90DF Live Chat 3: I Gave Up Everything To Be Here

[Auntie Anxiety]

Oops, I forgot!

🚨🚨🚨 If Sumit’s mouth is moving, he’s lying.

[Zombness]

Jenny pack your bags and leave.  Sumit already chose his parents over you.

[greekmom]

1 minute ago, renatae said:

Hi, everyone! I actually made it! Hope all are well!

Sumit's mother is acting like a shrew. Mocking her while she attempts to cook in a language she does not understand. Then outright lying, saying she had no interest in learning how to cook. Expecting her to already know rules you haven't attempted to teach her yet. "You need to learn this that and the other," as if with time she won't catch on. Well, you have to be willing to teach and not act as if she is hopeless.

I'm not a big fan of Jenny, but I think this is cruel. And I don't care about "tradition" or "this is custom here." It's just plain wrong. I really hate when people who have been put through traumatic traditional customs take the attitude "I had to endure it and now so do you."

Jenny deserves it.

Sorry

[Suzywriter]

9 minutes ago, charmed1 said:

I knew Father Sumit speaks perfect  English. I was wondering why he was being silent all this time. He throws better shade than his wife. 

Neither man can speak up; Mean Mouth Mama is the mother of one and the wife of the other. 

[Gobi]

Jenny's favorite singer? Sammy HAGar.

Jenny's favorite thing to do at the market? HAGgle.

 

[Hotel Snarker]

9 years? Wow Jenny, take a hint already.

[SunnyBeBe]

Tell’em Jenny!  You are not going to do it their way!  

[Armchair Critic]

Jenny that ultimatum of "it's his parents or me" is so weak because Sumit knows that you keep caving in.

[Frozendiva]

11 minutes ago, Angry Moldovan said:

Get a sneaky punch in there first

The boot has to hit the ass so he can't sit right for a week. I could think of more appropriate places.

[Trackdawg]

6 minutes ago, Mrs. Hanson said:

Ha ha ha....no.  My hubs has been involved in gunsmithing for over 45 years, has a side hustle.  Our lower level of our house is his shop.  He looked at Tim's store and.....was not impressed.

[magemaud]

14 minutes ago, sainte-chapelle said:

I am guessing this car accident was the excuse she needed to get plastic surgery

She wanted to get built in airbags

[tvrox]

42 minutes ago, TazDevil said:

email, text over wifi, WhatsApp... 

so many ways for people to get in touch with you without "social media accounts"

Seriously! and why doesn't he have a cell  phone? 

[Frozendiva]

3 minutes ago, tvrox said:

TLC really likes to force it on us. 

One way for us to not want to convert.

[sainte-chapelle]

Now Sumit is flipping the script by wanting to live with his parents. He never mentioned this to Jenny before today. Not all Indians do this, it is very old school.

Edited October 25, 2021 by sainte-chapelle

[Trackdawg]

23 minutes ago, magemaud said:

Another one traumatized by a minor car accident like Asuelu 

[CrazyInAlabama]

1 minute ago, Pepper Mostly said:

My 600 Pound Life is back? Oh joy! I miss the Wednesday night live chats. I have no life. 

Yes, it comes back on 10 November, on Wednesdays (in case I got the date wrong).    I bet the first episode, or the first few are leftovers from last season that weren't completed on time to air last season.   I'm hoping for a lot of success stories.

Jenny claims she wants to be Sumit's wife, and that's being the mother-in-law's house keeper, cook, and everything else in the household, under the supervision of the mother-in-law.     

I'm loving this with Mama and Papa Sumit.   

[Auntie Anxiety]

Guess Jenny didn’t satisfy Sumit’s mother-love issues, so he has to return home for the real thing.

[LEILANI2]

Summit wants to move back home because he hates the low flow showerhead at their current place.

Get a blow dryer and some mousse summit, you look like a  30 year old little boy.

[SunnyBeBe]

Does Ailine not get that when you put a gun to someone’s head to make then faithful…..it doesn’t mean anything?

[TazDevil]

1 minute ago, tvrox said:

Seriously! and why doesn't he have a cell  phone? 

I think he claimed not to have an international plan on his phone.  But that's what wifi is for when you're traveling.

[Mrs. Hanson]

4 minutes ago, greekmom said:

Jenny deserves it.

Sorry

I agree.  Sorry not sorry.

[Trackdawg]

54 minutes ago, tvrox said:

Another 90 day show? Uh oh

[Auntie Anxiety]

Wait! Bini isn’t sitting on the porch awaiting Areola’s random phone call?

[Suzywriter]

15 minutes ago, renatae said:

Hi, everyone! I actually made it! Hope all are well!

Sumit's mother is acting like a shrew. Mocking her while she attempts to cook in a language she does not understand. Then outright lying, saying she had no interest in learning how to cook. Expecting her to already know rules you haven't attempted to teach her yet. "You need to learn this that and the other," as if with time she won't catch on. Well, you have to be willing to teach and not act as if she is hopeless.

I'm not a big fan of Jenny, but I think this is cruel. And I don't care about "tradition" or "this is custom here." It's just plain wrong. I really hate when people who have been put through traumatic traditional customs take the attitude "I had to endure it and now so do you."

 

I'm on your team. Jenny's mistakes do not justify evil, abusive tricks like being warmly smiled at while someone releases a string of hostile, inaccurate insults in another language.  Abuse is never ok unless it's against Ed.

Edited October 25, 2021 by Suzywriter

[greekmom]

1 minute ago, CrazyInAlabama said:

Yes, it comes back on 10 November, on Wednesdays (in case I got the date wrong).    I bet the first episode, or the first few are leftovers from last season that weren't completed on time to air last season.   I'm hoping for a lot of success stories.

Jenny claims she wants to be Sumit's wife, and that's being the mother-in-law's house keeper, cook, and everything else in the household, under the supervision of the mother-in-law.     

I'm loving this with Mama and Papa Sumit.   

I wish Mama knew English. Ohhhh the shade she would throw Jenny and no subtitles

[Trackdawg]

1 minute ago, SunnyBeBe said:

Does Ailine not get that when you put a gun to someone’s head to make then faithful…..it doesn’t mean anything?

[Grifter Lives]

This episode has been so non-eventful that Bini promises to be the highlight.

[SunnyBeBe]

Submit’s mom had an odd smirk on her her face….😆

[OneGuy]

How could Bini celebrate Meskel when Ari has given up so much for him?

[Hotel Snarker]

Ari better not lose it on Bini for going to a religious/cultural event. I have no doubt she will, though.

[Auntie Anxiety]

Bini’s friend is names Frezer. Watch out for Ronald stalking him.

[Grifter Lives]

Ethiopian Goofballs

[SunnyBeBe]

While Bini seems suspicious for not keeping his phone on….with Ari….I kinda see how he might need a break.  🥴

[goofygirl]

Oh boy...  Another celebration in Ethiopia!  I STILL don't quite understand how Ari is mad at Bini, when it was HER idea to go to the USA for the baby's surgery.  She is a moron.

[greekmom]

Just now, Auntie Anxiety said:

Bini’s friend is names Frezer. Watch out for Ronald stalking him.

dead.

[OneGuy]

Bini: "I just wanted to be with my friends."

Ari: "What does that even mean, friends?"

[Auntie Anxiety]

Bini’s friends are mercilessly telling the truth.

[Pepper Mostly]

2 minutes ago, TazDevil said:

I think he claimed not to have an international plan on his phone.  But that's what wifi is for when you're traveling.

But he's just lying again. He opens his mouth and lies fall out, as easily as breathing. 

1 minute ago, Trackdawg said:

If this is a fairy tale, its one of those old school Brothers Grimm ones, with serious bad guys and terrible consequences. 

[Trackdawg]

11 minutes ago, renatae said:

I'm not a big fan of Jenny, but I think this is cruel. And I don't care about "tradition" or "this is custom here." It's just plain wrong. I really hate when people who have been put through traumatic traditional customs take the attitude "I had to endure it and now so do you."

[Hotel Snarker]

I do feel bad for Biniyam. He’s not perfect but Ari is clearly stretching the trip.

[Armchair Critic]

2 minutes ago, Trackdawg said:

I shouldn't laugh but Mama Sumit has them all over a barrel. 😂

[sainte-chapelle]

Oh watch out….Bini is having beers with his friends 

[tvrox]

43 minutes ago, Grifter Lives said:

And they may be a month into their 90 days in Turkey, and they haven't begun any of the administrative processes that the lawyer laid out to get married.  

The worst part for us is that they were one of the more promising storylines for this season.  

She can't even think of marrying him without laughing/crying! 

[mmecorday]

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Bini’s friend is names Frezer.

🎶Oh, baby I hear the blues a-callin' tossed salads and scrambled eggs🎶

[Armchair Critic]

1 minute ago, Trackdawg said:

💀🤡

[Pepper Mostly]

2 minutes ago, Hotel Snarker said:

Ari better not lose it on Bini for going to a religious/cultural event. I have no doubt she will, though.

Of course she will. Why should Bini want to observe a holiday with his friends and family when Ari might need to lecture him?

[LEILANI2]

 Why are the allowed to put photos on social media six months in advance and ruin the plot for the season.  The whole Kenny/Armando story line has been spoiled this season.

[greekmom]

My mom use to pull the same language shit as Mama Sumit did with her non Greek sisters in law.

Yeah it was funny then too.

 

[Gobi]

2 minutes ago, OneGuy said:

Bini: "I just wanted to be with my friends."

Ari: "What does that even mean, friends?"

 "You can't spell "a friend" without Ari, so you shouldn't have friends when I'm not there. "

[sainte-chapelle]

Ok I laughed hard when Pedro called Alajandro a troll doll