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90DF Live Chat 3: I Gave Up Everything To Be Here


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Just now, Baltimore Betty said:

Now remember, Kris said they will try and have the trial without her so I guess when she needs more meds the trial cannot possibly take place without her.

A trial with an overseas participant, or on a local participant's wedding day would be held by Zoom, or the attorney would stand in. There is no bloody way she is being required to fly home if she is a states' witness. 

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4 minutes ago, Baltimore Betty said:

I did go to sleep away camp, Camp Louise in the Catactin mountains, my mother went there, I went there and even my daughter, it was truly magical and the least like camping, we had indoor bunks, some had bathrooms in them some it was a little walk and we had a dinning hall, I even worked there one summer as an adult, loved it, lot's of indoors!

https://www.fairmont.com/banff-springs/

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Just now, Auntie Anxiety said:

I predict that Isabel’s parents will be fine but are told to play up the drama if they want a paycheck.

Kenny and Armando redux.

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Gabe & Isabel just need to keep his surgical history to themselves for now.  It is not imperative to tell her parents this SECOND that he's trans.  Just keep making memories with Isabel and her family and let them see him as he is... NOW.  Tell them waaaayyy later! Like in 20 years or something.  It's not like her parents are looking at FB all the time, right?

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If one of my teachers was on a reality show I’m sure I would have watched. Wonder how many of Daniele’s former students are watching her make a total idiot of herself.

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Lol, she picks up the dramatic peacock fan before she answers the door.  I love it.  Big Jennifer Coolidge energy.

My Moroccan friend will be here Tuesday and we're totally going to steam this!

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1 minute ago, Suzywriter said:

Why is it necessary to tell Ysabel's parents about the peen scene with Gabe? I mean, isn't that pretty much the couples' business?

Aside from the fact that its their hook for season? I'm no expert but I think that some trans folks want to have it out in the open because some people consider them liars and deceivers who are putting over a scam by not copping to it upfront. (Remember that scene in `'Survivor" when that asshole Jeff Varner outed a trans player at tribal council and put in in those terms? Something like "you say you're trustworthy but why didn't you tell anyone you're trans?") I'm sure some are very sensitive to that. 

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1 minute ago, Baltimore Betty said:

OMG, that music intro for Donkey Deb! I can sing the words about a Girl In France with a something in her pants, and the way she dances it's enough to kill a snake...it made more sense when I learned at Camp Louise.

There's a place on Mars where the ladies smoke cigars

Every puff they take is enough to kill a snake

When the snake is dead, they put roses on his head

When the roses die, they put diamonds in his eyes

When the diamonds break, it is 1988.

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2 minutes ago, For Cereals said:

Ok in that light, with the one eye in line with the other and his mouth closed, he’s kind of cute.

That only happens when the moon is full and Mercury is retrograde. 

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5 minutes ago, Pepper Mostly said:

Aside from the fact that its their hook for season? I'm no expert but I think that some trans folks want to have it out in the open because some people consider them liars and deceivers who are putting over a scam by not copping to it upfront. (Remember that scene in `'Survivor" when that asshole Jeff Varner outed a trans player at tribal council and put in in those terms? Something like "you say you're trustworthy but why didn't you tell anyone you're trans?") I'm sure some are very sensitive to that. 

That was awful. To the the credit of the other players they were all horrified and voted Jeff off 

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