Keywestclubkid Friday at 05:31 PM Share Friday at 05:31 PM 2 minutes ago, Chit Chat said: I don't think that her issues with her mom should be played out on national TV. It's not fair to her mother that we're only hearing Sutton's version of events, especially since she's got her own demons to deal with regarding the death of her husband. Sutton's not the only one living with that trauma. It's not a lack of empathy for me, but a matter of knowing all sides of the story. We've only seen snippets of her mother. That's not fair to her. We know very little of her life and what her own childhood was like. If she hasn't already, maybe Sutton needs to ask her mom about her youth and what it was like to be her. Maybe then she'll have understanding as to why her mom is emotionally reserved. So wait she would be dinged for not showing her life and now she’s being dinged because she does and it’s not fair to her mother .. wait a tick You are literally setting up Sutton for whatever she does .. she’s damned if she does damned if she doesn’t We never get the other side of these things from anyone .. are you asking for Erika’s Mom side or big Kathy or is it only Sutton that’s it’s not fair that her mom isn’t getting a say I don’t want this to seem like I’m coming at you cause I’m 100% not it’s just I’m curious why only now with Sutton is it an issue 1 2 1 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/152200-s14e14-hemlines-and-headlines/page/3/#findComment-8600738
eclectcmoi Friday at 05:47 PM Share Friday at 05:47 PM Say what you will about Sutton's dress not being flattering on her, but damn... she has a really nice back. I had serious envy! Garcelle had to use tough love with Oliver and I applaud her for that very, very difficult decision. There was no way to enable his behavior, protect her other sons and herself as well. Drugs are demons (used to work for an alcohol and drug rehab) and sometimes hitting rock bottom is the only way up. And I'm sure Garcelle still had guilt, but she did what she had to do. She, Oliver and his family appear to have wonderful relationships today. Hi @Chit Chat! I have to respectfully disagree re Sutton. Sutton is who is on this show and I believe it's her right to share her feelings and struggles. She's never had validation from her mother and there isn't anything wrong with her saying she needs this still, even at her age. Relationships with our mothers really can make us or break us. 7 2 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/152200-s14e14-hemlines-and-headlines/page/3/#findComment-8600757
Cosmocrush Friday at 05:52 PM Share Friday at 05:52 PM (edited) 53 minutes ago, J80134 said: sweetbutt 😂😂😂 Edited Friday at 05:53 PM by Cosmocrush 4 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/152200-s14e14-hemlines-and-headlines/page/3/#findComment-8600763
Chit Chat Friday at 06:33 PM Share Friday at 06:33 PM 1 hour ago, Keywestclubkid said: You are literally setting up Sutton for whatever she does .. she’s damned if she does damned if she doesn’t I don't think I'm doing that. As I said before, I missed a few seasons of this show, so I'll be the first to admit that I probably missed some important stuff along the way in regard to Sutton & her mom. I'm going by what I've seen this season. 45 minutes ago, eclectcmoi said: Sutton is who is on this show and I believe it's her right to share her feelings and struggles. Hello ecletcmoi!, I appreciate that, but her mom didn't sign up for this show. I think it's okay to share one's feelings and struggles, but I'd be cautious throwing family members under the bus for the sake of a story. That's just the way I see it, and I know that doesn't mean I'm right! 1 hour ago, Keywestclubkid said: We never get the other side of these things from anyone .. are you asking for Erika’s Mom side or big Kathy or is it only Sutton that’s it’s not fair that her mom isn’t getting a say I give them all the benefit of the doubt given what goobers some of these women can be! 4 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/152200-s14e14-hemlines-and-headlines/page/3/#findComment-8600809
MissFeatherbottom Friday at 06:45 PM Share Friday at 06:45 PM 10 minutes ago, Chit Chat said: Hello ecletcmoi!, I appreciate that, but her mom didn't sign up for this show. I think it's okay to share one's feelings and struggles, but I'd be cautious throwing family members under the bus for the sake of a story. That's just the way I see it, and I know that doesn't mean I'm right! I do want to point out she would not be on the show unless she was ok with it, she might even be getting paid for it. We can't feel too sorry for her knowing that she is well aware Sutton has been on this show for years and cameras will be following them. It's fair game on tv. 4 1 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/152200-s14e14-hemlines-and-headlines/page/3/#findComment-8600819
Chit Chat Friday at 06:56 PM Share Friday at 06:56 PM 9 minutes ago, MissFeatherbottom said: I do want to point out she would not be on the show unless she was ok with it, she might even be getting paid for it. Probably so. Has her mom been on before this season? Again, I missed a few seasons. I'm sure I missed a few things!! Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/152200-s14e14-hemlines-and-headlines/page/3/#findComment-8600828
Keywestclubkid Friday at 07:09 PM Share Friday at 07:09 PM 13 minutes ago, Chit Chat said: Probably so. Has her mom been on before this season? Again, I missed a few seasons. I'm sure I missed a few things!! Yes she was for Sutton’s business opening .. 2 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/152200-s14e14-hemlines-and-headlines/page/3/#findComment-8600840
Yours Truly Friday at 07:37 PM Share Friday at 07:37 PM 20 hours ago, Baltimore Betty said: I get what you are saying, and I agree with a lot of what you posted but we also do not know what Kyle and Mo have said to each other in real life, Kyle is not being "open and honest," with us so if Mo is running around the globe and acting single something tells me Kyle said for him to go for it. Of course, Kyle is stunned he is doing what she said to do. There is something about jumping from Bed A to Bed B not being the wisest thing to do but I do not think Mo is looking for the next Mrs. Mo. I would think that he would take his kids into consideration in playing it cool and not be public about his single like life style but maybe they all know something about him. That's the thing. Just because he's free to do as he pleases I'm not understanding need to. Even if he's ready to move on and do his thing, if it's like that and he is anxious to put it out and about like that then hello that's what a divorce is for. If he's completely checked out and ready to be this single dude about town then in my mind there's no reason to delay. I just think it's a bit callous to be this enthusiastic about your single status while still married with no definite talk of divorce on the horizon. Again, I get it, they are separated but it's just the gusto that leaves a bad taste. 4 1 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/152200-s14e14-hemlines-and-headlines/page/3/#findComment-8600860
Rlb8031 Friday at 08:08 PM Share Friday at 08:08 PM On 3/6/2025 at 12:32 AM, ZettaK said: One can share a private plane with others (buy a seat) who want to fly to the same destination instead of chartering a plane, and pay a fraction of the cost. It can be from $4,000 (or less) and up per hour depending on the type of plane, and so on. There are ads on tv here in SE Florida. That still totals out to north of $10k per ticket, and you have to wait for someone else who may be flying to the same location to fill a jet. 2 2 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/152200-s14e14-hemlines-and-headlines/page/3/#findComment-8600887
Yours Truly Friday at 08:13 PM Share Friday at 08:13 PM (edited) 2 hours ago, Chit Chat said: I don't think that her issues with her mom should be played out on national TV. It's not fair to her mother that we're only hearing Sutton's version of events, especially since she's got her own demons to deal with regarding the death of her husband. Sutton's not the only one living with that trauma. It's not a lack of empathy for me, but a matter of knowing all sides of the story. We've only seen snippets of her mother. That's not fair to her. We know very little of her life and what her own childhood was like. If she hasn't already, maybe Sutton needs to ask her mom about her youth and what it was like to be her. Maybe then she'll have understanding as to why her mom is emotionally reserved. See that's where we as a whole (in life) fail terribly. We assign parents obligations that aren't actually automatic. We seem to think that parent HAS TO BE XYZ because "that's what you do for your child". There's no magic switch that turns you into a completely different person. Yeah, parental instincts kick in sure but it has to be based on who you are as a person not who society has dictated what a parent should be. It saddens me to see how selfish of a society we've become where all I hear are DEMANDS of "I expect my parent to learn, change and apologize TO ME...." with little to no understanding or care to understand the realities their own parents faced. There are a lot of self centered adults out their hiding behind their childhood trauma making them think it's okay to villainize every misstep or mistake a parent has made and man oh man is that something else. Different Generations dealt with different things and even now we live in a society that preaches not to parent shame each other cause EVERYONE is going through something and parenting is hard and the guilt is real and all that jazz but these will be the same people parent shaming the older generation because they did it the only way they knew how. And this whole, loophole about, well I can understand they didn't know back then but they should know and be better now is still a load a crap. How you gonna take a 50-60-70 year old, point fingers and dictate to them how they NEED to act now and demand remorse? Tell them they are shitty and they need to apologize for their whole existence because they just so happen to be a product of the times. It's just so unrealistic to try and rewire a persons brain to that degree. I would do anything for my son cause I love him to death but if he were to come to me 30 years from now with a list of grievances and complaints and rudely shame me into feeling like a terrible person I would hear his words, give him my apology and then put it to bed. It's the part where I hear people wanting a whole slew of admissions of regret, remorse and shame before moving on that sounds so unhealthy to me. All I know is that if making my mother feel shitty and ashamed was what I needed to heal I'd gladly stay wounded and she was an alcoholic that gambled and stayed out late. But the house was clean, she kept us fed and kept us healthy with regular Doctor and dentist visit but that woman had demons galore. I wouldn't wish that on anyone and if I'm that damaged that I need that sort of pain from someone else to feel better than I need more than just "accountability" from them. That's a whole different level of damaged that torturing your parents ain't gonna fix. I'm not denying the trauma or the healing that a lot of people need its just the method of said healing that's displayed now a days. Doesn't seem like healing to me. Just seems like a lot of standing still and holding on to demons NO ONE can exorcise but oneself. Oh and newsflash, it really isn't that uncommon to be left unfulfilled by a parent. I'm not saying it's not painful but at the end of the day people disappointing you is a way life including parents. Making this into something people have to survive to this degree, when it's such reality in life is just setting everyone up to fail. It's not that I'm cold hearted I'm just pragmatic. Sometimes accepting people for who they are and not taking it personally, yes even parents is one of the most freeing and healing things you can do for yourself. Giving the bitterness life and longevity just steals everyone's joy for the time that's left. Edited Friday at 08:17 PM by Yours Truly 3 6 1 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/152200-s14e14-hemlines-and-headlines/page/3/#findComment-8600896
Keywestclubkid Friday at 08:19 PM Share Friday at 08:19 PM (edited) wouldn’t you rather brake the cycle then just continue it .. a kid definitely deserves more then some people just don’t grow up happy live with it and then become that parent. that’s literally playing out with Sutton and her mom and her parents before her well I didn’t get love so just accept what you get and don’t complain (you see what I’m saying it’s just passing the buck).. Edited Friday at 08:44 PM by Keywestclubkid 3 1 1 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/152200-s14e14-hemlines-and-headlines/page/3/#findComment-8600900
Chalby Friday at 08:40 PM Share Friday at 08:40 PM On 3/4/2025 at 8:07 PM, politichick said: The collection was a mixed bag of looks, but a good try. Sutton isn't trying to act like she is some major designer, but is making a good effort to build something. I confess, I wasn't sure was sustainable fashion was. I initially thought it was when a 'designer' goes to a thrift store and makes something new out of old. I wish it was explained better (but then again, a Sutton or Dorit explanation makes me zone out so I may have missed it). 1 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/152200-s14e14-hemlines-and-headlines/page/3/#findComment-8600916
Chalby Friday at 08:58 PM Share Friday at 08:58 PM 13 hours ago, hoodooznoodooz said: I haven’t had cable since the end of January. The struggle is real. It took me months to realize my tv services no longer have HWS on their stations. I had to order from Hayu. 1 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/152200-s14e14-hemlines-and-headlines/page/3/#findComment-8600932
Chalby Friday at 09:08 PM Share Friday at 09:08 PM On 3/5/2025 at 1:53 PM, Yours Truly said: Too much energy is placed on the garment being the star when it should at the most be YOUR Co-Star. Sutton walks around as a non billed extra in her fashion journey and it saddens me so. Well said (and what I attempted to say). As my mother (and those before her) would advise, "Your outfit should never wear you." 2 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/152200-s14e14-hemlines-and-headlines/page/3/#findComment-8600944
Yours Truly Friday at 10:23 PM Share Friday at 10:23 PM 1 hour ago, Keywestclubkid said: wouldn’t you rather brake the cycle then just continue it .. a kid definitely deserves more then some people just don’t grow up happy live with it and then become that parent. that’s literally playing out with Sutton and her mom and her parents before her well I didn’t get love so just accept what you get and don’t complain (you see what I’m saying it’s just passing the buck).. But we are all kids aren't we? At some point right? What makes a parent's trauma any less important than the adult child in question? This is a puzzle I find the most intriguing. We are ready to give such empathy to GROWN adults with childhood issues but the GROWN adults who are their parents are somehow a different breed where we should lack empathy? So because Suttons mom is of the generation that can't really logically wrap their head around what is being asked of them that makes them cruel and terrible people? Breaking the cycle means moving forward and doing things the way you believe would be better for your family. Receiving support is always helpful but to me, for my healing I just chose to understand that everyone is wired differently and not everyone can shift into a new mindset and that doesn't have to mean the worst. Sure, it can be disappointing but we get to chose if we will allow it to keep having a heavy impact on our lives. The best we can do is nurture ourselves as best we can with whatever support we do have. Putting your healing in the hands of the person who was shortsighted enough to create the trauma in the first place seems like a fools errand to me. Just saying. 5 1 1 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/152200-s14e14-hemlines-and-headlines/page/3/#findComment-8601006
Cosmocrush Friday at 10:50 PM Share Friday at 10:50 PM 5 hours ago, eclectcmoi said: Say what you will about Sutton's dress not being flattering on her, but damn... she has a really nice back. I had serious envy! That was most certainly body makeup. Probably. Still, she does have nice skin. Must be all that roller thing on the face. 😏 On 3/6/2025 at 2:23 PM, Pattycake2 said: Why does everyone in LA want their children to model? It’s generally a difficult and sometimes unhealthy career. Go to school. Get a career. Well, in Garcelle's case it sounds like she got her start runway modeling so it's probably like any parent who are happy when their child wants to follow their footsteps. 2 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/152200-s14e14-hemlines-and-headlines/page/3/#findComment-8601036
nexxie Yest. at 01:26 AM Share Yest. at 01:26 AM 11 hours ago, heatherchandler said: In her defense his name is Maurice. Kim called him Maurice too. He started going by Mauricio for the show, apparently Kyle found that more to her liking. She said it honored his time living in Mexico (even though he’s not actually Mexican). Unless I’m totally mis-remembering. According to IMDb his birth name is Mauricio Simon Umansky Sneider, and he was born in Mexico in 1970. 2 3 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/152200-s14e14-hemlines-and-headlines/page/3/#findComment-8601216
RealHousewife Yest. at 01:45 AM Share Yest. at 01:45 AM 16 minutes ago, nexxie said: According to IMDb his birth name is Mauricio Simon Umansky Sneider, and he was born in Mexico in 1970. I always assumed Mauricio must be his name if the only people who refer to him as Maurice are two in-laws who can't stand him. 2 6 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/152200-s14e14-hemlines-and-headlines/page/3/#findComment-8601251
Mar Yest. at 02:28 AM Share Yest. at 02:28 AM 12 hours ago, heatherchandler said: Sutton's "are you proud of me" comments to her daughter and mother were a little much for me. She sounded a bit needy and self-absorbed. Just say thank you and leave the stage. A bit needy? I thought it was astoundingly needy, and I was frankly appalled that she would say it at what was supposed to be her professional debut. I really hope she is working with a therapist on her self-esteem. And those clothes in the show… Honestly, I don’t see how they could’ve been much worse. What is she thinking! I’ve always been pro Sutton, but lately she’s been losing me. 4 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/152200-s14e14-hemlines-and-headlines/page/3/#findComment-8601329
hoodooznoodooz Yest. at 07:50 AM Share Yest. at 07:50 AM (edited) 6 hours ago, RealHousewife said: I always assumed Mauricio must be his name, if the only people who refer to him as Maurice are two in-laws who can't stand him. “Some people [who hate me] call me Maurice.” I love that song. But I forgot about it. Song loop! My neighbors hate me! Edited Yest. at 07:52 AM by hoodooznoodooz 7 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/152200-s14e14-hemlines-and-headlines/page/3/#findComment-8601481
Keywestclubkid Yest. at 10:00 AM Share Yest. at 10:00 AM (edited) No tea no shade but how much self esteem can Sutton have everything she does she’s being attacked for ..I honestly now understand the soothing roller .. lord baby Jesus like the hits just keep coming .. its not like a plethora of other truly heinously awful cruel things other housewives on this show have actually done .. she asked if her mom and daughter were proud … STOP the presses and get the pitchforks shes a needy bitch .. Like let’s get some perspective here .. it’s just killing me she has to be and act perfect while everyone else gets to be a asshole and gets passes .. ……………………………………… I think I’m feeling so protective of Sutton with this because I have/had a crappy parent Coming from a parent who didn’t parent and thought of me as a after thought who literally chose men and having a good time and what she needed over her child (who to this day is still trying to make excuses for her actions) bad parenting is 100% my trigger also no one is expecting a parent to be perfect what you do except is for your child to get a feeling of love and acceptance and safety from you and If they don’t feel that that’s YOU not doing your job as a parent point blank period.. that’s not suck it up that’s not being needy on their part that’s YOU failing as a parent at the most basic aspect of what being a parent is supposed to be, no matter what AGE they are when they finally get the courage to ask for it .. passing the buck for shitty upbringing on the kid and meh no one gets a happy childhood really just is making excuses for YOU not doing your job as a parent and if that makes the parent feel better and absolves them of shitty parenting maybe they shouldn’t have had the kid in the first place .. REMEMBER: the kid didn’t ask to be born YOU brought it into the world it’s on you how they grow in it and how they see that world and the choices they make later in life is a direct reflection of how you parented them PLEASE make good choices and stating that you need love doesn’t make you needy it makes you human ***and speaking for myself sometimes all that child (adult or not) wants to hear is I hear you .. I’m sorry … and that would actually help instead of excuse or deflections for why they didn’t do what they should have done as a parent in hindsight and making it your fault for asking for it and clutching the pearls like the kid did something wrong ..NO .. as a parent if you can't at least do that when asked there is a issue with you not the kid Sorry rant over lol Edited Yest. at 11:32 AM by Keywestclubkid 5 3 1 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/152200-s14e14-hemlines-and-headlines/page/3/#findComment-8601504
Pi237 Yest. at 12:06 PM Share Yest. at 12:06 PM I hear you, and I get it. I have Dad issues. Long story. And I Don’t expect Sutton to be perfect. However, I will criticize her just as much as the others. I won’t refrain from calling something she does cringy or whatnot just because I sympathize with her upbringing. You seem to want no criticism of Sutton to come from anyone, ever, because her Mom was a nightmare. Or because we ding something Sutton did, that Must mean we’re ok with everything Dorit does. Not true at all. No one is exempt on this show or else what’s the point of commenting at all? 4 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/152200-s14e14-hemlines-and-headlines/page/3/#findComment-8601527
Keywestclubkid Yest. at 12:11 PM Share Yest. at 12:11 PM (edited) 8 minutes ago, Pi237 said: I hear you, and I get it. I have Dad issues. Long story. And I Don’t expect Sutton to be perfect. However, I will criticize her just as much as the others. I won’t refrain from calling something she does cringy or whatnot just because I sympathize with her upbringing. You seem to want no criticism of Sutton to come from anyone, ever, because her Mom was a nightmare. Or because we ding something Sutton did, that Must mean we’re ok with everything Dorit does. Not true at all. No one is exempt on this show or else what’s the point of commenting at all? 100% bust on anyone on this show .. it just seems that the stuff Sutton gets gripped on for compared to the actions of others seems disproportionately harsh .. Sutton’s a snob but Dorit isn’t? Dragging Suttons actions in defending herself from an onslaught of Dorit’s passive aggressiveness while hand waving away Dorit’s is just hypocritical especially when the things Dorit has said and done in comparison doesn’t even rank with the nastiness Edited Yest. at 12:15 PM by Keywestclubkid 4 1 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/152200-s14e14-hemlines-and-headlines/page/3/#findComment-8601529
Sweet-tea Yest. at 12:25 PM Share Yest. at 12:25 PM (edited) On 3/6/2025 at 2:30 PM, Yours Truly said: Sometimes I think people believe that one MUST immediately get into the "scene" after a split. There are so many important components to finalizing a whole life together and finding new ground but nope. Let's go out and worry about superficial details first and foremost. Paaaaarrrrttttyyyy.... I really don't get this mentality that intimately palling around with the opposite sex is such a "must have" thing. It's okay to not be on someone's arm 2.5 seconds after the last one and at the very least finish putting a period to the last chapter before behaving as if that last chapter meant I've heard therapists recommend that you should wait a year after a divorce--not separation, divorce--to get into another relationship. The idea is doing so earlier you bring some of the baggage into the new relationship. You need time to heal from it. I think it's good advice. However, few celebrities seems to follow it. On 3/5/2025 at 10:36 AM, nexxie said: imo Kathy’s schtick is as calculated as the one her daughter Paris came up with to keep her on camera - especially all the verbal “mistakes.” Calling Mauricio Maurice, PK PJ, suggesting Dorit as MC. She’s a mean girl masquerading as ditz - has probably used this tactic for decades. Keeps her safe. It has become tiresome. The scene with the models was too much. She knew very well what was going on and that she was in the middle of things. It was just rude. On 3/5/2025 at 11:23 AM, Mindthinkr said: Very odd indeed to just wear a sundress that you just pull down to expose the breast. Where I live you get the results by mail. Usually it takes weeks to a month. However I’m of the no news is good news on that. I imagine they’d call if something needed to be Re imaged or necessitated further investigation. I've never gotten my results while at the appointment. I look them up after online. It's usually quick, sometimes just a few hours after my mammogram. Edited Yest. at 12:32 PM by Sweet-tea 6 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/152200-s14e14-hemlines-and-headlines/page/3/#findComment-8601537
Sweet-tea Yest. at 12:35 PM Share Yest. at 12:35 PM On 3/5/2025 at 6:58 PM, bravofan27 said: Is Kathy ever sober? She said she broke her knee but was still at the party with a drink in hand. If emergency rooms had a bar, Kathy would be there every day. She should watch herself given her family history. 18 hours ago, eclectcmoi said: Hi @Chit Chat! I have to respectfully disagree re Sutton. Sutton is who is on this show and I believe it's her right to share her feelings and struggles. She's never had validation from her mother and there isn't anything wrong with her saying she needs this still, even at her age. Relationships with our mothers really can make us or break us. I'm older than Sutton and will admit I sought love, validation and approval from my mother up until the day she died in 2021. It was a hole in my heart that never healed. 7 1 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/152200-s14e14-hemlines-and-headlines/page/3/#findComment-8601540
Baltimore Betty Yest. at 01:01 PM Share Yest. at 01:01 PM 10 hours ago, Mar said: A bit needy? I thought it was astoundingly needy, and I was frankly appalled that she would say it at what was supposed to be her professional debut. I thought the same, isn't this when she is supposed to be thanking everyone for their hard work and supporting her, etc...? We probably will never see or hear of this sustainable meh clothing next season. I would like to know what happened to all those crowns or tiaras she got from that designer that sends her one on her birthday every year. 2 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/152200-s14e14-hemlines-and-headlines/page/3/#findComment-8601552
JenE4 Yest. at 01:09 PM Share Yest. at 01:09 PM 5 hours ago, hoodooznoodooz said: “Some people [who hate me] call me Maurice.” I love that song. But I forgot about it. Song loop! My neighbors hate me! The gangster of love… Kyle should’ve seen it coming. 6 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/152200-s14e14-hemlines-and-headlines/page/3/#findComment-8601555
politichick Yest. at 01:11 PM Share Yest. at 01:11 PM On 3/5/2025 at 2:42 PM, Surrealist said: I couldn't believe Erika's mother was backing up her revisionist take either. I could swear Renee was kind of bitch toward Erika in the latter's earlier seasons. Renee and Reba strike me as similar in personality. It's kind of why I'm shocked that Erika and Sutton have never been able to get along. They share commonalities in their upbringings. That's usually a tie that binds people. 🤷🏻♀️ The earliest for me is 24 hours. Otherwise it might be 48 hours. The ONLY commonality they share is growing up with tough mums. Sutton had an upper middle class upbringing and a debutante ball and has a college degree. Erika was going to clubs with her mother while a teenager. On 3/4/2025 at 8:40 PM, Straycat80 said: If Sutton is so wealthy why didn’t she fly her mother out by private jet? It would have been a very bad look to fly her private to an eco-friendly fashion show. There was also a major airline technology crisis going on at the time. 3 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/152200-s14e14-hemlines-and-headlines/page/3/#findComment-8601557
Rorysmom Yest. at 03:19 PM Share Yest. at 03:19 PM (edited) On 3/4/2025 at 10:23 PM, Chalby said: Second: Sutton's 'I'm just an insecure little ol' Southern gal' routine is obnoxious and makes her look needy. I agree. Sutton's insecurity and rudeness is always just under the surface. That's what makes her volatile as Erika said. Even though people were EXTREMELY damaged by Tom's actions, so was Erika. She didn't articulate herself well and her personality was hella raggedy, but her life - however rich and pampered - was crumbling AND she was being accused of major crimes that she wasn't aware of. She had no reason to believe or even investigate her husband's business dealings. We see this in all tax brackets. She had to protect herself as best she could. And now, she has to live her life as best she can. And that 2022 flashback speaks volumes. Edited Yest. at 03:21 PM by Rorysmom 1 1 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/152200-s14e14-hemlines-and-headlines/page/3/#findComment-8601621
Rorysmom Yest. at 03:28 PM Share Yest. at 03:28 PM Dorit and Sutton's beef goes all the way back to the "Let the mouse go" incident. I thought Sutton was wrong then. Her insecurity caused her to overreact. 1 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/152200-s14e14-hemlines-and-headlines/page/3/#findComment-8601628
princelina 21 hours ago Share 21 hours ago 21 hours ago, Keywestclubkid said: wouldn’t you rather brake the cycle then just continue it .. a kid definitely deserves more then some people just don’t grow up happy live with it and then become that parent. that’s literally playing out with Sutton and her mom and her parents before her well I didn’t get love so just accept what you get and don’t complain (you see what I’m saying it’s just passing the buck).. But wouldn't the cycle be broken by Sutton doing better to her kids, which it seems she did? If nothing ever changed until the guilty party sincerely repented, then nothing would ever change! 😃 15 hours ago, Mar said: A bit needy? I thought it was astoundingly needy, and I was frankly appalled that she would say it at what was supposed to be her professional debut. I really hope she is working with a therapist on her self-esteem. And those clothes in the show… Honestly, I don’t see how they could’ve been much worse. What is she thinking! I’ve always been pro Sutton, but lately she’s been losing me. Since I think it was all a bunch of fake for her storyline, she had to use her speech to complete the sad tale 😄 1 1 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/152200-s14e14-hemlines-and-headlines/page/3/#findComment-8601753
ButterQueen 20 hours ago Share 20 hours ago My only take….I hated Erika’s redo. So much clutter for a small house. 1 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/152200-s14e14-hemlines-and-headlines/page/3/#findComment-8601773
bravofan27 17 hours ago Share 17 hours ago Sutton is not good at speeches. I think she's begging her mom and daughter to be "proud" of her, because she spent a gobsmacking amount of money on her fashion line and is incredibly nervous about it. Shannon from OC did the same-- she "invested" her settlement monies in some ill-fated businesses that she didn't have the money to continue to market and grow. I hope Sutton makes a profit, but really, if she comes close to breaking even, she will be incredibly lucky. Who knows though. 5 1 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/152200-s14e14-hemlines-and-headlines/page/3/#findComment-8601894
Chalby 11 hours ago Share 11 hours ago On 3/7/2025 at 2:23 PM, Yours Truly said: 12 hours ago, Rorysmom said: Dorit and Sutton's beef goes all the way back to the "Let the mouse go" incident. I thought Sutton was wrong then. Her insecurity caused her to overreact. Sutton's insecurity has been behind her many disagreements with the women. And she's vicious when she's verbally defensive. (Yet, others are cautioned to take a step back from confronting her?) In reality tv, the rule of thumb should be: What gives, gets. All the women should understand this, and respond accordingly. Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/152200-s14e14-hemlines-and-headlines/page/3/#findComment-8602077
Chalby 11 hours ago Share 11 hours ago 13 hours ago, Rorysmom said: AND she was being accused of major crimes that she wasn't aware of. She had no reason to believe or even investigate her husband's business dealings. We see this in all tax brackets. She had to protect herself as best she could. I remember feeling bad for Erika and fully understanding that she would not have been included in any of Tom's business discussions . Anyone who watched the power dynamic in their marriage could see that Tom would never consider Erika an actual equal. I do know after everything hit the fan for Erika, I turned to my hubby and said, "I could be questioned by the police tomorrow, and I'm not even sure of the actual 'title' for your position at work. I just know technologist is in there". So thanks Erika for pushing me to take notes on what he does and ensure I know the info on his 2nd bank account. 😂 1 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/152200-s14e14-hemlines-and-headlines/page/3/#findComment-8602085
Soapy Goddess 7 hours ago Share 7 hours ago 22 hours ago, Keywestclubkid said: speaking for myself sometimes all that child (adult or not) wants to hear is I hear you .. I’m sorry … and that would actually help instead of excuse or deflections for why they didn’t do what they should have done I feel your pain 😢 3 1 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/152200-s14e14-hemlines-and-headlines/page/3/#findComment-8602157
hoodooznoodooz 1 hour ago Share 1 hour ago “Erika was being accused of major crimes that she wasn't aware of. She had no reason to believe or even investigate her husband's business dealings.” Hmmm…. I remember reading that several years ago they served Erika and Tom documents that required her signature, too. Am I misremembering? Help me out here, @Keywestclubkid, please? Erika bragged that she learned a lot, while married to Tom. She could have earned a law degree? Was this in her book? Even if she knew nothing about Tom defrauding the airline plaintiffs and gas explosion plaintiff and medical treatment plaintiffs, etc. (a very big “if”), Erika personally attempted to ruin the life of Chris Psaila, claiming he tried to fraudulently bill her for over $800K. He and his partner could not adopt a child because of poor Erika Girardi. She hilariously references this in a fun game of Two Truths & A Lie. 1 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/152200-s14e14-hemlines-and-headlines/page/3/#findComment-8602248
Keywestclubkid 30 minutes ago Share 30 minutes ago (edited) 56 minutes ago, hoodooznoodooz said: “Erika was being accused of major crimes that she wasn't aware of. She had no reason to believe or even investigate her husband's business dealings.” Hmmm…. I remember reading that several years ago they served Erika and Tom documents that required her signature, too. Am I misremembering? Help me out here, @Keywestclubkid, please? Erika bragged that she learned a lot, while married to Tom. She could have earned a law degree? Was this in her book? Even if she knew nothing about Tom defrauding the airline plaintiffs and gas explosion plaintiff and medical treatment plaintiffs, etc. (a very big “if”), Erika personally attempted to ruin the life of Chris Psaila, claiming he tried to fraudulently bill her for over $800K. He and his partner could not adopt a child because of poor Erika Girardi. She hilariously references this in a fun game of Two Truths & A Lie. Yes she singed past legal documents she talked about it on a reunion before the shit hit the fan .. she also bragged in her book they were equal and she read EVERYTHING and understood what she signed .. and like you said she kept bragging she could pass the bar no problem these are all things she did while on the show pre Tom being ejected from a car that rolled 20 times flipped in the air and landed in a ditch etc etc ***add and subtract things on your whim ***cause Erika sure did then suddenly what’s my LLC, what’s a bank account .. I don’t know nothing about nothing.. It’s all connected Edited 7 minutes ago by Keywestclubkid Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/152200-s14e14-hemlines-and-headlines/page/3/#findComment-8602265
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