ginger90 February 1, 2019 Share February 1, 2019 @tabloidlover good thoughts going out to you! 13 Link to comment
gunderda February 1, 2019 Share February 1, 2019 (edited) So are you all saying that they should force her to have the surgery? Because she obviously doesn't want to and she seems old enough to be part of the decision process. And it seems like they are trying different options in hopes it helps. They aren't just doing nothing. Edited February 1, 2019 by gunderda 4 Link to comment
Absolom February 1, 2019 Share February 1, 2019 (edited) Didn't the doctor say they wouldn't do surgery until the curve was 50% or more and that it hadn't changed from around 42% in the last six months before the visit that was shown? Or did I miss or misinterpret something? That made it seem to me that Kody was carrying on for dramatic effect all about his feelings and how he was affected rather than considering his daughter's feelings and opinions. If what I thought I saw was correct, then surgery isn't an option yet and I believe that Kody should do all he can to support his daughter rather than go on rants about how he doesn't like her doctor and this is the last visit because he doesn't like the idea of surgery (that may or may not be necessary). Edited February 1, 2019 by Absolom 10 Link to comment
Kyanight February 1, 2019 Share February 1, 2019 7 minutes ago, gunderda said: So are you all saying that they should force her to have the surgery? Because she obviously doesn't want to and she seems old enough to be part of the decision process. And it seems like they are trying different options in hopes it helps. They aren't just doing nothing. I hear what you are saying, but I wonder how much of her fear and rejection of the surgery is due to the emotions and words she has heard the adults around her express. They've been very candied about it. I know with my kids (who had medical issues) I always kept positive about all venues in case we ended up having to go down that road - regardless of how I felt about it personally. That way you don't have a scared and confused child IF it does end up in surgery/treatments/whatever. The wives (and even maybe Kody - I don't honestly remember) have all mentioned the worst case scenarios of surgery and the scars, etc. - probably for the cameras, but Ysabel (sorry I don't know how to spell her name) is clearly intelligent and she hears and feeds off of their emotions. Been there/done that. 23 Link to comment
Normades February 2, 2019 Share February 2, 2019 2 hours ago, gunderda said: So are you all saying that they should force her to have the surgery? Because she obviously doesn't want to and she seems old enough to be part of the decision process. And it seems like they are trying different options in hopes it helps. They aren't just doing nothing. Depending on the circumstances, there are times when I believe a parent has to act in their child's best interest, even if it is against the child's wishes. That's part of being a parent and an adult. 21 Link to comment
tabloidlover February 2, 2019 Share February 2, 2019 Oh my goodness!! You all are amazing peeps 😊 I came back to edit or delete my post as I felt like maybe I was too harsh (drinking wine while posting) only to find out the post is highlighted with over 25 likes!! Thank you all for your well wishes and getting my point. @Kyanight nailed it on the head. Ysabel’s Fear of surgery comes from her fucknut parents. @gunderda - it’s true that they said curvature needs to be at 50%, however her numbers are creeping up (in spite of the very professional 🙄 PVC pipe contraption). She was under 40 degrees last season and is now at 42 degrees. Not that far off. I’m not ok with the guilt and pressure they are putting on her as it is clear they want Ysabel to exercise/stretch/whatever to keep it under 50. It’s completely out of her control and the guilt trip is unacceptable. 23 Link to comment
Galloway Cave February 2, 2019 Share February 2, 2019 3 hours ago, tabloidlover said: She was under 40 degrees last season and is now at 42 degrees. Not that far off. And yet Christine keeps yapping about getting it to 35! Like Ysabel actually has the ability to do that. If PVC and foam could cure scoliosis, there would be a whole hell of a lot of folks out there already cured. Let Ysabel enjoy her life at school and with friends, then get the surgery when she has the time to heal. I know this "religion" is all about women sacrificing their well-being, but Kodouche needs to shut up about what HE wants and Christine needs to support her daughter. This isn't the time or place to teach plyg life lessons. /rant 18 Link to comment
Kohola3 February 2, 2019 Share February 2, 2019 4 hours ago, tabloidlover said: It’s completely out of her control and the guilt trip is unacceptable. Somebody with your experience needs to step up to them and lay it on the line. Stop listening to the snake oil salesman doctor and listen to the real life version of what can happen. Both Christine and Kootie need slaps upside the head. Time to start acting like grown ups and not morons. If that's possible. 13 Link to comment
xwordfanatik February 2, 2019 Share February 2, 2019 Self-help crap doesn't seem to be working very well. Now that they've scared Ysabel about surgery, she's going to be all the more nervous if & when it takes place. Morons. They truly are. 15 Link to comment
deirdra February 3, 2019 Share February 3, 2019 Is the doctor who measured the 42 degrees the same one Ysabel saw last year before she went to snake oil camp? A year ago the doc was pushing surgery and poo-pooing snake oil camp, but currently says the PVC contraption isn't hurting and wasn't pushing surgery as aggressively (maybe to tame their reaction). But I do wonder how much harder/longer it will be to recover from surgery at 50 vs 42 degrees? Muscles, ligaments & tendons will be farther out of whack at 50. I also wonder if he doesn't mind waiting a bit because of where she is in her growth spurt. Princess Eugenie had the surgery early enough that most of her growth to adult height was post-surgery on a straightened spine, but the Browns didn't notice until Ysabel hit ~35 degrees and had already hit puberty. Is there any advantage to waiting until she stops growing? 4 Link to comment
Gothish520 February 4, 2019 Share February 4, 2019 On 2/2/2019 at 4:23 PM, xwordfanatik said: Self-help crap doesn't seem to be working very well. Now that they've scared Ysabel about surgery, she's going to be all the more nervous if & when it takes place. Morons. They truly are. It does seem they are grasping at straws. Exercise is great, sure, but to have to exercise several times a day every day for the rest of your life to just stay the course seems excessive. Life will get in the way and there will be times when Ysabel can't do the exercises as necessary, and then what? Now she is a fully-grown adult with a worsening curve and may have to go through surgery later in life when she could get it taken care of now while she is young and may bounce back more quickly, not to mention having more years to live without constant exercises and a curved spine! I have been cutting Kody and Christine slack on this but it definitely seems that they need to step up and do the best thing for Ysabel, with her future well-being in mind. 8 Link to comment
Kyanight February 4, 2019 Share February 4, 2019 I have a question about Ysabel. If she did not get this corrected in some manner, could it affect future pregnancies? I can't imagine carrying all that weight (pregnancy) with a serious curvature of the spine. 2 Link to comment
Popular Post Livvykate February 4, 2019 Popular Post Share February 4, 2019 Hello! I've been watching this show from the start ( sort of ashamed to admit it nowadays with how ridiculous the Cody Crew has gotten)I but I joined this forum specifically so that I could speak to the scoliosis surgery discussion. My 14 year old daughter has been wearing a full torso brace forever two years-and because her curve is so high-the brace has not been able to be of much help in even mildly correcting or stopping it. We knew there was a good chance it would only forestall the surgery-but we welcomed it because one you have your spine fused-which is what the surgery does-growth stops-and our daughter was only 4'8 at the time of diagnosis. She is now at 45 degrees. In six months we find out if surgery is the way we are going. It's a stressful situation-but we have been dealing with it for years and are prepared to deal with it. Which brings me to the question of whether it would be better for Ysabel to have the surgery now versus later. The thing is-surgeons won't operate at 42. Its a question of balancing risks of waiting versus risks of surgery. In our daughter's case-and likely Ysabel's too-while her back is clearly twisted -and now shoulder blade juts our quite a bit-the issue below the 45-50 degree mark is almost entirely aesthetic. Once the curve hits 50-gravity can take over and then the real trouble can begin. The thing is-there are GRAVE risks involved in the surgery-including permanent paralysis, Is this rare? Yes. However, the doctors at Rush Presbyterian told us that the risk is one in 75-which I gotta tell you-is not comforting to parent let alone a child. So..its a complex issue. What I will say is this-Ysabel's parents are being total jackasses by scaring her away from surgery. The girl may very well end up having to have it-and they are only making the situation much more frightening for their daughter. 42 Link to comment
tabloidlover February 4, 2019 Share February 4, 2019 I wish the best for your daughter!! 17 Link to comment
deirdra February 4, 2019 Share February 4, 2019 Thanks for your input, Livvykate. I wish the best for your daughter, and Ysabel. 7 Link to comment
Livvykate February 4, 2019 Share February 4, 2019 9 minutes ago, deirdra said: Thanks for your input, Livvykate. I wish the best for your daughter, and Ysabel. Thank you very much. 1 Link to comment
Soobs February 5, 2019 Share February 5, 2019 It seems like Cody is using his underage daughter's private, medical issue for drama for the show. This is a bad idea for so many reasons. I guess they got tired of wedding planning and now that Meri's inn is opening there's less going on. I had to have four eye surgeries when I was a kid and I'm so glad my father didn't "feel like" I didn't need them because "my life wasn't threatened". I would have been totally disabled without them. 19 Link to comment
Gothish520 February 5, 2019 Share February 5, 2019 5 hours ago, Livvykate said: Hello! I've been watching this show from the start ( sort of ashamed to admit it nowadays with how ridiculous the Cody Crew has gotten)I but I joined this forum specifically so that I could speak to the scoliosis surgery discussion. My 14 year old daughter has been wearing a full torso brace forever two years-and because her curve is so high-the brace has not been able to be of much help in even mildly correcting or stopping it. We knew there was a good chance it would only forestall the surgery-but we welcomed it because one you have your spine fused-which is what the surgery does-growth stops-and our daughter was only 4'8 at the time of diagnosis. She is now at 45 degrees. In six months we find out if surgery is the way we are going. It's a stressful situation-but we have been dealing with it for years and are prepared to deal with it. Which brings me to the question of whether it would be better for Ysabel to have the surgery now versus later. The thing is-surgeons won't operate at 42. Its a question of balancing risks of waiting versus risks of surgery. In our daughter's case-and likely Ysabel's too-while her back is clearly twisted -and now shoulder blade juts our quite a bit-the issue below the 45-50 degree mark is almost entirely aesthetic. Once the curve hits 50-gravity can take over and then the real trouble can begin. The thing is-there are GRAVE risks involved in the surgery-including permanent paralysis, Is this rare? Yes. However, the doctors at Rush Presbyterian told us that the risk is one in 75-which I gotta tell you-is not comforting to parent let alone a child. So..its a complex issue. What I will say is this-Ysabel's parents are being total jackasses by scaring her away from surgery. The girl may very well end up having to have it-and they are only making the situation much more frightening for their daughter. Thank you so much for sharing Livvykate! It definitely helps to have the situation explained by someone who is living it. I think that Kody and Christine are quite scared of Ysabel having the surgery, which is completely understandable. But I agree that they should be doing what they can to ease Ysabel's mind, not get her more frightened. Hopefully they will switch gears if it appears that Ysabel has no choice but to get the surgery. Sending positive thoughts to you, your daughter and your family! 11 Link to comment
Livvykate February 5, 2019 Share February 5, 2019 9 hours ago, Gothish520 said: Thank you so much for sharing Livvykate! It definitely helps to have the situation explained by someone who is living it. I think that Kody and Christine are quite scared of Ysabel having the surgery, which is completely understandable. But I agree that they should be doing what they can to ease Ysabel's mind, not get her more frightened. Hopefully they will switch gears if it appears that Ysabel has no choice but to get the surgery. Sending positive thoughts to you, your daughter and your family! Thank you very much. 3 Link to comment
ginger90 February 14, 2019 Share February 14, 2019 I wonder if she brought some to Janelle, for her to throw away. 4 Link to comment
ghoulina February 14, 2019 Share February 14, 2019 2 hours ago, lma said: Isn’t Galentines Day for single women? No. Galentines Day is just a day for women to celebrate their friendships. It actually originated on Parks and Recreation, and not all of the women were single on the episodes where they celebrate it. In fact, in one scene they sat around talking about the men in their lives. My sister throws a Galentine's Party every year and I'm pretty sure every woman in attendance is married. It's just a non-romantic, fun, girly thing. My question, though - is that a bowl of dry Fruity Pebbles? Is someone just supposed to pick those up with their hand and eat it? Like they're in their dorm room at 12 am, cramming for a test? 1 7 Link to comment
jennblevins February 14, 2019 Share February 14, 2019 7 minutes ago, ghoulina said: My question, though - is that a bowl of dry Fruity Pebbles? Is someone just supposed to pick those up with their hand and eat it? Like they're in their dorm room at 12 am, cramming for a test? I think the fruity pebbles are supposed to be toppings for the waffles — like sprinkles, to go with the whipped cream. 7 Link to comment
smarty February 14, 2019 Share February 14, 2019 That was a very nice breakfast, I'd love to wake up to that. Christine does a good job making life fun for her kids. 17 Link to comment
Gothish520 February 14, 2019 Share February 14, 2019 (edited) 4 hours ago, ginger90 said: I wonder if she brought some to Janelle, for her to throw away. That looks great, and I've always liked that serveware, very pretty. Oh and lol about Janelle throwing hers away! Edited February 14, 2019 by Gothish520 2 Link to comment
Mahamid Frauded Me February 14, 2019 Share February 14, 2019 Does look yummy. Is it me or is the only person we ever see really cook is Christine ? I know Meri made box spaghetti for Pudge and Sludge home visit, but I don't recall ever seeing Robyn cook or Ms Strive Janelle cook. As far as Ysabell's surgery, I get that any parent is afraid to have their children go through anything serious like that, but honestly in my mind, Cody poo-pooing the surgery I personally think is about cost. I doubt there is medical insurance for all kids 8 Link to comment
Kyanight February 14, 2019 Share February 14, 2019 2 minutes ago, Mahamid Frauded Me said: Does look yummy. Is it me or is the only person we ever see really cook is Christine ? I know Meri made box spaghetti for Pudge and Sludge home visit, but I don't recall ever seeing Robyn cook or Ms Strive Janelle cook. As far as Ysabell's surgery, I get that any parent is afraid to have their children go through anything serious like that, but honestly in my mind, Cody poo-pooing the surgery I personally think is about cost. I doubt there is medical insurance for all kids At first I was going to say that Robyn's kids probably had health insurance but then I realized that Kody is probably self-employed. I highly doubt any of the kids have health insurance. That is probably the #1 reason they have their babies at home in a bathtub. 4 Link to comment
Mahamid Frauded Me February 14, 2019 Share February 14, 2019 I wonder when Mykelti & FT have their bambino if they will be forced to have it in this ? Clearly, Maddie is the chosen one, so I doubt Janelle would bother using the best Scrubbing Bubbles she had made organically with nutmeg and some other shit. I can see Tony sitting on the patio eating his street tacos during the birth i 4 Link to comment
Adiba February 14, 2019 Share February 14, 2019 1 hour ago, Mahamid Frauded Me said: Does look yummy. Is it me or is the only person we ever see really cook is Christine ? I know Meri made box spaghetti for Pudge and Sludge home visit, but I don't recall ever seeing Robyn cook or Ms Strive Janelle cook. As far as Ysabell's surgery, I get that any parent is afraid to have their children go through anything serious like that, but honestly in my mind, Cody poo-pooing the surgery I personally think is about cost. I doubt there is medical insurance for all kids Christine may be a little ditzy and sometimes annoying--but with a food spread like that, I wouldn't mind hanging out with her! Wonder who Kody is spending Valentine's Day with? 5 Link to comment
deirdra February 14, 2019 Share February 14, 2019 (edited) 1 hour ago, Kyanight said: At first I was going to say that Robyn's kids probably had health insurance but then I realized that Kody is probably self-employed. I highly doubt any of the kids have health insurance. That is probably the #1 reason they have their babies at home in a bathtub. Responsible self-employed people buy health insurance, but these are the Browns. Apparently Day-un's surgery etc. after the accident nearly bankrupted Robyn; I think they are still paying off the loan they got to cover it. He probably could also have had something done so his eyelid didn't droop, but Kodouche probably said "that's just cosmetic; being teased and bullied about it builds character, if not self-esteem". I'm sure this is why Kody also poo-poohed taking Truly to the doctor until she was nearly dead. Edited February 14, 2019 by deirdra 9 Link to comment
Roslyn February 15, 2019 Share February 15, 2019 18 hours ago, deirdra said: Responsible self-employed people buy health insurance, but these are the Browns. Apparently Day-un's surgery etc. after the accident nearly bankrupted Robyn; I think they are still paying off the loan they got to cover it. He probably could also have had something done so his eyelid didn't droop, but Kodouche probably said "that's just cosmetic; being teased and bullied about it builds character, if not self-esteem". I'm sure this is why Kody also poo-poohed taking Truly to the doctor until she was nearly dead. According to what they featured on the show Dayton did have surgery to fix his droopy eyelid. Robyn's kids used to be front and center but then seemed to fade to the back and you only see them when the whole family is together. While his eyelid seemed fine for awhile, recently it looks as though it is drooping again. They have never gone into specifics about the accident until he had the surgery on his eye and when they were traveling somewhere and the opportunity to ride an ATV came up. 3 Link to comment
suomi February 22, 2019 Share February 22, 2019 On 12/28/2018 at 3:52 PM, ginger90 said: Heard first thing this morning that Flag got 3 feet of snow within the last 24 hours so Christine will surely be outdoors today doing her new favorite thing. 4 Link to comment
Kohola3 February 22, 2019 Share February 22, 2019 2 minutes ago, suomi said: Heard first thing this morning that Flag got 3 feet of snow within the last 24 hours so Christine will surely be outdoors today doing her new favorite thing. Or inside packing to move back to LV. 4 1 Link to comment
xwordfanatik February 22, 2019 Share February 22, 2019 As long as the dog doesn't eat yellow snow... Christine, have fun snow-blowing! Janelle will be indoors until May. 3 2 Link to comment
deirdra March 7, 2019 Share March 7, 2019 (edited) Ahh, the mud and trees are so beautiful. You can't park on the dirt like you could in LV. Edited March 7, 2019 by deirdra 5 1 Link to comment
xwordfanatik March 7, 2019 Share March 7, 2019 So, almost 4 feet of snow melted away already in Flag? Dammit, there are shitpiles of that stuff everywhere here in my place in WA. Or did they travel? 3 Link to comment
Sandy W March 7, 2019 Share March 7, 2019 5 minutes ago, xwordfanatik said: So, almost 4 feet of snow melted away already in Flag? Dammit, there are shitpiles of that stuff everywhere here in my place in WA. Or did they travel? They either traveled or lifted that "pitcher" of coral from the internet. For sure it's not growing at the bottom of Janelle's Golden Pond. 3 3 Link to comment
New2this March 8, 2019 Share March 8, 2019 2 hours ago, xwordfanatik said: So, almost 4 feet of snow melted away already in Flag? Dammit, there are shitpiles of that stuff everywhere here in my place in WA. Or did they travel? The snow is basically gone in Flagstaff unless it was piled up or in an area that gets no shade. Link to comment
xwordfanatik March 8, 2019 Share March 8, 2019 58 minutes ago, New2this said: The snow is basically gone in Flagstaff unless it was piled up or in an area that gets no shade. Oh, now that's just not fair. I'm so ready for Spring. We are having weather here that we would normally get in Dec/Jan. Anyway, Christine's girls are cute. I still say Mykelti should have been Meri's. 3 Link to comment
Kohola3 March 8, 2019 Share March 8, 2019 54 minutes ago, xwordfanatik said: We are having weather here that we would normally get in Dec/Jan. Ditto in upper Michigan. Haven't had a day in weeks where it wasn't below zero wind chill (lowest around 20 below) in the morning. Haven't broken freezing in months andmthe pile of snow in the parking lot at the grocery store is 15 feet high. I love the snow but this cold is getting on my nerves and I'm a lifelong Michigander. Wonder how the tree huggers are enjoying the winter. The ones that use the snowblower for half an inch. Heh. 4 Link to comment
crazycatlady58 March 8, 2019 Share March 8, 2019 4 minutes ago, Kohola3 said: Ditto in upper Michigan. Haven't had a day in weeks where it wasn't below zero wind chill (lowest around 20 below) in the morning. Haven't broken freezing in months andmthe pile of snow in the parking lot at the grocery store is 15 feet high. I love the snow but this cold is getting on my nerves and I'm a lifelong Michigander. Wonder how the tree huggers are enjoying the winter. The ones that use the snowblower for half an inch. Heh. I am so glad I live in Houston. 2 2 Link to comment
Gothish520 March 8, 2019 Share March 8, 2019 3 hours ago, xwordfanatik said: Oh, now that's just not fair. I'm so ready for Spring. We are having weather here that we would normally get in Dec/Jan. Anyway, Christine's girls are cute. I still say Mykelti should have been Meri's. 2 hours ago, Kohola3 said: Ditto in upper Michigan. Haven't had a day in weeks where it wasn't below zero wind chill (lowest around 20 below) in the morning. Haven't broken freezing in months andmthe pile of snow in the parking lot at the grocery store is 15 feet high. I love the snow but this cold is getting on my nerves and I'm a lifelong Michigander. Wonder how the tree huggers are enjoying the winter. The ones that use the snowblower for half an inch. Heh. Yikes! Looks like this is New England's year to be spared, for the most part. Connecticut Nutmegger here, and this winter has been relatively drama-free. Don't get me wrong, there's snow on the ground and it's cold (16 degrees right now), but we've had worse winters. Now, fingers crossed that the coming summer won't be the steam bath it was last year! On topic, Ysabel and Gwen are adorable. 2 Link to comment
ginger90 March 9, 2019 Share March 9, 2019 Gwendlyn deleted the car in the mud post. I wonder why. 1 Link to comment
Sandy W March 9, 2019 Share March 9, 2019 16 minutes ago, ginger90 said: Gwendlyn deleted the car in the mud post. I wonder why. I wonder if it had anything to do with the optics of her "boo", (Ysabel) helping her to push a car out of the mud. Not the best activity for someone with scoliosis. 5 Link to comment
deirdra March 9, 2019 Share March 9, 2019 Gwendlyn often stands like she's just gotten off a horse - has her back been looked at? 1 Link to comment
Joan of Argh March 9, 2019 Share March 9, 2019 48 minutes ago, deirdra said: Gwendlyn often stands like she's just gotten off a horse - has her back been looked at? I'd say she stands like she's got a broom stick up her ass 😂 2 Link to comment
Popular Post Joan of Argh March 10, 2019 Popular Post Share March 10, 2019 Just rewatched Christine saying that it's the most gorgeous property she's EVER seen.... Obviously she doesn't get out much or travel because I'd honestly have to say it's one of the most mediocre properties I've ever seen. Dirt, sage brush, rocks, a few ugly trees in the distance that look like jack pines and an oversized bump that the Brown's call a mountain. Someone needs to tell Christine,,, that sound she hears isn't angels singing... it's prairie dogs screeching as they drop dead from plague. 21 7 Link to comment
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