marypat57 January 22, 2019 Share January 22, 2019 Don't the Bates live in Tennessee? 2 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/19868-meet-the-parents-gil-and-kelly-jo-bates/page/2/#findComment-4999133
BitterApple January 22, 2019 Share January 22, 2019 1 hour ago, marypat57 said: Don't the Bates live in Tennessee? They do, in Rocky Top. Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/19868-meet-the-parents-gil-and-kelly-jo-bates/page/2/#findComment-4999292
Sew Sumi June 22, 2020 Share June 22, 2020 🙄 3 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/19868-meet-the-parents-gil-and-kelly-jo-bates/page/2/#findComment-6193955
RebeccatheWriter June 22, 2020 Share June 22, 2020 11 hours ago, Sew Sumi said: 🙄 I am glad they have a new pic and aren't using that tired one where he has his hand on her abdomen like he expects her to miraculously get pregnant again. Those are some big earrings for a woman in a family that didn't allow the girls to pierce their ears. I remember that Alyssa got her ears pierced after she got married and made a point of mentioning it on one of those Nightline stories. 1 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/19868-meet-the-parents-gil-and-kelly-jo-bates/page/2/#findComment-6194818
andromeda331 June 22, 2020 Share June 22, 2020 Hardest working man? Good one Kelly. 3 5 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/19868-meet-the-parents-gil-and-kelly-jo-bates/page/2/#findComment-6194897
Sew Sumi June 22, 2020 Share June 22, 2020 I don't think Kelly's ears are pierced. And Gil being hard working made me roll my eyes. He's in love with the sound of his own voice. I listened to him preach at the IBLP online thing a month or two ago. He's terrible. Filled with ego. 2 2 4 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/19868-meet-the-parents-gil-and-kelly-jo-bates/page/2/#findComment-6195219
RebeccatheWriter June 22, 2020 Share June 22, 2020 1 hour ago, Sew Sumi said: I don't think Kelly's ears are pierced. I don't think they are either. They have some sort of belief about adornments (not limited to IBLP families). I just noted the earrings because of how strict they had been on such things in the past. 3 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/19868-meet-the-parents-gil-and-kelly-jo-bates/page/2/#findComment-6195319
Sew Sumi June 22, 2020 Share June 22, 2020 (edited) Yeah, those doorknockers are quite the departure from her usual style. Edited June 22, 2020 by Sew Sumi 5 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/19868-meet-the-parents-gil-and-kelly-jo-bates/page/2/#findComment-6195346
emmawoodhouse May 9, 2021 Share May 9, 2021 Kelly's in the hospital. Apparently something to do with her GERD surgery. https://www.instagram.com/p/COqSkJRJnTH/?igshid=1kkdx4wyjt1gr Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/19868-meet-the-parents-gil-and-kelly-jo-bates/page/2/#findComment-6770685
IndianPaintbrush May 10, 2021 Share May 10, 2021 The family is wisely choosing not to publicly comment on Josh Duggar's charges, but with Gil on the board of IBLP, I wonder what they think. It surprised me to hear that Carlin had looked at buying a used car from Josh, because she seems like someone who wouldn't want to be within 10 miles of him. The Bates really are just Duggars with better clothes. 3 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/19868-meet-the-parents-gil-and-kelly-jo-bates/page/2/#findComment-6772946
emmawoodhouse May 10, 2021 Share May 10, 2021 Carlin ended up buying her car from Jed. Smuggar's lot had been closed for quite some time when she bought her SUV last summer. 1 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/19868-meet-the-parents-gil-and-kelly-jo-bates/page/2/#findComment-6772979
ginger90 May 15, 2022 Share May 15, 2022 Guess I missed this at the time. It’s from May 1st. 9 pictures: https://www.instagram.com/p/CdCeSFcMnyl/ 1 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/19868-meet-the-parents-gil-and-kelly-jo-bates/page/2/#findComment-7454258
floridamom May 15, 2022 Share May 15, 2022 ginger90....I can't view the photos. You have to sign in to Instagram. Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/19868-meet-the-parents-gil-and-kelly-jo-bates/page/2/#findComment-7454643
ginger90 May 15, 2022 Share May 15, 2022 2 minutes ago, floridamom said: ginger90....I can't view the photos. You have to sign in to Instagram. Here’s the post, and one of the pictures: 5 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/19868-meet-the-parents-gil-and-kelly-jo-bates/page/2/#findComment-7454644
floridamom May 15, 2022 Share May 15, 2022 Thank you so much, ginger90...much appreciated. 2 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/19868-meet-the-parents-gil-and-kelly-jo-bates/page/2/#findComment-7454648
So unbelievable May 16, 2022 Share May 16, 2022 Thanks for sharing. How much could they possibly tutor when none of them are ever home? 4 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/19868-meet-the-parents-gil-and-kelly-jo-bates/page/2/#findComment-7456260
answerphone May 16, 2022 Share May 16, 2022 Does anyone have a comment about Kelly Jo’s layers upon layers Mother of the groom dress? 🥺 1 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/19868-meet-the-parents-gil-and-kelly-jo-bates/page/2/#findComment-7456419
emmawoodhouse May 16, 2022 Share May 16, 2022 It beats the tin man dress that both Kelly and Michelle Duggar wore back in the day. 4 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/19868-meet-the-parents-gil-and-kelly-jo-bates/page/2/#findComment-7456430
So unbelievable May 16, 2022 Share May 16, 2022 1 hour ago, answerphone said: Does anyone have a comment about Kelly Jo’s layers upon layers Mother of the groom dress? 🥺 Wasn't the worse dress she's worn, but very unflattering. I liked the color. Tiffany must have asked women to wear pink. Lots of pink dresses. 3 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/19868-meet-the-parents-gil-and-kelly-jo-bates/page/2/#findComment-7456474
GeeGolly June 25, 2022 Share June 25, 2022 Kelly applauded yesterday's news. 4 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/19868-meet-the-parents-gil-and-kelly-jo-bates/page/2/#findComment-7522219
emmawoodhouse June 25, 2022 Share June 25, 2022 7 hours ago, GeeGolly said: Kelly applauded yesterday's news. I saw that and said "Fuck you Kelly." 1 1 6 3 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/19868-meet-the-parents-gil-and-kelly-jo-bates/page/2/#findComment-7522591
GeeGolly June 26, 2022 Share June 26, 2022 Is Gil in Nashville too? Its so hot there. Josie posted a story and between the guys skin tight uniforms and the heat, there's a sea of midriffs, bare arms and bare legs. How far they've come from visiting beaches, fully clothed, in the evenings so they wouldn't be tempted with unrighteous desires. 5 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/19868-meet-the-parents-gil-and-kelly-jo-bates/page/2/#findComment-7523381
So unbelievable June 26, 2022 Share June 26, 2022 I wonder what they really think about the actions of their children. They say they understand and that they are adults and able to do what they want now, but they must be seething inside at some of the things they wear. As I've mentioned before, specifically 15 year old Ellie. She is way to made up. 1 1 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/19868-meet-the-parents-gil-and-kelly-jo-bates/page/2/#findComment-7523411
GeeGolly July 18, 2022 Share July 18, 2022 On 6/26/2022 at 4:10 AM, So unbelievable said: I wonder what they really think about the actions of their children. They say they understand and that they are adults and able to do what they want now, but they must be seething inside at some of the things they wear. As I've mentioned before, specifically 15 year old Ellie. She is way to made up. I wonder the opposite too. What do Erin, Michael and possibly Tori think of their parents now? I mean I know its typical of younger siblings to be raised differently, but usually the parents stay pretty much the same. From what I can see Kelly is more similar now to her more mainstream kids than she is to her conservative ones. She seems to spend more time with them as well. Does anyone know if Gil & Kelly still do the Fundy conferences and such? There used to be a time when they were headliners, along with JB & Michelle Duggar, at every Fundy event. 2 1 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/19868-meet-the-parents-gil-and-kelly-jo-bates/page/2/#findComment-7555795
ozziemom July 18, 2022 Share July 18, 2022 1 hour ago, GeeGolly said: I wonder the opposite too. What do Erin, Michael and possibly Tori think of their parents now? I mean I know its typical of younger siblings to be raised differently, but usually the parents stay pretty much the same. From what I can see Kelly is more similar now to her more mainstream kids than she is to her conservative ones. She seems to spend more time with them as well. Does anyone know if Gil & Kelly still do the Fundy conferences and such? There used to be a time when they were headliners, along with JB & Michelle Duggar, at every Fundy event. Seems like at the last big Fundie conference Gil was a speaker along with Brandon. KJ was in NJ or Florida visiting, I don’t remember exactly where, but we did snark on why she wasn’t glued to Gil’s side at the conference. I would imagine the older girls are a bit resentful of the way G&K are now compared to their childhood. 2 2 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/19868-meet-the-parents-gil-and-kelly-jo-bates/page/2/#findComment-7555880
GeeGolly July 18, 2022 Share July 18, 2022 16 minutes ago, ozziemom said: Seems like at the last big Fundie conference Gil was a speaker along with Brandon. KJ was in NJ or Florida visiting, I don’t remember exactly where, but we did snark on why she wasn’t glued to Gil’s side at the conference. I would imagine the older girls are a bit resentful of the way G&K are now compared to their childhood. Huh, now I'm wondering what Gil thinks about Kelly's changes. I suppose if it caused problems Kelly wouldn't behave as she does, but it just seems Kelly flipped this switch and is a (Fundy) 'woman about town'. 1 1 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/19868-meet-the-parents-gil-and-kelly-jo-bates/page/2/#findComment-7555895
ozziemom July 18, 2022 Share July 18, 2022 1 hour ago, GeeGolly said: Huh, now I'm wondering what Gil thinks about Kelly's changes. I suppose if it caused problems Kelly wouldn't behave as she does, but it just seems Kelly flipped this switch and is a (Fundy) 'woman about town'. It is quite a change from the days when they had to always sit so close together, holding hands and she would lovingly gaze at him. Now they are barely ever in the same room! 3 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/19868-meet-the-parents-gil-and-kelly-jo-bates/page/2/#findComment-7555992
Salacious Kitty July 18, 2022 Share July 18, 2022 Yeah, Kelly mentioned in her most recent post that she had found cheap tickets and was headed down to visit Alyssa. Right after Alyssa visited the Big House. Oh well, cheap tickets now are a rarity, so I guess she pounced on them. 1 1 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/19868-meet-the-parents-gil-and-kelly-jo-bates/page/2/#findComment-7556071
So unbelievable July 19, 2022 Share July 19, 2022 14 hours ago, GeeGolly said: Huh, now I'm wondering what Gil thinks about Kelly's changes. I suppose if it caused problems Kelly wouldn't behave as she does, but it just seems Kelly flipped this switch and is a (Fundy) 'woman about town'. Now that the cameras aren't on them anymore, she acts different. Not attached at the hip as BUB showed. However, the reels Josie shares of her when she colors her hair, KJ goes on and on about how to be a good wife and mother and god fearing woman. Barf 1 1 2 1 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/19868-meet-the-parents-gil-and-kelly-jo-bates/page/2/#findComment-7557166
GeeGolly July 19, 2022 Share July 19, 2022 5 hours ago, So unbelievable said: Now that the cameras aren't on them anymore, she acts different. Not attached at the hip as BUB showed. However, the reels Josie shares of her when she colors her hair, KJ goes on and on about how to be a good wife and mother and god fearing woman. Barf I think there is much more to it than not having the cameras around though. There were no cameras when they were smooshed into their tiny house wearing matching homemade prairie dresses. They did one season of United Bates of America in 2012 and Bringing Up Bates started in 2015. Zach, Erin and Alyssa were already married before they got their series. Kelly is definitely not the same uber Fundy Gothard 'Christian' woman she was for most of her adult life. 4 1 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/19868-meet-the-parents-gil-and-kelly-jo-bates/page/2/#findComment-7557292
iluvobx July 19, 2022 Share July 19, 2022 So much has been exposed about the IBLP and Bill Gothard, that many are leaving. The politic scene in Arkansas has changed and now they want them gone from Arkansas. I do find it interesting about KJ because it was her that brought "fundie" to Gil. Even though they tried to distance themselves from Josh Duggar, the truth about what Gil has covered up in the past has come to light. He has stood back and kept quiet, which means he condones, the sexual abuse etc that has occurred within their "religion". Makes him just as guilty, Maybe KJ regrets the way she allowed the direction that a so called religion took her family. When a "religion" cherry picks words or verse to twist to justify their own sick wants and needs, it is nothing more than a so called religion. I still can't believe how many woman still allow their husbands to treat them and dictate their lives. IMO, Gil better keep a low profile because it would not surprise me if a former female member decides to sue him because he failed to report things that he was suppose to and even helped cover up illegal activity. 4 1 1 3 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/19868-meet-the-parents-gil-and-kelly-jo-bates/page/2/#findComment-7557613
ozziemom July 25, 2022 Share July 25, 2022 So apparently a bunch of Duggars visited the Bates clan to help declutter, lol. KJ posted about everyone who helped them with a few projects. I guess the Big House needed quite a few things done. KJ posted pictures of various Bates boys and SIL’s working. My favorite picture was Gil sitting in a chair filthy dirty, covered in paint or concrete or something. Hopefully it wasn’t the new furniture Alyssa just gifted them. 1 3 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/19868-meet-the-parents-gil-and-kelly-jo-bates/page/2/#findComment-7565954
SMama July 25, 2022 Share July 25, 2022 I was surprised to see Kelton among those helping. I don’t think he’s close to G&K. 3 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/19868-meet-the-parents-gil-and-kelly-jo-bates/page/2/#findComment-7566426
Salacious Kitty July 25, 2022 Share July 25, 2022 4 minutes ago, SMama said: I was surprised to see Kelton among those helping. I don’t think he’s close to G&K. Just posted about him in Carlin's thread. 😀 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/19868-meet-the-parents-gil-and-kelly-jo-bates/page/2/#findComment-7566429
ozziemom July 25, 2022 Share July 25, 2022 54 minutes ago, SMama said: I was surprised to see Kelton among those helping. I don’t think he’s close to G&K. It looked like a pretty big plumbing project, maybe a whole new septic system so Kelton was probably guilted into it. Josie seems close to KJ and she is at the Big House a lot with the girls. There was quite a crew working on the plumbing project, even Brandon who seems more cerebral than the Bates boys. 1 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/19868-meet-the-parents-gil-and-kelly-jo-bates/page/2/#findComment-7566496
GeeGolly July 25, 2022 Share July 25, 2022 Was that a septic repair? They looked like they were inside the old house fixing the underground plumbing. I'm guessing since Kelton brought his little brother along as his crew, he's not getting paid for this HUGE job. K&G seem like the type that just let things fall into disrepair until they're forced to do something about it. I think the only reason Alyssa bought Gil a new chair is because she didn't want to sit on their peeling and frayed furniture when she was there. 1 4 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/19868-meet-the-parents-gil-and-kelly-jo-bates/page/2/#findComment-7566607
BitterApple July 25, 2022 Share July 25, 2022 I can see Kelton helping out once in a while, I think he's just taken the stance that he's not going to be at various relatives homes every weekend doing free work. And like you all have said, he's probably doing it more out of respect for Josie rather than any great affection for Kelly and Gil. 1 1 6 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/19868-meet-the-parents-gil-and-kelly-jo-bates/page/2/#findComment-7566756
Peanut6711 July 25, 2022 Share July 25, 2022 Given how many times Kelton has gone on about his disdain for Gill keeping him from Josie when she was 14, I can't help but think Kelton wouldn't care if Gill's toilet was flushing in reversing and showering the walls with its content. So if he showed up, Josie must be withholding sex or something as his incentive. 🤣 1 7 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/19868-meet-the-parents-gil-and-kelly-jo-bates/page/2/#findComment-7567288
Cinnabon July 25, 2022 Share July 25, 2022 5 minutes ago, Peanut6711 said: Given how many times Kelton has gone on about his disdain for Gill keeping him from Josie when she was 14, I can't help but think Kelton wouldn't care if Gill's toilet was flushing in reversing and showering the walls with its content. So if he showed up, Josie must be withholding sex or something as his incentive. 🤣 So fucking creepy. 3 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/19868-meet-the-parents-gil-and-kelly-jo-bates/page/2/#findComment-7567300
65mickey July 26, 2022 Share July 26, 2022 When did Kelton go on about his disdain for Gil? What did he say? I have never read anything disrepectful that he said. I can't imagine that Josie would put up with him speaking disrespectfuly about her parents. He may not feel warm and fuzy about Gil but I don't get the impression that he holds Gil in contempt. Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/19868-meet-the-parents-gil-and-kelly-jo-bates/page/2/#findComment-7567800
Peanut6711 July 26, 2022 Share July 26, 2022 54 minutes ago, 65mickey said: When did Kelton go on about his disdain for Gil? What did he say? I have never read anything disrepectful that he said. I can't imagine that Josie would put up with him speaking disrespectfuly about her parents. He may not feel warm and fuzy about Gil but I don't get the impression that he holds Gil in contempt. I've seen it on more than one episode of the show, and I didn't even watch regularly. Kelton definitely holds a grudge about being told that Josie was off-limits when he first started sniffing around her. 2 1 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/19868-meet-the-parents-gil-and-kelly-jo-bates/page/2/#findComment-7567951
65mickey July 26, 2022 Share July 26, 2022 Kelton voiced disdain for Gil on the TV show? That doesnt seem like something that UP would want to show. I'm not doubting you but it doesn't fit with how Kelton was very respectful when asking Kelly and Gil for permission to become engaged and Gil's reaction. They all appeared very happy about Josie and Kelton becoming engaged. Kelton doesn't seem like the type of young man who would vocalize any disrepect to an elder especially his wife's father. 1 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/19868-meet-the-parents-gil-and-kelly-jo-bates/page/2/#findComment-7567992
SMama July 26, 2022 Share July 26, 2022 (edited) He openly discussed his resentment when they made a webpage for their wedding. I think it was under their love story or whatever. He talked about how difficult it was to watch B&T court while he was denied. If I’m not mistaken Kelton said he had forgiven G&K. Those two sorry excuses for parents have plenty to criticize. Forbidding their 14 year old daughter from getting to know an 18 year old college student is not one of them. To me Kelton’s resentment was on display at the wedding reception. The way he grabbed Josie’s butt was disrespectful to her and others there. Josie may have been OK with it but the girl was so sheltered I’m not sure she grasped the inappropriateness. Edited July 26, 2022 by SMama 2 8 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/19868-meet-the-parents-gil-and-kelly-jo-bates/page/2/#findComment-7568001
Peanut6711 July 26, 2022 Share July 26, 2022 (edited) 21 minutes ago, 65mickey said: Kelton voiced disdain for Gil on the TV show? That doesnt seem like something that UP would want to show. I'm not doubting you but it doesn't fit with how Kelton was very respectful when asking Kelly and Gil for permission to become engaged and Gil's reaction. They all appeared very happy about Josie and Kelton becoming engaged. Kelton doesn't seem like the type of young man who would vocalize any disrepect to an elder especially his wife's father. I think Kelton was respectful cause he needed to be to get Josie, but once he had her, he had no problem voicing how put out he was by being told to wait to get her. I'm not sure if Gil realizes this or is oblivious. Presumably he knows now if he watched his own show. One of the scenes I recall where Kelton complains about, even sort of mocks Gil, were obviously not when Gil was around though. The one was at his current house w/Josie and one of her siblings and suitor were there, who he told the story to/complained to. Edited July 26, 2022 by Peanut6711 2 1 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/19868-meet-the-parents-gil-and-kelly-jo-bates/page/2/#findComment-7568051
Cinnabon July 26, 2022 Share July 26, 2022 2 hours ago, Peanut6711 said: I think Kelton was respectful cause he needed to be to get Josie, but once he had her, he had no problem voicing how put out he was by being told to wait to get her. I'm not sure if Gil realizes this or is oblivious. Presumably he knows now if he watched his own show. One of the scenes I recall where Kelton complains about, even sort of mocks Gil, were obviously not when Gil was around though. The one was at his current house w/Josie and one of her siblings and suitor were there, who he told the story to/complained to. So disgusting. Will he let one of his daughters start dating a college age man when she’s still in middle school? There’s a name for men who want to date children . . . 1 1 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/19868-meet-the-parents-gil-and-kelly-jo-bates/page/2/#findComment-7568257
cereality July 26, 2022 Share July 26, 2022 Kelton’s gross, creepy and controlling. Doesn’t matter that he runs a biz and has money and cooks, something isn’t right with him as a person. I mean when he was starting to talk to Josie - she was going into 9th grade (if she went to school) and he was heading off to college and then he was pissed when Gil said no. Like what parent would allow that - fundie or not - it’s not even legal if they were to do stuff (not that they would but hey any relationship can go awry). And then he brought it up about 75 times - and no he wasn’t a “respectful young man.” He did a whole discussion w his dad about it when setting up the courtship ask - he can talk to his dad about whatever, he CHOSE to to it when UPTv was with him and dad. He brought it up at the freaking rehearsal dinner that G&K had said no to him 4 yrs ago as did best man Bobby in his freaking speech?! And yeah then the butt grab at the reception was a very clear - she’s mine now bitch. But then this is the dude whose birthday wish for his 2 yr old was that she remains pure for her future husband. He took it down when he got enough negative comments but he ain’t right in the head to be thinking about his toddler’s virginity and will be waging a turf war when the future sons in law do come along to take his daughters’ virginity. I find it comical that a macho asshole like that hasn’t been able to make a boy and is stuck with just 2 girls. I’m sure they’ll try for a boy but with Josie’s clotting disorders and just the sisters’ overall health who knows. Pretty sure he views women as just good for sex so wouldn’t be surprised if Josie held sex over him to undertake such a major project for his parents. 2 1 2 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/19868-meet-the-parents-gil-and-kelly-jo-bates/page/2/#findComment-7568279
Cinnabon July 26, 2022 Share July 26, 2022 8 minutes ago, cereality said: Kelton’s gross, creepy and controlling. Doesn’t matter that he runs a biz and has money and cooks, something isn’t right with him as a person. I mean when he was starting to talk to Josie - she was going into 9th grade (if she went to school) and he was heading off to college and then he was pissed when Gil said no. Like what parent would allow that - fundie or not - it’s not even legal if they were to do stuff (not that they would but hey any relationship can go awry). And then he brought it up about 75 times - and no he wasn’t a “respectful young man.” He did a whole discussion w his dad about it when setting up the courtship ask - he can talk to his dad about whatever, he CHOSE to to it when UPTv was with him and dad. He brought it up at the freaking rehearsal dinner that G&K had said no to him 4 yrs ago as did best man Bobby in his freaking speech?! And yeah then the butt grab at the reception was a very clear - she’s mine now bitch. But then this is the dude whose birthday wish for his 2 yr old was that she remains pure for her future husband. He took it down when he got enough negative comments but he ain’t right in the head to be thinking about his toddler’s virginity and will be waging a turf war when the future sons in law do come along to take his daughters’ virginity. I find it comical that a macho asshole like that hasn’t been able to make a boy and is stuck with just 2 girls. I’m sure they’ll try for a boy but with Josie’s clotting disorders and just the sisters’ overall health who knows. Pretty sure he views women as just good for sex so wouldn’t be surprised if Josie held sex over him to undertake such a major project for his parents. I was 14 in the 8th grade - middle school. Gil should’ve told him to stay away from his daughter or he would call the police. It’s disturbing that he was ok with this guy even 4 years later, imo. 1 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/19868-meet-the-parents-gil-and-kelly-jo-bates/page/2/#findComment-7568294
Heathen July 26, 2022 Share July 26, 2022 10 hours ago, Cinnabon said: So disgusting. Will he let one of his daughters start dating a college age man when she’s still in middle school? There’s a name for men who want to date children . . . It is creepy and alarming, but considering how naive and sheltered most fundies are, I wouldn't say Kelton was a man at 18. Biologically yes, but certainly not intellectually or emotionally. He was probably Josie's peer in terms of emotional maturity. Still creepy and alarming. I would have major issues if I had an eighteen-year-old son who wanted to date a fourteen-year-old. I know a couple who started dating when she was fifteen and he was 27. I want to ask how the HELL that was allowed. What were her parents thinking and did his bother to explain he could go to prison for it? That it was creepy and disgusting at bare minimum? 5 2 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/19868-meet-the-parents-gil-and-kelly-jo-bates/page/2/#findComment-7568733
GeeGolly July 26, 2022 Share July 26, 2022 In the 40s, my mom and dad met in high school - she was 14 and he was 18 - and they married when she was 18. High schools in my area are grades 9 - 12, so ages 14 - 18. While not the norm in more modern times it wasn't unusual for a freshman to date a senior, nor illegal - to date. I'm not saying I approve of the age difference, just saying it happens. I'm also guessing these relationships didn't always include sex, but I'm sure some did. Kelton needs to get over himself because he ended up marrying Josie in spite of having to wait. 4 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/19868-meet-the-parents-gil-and-kelly-jo-bates/page/2/#findComment-7568852
Cinnabon July 26, 2022 Share July 26, 2022 3 minutes ago, GeeGolly said: In the 40s, my mom and dad met in high school - she was 14 and he was 18 - and they married when she was 18. High schools in my area are grades 9 - 12, so ages 14 - 18. While not the norm in more modern times it wasn't unusual for a freshman to date a senior, nor illegal - to date. I'm not saying I approve of the age difference, just saying it happens. I'm also guessing these relationships didn't always include sex, but I'm sure some did. Kelton needs to get over himself because he ended up marrying Josie in spite of having to wait. Yes, it’s even creepier that he continues to bring up the subject. I guess this means he’ll be ok with his own daughters courting at 14? 😡😢 3 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/19868-meet-the-parents-gil-and-kelly-jo-bates/page/2/#findComment-7568861
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