Patrick and Thaís

[endure]

On 7/11/2022 at 12:26 PM, Chalby said:

I am with you re: your post. When I watch these men being being harassed, accused, and bullied by these so-called 'love interests', I wonder why none of these men can have a successful relationship with American women? To me, there's a flaw in character if one has to go outside the nation to find love.

Often these one-sided relationships are looking for control and dominance rather than true love.

Yes, the perfect obedient wife.  Thais has said a couple of times that he is different than when she knew him in SA ie more controlling 

[gingerella]

These two need to break up. Or more realistically, she needs to go back to Brasil and grow and find a nice guy local to her. She's not going to be happy living in the States with her family so far away and unable to see her. And she's not going to enjoy the ever increasing control that Roid Dude has over her. Plus, now that she sees what a fucking prize his family is - the mother, the sister, the older bro - the only decent sibling seems to be the younger brother and he's nowhere near where they live. So yeah, damaged family. She needs to go home.

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23 minutes ago, gingerella said:

These two need to break up. Or more realistically, she needs to go back to Brasil and grow and find a nice guy local to her. She's not going to be happy living in the States with her family so far away and unable to see her. And she's not going to enjoy the ever increasing control that Roid Dude has over her. Plus, now that she sees what a fucking prize his family is - the mother, the sister, the older bro - the only decent sibling seems to be the younger brother and he's nowhere near where they live. So yeah, damaged family. She needs to go home.

Mom is a schizophrenic with four divorces and doling out advice oof.

[gingerella]

22 hours ago, MrBuhBye said:

Mom is a schizophrenic with four divorces and doling out advice oof.

Yeah, I think Patrick, as together as he likes to portray himself, is very badly damaged from his upbringing. And I think he thinks Thais is his new family. Except if his blood fam is as fucked up as we've seen, you don't bring your fiance around that rotting shit pile of judgemental idiots. They're all saying how they're worried about Patrick, they're concerned Thais is going to leave him heartbroken again, blah blah blah fishcakes. I think they're just worried their emergency gravy train will turn his attentions to his new bride/family and won't be available for emergency bail outs. Not that we've seen that on the show, but they all give off the whif of hangers on to me.

[Tuneful]

6 hours ago, gingerella said:

They all give off the whif of hangers on to me.

Same here. I know the family situation well of the one sibling who basically maintains a stready job and is the crisis manager and loan department for the others. Except I don't think Patrick's job is that steady if it is all "safety system commissions" (wink wink). Maybe one thing he has right is to stay at least 1,000 miles away from most of his fam, although she better get resigned to living with John as well--and if that's a dealbreaker, as is the clannishness of the family and neighborhood, say adeus and leave!! 

Edited July 27, 2022 by Tuneful

[Mrs. Landingham]

Nothing to see here.
 

Edited August 1, 2022 by Mrs. Landingham

[Mrs. Landingham]

On 7/25/2022 at 12:10 PM, gingerella said:

These two need to break up. Or more realistically, she needs to go back to Brasil and grow and find a nice guy local to her. She's not going to be happy living in the States with her family so far away and unable to see her. And she's not going to enjoy the ever increasing control that Roid Dude has over her. Plus, now that she sees what a fucking prize his family is - the mother, the sister, the older bro - the only decent sibling seems to be the younger brother and he's nowhere near where they live. So yeah, damaged family. She needs to go home.

On 7/26/2022 at 11:17 AM, gingerella said:

Yeah, I think Patrick, as together as he likes to portray himself, is very badly damaged from his upbringing. And I think he thinks Thais is his new family. Except if his blood fam is as fucked up as we've seen, you don't bring your fiance around that rotting shit pile of judgemental idiots. They're all saying how they're worried about Patrick, they're concerned Thais is going to leave him heartbroken again, blah blah blah fishcakes. I think they're just worried their emergency gravy train will turn his attentions to his new bride/family and won't be available for emergency bail outs. Not that we've seen that on the show, but they all give off the whif of hangers on to me.

I agree 1000%. I really hope Thais is being diligent about birth control. I wouldn’t put it past Patrick to sabotage it in an effort to get her pregnant and pressure/bully/intimidate her to stay in the US with him. If she does that, she’s in for a life of misery and control. She needs to go home to Brazil, now.

Edited August 1, 2022 by Mrs. Landingham

[Jeanne222]

What kind of work does Patrick do?  He seems to be living large with his coworkers. 

New home, limos, travel, yachts with stripper poles. 

Something seems a bit off!

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1 hour ago, Jeanne222 said:

What kind of work does Patrick do?  He seems to be living large with his coworkers. 

New home, limos, travel, yachts with stripper poles. 

Something seems a bit off!

Sells alarm systems door to door. His brother installs them.

[Auntie Anxiety]

3 hours ago, Jeanne222 said:

What kind of work does Patrick do?  He seems to be living large with his coworkers. 

New home, limos, travel, yachts with stripper poles. 

Something seems a bit off!

Supposedly his job is selling alarm systems, but I think he really sells steroids out of his trunk at the gym. The Miami weekend thing was him hanging out with his supplier.

[Baltimore Betty]

7 minutes ago, Auntie Anxiety said:

Supposedly his job is selling alarm systems, but I think he really sells steroids out of his trunk at the gym. The Miami weekend thing was him hanging out with his supplier.

I totally believe you.  Like he is in some sort of MLM for "supplements." lol.

[CrazyInAlabama]

Since Daddy Patrick is a Brazilian, Patrick has dual citizenship, and I bet his Brazilian documents vary his name from the U.S. documents.   So, after he tested dirty and banned from U.S. competition, he went to Brazil to try to make their team.   Unfortunately, he tested dirty again, and was banned by them.   He's tested dirty for steroids twice, and testosterone once, so I have a better chance of making a team than he does. 

[Jeanne222]

Wow!  I had no idea. I agree though that he’s into something bigger than alarm systems. 

I thought the two yacht party givers looked a bit on the rough side!

They don’t look like door bell alarm cohorts!

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4 hours ago, Jeanne222 said:

Wow!  I had no idea. I agree though that he’s into something bigger than alarm systems. 

I thought the two yacht party givers looked a bit on the rough side!

They don’t look like door bell alarm cohorts!

Maybe they case the joints.

[magemaud]

I just came across this vintage photo of Patrick and his mother, Paula. She went for the bold eyebrow before it was in style. 

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10 hours ago, magemaud said:

I just came across this vintage photo of Patrick and his mother, Paula. She went for the bold eyebrow before it was in style. 

She looks like him in drag.  Any pics of his father surface?

[Welshman in Ca]

10 hours ago, magemaud said:

I just came across this vintage photo of Patrick and his mother, Paula. She went for the bold eyebrow before it was in style. 

Took way too long for me to decide it might not be his twin brother with a mullet.

[magemaud]

21 minutes ago, MrBuhBye said:

Any pics of his father surface?

Not that I've seen, but I did see a photo of Paula with Prospective Husband #5 who appears to be in a wheelchair and has his face blurred out. At first, I thought her mask was a beard. Full story here https://starcasm.net/90-day-fiance-throwback-patricks-mom-paula-throwback-photos/: 

Edited August 8, 2022 by magemaud

[Frozendiva]

[kirklandia]

"Looks like Sparkles and John got along for the day".  Looks to me like John is sending a message.

(Sorry, can't seem to edit out the duplicate.)

Edited August 21, 2022 by kirklandia

[Frozendiva]

1 hour ago, kirklandia said:

"Looks like Sparkles and John got along for the day".  Looks to me like John is sending a message.

(Sorry, can't seem to edit out the duplicate.)

The shirt gives the illusion of moobs.

[sainte-chapelle]

Why was Jibri at the baby shower? Are they that close?

[CrazyInAlabama]

11 hours ago, Frozendiva said:

The shirt gives the illusion of moobs.

Maybe that's why he's always wearing some kind of jacket?    To hide the moobs.

I wouldn't be surprised if Spahkuls shows up at everything with or without an invitation.   

Did they ever say if John moved to Las Vegas too?     

[1011101010001]

3 hours ago, CrazyInAlabama said:

Did they ever say if John moved to Las Vegas too?     

Nope.  Shawn hitting it out of the park per usual.

[Back Atcha]

15 hours ago, sainte-chapelle said:

Why was Jibri at the baby shower? Are they that close?

Why, Why, Why ???   I'm amazed at the various "friendships" that develop and appear to last on these reality shows.  I assume each "cast member" sucks up to as many others* as they can, desperately trying to assure any/all invitations will include them.  They hope to be a part of some permanent cast (just like the "Bravolebrities")--leading to a top-tier career in showbiz.  

*Other cast members, crew, producers, media/social media, fans, etc.

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3 hours ago, Back Atcha said:

Why, Why, Why ???   I'm amazed at the various "friendships" that develop and appear to last on these reality shows.  I assume each "cast member" sucks up to as many others* as they can, desperately trying to assure any/all invitations will include them.  They hope to be a part of some permanent cast (just like the "Bravolebrities")--leading to a top-tier career in showbiz.  

*Other cast members, crew, producers, media/social media, fans, etc.

Well Palm Springs is close to Vegas so it didn’t take a lot of effort.

[Welshman in Ca]

1 hour ago, MrBuhBye said:

Well Palm Springs is close to Vegas so it didn’t take a lot of effort.

Probably Palm Springs adjacent, so the middle of the desert really.

[gingerella]

23 hours ago, Frozendiva said:

The shirt gives the illusion of moobs.

Ummm, there's no illusion, them's moobs!

[Welshman in Ca]

6 minutes ago, gingerella said:

Ummm, there's no illusion, them's moobs!

I resemble that remark!

[gingerella]

13 minutes ago, Welshman in Ca said:

I resemble that remark!

They're spaaahkle moobs

[magemaud]

I was reading that Kara is due with her baby in late November and since Thais was the same number of weeks at the Tell All, she must be, too. Isn't it kind of early to have a baby shower? It must be an excuse for some kind of a 90DF reunion? 

Edited August 24, 2022 by magemaud

[Frozendiva]

Possibly. Babies = gifts. Never too early to start. Some folks like gift grabs. Cynical me.

[CrazyInAlabama]

4 hours ago, magemaud said:

I was reading that Kara is due with her baby in late November and since Thais was the same number of weeks at the Tell All, she must be, too. Isn't it kind of early to have a baby shower? It must be an excuse for some kind of a 90DF reunion? 

Or it was a gender reveal, where you get presents, and then multiple baby showers.  

[magemaud]

14 minutes ago, CrazyInAlabama said:

Or it was a gender reveal, where you get presents, and then multiple baby showers.  

I'll bet that was it! Back in MY day we only had a baby shower (maybe two) for your first child in a friend's house, nowadays it's an elaborate Gender Reveal, and multiple co-ed catered baby showers in an event space for Baby#1, then a "Sprinkle" for subsequent children. Also, I'm sure Thais is the type who will also expect a significant jewelry "Push Present" from Patrick when the baby is born. I got a dozen roses. 

Edited August 24, 2022 by magemaud

[Frozendiva]

Some folks also have Baby Registries. Like a wedding registry.

[magemaud]

On 8/24/2022 at 6:18 PM, Frozendiva said:

Some folks also have Baby Registries. Like a wedding registry.

Much to my surprise, I couldn't find a baby registry for Patrick and Thais or Kara and Guillermo

But of course Emily had one on Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/baby-reg/2S0275V5O6RRQ?ref=br_search_v2_desktop_res_1

[Frozendiva]

1 hour ago, magemaud said:

Much to my surprise, I couldn't find a baby registry for Patrick and Thais or Kara and Guillermo

But of course Emily had one on Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/baby-reg/2S0275V5O6RRQ?ref=br_search_v2_desktop_res_1

Former coworker had one at Babies R Us.

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1 hour ago, magemaud said:

Much to my surprise, I couldn't find a baby registry for Patrick and Thais or Kara and Guillermo

But of course Emily had one on Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/baby-reg/2S0275V5O6RRQ?ref=br_search_v2_desktop_res_1

What are you buying her?

[Gobi]

4 minutes ago, MrBuhBye said:

What are you buying her?

Condoms.

[1011101010001]

56 minutes ago, Gobi said:

Condoms.

Is a ball gag available?

[Scout Finch]

On 8/26/2022 at 5:30 PM, Gobi said:

Condoms.

Thankfully, I only had a mouthful of ice cream when I read this, so there wasn't a choking hazard.

[Kiss my mutt]

Yeah, no need to pass on these ratchet genes. 

[Frozendiva]

Thais talks hair. And the interesting sentence that Patrick bought her a Tesla.

https://screenrant.com/90-day-fiance-thais-ramone-shares-haircare-secrets/

[Welshman in Ca]

On 8/26/2022 at 6:28 PM, MrBuhBye said:

Is a ball gag available?

As it's Amazon I would think so.

Edited to say I checked just for you & of course Amazon has them.

Edited September 19, 2022 by Welshman in Ca

[ALittleShelfish]

7 hours ago, Welshman in Ca said:

As it's Amazon I would think so.

Edited to say I checked just for you & of course Amazon has them.

R.I.P to your future amazon search suggestions lol

[Frozendiva]

[Baltimore Betty]

55 minutes ago, Frozendiva said:

I don't know why but I imagine Patrick telling Thias five minutes after having a baby that they will be having sex later that night, (like he did when he picked her up at the airport after a lengthy day of travel).

[Mrs. Hanson]

12 hours ago, Baltimore Betty said:

I don't know why but I imagine Patrick telling Thias five minutes after having a baby that they will be having sex later that night, (like he did when he picked her up at the airport after a lengthy day of travel).

Boy?  Girl?  Why do I care?

[Cementhead]

52 minutes ago, Mrs. Hanson said:

Boy?  Girl?  Why do I care?

And I'm on name watch.  Why do I care??

Ooh, update! I just clicked on the tweet or gram or whatever that was and it says in the deets.  Girl named Aleesi.

Edited November 17, 2022 by Cementhead

[1011101010001]

1 hour ago, Cementhead said:

And I'm on name watch.  Why do I care??

Ooh, update! I just clicked on the tweet or gram or whatever that was and it says in the deets.  Girl named Aleesi.

Sounds like a car.