90DF Live Chat 3: I Gave Up Everything To Be Here

[Grifter Lives]

Just now, Hotel Snarker said:

How will Bilal be infuriating tonight, I wonder?

• His stupid "prank" and his disappointment that Shaeda didn't think it was funny.
• Shaeda's apologizing to him.
• His dumb t-shirt, "B Grateful," in case she doesn't realize that his prank is serious.

That's only in one scene.

I hate him.

[SunnyBeBe]

1 minute ago, Gobi said:

So the house has been empty for15 years. Did he put new furniture and dishware in it just for his "prank"?

Yeah, empty 15 years….would likely be covered in mold and dust. 

[ExMathMajor]

Goddamn…this may be the earliest in a 90DF season that I use the mute button.

Hey snarkers and snarkettes!

[Auntie Anxiety]

Shaeeda can’t wait to meet Mother Bilal at eh the Airbnb (it’s playing the role of Bilal’s bougie house).

[Mrs. Landingham]

3 minutes ago, Hotel Snarker said:

Red, for lies, deceit, and toxic whining.

Also, putting suitcases directly on the bed drives me nuts as well.

One of my pet peeves of this show is the alarming number of people who do this. It’s indescribably GROSS independent of the pandemic. Those bags have been sitting on dirty, germ-ridden planes, airport floors, train stations, and subway/metro stations. And these people are over here like “yep, let’s heave this bag onto this clean-sheeted bed where I’ll sleep.” 

[Pepper Mostly]

2 minutes ago, Hotel Snarker said:

Wait, what happened to you? Did I miss something? Were you sick? Oh no!

I described my misadventures in detail in the LAL live chat thread. Short version: fainted, fell, hit head, ER, fine but knee was killing. Next day, fell again at home, hurt other knee, staggering around like a Sasquatch on non functioning knees. Couple of days of ice and painkillers and I'm right as rain!

1 minute ago, Armchair Critic said:

Sounds interesting. Dopesick made me really dislike those people.

Its a great read. Long, but well written and absorbing. 

[Emmeline]

The fact that Bilal’s childhood home is small is one thing, however, come on with the peeling ceilings!  We’ve seen some messy apartments and less than ideal accommodations but this was the worst and all just a sham.

Edited May 2, 2022 by Emmeline

[Auntie Anxiety]

Mother Shaedah sounds like me roaring with laughter while I’m reading and snarking.

[magemaud]

“Everything’s up to date in Kansas City…they’ve gone about as ‘fur’ as they can go…”

[Frozendiva]

Shaeeda showing mom the photos of the house is hilarious.

[Mrs. Landingham]

Bilal is a psychological abuser.

[TazDevil]

Where did Bilal get the water for the tea kettle?  The place where the faucet should be is stuffed with fake greenery.

[Suzywriter]

I DESPISE BILAL!

He is putting her in the position of apologizing to him for his abuse. That is classic abuser behavior. 

[Auntie Anxiety]

Mother Shaedah needs her own show, giving advice to the rest of the 90 Day cast.

[charmed1]

This asshole had the nerve to wear a “B Grateful” t-shirt? Be grateful that he “brung” you here. 

[Trackdawg]

[Straycat80]

Apparently Shaeeda and mom think American live in splendor? 

[kendi]

Shaeeda is too good for him. What does she see in him again?

[Pepper Mostly]

1 minute ago, Grifter Lives said:

• His stupid "prank" and his disappointment that Shaeda didn't think it was funny.
• Shaeda's apologizing to him.
• His dumb t-shirt, "B Grateful," in case she doesn't realize that his prank is serious.

That's only in one scene.

I hate him.

That fucking T shirt! I was SCREAMING. I really, really hate passive aggressive holier than thou twats like him who expect you to read their clothing for life advice. 

I hate him too.

[Gobi]

Remember what the fish say - There are plenty of people on the beach.

[Armchair Critic]

1 minute ago, Auntie Anxiety said:

Mother Shaedah sounds like me roaring with laughter while I’m reading and snarking.

She would fit in here 

[OneGuy]

"Don't rush the brush."

[Frozendiva]

1 minute ago, TazDevil said:

Where did Bilal get the water for the tea kettle?  The place where the faucet should be is stuffed with fake greenery.

Bathroom sink?

[Scout Finch]

He's a manipulative asshole, is who he is.

 

[FrancescaFiore]

Yve.. literally?

[Hotel Snarker]

1 minute ago, Pepper Mostly said:

I described my misadventures in detail in the LAL live chat thread. Short version: fainted, fell, hit head, ER, fine but knee was killing. Next day, fell again at home, hurt other knee, staggering around like a Sasquatch on non functioning knees. Couple of days of ice and painkillers and I'm right as rain!

Oh no, that sounds horrifying! I had the same thing happen to a friend of mine! Glad you're better, m'dear.

[SunnyBeBe]

I get how she’s disappointed with the older home, but really….a lot of people would be thrilled to have a house that nice.  

[Auntie Anxiety]

Calm down, cougar.

[OoogleEyes]

Literally? Are you literally happy? Literally?

[Suzywriter]

13 minutes ago, Hotel Snarker said:

Red, for lies, deceit, and toxic whining.

Also, putting suitcases directly on the bed drives me nuts as well.

Ok, I am confused. Where should one put them if there isn't a luggage rack in the room? Most homes don't have one.  

 

[Armchair Critic]

Speaking of Bilal's t-shirt, that's why I won't wear a 'Be Kind' shirt I would feel so fake. 😂

[RichiesOlderBro]

Yve is Apache for ‘prowling cougar’.

[Doublemint]

My advice for the day to Ives?  is "enjoy it while it lasts".

[Grifter Lives]

Wasn't she outside the airport in a short, orange dress?  Now she's in the terminal in a green maxi dress.  Did Yve do the Darcy-bathroom routine?

[Auntie Anxiety]

Prompting from the producer about her age in 3.....2......1

[FrancescaFiore]

I wasn't entirely certain last week, but this week I am. I hate Yve.

[kacesq]

I hate that hair, my son and all his friends went thru that phase.

[charmed1]

I love the random pilot in the background walking like “WTF is this?”

[OneGuy]

The attempts at self awareness on this show demonstrate the shallow nature of the people involved.  I'm looking at you Yve.

[TazDevil]

1 minute ago, Armchair Critic said:

Speaking of Bilal's t-shirt, that's why I won't wear a 'Be Kind' shirt I would feel so fake. 😂

I have a t-shirt that just says "Nope"

[Frozendiva]

1 minute ago, Suzywriter said:

Ok, I am confused. Where should one put them if there isn't a luggage rack in the room? Most homes don't have one.  

 

I might put mine on my loveseat but put a bath towel under it.

[kendi]

This is different...a sensible mom giving practical advice and a daughter listening and really thinking about the situation. Trust your gut Shaeeda---RUN!!!

[Trackdawg]

12 minutes ago, JennyMominFL said:

Im the words of Mary Ingalls, Bilal really has my dander up

 

8 minutes ago, OneGuy said:

You shouldn't be doing the questioning Bilal.

 

7 minutes ago, kacesq said:

Bilal is an ass.

 

7 minutes ago, Hotel Snarker said:

How will Bilal be infuriating tonight, I wonder?

 

5 minutes ago, TazDevil said:

Because she's too good for Bilal.

 

5 minutes ago, greekmom said:

Maybe Bialzebub should be grateful a woman wants his skanky ass.

 

5 minutes ago, Grifter Lives said:

• I hate him.

 

3 minutes ago, Mrs. Landingham said:

Bilal is a psychological abuser.

 

2 minutes ago, Suzywriter said:

I DESPISE BILAL!

[Gobi]

Paging Egyptian love rat, paging Egyptian love rat!

[Grifter Lives]

Yve brought flowers.  Larissa would approve.

[Auntie Anxiety]

1 minute ago, RichiesOlderBro said:

Yve is Apache for ‘prowling cougar’.

Cougar is her spirit animal.

Mohamed looks like there’s nothing behind his eyes, as in, brainless.

[Armchair Critic]

His head is too fat to pull off that hairstyle 

[FrancescaFiore]

Mohammed is pinging my gaydar.

[charmed1]

I feel like I’d walk out of a restaurant with Mohammed not realizing I’d agreed to wear a puffy shirt on the Today Show.

[Mrs. Landingham]

1 minute ago, Armchair Critic said:

Speaking of Bilal's t-shirt, that's why I won't wear a 'Be Kind' shirt I would feel so fake. 😂

I work with someone who has “Be Kind” in her email signature. The real kicker: she’s one of the rudest people anyone has ever met.