90DF Live Chat 3: I Gave Up Everything To Be Here

[Eldemarge]

3 minutes ago, Pepper Mostly said:

He invited a stranger into her home, without asking her. What a dick.

God, he's a prick.  And imagine the dinner.  Him trying to fluff himself up for that girl he met in a bar, and totally ignoring his girlfriend in her own home.  

[Suzywriter]

Just now, greekmom said:

i think Jovi would drink him under the table.

Christian seems all talk

Jovi could drink a liquid tanker under the table. 

[Mrs. Landingham]

3 minutes ago, sainte-chapelle said:

I met so many Americans there 😂 

Same! I travel to England twice a year (London and up in the north west and north east of the country) and I always encounter American students and residents.

Edited August 28, 2023 by Mrs. Landingham

[greekmom]

Just now, Suzywriter said:

I am a strong proponent of "what about his wife?".
His wife has told me "I don't care what he does as long as he stays away from me."  She's kind of prickly in general. The irony, huh?  I'm not justifying...but when I say they're staying together because they have financial and social reasons to do so, I'm not just taking his word for it. 

Now that I've outed myself as a wanton slut, it's important for me to say that I don't play the game of hurting other women.  

no,NOT AT ALL. 

my advice. if the wife is cool with it. Go for it.

You only live once.

[Floatingbison]

3 minutes ago, sainte-chapelle said:

I met so many Americans there 😂 

It used to be trendy to be an ex-pat there.

[Doublemint]

5 minutes ago, Auntie Anxiety said:

Did Christian take the giblets out of the turkey before roasting it? 

It looked like a turkey breast.  Don't recall they have giblets.

[MagicEyes]

Just now, Suzywriter said:

Jovi could drink a liquid tanker under the table.

Jovi isn’t going to age well. He’ll look like a hard 60 by the time he’s 40.

[Tuneful]

Christian is a man-baby whose emotional development probably stopped around age 16 or 17 is my nonexpert guess. He's distracted  by whatever shiny new thing is in front of him at that moment, and, yes, I think he does seek validation form women. It was odd IMO to invite a stranger to an intimate holiday dinner with the woman he is in a relationship with, and her friend. Personally I'd also be turned off by now by his drinking habit. Oh, and his backward ball cap and open-mouth gum chewing in the cab? Gross. 

Edited August 28, 2023 by Tuneful

[For Cereals]

Just now, Suzywriter said:

I am a strong proponent of "what about his wife?".
His wife has told me "I don't care what he does as long as he stays away from me."  She's kind of prickly in general. The irony, huh?  I'm not justifying...but when I say they're staying together because they have financial and social reasons to do so, I'm not just taking his word for it. 

Now that I've outed myself as a wanton slut, it's important for me to say that I don't play the game of hurting other women.  

Safe place.  You are amongst friends and not a wanton slut.  There are 52 years of feelings there.  It’s hard to ignore.  You have time to think it over, weigh all the possibilities, and then act accordingly.  “You will do the right thing.” ….for you 

[Auntie Anxiety]

Gino, think long and hard. Is this how you want your life to be when you’re married to Jasmine? 

[Gobi]

"I don't want to leave him because of money." Jasmine unwittingly reveals the truth.

[MagicEyes]

Gino is so over it. I think they’re done.

[greekmom]

bleed him dry

[Shelbie]

I have real trouble believing Jasmine is 35. She looks older than that even with her plastic surgery.

[Suzywriter]

1 minute ago, greekmom said:

no,NOT AT ALL. 

my advice. if the wife is cool with it. Go for it.

You only live once.

Thank you all for talking this out with me. I'm not under any impression that this dude is pining away.  The jury is still out...I'm leaning towards "It was a great kiss, but you're married. "

[Bees52]

What is Jasmine doing for Gino besides screaming at him and trying out butt plugs? 🤷🏿‍♀️

[Gobi]

"I don't even get to piss on you anymore!"

[MagicEyes]

When’s the Tell-All? This one is going to be juicy!

[Pepper Mostly]

Just now, For Cereals said:

Safe place.  You are amongst friends and not a wanton slut.  There are 52 years of feelings there.  It’s hard to ignore.  You have time to think it over, weigh all the possibilities, and then act accordingly.  “You will do the right thing.” ….for you 

I agree with this. No one here would dare judge. Do what you think is right. If your friendship can handle the repercussions, then why not? 

[Shelbie]

Does Gino realize we can see his bare scalp when he pushes his hat up ?

[mmecorday]

"I guess every form of refuge has its price" ~ The Eagles

[Suzywriter]

1 minute ago, Auntie Anxiety said:

Gino, think long and hard. Is this how you want your life to be when you’re married to Jasmine? 

If it's this bad now, lord....what will it be like when this woman is in his actual space. Why doesn't he just stick with sugar babies?

[magemaud]

I think the Tell All was filmed recently. 
 

Spoiler

People saw Gino and Violet in NYC last week 

 

Edited August 28, 2023 by magemaud

[ezzy4]

Gino/jasmine HAVE to be fake, right? Like is it possible to be that dysfunctional.  If they are for real then they really deserve each other. Ug. Next.

[Auntie Anxiety]

Gino, get your doctor to write you a prescription for GrowACet and go back home.

[Suzywriter]

Just now, mmecorday said:

"I guess every form of refuge has its price" ~ The Eagles

Does that ever apply!

[MagicEyes]

If I ever find myself in a relationship, I will never act like this.

[Auntie Anxiety]

No, you are.

No, you are.

[Gobi]

Just now, Pepper Mostly said:

I agree with this. No one here would dare judge. Do what you think is right. If your friendship can handle the repercussions, then why not? 

Let she who is without sin throw the first butt plug.

[Pepper Mostly]

I feel a deep and abiding sympathy for Jasmine's neighbors. Imagine. Though maybe they enjoy a little cabaret.

[CSunshine76]

Dear God please let these lunatics break up and be done with this show.

[greekmom]

did the fucker call HER a whore?

takes one to know one

[Mrs. Landingham]

Wow, Gino andJasmine are couple goals. 

[Auntie Anxiety]

Jasmine: This is it. This is it.

Me: I fucking HOPE this is it.

[MagicEyes]

Who’s going to buy Jasmine high-quality extensions now? 

[LEILANI2]

6 minutes ago, For Cereals said:

Safe place.  You are amongst friends and not a wanton slut.  There are 52 years of feelings there.  It’s hard to ignore.  You have time to think it over, weigh all the possibilities, and then act accordingly.  “You will do the right thing.” ….for you 

If you're looking to invigorate yourself I  think you should hit up Tinder and find you a nice young stud who can make you feel like a queen in bed and has stamina and a great body. 

These old men, and that's almost all men over 30ish are sad sacks in bed and have too much baggage.

I was divorced and wasting my time on trying to get remarried and dating men who were so boring, finally I decided one day to hit up Tinder and next thing I know I'm dating like the Jesse's of the world.

It really gave me a whole new perspective on myself. 

And no this is not Darcey.

 

Edited August 28, 2023 by LEILANI2

[sainte-chapelle]

Just now, Pepper Mostly said:

I agree with this. No one here would dare judge. Do what you think is right. If your friendship can handle the repercussions, then why not? 

Exactly. If the friendship won’t be damaged and friends and family won’t cause you any issues then it’s up to you! No judgement here friend. 

[MagicEyes]

Just now, Pepper Mostly said:

 

I feel a deep and abiding sympathy for Jasmine's neighbors. Imagine. Though maybe they enjoy a little cabaret.

 

Dinner and a show!

[Eldemarge]

Well, it seems like Jasmine is doing okay...

[Suzywriter]

4 minutes ago, Shelbie said:

I have real trouble believing Jasmine is 35. She looks older than that even with her plastic surgery.

I'm guessing 42, and the sister-daughter is probably 23 or 24, not 21. Did you see how non-plussed she was over that "21st birthday" celebration?

[judylo]

8 minutes ago, greekmom said:

no,NOT AT ALL. 

my advice. if the wife is cool with it. Go for it.

You only live once.

I am inclined to agree, given the circumstances.

[Pepper Mostly]

Christian hates to feel that he's doing something wrong by being himself. He'd rather spend his time telling Cleo she's doing something wrong by being herself. 

[Suzywriter]

2 minutes ago, LEILANI2 said:

If you're looking to invigorate yourself I  think you should hit up Tinder and find you a nice young stud who can make you feel like a queen in bed and has stamina and a great body. 

These old men, and that's almost all men over 30ish are sad sacks in bed and have too much baggage.

 

 

I need you to be my personal life coach. 

[mmecorday]

Good night, everyone! Hope everyone has a great week. I am off to do my usual Sunday night thing -- have some wine and watch Reels on Facebook until I'm sleepy. 

[Pepper Mostly]

OK peeps, thanks for all the laughs! Have a great night and see most of you tomorrow, I hope! I love you all, MWAH!

[greekmom]

well guys its been fun and the snark helped me ignore the pain (along with the whisky )

Hopefully I can get an appointment with my osteopath this week!

Have a great night!

[Suzywriter]

Ohhh, Meri's looking rough! I'm headed over to Sister Wives.  Thanks everybody!

[Auntie Anxiety]

The two hours flew by tonight! Must be your scintillating insights. Have a great week, loves. The end of summer is upon us and I still feel like it’s only June! Where did the weeks go? Be well and play safe. Ciao.

[MagicEyes]

I’m going to sit here and wait for the flood. I might see you all next week if I don’t get washed downstream.

[Gobi]

If Jasmine really had sex with her ex a month ago and filmed it, how much bigger of a red flag does Gino need?