S14.E10: Sweet Home Augusta

[hoodooznoodooz]

4 hours ago, Straycat80 said:

Is this Sutton’s house or her mom’s?
Sutton’s mom is kind of an asshole. I don’t care that she’s old. 

 

4 hours ago, Stats Queen said:

You are nicer than I. I just said, what an asshole. Husband came in the room, wondering whom I was talking to. 🤣

Sutton’s mother is a supreme a$$hole.  What the what? She is/was a therapist/psychologist/psychiatrist? Patients returned for a second session?!? 
 

Sutton overcame that somehow. 
 

Bless Sutton’s father, tolerating that for so many years….

 

[ZettaK]

2 hours ago, Straycat80 said:

I thought it was funny Harry Hamlin was also on and didn’t even know about the drama with Kyle and MO’s marriage. He was just there to talk about his show and his sauces. Love him! 

I guess that he doesn't even listen when Lisa mentions something (if she ever does). 

1 hour ago, hoodooznoodooz said:

 

Sutton’s mother is a supreme a$$hole.  What the what? She is/was a therapist/psychologist/psychiatrist? Patients returned for a second session?!? 
 

Sutton overcame that somehow. 
 

Bless Sutton’s father, tolerating that for so many years….

 

This woman shouldn't be a therapist.

Edited February 5 by ZettaK

[bosawks]

I feel like I’d dislike Sutton’s mom even more but she’s saving me from even more scenes of this Dorit/PK bull, so, I’m cutting her a little slack.

[Keywestclubkid]

4 hours ago, hoodooznoodooz said:

 

 

Bless Sutton’s father, tolerating that for so many years….

 

I know this is cruel but seeing how she interacts with her child I don't want to know how she interacted with her husband .. it frames his suicide in a totally different light ..(im not saying its her fault but the coldness and everything couldn't have been good for that mans mental health itself)

 

 

6 hours ago, ZettaK said:

Kyle also said on tonight's Watch What Happens Live that all the women knew because she told them at the very beginning of filming this season that she sent texts to both PK and Dorit after they announced their separation, but they ignored it, and continued with the storyline of her "communicating" with PK. PK didn't text her to ask about the show, etc. recently. Mauricio and PK are still best friends.

Kyle is fun of shit IF that were the case why did she go along with it acting like they didn't know about the text??

second SHE brought the lesbian storyline to the show G didn't .. it wasn't a private conversation she brought that woman ON to deflect from what was going on with Mo .... 

[Baltimore Betty]

7 hours ago, dancingdreamer said:

Kathy  really  doesn't  know them very well, especially  PJ, and why is she always  hooked up to an IV, is it doing  any good? 

I always think of Katherine Helmond in the movie Brazil whenever we see Kathy in her spa treatment room hooked up to an IV and a team of people around her.

Edited February 5 by Baltimore Betty

[Mr. Miner]

9 hours ago, bencr said:

especially when Dorit loses the Bravo gig.

Hopefully after this season.

[JenE4]

Those speeches in the 2016 flashback that Dorit and PK were giving each other in front of other people were pretty cringeworthy. If it were a wedding, I’d be like these vows are overkill. It was very much giving vibes of those couples who make a big spectacle of declaring their love on each other’s Facebook pages…who are also the same couples who end up having a spectacular fight and breakup on those same Facebook pages. 👀 

Boz’s man is also giving some vibes that he might not be so genuine. She had said that her last boyfriend was a grifter—and I’m not so certain that she learned from the experience. I want to know more about what this man’s deal is. What does he bring to the table other than flattery (which he’s not exactly very good at)?

Hey, it’s possible that the Richards family had a Chinese ancestor 5,000 years ago!! I’m not sure how one traces their family tree back to 3,000 BC, but 23 & Me can tell you if you’re part Neanderthal, even. Though, it sounds like Kathy got this information maybe from a Gypsy or some type of fortune teller. She’s just so matter of fact, yep, someone told me. Though my mom has spoken to a medium that she also takes as the gospel truth.

Speaking of mothers… Yikes, Sutton wasn’t kidding about Reba! Poor Garcelle just trying to give her a gift and make conversation. Jeez, she didn’t deserve all that! 

Kyle crying to Mo about how sad it is that she has to be in their big, empty marital house all alone. Hmmm. If only you knew a realtor…. Oh, look, Mo even has The Agency emblazoned on his camouflage hat at the shooting range.

Is it really a good idea to take your estranged spouse to a shooting range?!? Okay, I guess these two are pretty much still acting like besties. But, Dorit, if PK invites you to a shooting range, I know you are desperate to talk to him, but do not go!! Too easy to “have an accident” reminiscent of your home “being burglarized.”

[Cosmocrush]

11 hours ago, Straycat80 said:

Don’t take advice from Erika, listen to Sutton or Jennifer, they seemed to do divorce right. Does PJ and Dorito even have any money or property to fight over in the first place? I don’t think so. 

I think they are fighting over the debt at this point (who is going to be responsible) and I also think there is a LOT of debt.  PK and Dorito have been living above their means for years. 

[SweetieDarling]

2 hours ago, Keywestclubkid said:

Kyle is fun of shit IF that were the case why did she go along with it acting like they didn't know about the text??

Kyle was the one that confided in Garcelle during filming that PK still texts her. Kyle brought it up, gave it life and made it a thing. If she's so offended at the others questioning her about it, she has no one to blame but herself

[Straycat80]

8 hours ago, dbell1 said:

 

Sutton needs to build a fence to keep her mother out of the main house. The scene with the mother and old guy who wasn’t identified seemed odd. Were there cut scenes? 

The old guy was identified as Reba’s ‘friend’. 

[njbchlover]

8 hours ago, hoodooznoodooz said:

 

Sutton’s mother is a supreme a$$hole.  What the what? She is/was a therapist/psychologist/psychiatrist? Patients returned for a second session?!? 
 

Sutton overcame that somehow. 
 

Bless Sutton’s father, tolerating that for so many years….

 

While, yes, Reba does not seem like a nice person, but I'm wondering how she was before her father committed suicide.  Reba may not have been quite so bitter.  Suicide does some real damage to those left behind.

However, it also seems like Reba is a very, very traditional and old-school Southern woman.  Everything is about appearances and how life looks to others.  So, Sutton divorcing an extremely successful and wealthy man, who, to all outward appearances, seemed to treat his family well, was just a big no-no in Reba's eyes.  

Is Reba a narcissist?  Probably.  Is she selfish?  It seems so.  Is she tough on her daughter?  It seems that way, and that's the sad part. 

I'm curious to see how the rest of this visit plays out.

[Keywestclubkid]

5 minutes ago, njbchlover said:

While, yes, Reba does not seem like a nice person, but I'm wondering how she was before her father committed suicide.  Reba may not have been quite so bitter.  Suicide does some real damage to those left behind.

However, it also seems like Reba is a very, very traditional and old-school Southern woman.  Everything is about appearances and how life looks to others.  So, Sutton divorcing an extremely successful and wealthy man, who, to all outward appearances, seemed to treat his family well, was just a big no-no in Reba's eyes.  

Is Reba a narcissist?  Probably.  Is she selfish?  It seems so.  Is she tough on her daughter?  It seems that way, and that's the sad part. 

I'm curious to see how the rest of this visit plays out.

while i think you trying to see the other side of Reba is kind The fact Reba was more worried about herself and how she was gonna continue to be taken care of by her daughter shows what a selfish person she was ... it wasnt about appearances to her but self preservation .. she didnt care she was getting divorced persay just more what about me ME ME

 

Mama needs to get a freaking job and take care of herself and stop mooching off her child to fund her life

 

and i dont think that coldness happened after her husband died .. i think it was always there or Sutton wouldn't have such a mommy complex with give me a shred of love please

Edited February 5 by Keywestclubkid

[njbchlover]

58 minutes ago, Straycat80 said:

The old guy was identified as Reba’s ‘friend’. 

I think his name was Mike or Jim - but I do remember that he was also identified as being "from Savannah".  I saw on the screen Mike (Jim) from Savannah, as if to make sure people would know that he wasn't living anywhere near Reba. 

[Pi237]

wow, Sutton's shrew mom makes me appreciate mine even more. Imagine growing up with THAT as a Mom during your most vulnerable years?!  If she wasn't always like this, I'd suspect some dementia happening, as those who suffer can get nasty. But it sounds like she's always been a stanky hosebeast.  Cannot believe she's a therapist. Someone check on her patients, they are Not ok. 

Lol at Reba to Kyle, "you're so pretty!"

Garcelle, "why didn't she say that to me?" 

That Augusta homestead was Gorgeous! (& No need for air conditioning with Reba there.) When Sutton said her house was only 4500 ft, I browsed my tiny house and cried a little. Was gorgeous in there. Kudooz to their decorator and landscapers. 

Dorits dogs are adorable, but we'll never forget, Dog Dumper.

Quite the flashy blouse on Keely. He and Boz are fashionably compatible.  Still like her even though this plotline is a Snoozer.  I need a compilation of Boz's reactions. She cracks me up.

UnStable Mable Kyle's got a gun?! She's a decent shot tho, who knew? She loved hearing that Mo isn't eating well. Means no live-in woman cooking for him. Its weird that they're hanging out. How do you just be friends after sharing your life as spouses that long? Must be so awkward. 

Some random lady knew Kathy's ancestry? Whoever guessed psychic, I think you're right. Her tablescape was very pretty, but the lemons shoved into the flower arrangement was hilarious.  Apologies to anyone who comes over my house and gets a paper plate and some mismatched utensils. 

Also, loved the colorful painting on Sutton's wall in Beverly Hills. Lots of decor eye candy in this episode!!❤

As for Dorit and PJ (always going to be PJ now). Wow, its getting ugly. Two grifters playing debt hot potato.  Seems Dorit is setting up her abandoned, emotionally abused, spouse defense. PJ will go for Dorit's spending being the cause of their debt.  Was surprised she said he never asked to talk to their kids. Wonder what the truth is.  Anyone who gushes that much about their spouse, is Always suspect to me.  Erika is relishing this.  Maybe this divorce will finally make Dorit interesting.

[nexxie]

Either Boz lacks basic instincts, or she’s just busy promoting her “greatest product” - but that man ain’t in it, and Dorit ain’t all that. Perhaps she can reinvent herself next season without using ijits as props.

[Natalie68]

15 hours ago, Straycat80 said:

Is this Sutton’s house or her moms? 
Sutton’s mom is kind of an asshole I don’t care that she’s old. 

Reba is a TOTAL asshole.

[Natalie68]

3 hours ago, JenE4 said:

Those speeches in the 2016 flashback that Dorit and PK were giving each other in front of other people were pretty cringeworthy. If it were a wedding, I’d be like these vows are overkill. It was very much giving vibes of those couples who make a big spectacle of declaring their love on each other’s Facebook pages…who are also the same couples who end up having a spectacular fight and breakup on those same Facebook pages. 👀 

Boz’s man is also giving some vibes that he might not be so genuine. She had said that her last boyfriend was a grifter—and I’m not so certain that she learned from the experience. I want to know more about what this man’s deal is. What does he bring to the table other than flattery (which he’s not exactly very good at)?

Hey, it’s possible that the Richards family had a Chinese ancestor 5,000 years ago!! I’m not sure how one traces their family tree back to 3,000 BC, but 23 & Me can tell you if you’re part Neanderthal, even. Though, it sounds like Kathy got this information maybe from a Gypsy or some type of fortune teller. She’s just so matter of fact, yep, someone told me. Though my mom has spoken to a medium that she also takes as the gospel truth.

Speaking of mothers… Yikes, Sutton wasn’t kidding about Reba! Poor Garcelle just trying to give her a gift and make conversation. Jeez, she didn’t deserve all that! 

Kyle crying to Mo about how sad it is that she has to be in their big, empty marital house all alone. Hmmm. If only you knew a realtor…. Oh, look, Mo even has The Agency emblazoned on his camouflage hat at the shooting range.

Is it really a good idea to take your estranged spouse to a shooting range?!? Okay, I guess these two are pretty much still acting like besties. But, Dorit, if PK invites you to a shooting range, I know you are desperate to talk to him, but do not go!! Too easy to “have an accident” reminiscent of your home “being burglarized.”

Yep <hand raised>.

1 hour ago, Pi237 said:

wow, Sutton's shrew mom makes me appreciate mine even more. Imagine growing up with THAT as a Mom during your most vulnerable years?!  If she wasn't always like this, I'd suspect some dementia happening, as those who suffer can get nasty. But it sounds like she's always been a stanky hosebeast.  Cannot believe she's a therapist. Someone check on her patients, they are Not ok. 

Lol at Reba to Kyle, "you're so pretty!"

Garcelle, "why didn't she say that to me?" 

That Augusta homestead was Gorgeous! (& No need for air conditioning with Reba there.) When Sutton said her house was only 4500 ft, I browsed my tiny house and cried a little. Was gorgeous in there. Kudooz to their decorator and landscapers. 

Dorits dogs are adorable, but we'll never forget, Dog Dumper.

Quite the flashy blouse on Keely. He and Boz are fashionably compatible.  Still like her even though this plotline is a Snoozer.  I need a compilation of Boz's reactions. She cracks me up.

UnStable Mable Kyle's got a gun?! She's a decent shot tho, who knew? She loved hearing that Mo isn't eating well. Means no live-in woman cooking for him. Its weird that they're hanging out. How do you just be friends after sharing your life as spouses that long? Must be so awkward. 

Some random lady knew Kathy's ancestry? Whoever guessed psychic, I think you're right. Her tablescape was very pretty, but the lemons shoved into the flower arrangement was hilarious.  Apologies to anyone who comes over my house and gets a paper plate and some mismatched utensils. 

Also, loved the colorful painting on Sutton's wall in Beverly Hills. Lots of decor eye candy in this episode!!❤

As for Dorit and PJ (always going to be PJ now). Wow, its getting ugly. Two grifters playing debt hot potato.  Seems Dorit is setting up her abandoned, emotionally abused, spouse defense. PJ will go for Dorit's spending being the cause of their debt.  Was surprised she said he never asked to talk to their kids. Wonder what the truth is.  Anyone who gushes that much about their spouse, is Always suspect to me.  Erika is relishing this.  Maybe this divorce will finally make Dorit interesting.

I think that Reba and her male friend have some feelings about non white folks. Reba and Sutton's dad were divorced when he killed himself if I recall.

[Keywestclubkid]

Side note I LOVE that Erika is STILL beating this drum of fleeing from her husband .. still the victim... still acting like he did something horrible to her ... GIRL you would still be with him if he didnt get caught embezzling ... stop this no matter how many times you try to make it true its NOT .. 

Edited February 5 by Keywestclubkid
Fleeing not feeling lol

[dmeets]

3 hours ago, Pi237 said:

As for Dorit and PJ (always going to be PJ now). Wow, its getting ugly. Two grifters playing debt hot potato.  Seems Dorit is setting up her abandoned, emotionally abused, spouse defense. PJ will go for Dorit's spending being the cause of their debt.  Was surprised she said he never asked to talk to their kids. Wonder what the truth is.  Anyone who gushes that much about their spouse, is Always suspect to me.  Erika is relishing this.  Maybe this divorce will finally make Dorit interesting.

The only thing that would interest me about the divorce is if, in the process of discrediting each other, someone blurts out the truth about the robberies (all of them) and about Beverly Beach.

[Feline Goddess]

17 hours ago, Straycat80 said:

Is this Sutton’s house or her moms? 
Sutton’s mom is kind of an asshole I don’t care that she’s old. 

Sutton owns the property that has the 4,500 sf main house and a smaller house where her mother lives. It sounds like her Reba depends on Sutton for financial support, so maybe she should be a bit nicer to her daughter.  Did anyone think Reba looked like an older version of Reese Witherspoon? 

[bencr]

Would you insert yourself in the middle of a difficult family dynamic, and if a friend offered to do so would you acquiesce? For me, that's a big hell no.

[Salacious Kitty]

7 minutes ago, bencr said:

Would you insert yourself in the middle of a difficult family dynamic, and if a friend offered to do so would you acquiesce? For me, that's a big hell no.

Well, based on the preview for next week, Garcelle is going to get as n earful from Reba about it being none of her business. 

[bencr]

Sutton's mother is an opinionated, blunt, ornery old woman who is difficult to please and slow to give complements. She also raised Sutton, sent her to college, enabled her to pursue a career in dance and probably helped make her tough and independent. The mother is not likable, but I wouldn't call her an asshole based solely on what we have heard and seen.

[Cosmocrush]

7 hours ago, Pi237 said:

Her (Kathy) tablescape was very pretty, but the lemons shoved into the flower arrangement was hilarious.  Apologies to anyone who comes over my house and gets a paper plate and some mismatched utensils. 

I actually lol when she told us how throwing a dinner party (for three HWs) was EXHAUSTING.   Unless she meant exhausting for her staff setting the table, making the food, and cleaning it up.  Geeze, the woman doesn't even bother to get herself ready - she's got a whole team to do that while she lounges around. 

Edited February 5 by Cosmocrush

[Cosmocrush]

45 minutes ago, bencr said:

Sutton's mother is an opinionated, blunt, ornery old woman who is difficult to please and slow to give complements. She also raised Sutton, sent her to college, enabled her to pursue a career in dance and probably helped make her tough and independent. The mother is not likable, but I wouldn't call her an asshole based solely on what we have heard and seen.

Exactly.  No one is just one thing.   

I had a similar mother, with narcissistic tendencies and was also smart, hardworking and independent with (long before wives and mothers were independent) with lots of friends and I miss her everyday. 

[nicole21290]

11 hours ago, Keywestclubkid said:

is fun of shit IF that were the case why did she go along with it acting like they didn't know about the text??

second SHE brought the lesbian storyline to the show G didn't .. it wasn't a private conversation she brought that woman ON to deflect from what was going on with Mo .... 

During the S1 After Show, Dorit and Kyle both talked about the fact that she also sent Dorit a text. Apparently, there was even a scene Kyle filmed where she talked to Erika about it on the phone, but it didn't make the final cut.

She didn't bring a "lesbian storyline onto the show". She brought a friend onto the show and people have assumed that they had a sexual relationship. Mauricio was also the one of the two who insisted on trying to act as if nothing was wrong in the relationship (see the kiss her gave her). Kyle has now talked about questioning her sexuality, and apparently had a private conversation with Garcelle and felt that that shared trust was weaponised for a moment onscreen in telling Kyle she can be a lesbian if she wants to be. Jus because we interpret her actions a certain way or she says she's open to dating women doesn't mean the door is wide open and it's okay to label her sexuality.

9 hours ago, JenE4 said:

Kyle crying to Mo about how sad it is that she has to be in their big, empty marital house all alone. Hmmm. If only you knew a realtor…. Oh, look, Mo even has The Agency emblazoned on his camouflage hat at the shooting range.

Kyle has said that she and Mauricio have now had conversations about the marital home and seem to be leaning towards leasing it rather than selling it. 

8 hours ago, SweetieDarling said:

Kyle was the one that confided in Garcelle during filming that PK still texts her. Kyle brought it up, gave it life and made it a thing. If she's so offended at the others questioning her about it, she has no one to blame but herself

Kyle has said that that scene edited out some of the context. She elaborated in an interview that the "PK reaches out" was about the way he would text her in the wake of HER separation. Apparently, Mauricio sometimes would tell him when Kyle was going through a hard time of it, so he would reach out to check on her. 

[Keywestclubkid]

4 minutes ago, nicole21290 said:

During the S1 After Show, Dorit and Kyle both talked about the fact that she also sent Dorit a text. Apparently, there was even a scene Kyle filmed where she talked to Erika about it on the phone, but it didn't make the final cut.

She didn't bring a "lesbian storyline onto the show". She brought a friend onto the show and people have assumed that they had a sexual relationship. Mauricio was also the one of the two who insisted on trying to act as if nothing was wrong in the relationship (see the kiss her gave her). Kyle has now talked about questioning her sexuality, and apparently had a private conversation with Garcelle and felt that that shared trust was weaponised for a moment onscreen in telling Kyle she can be a lesbian if she wants to be. Jus because we interpret her actions a certain way or she says she's open to dating women doesn't mean the door is wide open and it's okay to label her sexuality.

Kyle has said that she and Mauricio have now had conversations about the marital home and seem to be leaning towards leasing it rather than selling it. 

Kyle has said that that scene edited out some of the context. She elaborated in an interview that the "PK reaches out" was about the way he would text her in the wake of HER separation. Apparently, Mauricio sometimes would tell him when Kyle was going through a hard time of it, so he would reach out to check on her. 

See my explanation in her personal thread about the lesbian storyline that she definitely brought .. and played up on .. she thrived and giggled about the rumors it’s ON camera 

Edited February 5 by Keywestclubkid

[nicole21290]

2 minutes ago, Keywestclubkid said:

See my explanation in her personal thread about the lesbian storyline that she definitely brought .. and played up on .. she thrived and giggled about the rumors it’s ON camera 

What they were laughing about when they filmed the music video (a month prior to the separation news) was a very small number of rumours that existed, primarily on a couple of Reddit threads and some isolated social media comments. When those rumours became Bravo blog deep-dives and the media started straight up calling Morgan Kyle's "lesbian lover" and implicating her in the now known separation, obviously that changed their approach and view about the 'storyline'. And that phrasing is odd to me. It's her actual life. 

[Keywestclubkid]

1 minute ago, nicole21290 said:

What they were laughing about when they filmed the music video (a month prior to the separation news) was a very small number of rumours that existed, primarily on a couple of Reddit threads and some isolated social media comments. When those rumours became Bravo blog deep-dives and the media started straight up calling Morgan Kyle's "lesbian lover" and implicating her in the now known separation, obviously that changed their approach and view about the 'storyline'. And that phrasing is odd to me. It's her actual life. 

did you watch the season even the girls going through that season with her were asking these questions it wasn't a deep dive caught off the internet it was real time shooting with her ...  l

[nicole21290]

20 minutes ago, Keywestclubkid said:

did you watch the season even the girls going through that season with her were asking these questions it wasn't a deep dive caught off the internet it was real time shooting with her ...  l

I watched the season. Dorit was the only one who was asking anything on-camera about Morgan at the time of filming, whatever they might've been thinking. 

[Keywestclubkid]

5 minutes ago, nicole21290 said:

I watched the season. Dorit was the only one who was asking anything on-camera about Morgan at the time of filming, whatever they might've been thinking. 

But you said it only caught on after filming .. if Dorit was asking the same questions and Kyle was being coy playing up the “vibe” then your excuse of it was the internets fault falls apart 

 

ok we gotta back up out of the round about .. we arnt gonna agree .. and it’s getting off topic for this episode I apologize guys 

Edited February 6 by Keywestclubkid

[ButterQueen]

22 hours ago, QQQQ said:

I'm only two years younger than PJ? Shoot me. Being married to Dorit really takes a toll 😅 Also Dorit looks about 25 lbs lighter now compared to the 2022 flashback, and that's not a compliment. I wonder what his first wife and older kids think about the situation.

Her face looked completely different too.

[ww92]

23 hours ago, Stats Queen said:

You are nicer than me. I just said what an asshole. Husband came in the room wondering who I was talking to 🤣

I cannot believe she's a therapist! OMG.

 

21 hours ago, bencr said:

When I heard about the 10 year/50% law, I couldn't help but wonder if Dorit would be better off pressing for a speedier divorce to keep PK from getting half HER money, or a slower divorce to make sure she gets half HIS money. We know Dorit has Bravo money, but how much money does PK have considering his lawsuits, gambling debts, and all? I suppose he may have more potential for future earnings, especially when Dorit loses the Bravo gig.

Do we think that PK has money stashed in the UK? And if he does, would Dorit be able to get her hands on it in a divorce? Especially if it's in some kind of business or whatever they call LLC's in the UK?

The way she described his email where she said he went on and on about finances and how she'd have to start paying the mortgage and other bills makes me think he blames her for blowing what money they had on things like designer clothes. I'm sure that didn't help things any but neither did his gambling debts.

[ButterQueen]

I’m PJ all the way.

I think Mo is over Kyle.  No way that man eats canned soup.  He’s dining with other women….oh, and PJ.  😂

[Surrealist]

Did anyone else notice that Kathy looked downright annoyed when Boz started asking her questions about Kyle's personality, and also when Dorit was talking about PK?

I kind of felt a vitriolic vibe coming off her during lunch.

[hoodooznoodooz]

What kind of grandmother says that her grandchild is weird?

[Surrealist]

7 minutes ago, hoodooznoodooz said:

What kind of grandmother says that her grandchild is weird?

An asshole

[ww92]

20 minutes ago, Surrealist said:

Did anyone else notice that Kathy looked downright annoyed when Boz started asking her questions about Kyle's personality, and also when Dorit was talking about PK?

I kind of felt a vitriolic vibe coming off her during lunch.

Well, to be fair, that was pretty rude of Boz to do. I don't remember if Kathy and Boz knew each other at all before the show but Boz was a guest at Kathy's house and Kyle is Kathy's sister. What exactly did Boz think Kathy was going to say?

7 minutes ago, hoodooznoodooz said:

What kind of grandmother says that her grandchild is weird?

The asshole kind.

1 minute ago, Surrealist said:

An asshole

Jinx!

[Surrealist]

13 minutes ago, ww92 said:

Well, to be fair, that was pretty rude of Boz to do. I don't remember if Kathy and Boz knew each other at all before the show but Boz was a guest at Kathy's house and Kyle is Kathy's sister. What exactly did Boz think Kathy was going to say?

It's similar to Garcelle inserting herself into the Sutton/Reba standoff.

Except, maybe, Garcelle and Sutton are friends as where Boz and Kathy don't seem to have ever been.

[Starlight925]

My mother was very Reba-like, and I can tell you, with a selfish narcissist like that, there is no Hallmark moment.  They just pass away, you deal with the logistics of their passing, and you go on with your life.

In my case, years of therapy, particularly with a therapist who works with adult children of a narcissistic mother, helped me realize that her coldness and worries about how my life choices affected her, were on her, not me.

My mother didn't speak to me for 6 months when I divorced my husband, her "perfect" son-in-law, who was from a very wealthy family, so my mother felt ashamed of me for causing her the disassociation.  If I hadn't reached out, we may never have spoken.

I had the most wonderful, amazing father who, for whatever his reasons, put up with her crap and loved us through it all.  Had it not been for him, I'd probably be a drugged up loser.

So my hope for Sutton is that she's gotten/gets the right type of therapy to realize that she is worthy.  She's a great mom who built a nice business, a nice set of friends, and a great life.  Reba be damned.

Edited February 6 by Starlight925

[ButterQueen]

1 hour ago, Surrealist said:

It's similar to Garcelle inserting herself into the Sutton/Reba standoff.

Except, maybe, Garcelle and Sutton are friends as where Boz and Kathy don't seem to have ever been.

For me, the difference is that Sutton asked Garcelle to insert herself.  BOZ, who adds nothing, was being rude.

[Cosmocrush]

1 hour ago, hoodooznoodooz said:

What kind of grandmother says that her grandchild is weird?

On camera to people she just met!  I really liked Garcelle's quick response, to smile and say, "I've got one too."   Weird isn't necessarily bad but I think having your Grandma say that about you on TV would  be hurtful. 

[princelina]

5 hours ago, bencr said:

Sutton's mother is an opinionated, blunt, ornery old woman who is difficult to please and slow to give complements. She also raised Sutton, sent her to college, enabled her to pursue a career in dance and probably helped make her tough and independent. The mother is not likable, but I wouldn't call her an asshole based solely on what we have heard and seen.

She's also presumably watched Sutton make an ass out of herself on TV off and on for several years, yet she's showing up on Sutton's show to give her a sympathetic storyline.  🙄

[Blueeyedgirl]

On 2/4/2025 at 6:19 PM, njbchlover said:

 

And, in the event they do, they are past the ten year mark, so that 50/50 community property clause will apply.  

I feel the need to clarify this: The ten year rule in California is only about the length of time of spousal support. Otherwise, California is a no-fault community property state - community property is defined as assets that are acquired or grow from the date of marriage. (Like, with my ex, he owned the house before we met, I was entitled to half of the appreciation on the house, not half of the entire house.)  (Unless, of course, you have a pre-nuptial...)

[Surrealist]

1 hour ago, ButterQueen said:

For me, the difference is that Sutton asked Garcelle to insert herself.  BOZ, who adds nothing, was being rude.

For sure. Also thank you for reminding me of this point. 🙂

[Keywestclubkid]

8 hours ago, princelina said:

She's also presumably watched Sutton make an ass out of herself on TV off and on for several years, yet she's showing up on Sutton's show to give her a sympathetic storyline.  🙄

ummm i dont think this woman would do anything for Sutton intentionally that involved giving her sympathy ... thats not who Reba is...

 

And she was on the show a couple seasons before (they flashed back to it)  ... literately just sitting in her face with no feelings at her store when she was trying to discuses her feelings with her dads suicide ... I dont think this is the show trotting her out all the sudden out of nowhere ... this isnt to get her sympathy its just who Reba is a cold cold woman

Edited February 6 by Keywestclubkid

[lasu]

You know, sometimes forget just how rich these people are. Then Mo just casually mentions he has eggs in his fridge, like nbd.

What a life...being able to afford a fresh dozen in 2025. Sigh. 

[Baltimore Betty]

Reba thinks it is Sutton's job to provide for her, she lives in a nice house with a beautiful garden, has her bills paid, etc...it smacks of Kandi's mother, Mama Joyce.  When you are raised by a narcissist you become a people pleaser to someone who will never be pleased by you.

Any chance we have The Mothers of The Real Housewives Ultimate Girls Trip, those two should be forced to room together, with bunkbeds.

[Cosmocrush]

2 hours ago, Keywestclubkid said:

And she was on the show a couple seasons before (they flashed back to it)  ... literately just sitting in her face with no feelings at her store when she was trying to discuses her feelings with her dads suicide ... I dont think this is the show trotting her out all the sudden out of nowhere ... this isnt to get her sympathy its just who Reba is a cold cold woman

Watching Sutton so desperate to get any sign of approval from her mother for her vanity boutique was jarring,  since Sutton generally seems so confident.  It makes me wonder why Reba agreed to be on the show again; surely she knows how cold she appeared. 

 

[Keywestclubkid]

6 minutes ago, Cosmocrush said:

Watching Sutton so desperate to get any sign of approval from her mother for her vanity boutique was jarring,  since Sutton generally seems so confident.  It makes me wonder why Reba agreed to be on the show again; surely she knows how cold she appeared. 

 

thats what a narcissist does tho .. they don't see anything wrong with their actions .. she prob didn't bat an eye about being on camera again cause she doesn't act inappropriate its other people ... plus being a psychiatrist she thinks shes smarter then the average rube so she cant be seen in a bad light ..

 

all speculation but it does fit