90DF Live Chat 2: This Thread is Only 60% Good

[sainte-chapelle]

"I am not trying to be insulting...." yes you are. You don't need a huge place to raise a child. A lot of poor folks in the US live in a 1 bed apt you ignorant sheltered slag.

[DEL901]

OMG.   That place is a palace for Bini.   The parents are so condescending.   He is doing his best. 

[Floatingbison]

Take it from me, the music industry is feast or famine.  Mostly famine. 

[Trackdawg]

Just now, Frozendiva said:

The parents need to butt out. Their daughter chose this dude.

[LookABird]

Why, yes, Ari's mother, Bini can easily get a job as a neurosurgeon to make you happy.

[TMI]

i 100 percent support his dreams....BUT

[kacesq]

I’m just amazed at women like Ari and Britney who just are so goddamned entitled. And they always get away with it.

[Auntie Anxiety]

Bunion, you need to get another job AND be home to take care of our annoying lovely daughter and grandson.

[Doublemint]

3 minutes ago, greekmom said:

@Doublemint  my prayers are with you!

Thanks - things are working again - but it's scary and I've got a lot of trees near my house.      On the show - Mom wants Bini to get an apartment with an "outdoor space" for the baby!   They can't afford the one they have now.   Wow.

[KelseyNikki614]

This segment is enraging to me. They reek of privilege. Wow. 

[Frozendiva]

Kenny and Armando are going to fight for their right to party?

[renatae]

Ari's parents becoming more patronizing and insulting. No wonder she's such a jerk. Just because you say it with a smile on your face, mom, doesn't make it better. If you want to help pay for the apt. you demand, do so. Don't go probing into their financial affairs.

[Pepper Mostly]

Ari is inches from telling her awful parents to open up their checkbook. 

WHY are the parents of a 30 year old woman telling her partner what he needs to do to support her? Why can't Ari take care of her baby? She has nothing else to do! Gah, I hate them all.

[TMI]

Kenny with attitude...talk to hannah about it....NO NO NO

[JennyMominFL]

tooo Parrttyyy!

[mamadrama]

Does Ari not realize that she IS one of those expats driving up the prices? 

[JennyMominFL]

Just now, Frozendiva said:

Kenny and Armando are going to fight for their right to party?

Jinx!

[sainte-chapelle]

Kenny is getting on my nerves. 

[Angry Moldovan]

1 minute ago, kacesq said:

I’m just amazed at women like Ari and Britney who just are so goddamned entitled. And they always get away with it.

Goes to show if you have attitude you don’t need to look like Cindy Crawford 

[kacesq]

Hannah is such a cute little girl. Yay it’s so nice to be able to say something nice for a change.

[mmecorday]

I wonder what Armando would think of the enchiladas I made tonight? I know the lettuce and sour cream are not used as garnishes in Mexican cooking, but I'm a gringa.

[Coltee Gal]

I’m just gonna leave this right here

[DEL901]

Just where do they think this job will magically come from?  He is supporting her better than he ever had before.  He said he has never lived somewhere so large.   He probably shared with his sisters.   Remember Lisa and her boy toy.   He was an adult and still had to share a one bed with two others.    Her parents are judging from upper middle class North American standards. 

[greekmom]

WTF is Kenny going to do with a work permit?

[TMI]

Is Kenny going to get a job as a translator.....oh no...He ONLY speaks and understands English.

[Floatingbison]

It's  a legal showdown with Mexican authorities about gay marriage rights!  Viva a Revolução  

[Arynm]

If Ari's parents want them to have a bigger apartment and have Bini stay home, they can damn well pay for it. Otherwise they need to shut up.

[Angry Moldovan]

1 minute ago, renatae said:

Ari's parents becoming more patronizing and insulting. No wonder she's such a jerk. Just because you say it with a smile on your face, mom, doesn't make it better. If you want to help pay for the apt. you demand, do so. Don't go probing into their financial affairs.

It’s just fucking rude

[Trackdawg]

Just now, kacesq said:

I’m just amazed at women like Ari and Britney who just are so goddamned entitled. And they always get away with it.

[Auntie Anxiety]

Kenny starts crying in 3....2.....1

[Pepper Mostly]

Kenny is obsessed with making a mountain out of a molehill. 

[goofygirl]

Why can't these guys just go to the United States and get married??  What's wrong with that idea?

[Grifter Lives]

1 minute ago, renatae said:

Ari's parents becoming more patronizing and insulting. No wonder she's such a jerk. Just because you say it with a smile on your face, mom, doesn't make it better. If you want to help pay for the apt. you demand, do so. Don't go probing into their financial affairs.

Also, Ari's was a freelance writer.  They omit any occasional income that she can generate.

[Angry Moldovan]

1 minute ago, mamadrama said:

Does Ari not realize that she IS one of those expats driving up the prices? 

My eyes rolled to the back of my head at that one

[kacesq]

1 minute ago, Angry Moldovan said:

Goes to show if you have attitude you don’t need to look like Cindy Crawford 

I once passed Cindy Crawford on Madison Ave in NYC. Even without makeup she was stunning. 

[peaceknit]

2 minutes ago, mmecorday said:

I wonder what Armando would think of the enchiladas I made tonight? I know the lettuce and sour cream are not used as garnishes in Mexican cooking, but I'm a gringa.

Looks delish!

[mmecorday]

So basically the letter said, "Because you cannot breed, a marriage you don't need." Fuck all that.

[Trackdawg]

1 minute ago, sainte-chapelle said:

Kenny is getting on my nerves. 

[DEL901]

3 minutes ago, Auntie Anxiety said:

Bunion, you need to get another job AND be home to take care of our annoying lovely daughter and grandson.

And you have to limit your working hours so you can be around to cater to princess Ari who will, of course, not work.  

[Doublemint]

4 minutes ago, Floatingbison said:

Take it from me, the music industry is feast or famine.  Mostly famine. 

Yes!!!  I just got a $500 grant from the Musician's Union Welfare Fund.

[Auntie Anxiety]

1 minute ago, goofygirl said:

Why can't these guys just go to the United States and get married??  What's wrong with that idea?

Someone asks that every single week. I can’t remember the reason, though.

[greekmom]

1 minute ago, goofygirl said:

Why can't these guys just go to the United States and get married??  What's wrong with that idea?

You know how many LGBTQ came to Niagara Falls Canada to marry when it wasn't legal in the States!??! 

[DEL901]

1 minute ago, goofygirl said:

Why can't these guys just go to the United States and get married??  What's wrong with that idea?

They could but it likely wouldn’t be recognized which means no work permit. 

[Trackdawg]

Just now, Angry Moldovan said:

My eyes rolled to the back of my head at that one

[JennyMominFL]

ahh, Ensenada, where I went on a family weekend with my husband for  his job and one of the employees would not let their kid be in the pool i was in because of my HIV status.

Its a beautiful town though and nearby is la Bufadora, one of the biggest blowholes in the world

[Straycat80]

Kenny learned Hola! Hannah is so cute. I wonder why Armando hasn’t taught her some English since he speaks it so well. 
oh no, Deavan mother from hell is back. Run Jihoon! 

[sainte-chapelle]

Guys, ugly trickster is my new go to insult

[Angry Moldovan]

2 minutes ago, DEL901 said:

Just where do they think this job will magically come from?  He is supporting her better than he ever had before.  He said he has never lived somewhere so large.   He probably shared with his sisters.   Remember Lisa and her boy toy.   He was an adult and still had to share a one bed with two others.    Her parents are judging from upper middle class North American standards. 

Imagine if they were to visit Dinyell trailer in SanDusky OH? They would be horrified

[Pepper Mostly]

1 minute ago, Grifter Lives said:

Also, Ari's was a freelance writer.  They omit any occasional income that she can generate.

Heh, if she's published anywhere but her own blog I'll be...well, I'll be very surprised 

[GrammyPammy]

Ari’s parents’ expectations are way too high. 

Binyam would likely make less money than he does at the club with a full time job.

Her mother was more accommodating when she was there before...either she has had more time to think about it, or her husband is influencing her, or it’s producer-driven drama. Probably a combination of all three!

Edited November 16, 2020 by GrammyPammy