Hazel & Tarik: The Filipina Angelina Jolie & A Guy Who Isn't Brad Pitt Anywhere

[Chalby]

On 8/26/2018 at 4:57 PM, bref said:

Men really do think with their dicks, I guess?

From what I have viewed, Tarik is a Hound dog, looking to get laid. The idea of Hazel being bisexual is a great thing to Tarik because he probably thinks there will be tons of threesomes. Meanwhile, the last thing two young ladies involved intimately would want is a chubby 48 year old man thinking he'll be the "icing on their cake."

Edited December 26, 2020 by Chalby

[Raja]

4 hours ago, Chalby said:

From what I have viewed, Tarik is a Hound dog, looking to get laid. The idea of Hazel being bisexual is a great thing to Tarik because he probably thinks there will be tons of threesomes. Meanwhile, the last thing two young ladies involved intimately would want is a chubby 48 year old man thinking he'll be the "icing on their cake."

Especially since their story started on Before the petition was basically did Hazel give it up to him. Porn without the money shot.

Edited December 26, 2020 by Raja

[1011101010001]

4 hours ago, Chalby said:

From what I have viewed, Tarik is a Hound dog, looking to get laid. The idea of Hazel being bisexual is a great thing to Tarik because he probably thinks there will be tons of threesomes. Meanwhile, the last thing two young ladies involved intimately would want is a chubby 48 year old man thinking he'll be the "icing on their cake."

Compared to Dean he’s svelte lol.

[Gobi]

8 hours ago, Chalby said:

he'll be the "icing on their cake."

That's an image I didn't need.

[Christina]

Dean's telling his side:

Cut and paste

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’90 Day Bares All’ Preview: Dean Hashim Reveals Why He Cut Brother Tarik Myers Out of His Life

By Emily Longeretta  January 7, 2021

Putting it all on the line. Dean Hashim is opening up about his broken relationship with brother Tarik Myers. On the Sunday, January 10, episode of 90 Day Bares All, the reality star opens up about that blow-up fight that took place between him and his brother during Pillow Talk in April 2019 — the argument that caused him to cut ties with Tarik.

“Everybody who was in that room, when we had that 20-minute argument and he’s standing over me with his veins out of his neck like a maniac, they know why,” Dean, 45, says in Us Weekly‘s exclusive sneak peek. “They know why because they witnessed how volatile things get between us and it’s like, ‘Why? For what?’”

Dean first appeared on his brother’s season of 90 Day Fiancé, before joining 90 Day Fiancé: Pillow Talk and 90 Day Fiancé: Self-Quarantined. However, he stopped filming Pillow Talk with his brother after the fight.

“I got tired of all of that underlying tension, drama. The final straw that made me make that decision was that big-ass argument, because it’s, like, ‘What are you proving? What are you doing?'” Dean continued. “It just looked foolish to me, and it was stupid and I was embarrassed. I felt like that was ridiculous.”

On the first episode of 90 Day Bares All, Tarik, 43, joined the show and slammed his brother for quitting.

“We finished filming the last episode of Pillow Talk that we did. Afterward, Dean and I went out, chopped it up, you know, went and got some dinner. He goes back home, I go back home thinking everything is great. A week later, the executive producer of Pillow Talk calls me like, ‘Yo, uh, your brother quit.’ Out of the blue. I had no idea that Dean had all of these problems with me. He just went completely two-faced on me,” Tarik said on the premiere. “We were, to put it mildly, very popular on Pillow Talk and we were getting paid well. So, you know, I’m not hurting financially, you know, but Dean knew the plans that we had for investments and all kinds of things.”

In the new sneak peek, Tarik is waiting backstage while listening to Dean’s interview.

 

[Christina]

Dean and his girlfriend, Rigin, are expecting a boy this spring. I wonder if he'll get cast on the show now.

 

[Christina]

I thought this was a joke, but it's real. Tarik's rapper name is Dirt Dayoh and his album is named The Working Man's Gangsta

 

[Mrs. Hanson]

On 1/23/2021 at 7:44 AM, Christina said:

I thought this was a joke, but it's real. Tarik's rapper name is Dirt Dayoh and his album is named The Working Man's Gangsta

 

Okay but where is the song "Hot Sauce"????  When we eat dinner I have to sing that to my hubby.  Yes, he asks me to stop, while laughing of course.  

[itsadryheat]

Threelationship? 

Amazon gives you a sampling of all his greatest hits

https://www.amazon.com/Working-Mans-Gangsta-Explicit/dp/B07JKY2NGJ

Edited January 26, 2021 by itsadryheat

[sainte-chapelle]

This still cracks me up. Hazel “What is this?”

 

[Mrs. Hanson]

4 hours ago, sainte-chapelle said:

This still cracks me up. Hazel “What is this?”

 

"What is that?"  It is a rap song, girl!!!!  These two have the least amount of chemistry, ever, and that is saying something!

[Polliwollidoodle]

On 1/27/2021 at 12:59 PM, Mrs. Hanson said:

"What is that?"  It is a rap song, girl!!!!  These two have the least amount of chemistry, ever, and that is saying something!

100% on this. I think Tarik could have chemistry with someone but Hazel is the one who I think is the robotic one. She is so unenthused about everything. I keep trying to understand how she can explain or reconcile her being "bisexual" ( which I don't think I believe) with her fiercely religious background family. Remember how she is so upset about not getting married in a proper church and her family will sosooooo disappointed and all but it's cool and normal and natural  to be on tv talking about having threesomes in a marriage. 

Sure, this is all so real and believable.

[Frozendiva]

https://soapdirt.com/90-day-fiance-tarik-myers-files-bankruptcy-court-papers-confirm-hazel-marriage/

[Mrs. Hanson]

On 1/31/2021 at 6:17 AM, Polliwollidoodle said:

100% on this. I think Tarik could have chemistry with someone but Hazel is the one who I think is the robotic one. She is so unenthused about everything. I keep trying to understand how she can explain or reconcile her being "bisexual" ( which I don't think I believe) with her fiercely religious background family. Remember how she is so upset about not getting married in a proper church and her family will sosooooo disappointed and all but it's cool and normal and natural  to be on tv talking about having threesomes in a marriage. 

Sure, this is all so real and believable.

Yes, there is something kinda "off" about her.  I said it before, I will say it again:  Walk into a church, say you are not a member but want to get married in less than 90 days and oh by the way I want to have a three way marriage with a young child in the house.

[Chalby]

On 2/12/2021 at 11:01 AM, Mrs. Hanson said:

Yes, there is something kinda "off" about her.  I said it before, I will say it again:  Walk into a church, say you are not a member but want to get married in less than 90 days and oh by the way I want to have a three way marriage with a young child in the house.

I don't see Hazel as having any issues other than she'll say and do anything Tarik wants if it guarantees her son has a future. When she asked Tarik if he brought her to the US to clean his house, my "WTF?" feelers went up. There's an understanding between them that the viewers aren't privy to. If she's going to agree to a marriage, shes entitled  to at least choose the church.

[CrazyInAlabama]

So, since Hazel's on a K-1, can they actually import another partner for her?  Or for both of them?   

[Gobi]

3 minutes ago, CrazyInAlabama said:

So, since Hazel's on a K-1, can they actually import another partner for her?  Or for both of them?   

Seemed like they were looking for someone already here. And with no minty aftertaste.

[Raja]

2 hours ago, CrazyInAlabama said:

So, since Hazel's on a K-1, can they actually import another partner for her?  Or for both of them?   

IMBRA would kick in if Tarik were to not marry and try to petition someone else. Hazel can't petition anyone, not even her son, until she receives citizenship. When time comes to remove Hazel's conditions on staying for permanent residence someone at USCIS might conclude that the marriage was for convenience and deny her green card but in a couple of years polyamorous relationships might become accepted like same sex relationships became accepted 8 years ago. And in that case approves her permanent residence 

 

 

Edited March 9, 2021 by Raja

[Stuckathome]

I get why Hazel is doing this....I don't remember much about the original season when Tarik went to the Philippines to meet her and the family, but if it is anything like the others we have seen, I am sure she was living in some pretty sad conditions. Tarik does seem enamored of her, she seems to like his daughter and be all on board with mothering her. That is what is in it for Hazel---a huge step up in quality of life in terms of stability and safety and a chance to provide a better future for her kids. Now.....Tarik? Not sure because he has said he LOVES Thai women and there are plenty of Thai equivalents of Hazel out there. Maybe Minty isn't desperate to leave Thailand? Otherwise I don't understand why he went back to Hazel. I don't see any chemistry between the two....

 

Hazel has that dead look in her eyes and flat voice that I have seen in documentaries about foreign sex workers or women who were victims of sex trafficking.....she has just been through and seen so much crap that she is dead inside and just in survival mode. 

[The Goon]

his original rap name was Dirt Bourdain. 

[Gobi]

1 minute ago, The Goon said:

his original rap name was Dirt Bourdain. 

This can't be real!

[charmed1]

On 3/12/2021 at 9:47 PM, The Goon said:

his original rap name was Dirt Bourdain. 

Oh Tarik honey. Even on your best day and on Chad’s worst, you will never, EVER. What a weird ass dude.

Edited March 16, 2021 by charmed1

[Booger666]

I just brought my husband some mint chip ice cream and he said “I’m glad you’re not opposed to bringing Minty into our relationship.”  I’m dead y’all 😂

[Mrs. Hanson]

On 3/20/2021 at 3:59 PM, Booger666 said:

I just brought my husband some mint chip ice cream and he said “I’m glad you’re not opposed to bringing Minty into our relationship.”  I’m dead y’all 😂

That is a relationship goal I can only dare to dream to have myself!

Hazel, just admit you are full on gay and get it over with!

[CrazyInAlabama]

I couldn't believe Tarik putting the chairs in the van, while wearing his white wedding suit, and setting up the wedding venue in his wedding outfit.    He should have done that in another order.    

Edited March 27, 2021 by CrazyInAlabama

[Scarlett45]

On 3/27/2021 at 6:28 PM, CrazyInAlabama said:

I couldn't believe Tarik putting the chairs in the van, while wearing his white wedding suit, and setting up the wedding venue in his wedding outfit.    He should have done that in another order.    

Yeah- maybe someone else was supposed to do it and backed out, or there was a miscommunication so he just decided to do it. Given it was June 2020 and this was the first chance they had to have some type of ceremony I get why logistically it wouldn’t have been smooth. 
 

I actually like Tarik- I think he’s a decent person who’s self supporting, he’s parenting his daughter, he has friends, and I think he will treat Hazel well. Just a “normal basic guy”. He’s not winning any medals but compared to the train wrecks here, I’d choose Tariq over any of the other men featured this season. Jovi seems like he would be a lot of fun, but he drinks too much for me (I am a tee totaler so that wouldn’t work), Zied also seems to have a nice sense of humor, so it would be between Tariq and Zied. If I needed someone who could support me and improve my quality of life Tariq would not be a bad choice. 
 

I really want to know what happened between he and Dean. 

[Gobi]

10 hours ago, Scarlett45 said:I really want to know what happened between he and Dean. 

I’m pretty sure it’s explained on Tarik & Hazel’s couples thread, or there are links there to articles explaining it.

[Scarlett45]

15 minutes ago, Gobi said:

I’m pretty sure it’s explained on Tarik & Hazel’s couples thread, or there are links there to articles explaining it.

I will crawl back through this thread and look, if I recall it was something about non disclosure with TLC and Dean chatting with a woman online after giving Tarik grief about doing the same thing. 

[Mrs. Hanson]

Okay, so I am teaching the "au" sound to a student next week.  Yes, I used the word sauce for word dictation and then I had to use the word the "hot sauce" in a sentence in honor of Tarik's awesome rap song.  Yes, the year needs to be over.  And I need a life.

[invisiblegirl12]

Tarek posted on his Instagram this morning, taking down the Philippino flag and commenting: "AHAS. And let me be clear. I'm talking about one person. No disrespect to the country of the Philippines at all. #TarX #90Dayfiance"

Looks like Tarek and Hazel may be done. 😬

[Gobi]

24 minutes ago, invisiblegirl12 said:

Tarek posted on his Instagram this morning, taking down the Philippino flag and commenting: "AHAS. And let me be clear. I'm talking about one person. No disrespect to the country of the Philippines at all. #TarX #90Dayfiance"

Looks like Tarek and Hazel may be done. 😬

Maybe Hazel noticed he had minty breath.

[invisiblegirl12]

5 minutes ago, Gobi said:

Maybe Hazel noticed he had minty breath.

Orrr... Hazel had the minty breath! 🤔

[Stuckathome]

1 hour ago, invisiblegirl12 said:

AHAS.

I saw that and admit I was thoroughly confused...what does AHAS stand for?? 

[invisiblegirl12]

58 minutes ago, Stuckathome said:

I saw that and admit I was thoroughly confused...what does AHAS stand for?? 

Someone commented that it means "snake" in Tagalog.

[Kath94]

I guess Filipina Hazel wasn't enough for Thai-loving Tarek.

[sainte-chapelle]

Interesting. I wonder if she brought her son over to the US? Last I heard the father was fighting it. I never understood what Hazel and Tarik had in common….she always seemed annoyed and embarrassed by him.

[greekmom]

[Stuckathome]

So his insta post about it sort of makes it sound like she just ran off....interesting that he says she is going back "because she has to". Does he assume she does because it hasn't been long enough for her green card to be permanent? Or did something happen back home that is forcing her to return (family, son, etc)?? I am sure there are some real whack jobs online that can make these people's lives hell once they are on this show----but you sort of open yourself up to that when you sign on to share the most intimate part of your life with a camera crew. Hope the $$ was worth it. 

[Raja]

16 hours ago, sainte-chapelle said:

Interesting. I wonder if she brought her son over to the US? Last I heard the father was fighting it. I never understood what Hazel and Tarik had in common….she always seemed annoyed and embarrassed by him.

That he didn't come with her on her entry visa would have made it much tougher to get him over. Now assuming Tarik is not going to sponsor him, near impossible for her to get him before he becomes a man. And that is assuming she can stay, adjust her status and gain citizenship

[Raja]

2 hours ago, Stuckathome said:

So his insta post about it sort of makes it sound like she just ran off....interesting that he says she is going back "because she has to". Does he assume she does because it hasn't been long enough for her green card to be permanent? Or did something happen back home that is forcing her to return (family, son, etc)?? I am sure there are some real whack jobs online that can make these people's lives hell once they are on this show----but you sort of open yourself up to that when you sign on to share the most intimate part of your life with a camera crew. Hope the $$ was worth it. 

Yes you come in on entry have 90 days to get married. Upon the marriage you apply for temporary status and got the card that was actually green historically. After roughly three years you apply for the permanent residence. If questions about the truth of the relationship happens this is the second time, the first being before the entry or 90 day visa being issued.

 

At that 3 year point it is possible for Hazel to be approved but without Tarik doing the petition and the marriage still being good she is more likely to be sent back. Now if they never married within the 90 days yes she has to go back or she falls into illegal status

[Stuckathome]

In his latest Insta post, Tarik shows a screenshot of Hazel's page where she says something like real men don't physically and emotionally abuse their woman and air dirty laundry on social media....

 

and he says "I never" and that his lawyer warned him this is the number one excuse women use to try and stay in the US.....

[greekmom]

Here's the post. Question. Who's Dwaine?! 

[Stuckathome]

Is Dwaine his cousin/brother that was on teh show? They had a falling out and he married a Filipina and lives there with her? 

It is sad when this plays out on social media....and who knows what the truth is or reality but I will say this....Hazel always seemed a little....um, slow? And there are a LOT of crazy people out there who watch reality tv and get way too involved in these people's lives offline via social media. I can totally see some other guy (or girl since Hazel says she is bi and she did seem more into the stripper at her bachelorette party than she ever did Tarik) reaching out to Hazel and chatting her up and putting thoughts in her head that she could have a better life without Tarik, etc. 

[DanaMB]

8 hours ago, Stuckathome said:

Is Dwaine his cousin/brother that was on teh show? They had a falling out and he married a Filipina and lives there with her? 

No, that is his brother Dean. Not sure who Dwaine is. 

[charmed1]

I think Dwain might be the brother who helped set up their wedding.

[Mrs. Hanson]

On 12/9/2021 at 7:46 AM, Stuckathome said:

Is Dwaine his cousin/brother that was on teh show? They had a falling out and he married a Filipina and lives there with her? 

It is sad when this plays out on social media....and who knows what the truth is or reality but I will say this....Hazel always seemed a little....um, slow? And there are a LOT of crazy people out there who watch reality tv and get way too involved in these people's lives offline via social media. I can totally see some other guy (or girl since Hazel says she is bi and she did seem more into the stripper at her bachelorette party than she ever did Tarik) reaching out to Hazel and chatting her up and putting thoughts in her head that she could have a better life without Tarik, etc. 

Hazel always seemed to not into Tarik!

[sainte-chapelle]

Yea I was never a fan of Tarik but honestly he seems like a nice guy…a foolish guy but not a bad guy. I could be wrong but the abuse claims don’t ring true.

[CrazyInAlabama]

Tarik's right, claiming to be a victim of domestic violence is one of the ways to stay in the U.S., but lying about it is despicable if that's what happened.    

[sainte-chapelle]

12 minutes ago, CrazyInAlabama said:

Tarik's right, claiming to be a victim of domestic violence is one of the ways to stay in the U.S., but lying about it is despicable if that's what happened.    

Fernanda made similar claims which is likely why she is still in the US. If they are lying they are beyond trash because women who lie discredit those who are really going through it and are not believed.

Edited December 11, 2021 by sainte-chapelle

[Welshman in Ca]

On 12/10/2021 at 7:00 PM, sainte-chapelle said:

Fernanda made similar claims which is likely why she is still in the US. If they are lying they are beyond trash because women who lie discredit those who are really going through it and are not believed.

 

Fernanda is a beautiful girl, but that's all she is, a girl. IMO someone who knows how to work the system is puling her strings which is why she's still in the US. Doesn't she have family already here?