filming and production was at his house already filming with Mary. The dogs were wagging their tails maybe they were somewhat friendly because Geoffrey's production team was outside w/Varya and they are familiar w/that team.

[Twopper]

21 minutes ago, Alonzo Mosely FBI said:

This, I read somewhere (?) he said that he was filming and production was at his house already filming with Mary. The dogs were wagging their tails maybe they were somewhat friendly because Geoffrey's production team was outside w/Varya and they are familiar w/that team.

Well, I  would think the Varya team would text the team in the US with Geoffrey to make sure things were coordinated for filming, but not to warn Geoffrey of the surprise.  This is not the case of a neighbor popping thru the fence  for a surprise visit to a next door neighbor.  This had to have been coordinated by the teams.   And it is about the only interesting scene all season. 

 

1 hour ago, DEL901 said:

There is only one reason I can see Varya making that trip without producer interference...she is knocked up.   Hoping that isn’t the case.  

I hope not, too.  I hope Mary dumps him.  It sounds like Mary really has wanted this relationship for a long time (he said they tried before, but just went back to being friends).  I think she wants it so much more than he does.   It really annoyed me when he said that Mary and he weren't on the same time line before, but now they were, but he rejected Varya for not being on the same time line when she said she just wasn't ready to agree to marry him the moment/day he proposed.   --I just can't stand him.  

[mamadrama]

Varya, Geoffrey, and Mary have been publicly fighting on Instagram for weeks. The comments have been enlightening. 

No way Geoffrey didn't know she was coming.

[RealReality]

38 minutes ago, mamadrama said:

Varya, Geoffrey, and Mary have been publicly fighting on Instagram for weeks. The comments have been enlightening. 

No way Geoffrey didn't know she was coming.

Fighting over a felonious woman beater with nipple tattoos.  

We've really come a long way, baby.  🙄 

[mamadrama]

8 minutes ago, RealReality said:

Fighting over a felonious woman beater with nipple tattoos.  

We've really come a long way, baby.  🙄 

And like the Asshole he is, he mostly just sits back and lets the women go at it. 

It's mostly one sided with Mary attacking Varya and, honestly, she seems crazier than him. It's a clusterfuck.

[silverspoons]

35 minutes ago, mamadrama said:

And like the Asshole he is, he mostly just sits back and lets the women go at it. 

It's mostly one sided with Mary attacking Varya and, honestly, she seems crazier than him. It's a clusterfuck.

I have wondered why Varya did not let this go. Look at Rose she stood up to Ed and does not get involved in his drama and she has a nice social media following of fans. Varya could have done this. She has a fun personality and walks around her beautiful city and she could have just made her owns videos, gained fans and friends and get rid of Toxic Geoffery.

[sainte-chapelle]

1 hour ago, mamadrama said:

And like the Asshole he is, he mostly just sits back and lets the women go at it. 

It's mostly one sided with Mary attacking Varya and, honestly, she seems crazier than him. It's a clusterfuck.

Varya just needs to move on. She dodged a bullet and should thank her lucky stars

[1011101010001]

Here comes the jackass to give his spin

 

[Twopper]

29 minutes ago, silverspoons said:

I have wondered why Varya did not let this go. Look at Rose she stood up to Ed and does not get involved in his drama and she has a nice social media following of fans. Varya could have done this. She has a fun personality and walks around her beautiful city and she could have just made her owns videos, gained fans and friends and get rid of Toxic Geoffery.

Varya may have actually started to like Geoffrey before she heard about his record.   Why she would still want anything to do with him after that is beyond me. 

I don't think Rose ever liked Big Edd very much.  And once he said he didn't want children, she had no reason to try.

[Neurochick]

2 hours ago, mamadrama said:

And like the Asshole he is, he mostly just sits back and lets the women go at it. 

It's mostly one sided with Mary attacking Varya and, honestly, she seems crazier than him. It's a clusterfuck.

It's like watching Jerry Springer.

My question is, Geoffrey was arrested for DV in June, I guess he was released if he went to Russia in July.  So did TLC know about the DV arrest?  If TLC knew, then why did they continue to film Geoffrey?

[Mrs. Hanson]

43 minutes ago, MrBuhBye said:

Here comes the jackass to give his spin

 

15 minutes extended to 20.  He never answers the questions about raping his ex wives, either.

[Mrs. Hanson]

37 minutes ago, Neurochick said:

It's like watching Jerry Springer.

My question is, Geoffrey was arrested for DV in June, I guess he was released if he went to Russia in July.  So did TLC know about the DV arrest?  If TLC knew, then why did they continue to film Geoffrey?

 

[DanaMB]

1 hour ago, Mrs. Hanson said:

15 minutes extended to 20.  He never answers the questions about raping his ex wives, either.

First think I picked up on. He’s disgusting. 

[charmante]

Did Varya go live today on Instagram?  When I picked up my phone earlier, my Instagram feed showed a post by Varya saying she was going live today at 2 p.m. Eastern. When I clicked on the post it went to a dead page. Did her live stream ever happen?

[1011101010001]

1 hour ago, DanaMB said:

First think I picked up on. He’s disgusting. 

He probably doesn’t acknowledge that marital rape is a thing.

[mamadrama]

5 hours ago, Neurochick said:

It's like watching Jerry Springer.

My question is, Geoffrey was arrested for DV in June, I guess he was released if he went to Russia in July.  So did TLC know about the DV arrest?  If TLC knew, then why did they continue to film Geoffrey?

If they didn't know then, they sure as hell knew once Varya flew to the US. And if they'd done their due diligence they'd have found that the June charges weren't the only ones against him. He should've never been cast even if they hadn't known about the latest ones. Mary and Geoffrey went on their "date" 3 months after he returned from Russia. I don't know how much time passed between their "date" and Varya landing in the Knoxville. At any rate, at minimum there were four months (give or take) between when they first started filming him and when Varya flew over. At some point during that time they had to have found out, which means whether they flew Varya in and sponsored her or not their filming alone still makes them accountable for putting a woman in potential danger.

TLC knew from before the first episode aired that Geoffrey had charges filed against him, that's why they didn't include his segments on "Pillow Talk" from E1. My question is why they didn't just pull his scenes altogether. 

[Frozendiva]

It would be easy to put up a legal disclaimer for the show and air it on every episode and Pillow Talk. A couple of seconds of screentime.

[1011101010001]

With Yolanda and Stephanie both snoozes they needed the drama.  The ratings have been great due in part to the pandemic.

[blubld43]

16 hours ago, mamadrama said:

And like the Asshole he is, he mostly just sits back and lets the women go at it. 

It's mostly one sided with Mary attacking Varya and, honestly, she seems crazier than him. It's a clusterfuck.

I can't help but think of the contrast between Rose and Mary, hero vs zero.

[Mrs. Hanson]

16 hours ago, mamadrama said:

And like the Asshole he is, he mostly just sits back and lets the women go at it. 

I agree!  This will fill his ego further.  Yuck.

 

8 hours ago, mamadrama said:

TLC knew from before the first episode aired that Geoffrey had charges filed against him, that's why they didn't include his segments on "Pillow Talk" from E1. My question is why they didn't just pull his scenes altogether. 

I agree as they could pay him off and stretch out the other's scenes, they do that REALLY well: Three identical scenes of Lana walking up the steps, for example.

[DEL901]

15 minutes ago, Mrs. Hanson said:

I agree as they could pay him off and stretch out the other's scenes, they do that REALLY well: Three identical scenes of Lana walking up the steps, for example.

I am hoping for “the most shocking ending ever” as in the last episode, Geoffrey is lead away in handcuffs.  

[Mrs. Hanson]

15 minutes ago, DEL901 said:

I am hoping for “the most shocking ending ever” as in the last episode, Geoffrey is lead away in handcuffs.  

We can dare to dream, followed up by a "Where Are They Now" with Sir Geoffrey and his prison hubby talking about his nipple tats!

(Actually I think real life hardened prisoners would say "EWWW" to those things!!!)

Edited May 19, 2020 by Mrs. Hanson

[Persnickety1]

21 hours ago, Alonzo Mosely FBI said:

This, I read somewhere (?) he said that he was filming and production was at his house already filming with Mary. The dogs were wagging their tails maybe they were somewhat friendly because Geoffrey's production team was outside w/Varya and they are familiar w/that team.

I remember on RHOC, one of the housewife's sons was being filmed at college.  He had no idea when the production crew showed up to film one day that his mother would be making a surprise visit...and he wasn't happy about it (Michael and Vicki).  These production crews can be pretty creative at setting up "surprises" for the participants  😄  

Hopefully, TLC starts vetting these people more thoroughly, though, so they aren't surprising potentially dangerous monsters like Geoffrey.  

[mamadrama]

9 hours ago, Mrs. Hanson said:

I agree!  This will fill his ego further.  Yuck.

 

I agree as they could pay him off and stretch out the other's scenes, they do that REALLY well: Three identical scenes of Lana walking up the steps, for example.

Yeah, really. They made an entire season out of a 10-minute coffee break and what amounted to a USPS worker dropping off certified mail. 

[Frozendiva]

https://soapdirt.com/90-day-fiance-geoffrey-slaps-back-at-fans-that-got-him-kicked-off-tell-all/
 

About why they are not on the tell all. Which may or may not be true.

[DEL901]

20 minutes ago, Frozendiva said:

https://soapdirt.com/90-day-fiance-geoffrey-slaps-back-at-fans-that-got-him-kicked-off-tell-all/
 

About why they are not on the tell all. Which may or may not be true.

He was being frozen out by TLS before the fans even got a chance to know and hate him....alter all, has he ever been on Pillow Talk, even back at the beginning?

[hookedontv]

2 minutes ago, DEL901 said:

He was being frozen out by TLS before the fans even got a chance to know and hate him....alter all, has he ever been on Pillow Talk, even back at the beginning?

No, Geoffrey and Varya are the only couple that has NEVER been on Pillow Talk.

This is a stupid quote from that article:  According to Geoffrey, the network “has bowed down to the pressure of a few thousand people.” Instead of the millions of people who watch the show.

I am one of the millions of people who watch the show. And I don't care to see Geoffrey on the Tell All at all. I wish they never aired this couple or had just stopped airing them once everyone found out about the pending charges. 

[RealReality]

1 hour ago, Frozendiva said:

https://soapdirt.com/90-day-fiance-geoffrey-slaps-back-at-fans-that-got-him-kicked-off-tell-all/
 

About why they are not on the tell all. Which may or may not be true.

I find it disturbing that the writer of this... article?  appears willing to take Geoffrey's word that everything was "misrepresented" and was all a ploy to get custody. 

That complaint was fairly specific and with the level of injury it sounds like she sought treatment and has proof.  If she didn't, it seems unlikely the DA would bring any case or let it keep going.  

I'd bet a million bucks that Geoffrey is currently trying to intimidate, guilt, humiliate or "charm" this woman (victim) into non-cooperation so the DA drops the charges.  

Sadly, given his temper and aggressive tendencies....it'll probably work.  It's something for pickme Mary to look forward to. 

1 hour ago, hookedontv said:

No, Geoffrey and Varya are the only couple that has NEVER been on Pillow Talk.

This is a stupid quote from that article:  According to Geoffrey, the network “has bowed down to the pressure of a few thousand people.” Instead of the millions of people who watch the show.

I am one of the millions of people who watch the show. And I don't care to see Geoffrey on the Tell All at all. I wish they never aired this couple or had just stopped airing them once everyone found out about the pending charges. 

I just want to reflect on the fact that thousands of people find him do objectionable that they contacted TLC about it.

I'm personally more inconvenienced when I get BBQ bigger dipping sauce instead of hot mustard and I won't even complain about that.  

It's just to say that the disgust is real if that many people took the time to say something. 

[DanaMB]

On 5/20/2020 at 4:05 PM, Frozendiva said:

https://soapdirt.com/90-day-fiance-geoffrey-slaps-back-at-fans-that-got-him-kicked-off-tell-all/
 

About why they are not on the tell all. Which may or may not be true.

Good lord that article was painful to get through. So poorly written.

[endure]

On 5/15/2020 at 6:59 PM, TMI said:

I think if Varya said yes and took the ring and said that they should get married right away in Russia...he would have dropped DEAD!!.(that would be have been great to see)...anyway...he had NO intention of marrying her....he was just on tv to be on tv....How could he marry anyone...had a court date looming,,had a wife...and who knows what other things he has in his closet....this guy is a manipulator....as soon as she said...no...he began to lay the pity guilt trip on her and did not cease until he was on board the plane...his love for her went from 150% to -150% after she rejected him...Watch when he hugs her for the last time in the airport, and she is in tears....he looks at the camera with a "shiteating"grin that he tries to hide as he is saying wish me a good trip....Broken hearted ...NIPS you are just BROKEN...of course he is looking for another....to prove how sincere, and valid his love for Varya is.

I think all parties who are not free to marry >>SHOULD not be participants on 90 Day....got that Somemeat ....and Geoffry Nips..all money should be returned to program since they are the ultimate scammers! and you have wasted our time!

I don’t really understand how he was able to travel to Russia with current charges and a pending court date.  Also there was talk about a child custody case, does he have other children besides the two boys.  Was he involved in two different domestic violence  cases? He reeks he really does

[endure]

On 5/18/2020 at 4:38 PM, Mrs. Hanson said:

15 minutes extended to 20.  He never answers the questions about raping his ex wives, either.

He doesn’t say anything really and then just wipes a tear from eye hoping to gain sympathy....he is probably more delusional than some of the others we think are 🤮

[mamadrama]

6 hours ago, endure said:

I don’t really understand how he was able to travel to Russia with current charges and a pending court date.  Also there was talk about a child custody case, does he have other children besides the two boys.  Was he involved in two different domestic violence  cases? He reeks he really does

A few ways: he either lied on the application (obtaining a travel visa to Russia from US is easier than the reverse), he applied before the crime, or the charges changed when he came back (ie, more were added to give us what we see now). And yeah, multiple women made DV complaints.

Sharp shouldn't have cast him the first place. Even if they hired him before the most recent charges, he still had some from a few years ago. In a reality show whose concept revolves around being intimate with a partner they should never cast someone with a past complaint of dv. There are more than enough other nutters to choose from. 

All that aside, dude was still married. Buck shoulda stopped there.