Season 2 Discussion

[booboopbedoo]

8 hours ago, Pepper Mostly said:

he way she kept trotting out one skimpy outfit after another from her luggage, grinning like an idiot and giggling "this one is really hot!" like a fifth grader showing her test that got an A+ was so, so very painful. I was embarrassed for her.

It made me cringe! S he is a grown woman acting coy. If the cameras weren't rolling she would have told to get lost.

 

8 hours ago, Pepper Mostly said:

Yes, rushing off to the bathroom to vomit is so professional. And the director lurking outside! My god. It did look like a porn shoot. Pao's living in some fantasy land where this is what a real, professional video shoot looks like.

Her career is over before it even started. Those eye rolls make me want to punch her!

[Mercolleen]

I was happy to see that Danielle's kickass daughter Faith is still alive. Did anyone else notice the treadmill in the background of the apartment? With a baby walker on it?

Pao's hair extensions are made of straw, as are pretty much all of her arguments. She conflates "sexy" with "skanky." Which is too bad, because she is so much cuter with no makeup. She also mistakes "low-rent and trashy" with "professional."

[booboopbedoo]

12 hours ago, Mrs. Hanson said:

Culture culture culture, bullshit.  His mom straight up said it is okay Chantel is at the bottom of the barrel so they can be  higher up, and said that was their culture?  Cmon, man.  Respecting your mother is culture.  Taking care of your mother is culture.  Treating your wife as less than?  That isn't culture.  

She will NEVER be Number 1 in his life baby and no matter what people say - baby he married her for a green card and to send things to his horrible,nasty,rude ungrateful family. baby I would tell them all to FO and go home and shut the the Cookie Jar until he smartened up. Baby

No matter how much I loved someone this would not be happening.

Goodnight! Baby

[TigerLily20]

No lie the one thing that bugged me the most about this episode, was during the music video part he kept saying she would be on a black bed that's why they wanted the white lingerie but the bed was grey....not black, don't know why it just bugged me to no end lol....

[sleepyjean]

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The way she kept trotting out one skimpy outfit after another from her luggage, grinning like an idiot and giggling "this one is really hot!" like a fifth grader showing her test that got an A+ was so, so very painful. I was embarrassed for her.

I couldn't understand why they had her bring her own wardrobe if they were going to provide an outfit for her to wear. They clearly knew her size and were prepared for her. Meanwhile, even though the cringey scenes with her showing her outfits and trying them on were 100% for the show, if someone hired me to model in a video and told me (a) to bring my own wardrobe and (b) meet him in hotel the day before to do a little fashion show for him, I'd have some questions about the legitimacy of the opportunity.

I am so conflicted by modeling as a profession in general, and especially the type of modeling Pao wants to do. Although I get that it's a legit job and does require a certain skillset, and it's one of few careers where women make vastly more money than men, watching Paola get treated like a piece of meat was disturbing. The back and forth about whether she was exposing enough of her body, and explaining to her that her role was to be the eye candy was just gross. I'd have a hard time being proud of that kind of work. And it just seems so...so...soul-less.

[noveltylibrary65]

On 8/13/2017 at 8:58 PM, Awfarmington said:

From personal experience, you're exactly right. I remember crying on my honeymoon as the first night. I called one of my close friends telling her a made a huge mistake and wanted an annulment (totally a Danielle moment lol). She talked me out of it, convincing me that I just had to adjust to marriage. It'll be 21 years coming up soon and regret daily that I didn't listen to my gut way back then. 

Chantel has this window of opportunity that she should take advantage of before it gets too messy. But those who are in 'lust' rarely take it. 

OMG I had the same experience! Calling my best friend crying a month before the wedding and she telling me it will be ok.  What followed was a very tough and lonely marriage.  I was always trying to 'fix' it, with countless therapists and books.  We finally split, actually on our 20th anniversary and though it was devastating on some level, it was mainly a huge relief.  

I hope you can find the happiness you deserve, whatever it takes!

[Drogo]

10 hours ago, sleepyjean said:

I couldn't understand why they had her bring her own wardrobe if they were going to provide an outfit for her to wear.

This is actually a real thing in non-fashion modeling since most people own something they look especially great in.  Though I'm surprised they wouldn't give her more direction than just "something sexy"- if you want her in lingerie, ask her to bring lingerie.

[Drogo]

"Our families are both stupid. Let's just get married, bayBEE."   Finally, someone is making sense.

Mo swinging his camera around violently/aimlessly outside the courthouse was all sorts of wonderful.  He should really get into film-making.

[noveltylibrary65]

On 8/13/2017 at 9:29 PM, Swim mom said:

Remember when schools taught gerunds, and infinitives, and the difference in lie and lay? Back in the good old days, people who learned Engligh as a second language were often better than native speakers, but Wow! Just Wow! 

Tourettes bores me. I'm putting it in the same category as chronic constipation. 

I seriously don't understand how she has tourette's--is it controlled by meds?  I always thought it was yelling out expletives all the time.  Not that I'm disappointed, but........well maybe I am.  Ok I'm sorry!

[Drogo]

1 minute ago, noveltylibrary65 said:

I seriously don't understand how she has tourette's--is it controlled by meds?  I always thought it was yelling out expletives all the time.  Not that I'm disappointed, but........well maybe I am.  Ok I'm sorry!

That's just how films portrayed Tourette's for many years, not a great representation.  Similarly, autism is not characterized by wanting to watch Jeopardy at 7 and counting toothpicks.

https://www.tourette.org/about-tourette/overview/faqs/

[noveltylibrary65]

On 8/13/2017 at 10:39 PM, Denim Dreams said:

Well that looks professional...throwing up and being all "my husband, my husband, my husband." I'm sure they don't want to hear it.  I would never book her again.  I agree that she was way more covered up in that outfit than the bad club wear.  It almost looked tasteful by comparison.

Loren and Alex cute but totally FFWD...

I thought Daniel's gettin' ready for court bit with the sensible shoes was a sad little montage...

omg the sad shoes.  What was the point of that montage, laying the clothes out on the bed.   Please, don't give me feels at this point!

I have to believe the producers had something to do with Pao wearing the dreaded word lingerie instead of that bandaid bathing suit which was much worse.

[noveltylibrary65]

8 minutes ago, Swim mom said:

25th anniversary, same story. His birth family always came first. Our child and I were always last.

Chantel's not divorcing Pedro. She's too proud to admit to her family that they were right.

The earlier poster was spot on when she said Pedro sees himself and his family as perfect.  Pedro says the problem is that Chantel argues with his family, and Chantel's family argues with him.  Not one drop of the problem is the fault of him or his family. They're perfect.

Those bitches are so scary and evil, I hate them! Pedro's an ahole for being so blind to them.  I wish she'd leave him there in his country but being young you think it will all work out...and the added pressure of a tv show actually showcasing it all, there's no way I'd even think of backing out!  The thought of disappointing my family alone was enough for me to stay in a tough marriage, I can't imagine this huge spotlight on top of it. 

[noveltylibrary65]

11 hours ago, sleepyjean said:

I couldn't understand why they had her bring her own wardrobe if they were going to provide an outfit for her to wear. They clearly knew her size and were prepared for her. Meanwhile, even though the cringey scenes with her showing her outfits and trying them on were 100% for the show, if someone hired me to model in a video and told me (a) to bring my own wardrobe and (b) meet him in hotel the day before to do a little fashion show for him, I'd have some questions about the legitimacy of the opportunity.

I act on the side and bring my own wardrobe to shoots...but I don't mean to endorse the legitimacy of this skank production! ?

[Desert Rat]

2 hours ago, Drogo said:

That's just how films portrayed Tourette's for many years, not a great representation.  Similarly, autism is not characterized by wanting to watch Jeopardy at 7 and counting toothpicks.

https://www.tourette.org/about-tourette/overview/faqs/

You've got that right. All forms of disability are mischaracterized by the media, including and especially mental illness.  

[funky-rat]

2 hours ago, noveltylibrary65 said:

I seriously don't understand how she has tourette's--is it controlled by meds?  I always thought it was yelling out expletives all the time.  Not that I'm disappointed, but........well maybe I am.  Ok I'm sorry!

Tourette's manifests itself in many ways and varying degrees of severity.  She just has involuntary tics - the wrinkling of her face and the sniffing among them.  But others do have uncontrollable verbal outbursts.

[Arwen Evenstar]

Yeah, people can be pretty weird about lingerie vs swimsuits.  I remember needing something from the other end of the house and I streaked through it in my bra and panties. My dad happened to see me and had a hissy fit.  I said, "Dad, relax, my bikini shows more skin than this and you've never gotten upset about that."

It makes more sense if Pao's "limit" is that lingerie is fine, provided that it covers more skin than a bikini.  

[John M]

I don't understand what Pedro an Chantel are even trying to save here, face? The marriage is over, there are other men and women in the sea, both of you leave each other and this doomed infatuation that you tried to turn into a marriage alone.

And Danielle, get mental help, you clearly thought you were buying a sex slave, when it didn't work out you don't get to just return him to his previous country for not having sex with you enough. We all know if Mo was fucking her on the regular that she wouldn't be trying to have him deported. You brought him her under false pretenses and then you tried to blackmail him for sex, Danielle is a sexual predator but to mentally ill and stupid to even do a good job at it. 

[Arwen Evenstar]

20 minutes ago, Swim mom said:

 

There's a big difference in swim suits and lingerie.  One says, "I want to go swimming." The other says, "I want to go to bed."  

Penthouse and Playboy weren't filled with pictures of women in swim suits for a very good reason.

 

 

That is one very excellent point. I never thought about it because I always wore nice lingerie when I was much skinnier whether I was in the mood for sex or not.  I wore it for me  because it made me feel good. 

[brillia79]

2 hours ago, John M said:

I don't understand what Pedro an Chantel are even trying to save here, face? The marriage is over, there are other men and women in the sea, both of you leave each other and this doomed infatuation that you tried to turn into a marriage alone.

And Danielle, get mental help, you clearly thought you were buying a sex slave, when it didn't work out you don't get to just return him to his previous country for not having sex with you enough. We all know if Mo was fucking her on the regular that she wouldn't be trying to have him deported. You brought him her under false pretenses and then you tried to blackmail him for sex, Danielle is a sexual predator but to mentally ill and stupid to even do a good job at it. 

I'm not particularly sure she's mentally ill. But she is selfish, manipulative and controlling. And the sex slave commentary is spot on.

[Latenites]

On 8/14/2017 at 3:45 AM, bethster2000 said:

THIS!!!  OMG!!!  I thought that maybe I was just being harsh!!!  Maybe our Spicy Latina should have laid off the Guisado for a couple of weeks before the shoot.

Yes! She needs to tone it up for her (side?) career in fitness.

[Latenites]

I so hated when she bounced into the filming house with her cheery "hello everyone!" as if to say "I'm the star and I'm here" like a damn diva. Oh so confident, only to puke and announce it like a fool. Ugh!

 

Sorry to have barged into these forums, but I love it here. You guys are awesome, smart and so funny!

[nlkm9]

I missed the puking part--can someone fill me in? OmG I hope shes not pregnant!!

[Baltimore Betty]

25 minutes ago, nlkm9 said:

I missed the puking part--can someone fill me in? OmG I hope shes not pregnant!!

Nerves and she was upset because she had to wear lingerie, she made a promise to Russ that she would not wear lingerie. 

[Granny58]

7 hours ago, noveltylibrary65 said:

I seriously don't understand how she has tourette's--is it controlled by meds?  I always thought it was yelling out expletives all the time.  Not that I'm disappointed, but........well maybe I am.  Ok I'm sorry!

I'll solve that for ya.  She has "tretts."   

[Granny58]

4 hours ago, John M said:

I don't understand what Pedro an Chantel are even trying to save here, face? The marriage is over, there are other men and women in the sea, both of you leave each other and this doomed infatuation that you tried to turn into a marriage alone.

And Danielle, get mental help, you clearly thought you were buying a sex slave, when it didn't work out you don't get to just return him to his previous country for not having sex with you enough. We all know if Mo was fucking her on the regular that she wouldn't be trying to have him deported.

I completely agree that she would take him back in a heartbeat, but it still appears pretty evident that he came here with the intent to simply get a green card and the marriage was a means to an end.   Her continued desire/love/longing for him is quite sad actually.  

[Arwen Evenstar]

I really hate to see any couple get divorced, even though couples like Dani and Mo really needed to. Pedro and Chantel would probably be fine if their respective families butted out. They would definitely benefit from counseling with a bilingual counselor as one poster pointed out; it's a capital idea. 

Chantel was getting a taste of how it feels for your spouse to not take your side when your in laws trash you, and she didn't like it one bit.

[Quof]

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There's a big difference in swim suits and lingerie.  One says, "I want to go swimming." The other says, "I want to go to bed."  

Swimsuits are also opaque, usually lined.   Lingerie is sheer.  One shouldn't see your nipples, and discern your waxing style, in a swimsuit. 

[bethster2000]

31 minutes ago, Quof said:

discern your waxing style,

LOL!  I said to my husband as we were watching, "Look out, we'll be able to see Pao's pussy!"  We didn't, but something tells me that she wouldn't have it any other way, no matter what "her husband" feels about it.  She's a skank.

[nlkm9]

3 hours ago, Baltimore Betty said:

Nerves and she was upset because she had to wear lingerie, she made a promise to Russ that she would not wear lingerie. 

oh ok. shes an idiot, and he is too. this is NOT modeling. 

[John M]

3 hours ago, Arwen Evenstar said:

Pedro and Chantel would probably be fine if their respective families butted out. They would definitely benefit from counseling with a bilingual counselor as one poster pointed out; it's a capital idea. 

I completely disagree. Chantel is young, immature, hasn't started her career, has no interest in compromises in an adult relationship. Pedro has similar issues although not as bad.

This marriage is doomed and they are wasting their time.

[Latenites]

5 hours ago, Swim mom said:

Welcome! The more, the merrier! 

Thanks!

[Desert Rat]

7 hours ago, Swim mom said:

There's a big difference in swim suits and lingerie.  One says, "I want to go swimming." The other says, "I want to go to bed."  

Penthouse and Playboy weren't filled with pictures of women in swim suits for a very good reason.

My husband never . . . stood at attention . . . when I wore a bikini, but he most definitely did when I wore lingerie. 

Yes, but Sports Illustrated sells a lot of swim suit editions. Must be the good articles.  

Edited August 16, 2017 by Desert Rat

[Pretty5Vacant]

6 hours ago, Latenites said:

I so hated when she bounced into the filming house with her cheery "hello everyone!" as if to say "I'm the star and I'm here" like a damn diva. Oh so confident, only to puke and announce it like a fool. Ugh!

 

Sorry to have barged into these forums, but I love it here. You guys are awesome, smart and so funny!

With her ass hanging out of those shorts. Good God, she wore them through the hotel loby too

[magemaud]

On 8/14/2017 at 1:56 PM, balisticnikki said:

 

So we hear Danielle telling Mo to have a nice life IN TUNISIA or whatever, during the coming attraction. Does that mean, he is getting deported for sure?

 

They're still wearing their carefully thought out "going to the courthouse" outfits so I get the feeling that she might have tracked him down for some kind of confrontation afterwards. But maybe the judge hadn't ruled on the divorce vs annulment decision or if one had "frauded" the other 

[noveltylibrary65]

On 8/14/2017 at 4:21 PM, Matty said:

They kept bringing up the three bedroom apt. that Pedro's Mom now lives in. That three bedroom probably costs the same or less than their studio in Atlanta. Things are way cheaper in the Dominican Republic. I know they have to have conflict in order to have a story line for the show but once they set appropriate boundaries with the parents and work out their problems on their own they will be just fine.
 

You really think those two witches understand boundaries?   She needs to get out, NOW.

[Desert Rat]

6 hours ago, Baltimore Betty said:

Nerves and she was upset because she had to wear lingerie, she made a promise to Russ that she would not wear lingerie. 

Yes, and Paola would never do anything to disappoint her husband. She has total respect for him and his values.  

[mamadrama]

On 8/14/2017 at 6:22 PM, Red Bridey said:

Why would a reggaeton musician think a TLC show would increase his audience?  Maybe a Spike or Cinemax show "star", but a network that airs "Outdaughtered"???  NOT a natural fit, demographically speaking.

The show itself might not increase his audience but Paola's social media presence certainly would. The show was just an added perk. 

[jpagan05]

You're welcome. 

I wish people would stop commenting on Pao's "fat". She's a beautiful girl and in latin culture, a little meat on your bones is a good thing. And I feel like  anyone who didn't know her and saw her standing in a supermarket, bar, or beach would say, "whooooa!"

I also have a theory that she and Russ are doing just fine. They can't get through a scene together without smirking. I think they are living large, collecting their TLC money and maybe laughing at us.

[noveltylibrary65]

4 hours ago, jpagan05 said:

You're welcome. 

I wish people would stop commenting on Pao's "fat". She's a beautiful girl and in latin culture, a little meat on your bones is a good thing. And I feel like  anyone who didn't know her and saw her standing in a supermarket, bar, or beach would say, "whooooa!"

geez i sat through that thinking she's barely in this!  ?

[Baltimore Betty]

1 hour ago, noveltylibrary65 said:

geez i sat through that thinking she's barely in this!  ?

I watched it, sound off and I never saw her...did I blink at the wrong nano second? I do not want to watch that again. 

[Vanderboom]

I think it's this one: Hoy Se Bebe (the comments make me so glad for PTV's civility)

Where was Pao's concern about Russ and his feelings when her shit-stirring friend was trying to humiliate him? I think Pao was just nervous about the video and fell back on the "my husband, my husband" thing to explain away her nerves.

I'm starting to just not care about Mohammed and Danielle at this point. It's just wheel-spinning at this point. I agree with you guys that they're both users; Mo wanted a green card, Danielle wanted a gigolo.

Edited August 16, 2017 by Vanderboom

[Baltimore Betty]

Her video seemed mild to me, Russ really had a problem with that?

[tincansailor981]

33 minutes ago, Vanderboom said:

Where was Pao's concern about Russ and his feelings when her shit-stirring friend was trying to humiliate him? 

Excellent point.  She never once tried to defend him from her asshole of a friend.  Looking like the Columbian Wayne Newton

[DangerousMinds]

I too am a bit shocked that anyone thinks Paola is anywhere near fat. If she is, then I'm a whale.

[balisticnikki]

On ‎8‎/‎15‎/‎2017 at 8:29 AM, noveltylibrary65 said:

I seriously don't understand how she has tourette's--is it controlled by meds?  I always thought it was yelling out expletives all the time.  Not that I'm disappointed, but........well maybe I am.  Ok I'm sorry!

There were a lot of outbursts and shrieks at the conference.

I guess she has a mild presentation of it.

 

20 hours ago, Granny58 said:

I'll solve that for ya.  She has "tretts."   

OMG THAT is the thing that drives me the most crazy about her! Ughhhhh. The slurring of the word "tourettes" and that awful vocal fry.

[John M]

Just for reference there is a term for the "modeling" that Pao is doing, it's called "video ho"

http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=Video Ho

[Baltimore Betty]

7 minutes ago, John M said:

Just for reference there is a term for the "modeling" that Pao is doing, it's called "video ho"

http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=Video Ho

Did this starring role in a video sky rocket her to fame?  Did Paola get another job because of this video? 

I seem to remember Porsha of RHOA did this sort of "modeling" back in the day, things worked out well for her, right?

[brillia79]

3 hours ago, DangerousMinds said:

I too am a bit shocked that anyone thinks Paola is anywhere near fat. If she is, then I'm a whale.

Paola is not fat, but that swimsuit was ill fitting. It takes a seriously toned body to pull off that particular style swimsuit and Pao was not toned at the time. A straight up bikini would have looked better.

The lingerie really was a much better fit.

[Granny58]

14 hours ago, jpagan05 said:

I also have a theory that she and Russ are doing just fine. They can't get through a scene together without smirking. I think they are living large, collecting their TLC money and maybe laughing at us

I agree...I think it's a ginned up storyline.  We're not responding to them, but the "characters" they play.  

[gonecrackers]

17 minutes ago, Granny58 said:

I agree...I think it's a ginned up storyline.  We're not responding to them, but the "characters" they play.  

I tend to agree as well, & have also thought the same of Chantel & Pedro.  Even if so, I feel the characters they're playing & the story lines really suck. Some people will do anything for attention & to call themselves an 'actor' &/or 'model'.