Tamra Judge: Naked Wasted

[RoseAllDay]

Just now, Palimelon said:

It means she is possibly trying to secure a story for herself next season.

Or what Stats Queen said. Or both.

I know that sounds cynical but this is Tamra we are talking about.

 

If this is her storyline for next season, I can’t think of a bigger slap in the face to neurodivergent people.

[bosawks]

2 hours ago, Stats Queen said:

Not sure how to embed an Instagram link. But here is Tamra’s response to all the backlash she is getting.

 

started therapy because this year had been really hard on me. I started feeling really insecure, I was having intrusive thoughts, and I didn’t wanna leave my house unless I had to. I even considered just being admitted into a mental health facility.

In my conversations with my therapist, who I’ve known for years, we talked about a lot over the course of two hours. And she told me that many of the things about me — like how I process information, my sensory issues, my social anxiety, my aversion to eye contact with new people, my not wanting to be out of my routine, etc. — were all signs of being on the spectrum.

Now, ‘On the spectrum’ it’s such a broad term. I don’t really understand it fully, and my therapist told me more evaluation was needed. But when I sat down at the mic to record my podcast 15 minutes later and my head was spinning from what she had said. I had no time to process things, or even talk to my family — I was just back at work. And I was so emotional, I just blurted it out.

Afterwards, my instinct was to have it removed. But I’m used to being so open with everything in my life, I thought against it. Now, I wish I had. I just want to take people through the journey with me as I’ve always done, but I realize now I spoke too soon publicly, and that processing this with such an onslaught of negative comments has been horrible.

If you know me, you know I don’t like to look weak or play the victim. I also hate labels, just as much as I hate excuses. But I’m working on myself — not a TV show; to be a better person for me and the people around me. This isn’t some storyline. It’s my real life.

I have past trauma that is deep and painful. This is something I’ve suppressed for 15 years. But I’m finally getting the help I need, and I’m proud of myself for that.

So as much as I appreciate the amazing people who reached out, I think it’s best to move forward more privately until I get to a better mental space. My mental health is just not strong enough where I can be judged and hated on right now. Yes, I’m admitting I’m weak. And I’m okay with that right now.

 

https://www.instagram.com/p/DBKHkxrp5nD/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link&igsh=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==

All I can say is what my Dad said to me after I was caught climbing up the trellis at 3am when I told him it was to save a baby raccoon.

"Uh huh."

[dosodog]

Did she not learn anything from the Brooks and Vicki cancer scam?

 

[Carolina Girl]

21 hours ago, Palimelon said:

I think a cobra or alligator would be more appropriate.

She should claim either one as her "spirit animal."  

[Natalie68]

19 hours ago, Stats Queen said:

Not sure how to embed an Instagram link. But here is Tamra’s response to all the backlash she is getting.

 

started therapy because this year had been really hard on me. I started feeling really insecure, I was having intrusive thoughts, and I didn’t wanna leave my house unless I had to. I even considered just being admitted into a mental health facility.

In my conversations with my therapist, who I’ve known for years, we talked about a lot over the course of two hours. And she told me that many of the things about me — like how I process information, my sensory issues, my social anxiety, my aversion to eye contact with new people, my not wanting to be out of my routine, etc. — were all signs of being on the spectrum.

Now, ‘On the spectrum’ it’s such a broad term. I don’t really understand it fully, and my therapist told me more evaluation was needed. But when I sat down at the mic to record my podcast 15 minutes later and my head was spinning from what she had said. I had no time to process things, or even talk to my family — I was just back at work. And I was so emotional, I just blurted it out.

Afterwards, my instinct was to have it removed. But I’m used to being so open with everything in my life, I thought against it. Now, I wish I had. I just want to take people through the journey with me as I’ve always done, but I realize now I spoke too soon publicly, and that processing this with such an onslaught of negative comments has been horrible.

If you know me, you know I don’t like to look weak or play the victim. I also hate labels, just as much as I hate excuses. But I’m working on myself — not a TV show; to be a better person for me and the people around me. This isn’t some storyline. It’s my real life.

I have past trauma that is deep and painful. This is something I’ve suppressed for 15 years. But I’m finally getting the help I need, and I’m proud of myself for that.

So as much as I appreciate the amazing people who reached out, I think it’s best to move forward more privately until I get to a better mental space. My mental health is just not strong enough where I can be judged and hated on right now. Yes, I’m admitting I’m weak. And I’m okay with that right now.

 

https://www.instagram.com/p/DBKHkxrp5nD/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link&igsh=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==

I am a tad confused.  She JUST started therapy and is seeing a therapist she has known for years.  Is she seeing a therapist friend?  That might get awkward. Is that even a good idea? My guess is WebMD.  

Wonder how many people speak to their therapists about their trauma inflicted by Tamra?

[RoseAllDay]

1 hour ago, Natalie68 said:

I am a tad confused.  She JUST started therapy and is seeing a therapist she has known for years.  Is she seeing a therapist friend?  That might get awkward. Is that even a good idea? My guess is WebMD.  

Wonder how many people speak to their therapists about their trauma inflicted by Tamra?

Who else but a friend would cosign this nonsense? This shows just how stupid she is. She just “started therapy” because she’s afraid of losing that paycheck. 

Another piece of bullshit: In my experience, therapy sessions don’t go on for two hours. They usually last between 45-60 minutes. (Confirmed with Uncle Google.)  If they go on longer they can be unproductive. So my guess is that this was not a “therapy session”; they probably met at one of those LA restaurants and had a meal and drinks.

Furthermore…if it is a friend, that’s against the code of ethics.

Really rich how someone who has spent her entire reality show career judging and picking apart others cries when things that have gone around finally come around. True example of a bully.

Somebody yesterday posted that she’s blaming Simon…the 15 years she references confirms that. 

I could probably pick this nonsense apart line by line. Just get the fuck off my TV, Tamra, and go fix yourself — if you really mean that. Which I doubt.

Edited October 16 by RoseAllDay
meant to say “this nonsense” in last graph

[RoseAllDay]

She’s walking it back now. According to Reddit (where this clip came from) she got roasted in the comments (along the same lines as my rant from yesterday) and wound up blocking and removing them.

You don’t play with stuff like this because you think it will get you off the hook for your shittiness and earn sympathy points. Didn’t Brooks teach you a damn thing?

Hun, the train’s left the station on this, ready or not.
 

[JAYJAY1979]

Reading what she said made me furious.

As someone that was diagnosed with it when I was 3...it isn't a get out of jail free card for bad behavior.  I had to find workarounds with my sensory issues, still was expected to not use it as an excuse, and work twice as hard to co exist in the real world.  And this diagnosis was done after months of doctor and specialist visits..plus my parents using the Son Rise program.

Her words will actually cause more hardship for those of us on the spectrum then be of help.

 

[RoseAllDay]

3 hours ago, JAYJAY1979 said:

Reading what she said made me furious.

As someone that was diagnosed with it when I was 3...it isn't a get out of jail free card for bad behavior.  I had to find workarounds with my sensory issues, still was expected to not use it as an excuse, and work twice as hard to co exist in the real world.  And this diagnosis was done after months of doctor and specialist visits..plus my parents using the Son Rise program.

Her words will actually cause more hardship for those of us on the spectrum then be of help.

 

We spent years trying to get a definitive diagnosis. My son, for instance, had indications of autism and Asperger’s, so that was the best we could do, so we just started treating it as Asperger’s. My daughter wound up with a diagnosis of PDD (now ASD), still not precise. Frustrating, because we knew something was going on but couldn’t pin it down. Luckily, we were in a school district that had a strong individualized educational plans (IEPs) and other supports in place, so they managed to get through school fairly successfully, but my son did struggle at times. My daughter had to be literally laser focused on her work. Not many schools offer the support we had, and I will always be grateful.

This is why I was so infuriated by what Tamra wrote because it definitely does make the road for neurodivergent people that much harder when it is trivialized like this. It just reinforces so many negative stereotypes.

Shame on her.

[Cosmocrush]

6 hours ago, JAYJAY1979 said:

 

Her words will actually cause more hardship for those of us on the spectrum then be of help.

 

I can't think of a single thing Tamra has ever said that would ever help anyone. 

[CasseroleQueen]

On 10/11/2024 at 10:13 PM, ZettaK said:

No, I don't, but I read/watch (it's enough to check their IG for a couple of minutes) about the HWs. I also watched all the HW franchises from the beginning. All the women were their real selves, more, or less, more relaxed on UGT according to reports. Even Teresa Giudice, and Vicki Gunvalson who were mellow, believe it or not. Dorinda Medley was an asshole on it, so that's her in real life!

Rats!! I was hoping for some inside dirt!

[RoseAllDay]

I just have to ask. What is up with Tamra’s arms? Cellulite? Fat deposits? They get more noticeable in every episode. Kind of defeats the purpose pumping your face full of fillers if the rest of you shows your age.

[Baltimore Betty]

5 minutes ago, RoseAllDay said:

I just have to ask. What is up with Tamra’s arms? Cellulite? Fat deposits? They get more noticeable in every episode. Kind of defeats the purpose pumping your face full of fillers if the rest of you shows your age.

I think it is because of sun damage and that the flesh does not hang the same way as we age, maybe get an arm tuck or armblastomy or whatever they call it, lol.  

[Starlight925]

My friend is 69 years old and works out daily with a trainer.  From far away, she looks like a 25 year-old.  Up close, saggy arms and crepey skin.  Can't fight mother nature.

Tamra is just an a-hole who revels in schadenfreude:  pleasure in others' misfortunes.  

Edited October 21 by Starlight925

[Cosmocrush]

2 hours ago, Baltimore Betty said:

I think it is because of sun damage and that the flesh does not hang the same way as we age, maybe get an arm tuck or armblastomy or whatever they call it, lol.  

Or, just wear sleeves. 

[RoseAllDay]

5 hours ago, Starlight925 said:

My friend is 69 years old and works out daily with a trainer.  From far away, she looks like aa 25 year-old.  Up close, saggy arms and crepey skin.  Can't fight mother nature.

Tamra is just an a-hole who revels in schadenfreude:  pleasure in others' misfortunes.  

That is a lesson these women will never learn.

[RoseAllDay]

Just saw where even Vicki is calling bullshit on Tamra’s “diagnosis”…🎶Isn’t it ironic…”🎶

When you lose even the Vickster…

It’s on some podcast, hers, I think.

[Slakkie]

1 hour ago, RoseAllDay said:

Just saw where even Vicki is calling bullshit on Tamra’s “diagnosis”…🎶Isn’t it ironic…”🎶

When you lose even the Vickster…

It’s on some podcast, hers, I think.

They should send Tamra a casserole

[Natalie68]

22 hours ago, RoseAllDay said:

That is a lesson these women will never learn.

Right?!  Even with all of her facework, she still looks her age or worse. This goes for all of them. 

[Gharlane]

On 10/15/2024 at 8:17 AM, Slakkie said:

On Two T's it seems the reason Tamra is unable to be empathetic is a therapist told her "She is on the spectrum" which does not really align with what I know about neurodivergent people as they usually are overly empathetic versus act like a Honey Badger.

I am trying desperately not to judge but I am calling this diagnosis as very interesting timing wise and also a ready made excuse. 

It's been several years since I watched this show, but around the time she "found gawd and Jesus", didn't she say she had rage issues and tried to blame it on her parents? 🤔

On 10/15/2024 at 2:29 PM, bosawks said:

Didn't she already do this and it's called "Eddie"?

I thought its name is "Ryan".

[politichick]

On 10/20/2024 at 10:49 AM, Baltimore Betty said:

I think it is because of sun damage and that the flesh does not hang the same way as we age, maybe get an arm tuck or armblastomy or whatever they call it, lol.  

And her face is a complete horror show without makeup and eyelashes. I bet she really cringed seeing herself in that scene with Jenn and Heather with that puffed up face and little pig eyes.

[ZettaK]

On 10/20/2024 at 9:57 AM, CasseroleQueen said:

Rats!! I was hoping for some inside dirt!

There are some people here who live in the OC. Chances are they know a lot more. I live in Florida. 

[RoseAllDay]

https://www.realitytea.com/2024/10/28/tamra-judge-hate-gone-too-far-rhoc/

No. Tamra has been a toxic presence on this show for years. Starting fights, encouraging fights, making accusations, setting people against each other, and overall making others’ lives hell. I’m done giving her the benefit of the doubt (if I ever did), especially now since she’s used mental health as an excuse for her shittiness. This guy calls it “clumsy”; I call it calculated, and she was rightfully called out for it. If she truly has issues, what she should do is step away and sort her life out. At her core, she has always been a mean person. People are tired of this — and of her.

I can’t believe I read a defense of this woman.

[lasu]

I can't believe you finished it! I made it about halfway through before I gave up. Absolutely absurd. 

[Gharlane]

3 hours ago, RoseAllDay said:

The RHOC Tamra Judge Hate Train Has Gone Too Far

No. Tamra has been a toxic presence on this show for years. Starting fights, encouraging fights, making accusations, setting people against each other, and overall making others’ lives hell. I’m done giving her the benefit of the doubt (if I ever did), especially now since she’s used mental health as an excuse for her shittiness. This guy calls it “clumsy”; I call it calculated, and she was rightfully called out for it. If she truly has issues, what she should do is step away and sort her life out. At her core, she has always been a mean person. People are tired of this — and of her.

I can’t believe I read a defense of this woman.

I quit reading after the first paragraph. 

[Jst2Wld]

On 10/18/2024 at 6:02 PM, Cosmocrush said:

I can't think of a single thing Tamra has ever said that would ever help anyone. 

I agree. Except for the time she ran out of that restaurant in Bali screaming " you will never see my face again!" Unfortunately, that was another lie. Never seeing her again would help everyone, everywhere, forever. 

[RoseAllDay]

6 hours ago, lasu said:

I can't believe you finished it! I made it about halfway through before I gave up. Absolutely absurd. 

I read it so you don’t have to 🤣.

What planet is that man living on? Tamra is not a victim here. Never has been. I don’t know what show he’s been watching. Take off the blinders.

 

[goofygirl]

On 10/15/2024 at 1:26 PM, RoseAllDay said:

🤬This is exactly why people who truly have disabilities or needs have such a hard time. If this doesn’t work, will she get a pet ferret and claim it’s an “emotional support animal”?

TamRat needs an emotional support crocodile.  It fits her personality!

[hottesthw]

On 10/8/2023 at 12:48 PM, Pi237 said:

Lets swap Erika and Heather. I'd love to see Dorit licking Heather's boots for money and Erika's probably the only one who wouldn't be afraid of going toe to toe with Tamra. 

Oh I’m here all day to watch Erika destroy Tamra. Sign me up!