Tamra Judge: Naked Wasted

[RealHousewife]

From what I've seen on WWHL, Ultimate Girls Trip and whatnot, I gathered that Tamra was a lot. But I recently saw a RHOC episode where she puts Vicki's boyfriend's hand on her boob after she thought her boyfriend Eddie and Vicki were too friendly. I didn't see anything happen that would make that remotely acceptable.  

Edited January 14, 2024 by RealHousewife

[ZettaK]

On 1/14/2024 at 4:32 PM, RealHousewife said:

From what I've seen on WWHL, Ultimate Girls Trip and whatnot, I gathered that Tamra was a lot. But I recently saw a RHOC episode where she puts Vicki's boyfriend's hand on her boob after she thought her boyfriend Eddie and Vicki were too friendly. I didn't see anything happen that would make that remotely acceptable.  

She was subdued on UGT because that's how she is in reality- she ups it for the show, and WWHL, of course.

[ZettaK]

On 10/8/2023 at 8:25 AM, Chatty Cake said:

Interesting. People were mad that Tamra went so hard for her friend that they were happy to pull the old interview up. It’s been making the rounds since. She deserves it after the way she behaved this season.

Jennifer Pedranti, and her former husband were friends with Tamra, and Eddie. Tamra recommended her for the show in 2018, or 2019 when she was still with him. They then had a falling out because of her cheating and relationship with Ryan. It seems she got on the show by pretending she was still Tamra's friend, and Tamra might be annoyed by it.

[Stats Queen]

2 hours ago, ZettaK said:

She was subdued on UGT because that's how she is in reality- she ups it for the show, and WWHL, of course.

Tamra is really annoying and obnoxious on The Traitors.

[ZettaK]

2 hours ago, Stats Queen said:

Tamra is really annoying and obnoxious on The Traitors.

I don't watch it. Should I? I read that it is interesting.

[Stats Queen]

1 hour ago, ZettaK said:

I don't watch it. Should I? I read that it is interesting.

It’s on Peacock. I’m enjoying it.

[RoseAllDay]

On 1/17/2024 at 10:44 AM, Stats Queen said:

Tamra is really annoying and obnoxious on The Traitors.

I’m just now getting around to watching this. I found her behavior so on brand. Hoping to get to episode 2 tonight. I predict she won’t be around very long. 

I did notice that she took fashion tips from Kate Chastain as to how to dress while in Scotland. It peeves me that this woman gets to enjoy that gorgeous country and probably does not appreciate it.

On 1/17/2024 at 1:10 PM, ZettaK said:

I don't watch it. Should I? I read that it is interesting.

It is really good. I got hooked last season. The scenery is stunning.

Edited January 22, 2024 by RoseAllDay
Edited so not to reveal a spoiler.

[65mickey]

On 1/17/2024 at 1:10 PM, ZettaK said:

I don't watch it. Should I? I read that it is interesting.

I watched all three Traitors last year on Peacock, the Australian, the UK  and the US. I preferred the UK and the Australian because they used regular people not reality stars. I found it to be much more interesting that way. Peacock must be in league with Bravo to keep foisting these reality stars on us.  Since XFinity no longer includes peacock for free I guess I won't watch the new season.

[RoseAllDay]

13 hours ago, 65mickey said:

I watched all three Traitors last year on Peacock, the Australian, the UK  and the US. I preferred the UK and the Australian because they used regular people not reality stars. I found it to be much more interesting that way. Peacock must be in league with Bravo to keep foisting these reality stars on us.  Since XFinity no longer includes peacock for free I guess I won't watch the new season.

My complaint is, this year seems to be full of reality competition game stars, like from Big Brother, Survivor, and MTV’s The Challenge. These people know how to play this kind of game, like last season’s winner. I already have an idea who the third traitor will be — if the other two are smart, that is — and I’m pretty sure the others will be able to suss out one or two of them.

[Gharlane]

On 1/22/2024 at 8:21 PM, 65mickey said:

Peacock must be in league with Bravo to keep foisting these reality stars on us.  Since XFinity no longer includes peacock for free I guess I won't watch the new season.

Peacock and Bravo are both owned by the same company (Universal?).

[Keywestclubkid]

I like there isn’t “regular” people on traitors this season .. that whole mix just to me was off balance .. I am living for Pha pha this season … the fact everyone is underestimating a “housewife” was the kicker 

[RealHousewife]

On 1/17/2024 at 7:26 AM, ZettaK said:

She was subdued on UGT because that's how she is in reality- she ups it for the show, and WWHL, of course.

Eddie seems like such a nice guy. I've wondered if he is either with Tamra because she is more normal in reality or it's an opposites attract situation. 

[Gharlane]

On 10/4/2024 at 4:36 PM, RoseAllDay said:

Say what you will about his lawyer, that lawsuit Bellino filed was an expensive pain in her ass for a long time. You’d think she’d keep her lips zipped, but you can’t fix stupid. 

I haven't watched this show in years. What was the Bellino lawsuit story about?

[RoseAllDay]

12 hours ago, Gharlane said:

I haven't watched this show in years. What was the Bellino lawsuit story about?

Bellino sued Tamra and Shannon for defamation. I’ve forgotten the details (shows you how much I care, LOL) but Tamra and Shannon spent a ton of money fighting it.

This may explain it: https://people.com/tv/rhoc-shannon-beador-wins-defamation-case-against-jim-bellino/

[RoseAllDay]

On 4/2/2024 at 12:21 AM, RealHousewife said:

Eddie seems like such a nice guy. I've wondered if he is either with Tamra because she is more normal in reality or it's an opposites attract situation. 

I think she’s really changed since she first met him. I keep getting the vibe that his patience is wearing thin, and he has been very patient, I think.

Someone on Reddit posted screenshots of his reactions when she was going off at the dinner party. (As well as a pretty unflattering — but funny — cariacture of them.) Not a happy man. He kept trying to get her to shut up (and to stop drinking) and we saw how much she listened.

I don’t know if it’s fear of divorce, or something else, but he looks like a trapped man to me. I don’t wish a breakup on anyone, despite it involving that harridan of a wife. She is truly his cross to bear.

[RoseAllDay]

From the Oh FFS! Department:

https://www.monstersandcritics.com/tv/reality-tv/tamra-judge-hints-rhoc-cast-gunned-for-her-during-season-18-reunion/

Can’t find the Instagram post, but there’s one of her and Teddi shilling something called “Twotscon (Two Ts in a Pod Live)” in LA on 11/1.

Here it is. Both are getting dragged in the comments. Remember when Heather would clutch her pearls at this obvious wordplay?

When are these two going to learn that we’re OVER their tired old asses? 

[Palimelon]

Porsha from RHOA is now wondering if she can make THOTcon a thing.

[ZettaK]

On 4/2/2024 at 12:21 AM, RealHousewife said:

Eddie seems like such a nice guy. I've wondered if he is either with Tamra because she is more normal in reality or it's an opposites attract situation. 

She is normal in real life- a lot like she was on Ultimate Girls Trip in Dorinda Medley's house in the Berkshires. She ups it for the OC HWs.

12 hours ago, RoseAllDay said:

I think she’s really changed since she first met him. I keep getting the vibe that his patience is wearing thin, and he has been very patient, I think.

Someone on Reddit posted screenshots of his reactions when she was going off at the dinner party. (As well as a pretty unflattering — but funny — cariacture of them.) Not a happy man. He kept trying to get her to shut up (and to stop drinking) and we saw how much she listened.

I don’t know if it’s fear of divorce, or something else, but he looks like a trapped man to me. I don’t wish a breakup on anyone, despite it involving that harridan of a wife. She is truly his cross to bear.

It was a specific instance because of Ryan- this filmed last spring. They spent their anniversary in Mexico in July, and he was with her on Watch What Happens Live last week. She ups it for the show. She is normal, like on Ultimate Girls Trip in Dorinda Medley's house in the Berkshires. 

[Cosmocrush]

11 hours ago, ZettaK said:

She is normal in real life- a lot like she was on Ultimate Girls Trip in Dorinda Medley's house in the Berkshires. She ups it for the OC HWs.

I feel like this statement begs the question:  Do you know Tamra in real life?  Any other insider info?    I don't mean to pry, genuine question. 

 

[RoseAllDay]

15 hours ago, Cosmocrush said:

I feel like this statement begs the question:  Do you know Tamra in real life?  Any other insider info?    I don't mean to pry, genuine question. 

 

Exactly. Some people are pretty good at keeping up appearances. It’s also called acting. Taking a trip really proves nothing. I have first-hand experience with that. 
 

[RoseAllDay]

On 2/21/2024 at 11:22 AM, Keywestclubkid said:

I like there isn’t “regular” people on traitors this season .. that whole mix just to me was off balance .. I am living for Pha pha this season … the fact everyone is underestimating a “housewife” was the kicker 

YMMV. The US version should follow AU, UK, and NZ, whose casts aren’t overloaded with reality stars who know how to play a game like this. There are a few who are known in their countries, but most are ordinary folks. 

Of all the Traitors franchises, I like US the least.

[ZettaK]

On 10/8/2024 at 7:23 PM, Cosmocrush said:

I feel like this statement begs the question:  Do you know Tamra in real life?  Any other insider info?    I don't mean to pry, genuine question. 

 

No, I don't, but I read/watch (it's enough to check their IG for a couple of minutes) about the HWs. I also watched all the HW franchises from the beginning. All the women were their real selves, more, or less, more relaxed on UGT according to reports. Even Teresa Giudice, and Vicki Gunvalson who were mellow, believe it or not. Dorinda Medley was an asshole on it, so that's her in real life!

[Cosmocrush]

On 10/11/2024 at 7:13 PM, ZettaK said:

No, I don't, but I read/watch (it's enough to check their IG for a couple of minutes) about the HWs. I also watched all the HW franchises from the beginning. All the women were their real selves, more, or less, more relaxed on UGT according to reports. Even Teresa Giudice, and Vicki Gunvalson who were mellow, believe it or not. Dorinda Medley was an asshole on it, so that's her in real life!

Wasn't Tamra an Ex-HW on her season of UGT?  In fact, the whole cast were former HW members.  So I think that maybe Tamra saw her participation on UGT as an audition for a second chance to hold an orange, which it apparently was, since she came back after that show.    Even Tamra can be decent for five days if it might mean a return to ROOC.  Not sure that version is her "real self" though. 

Edited October 14, 2024 by Cosmocrush

[RoseAllDay]

So Tamra is starting rumors about David and Lesley now? Such an unpleasant person — only happy, it seems, when she makes others miserable. 
 

 

[BloggerAloud]

The problem with Tamra is that she fundamentally miscalculated where the wind was going in terms of Shannon and her DUI plus Alexis/Johnny J. Her need to get on the show and to take down Shannon clouded her usual shrewd judgment to pivot so for some reason she went extra hard at Shannon without realizing that Shannon clearly got some media coaching in how to take responsibility and whatnot. So the more Tamra dug in on her, the more it helped rehab Shannon's image.

Vicki sort of was the extra salt in the wound because her comments on Tamra's relationship with her daughter, as mean and low as they were, were also accurate and if the shoe was on the other foot, Tamra would've said something like that about Vicki.

She basically helped her two big enemies outfox her.

[Palimelon]

It also doesn't help Tamra that people already don't have the most positive opinion of her when it comes to her going after another HW.

[Slakkie]

On Two T's it seems the reason Tamra is unable to be empathetic is a therapist told her 'she is on the spectrum' which does not really align with what I know about neurodivergent people as they usually are overly empathetic versus act like a Honey Badger.

I am trying desperately not to judge but I am calling this diagnosis as very interesting timing wise and also a ready made excuse. 

[bosawks]

1 hour ago, Slakkie said:

On Two T's it seems the reason Tamra is unable to be empathetic is a therapist told her 'she is on the spectrum' which does not really align with what I know about neurodivergent people as they usually are overly empathetic versus act like a Honey Badger.

I am trying desperately not to judge but I am calling this diagnosis as very interesting timing wise and also a ready made excuse. 

That is not how that works.  She recognizes and understands the emotions of others and is able to communicate about them.  She just doesn't care.  That is not the Spectrum, I believe diagnosis wise, that is called being an asshole.

[RoseAllDay]

2 hours ago, Slakkie said:

On Two T's it seems the reason Tamra is unable to be empathetic is a therapist told her 'she is on the spectrum' which does not really align with what I know about neurodivergent people as they usually are overly empathetic versus act like a Honey Badger.

I am trying desperately not to judge but I am calling this diagnosis as very interesting timing wise and also a ready made excuse. 

This “diagnosis” is BULLSHIT, and I am so livid right now that I probably can’t write anything that makes sense.

As a parent of two neurodivergent children who are on the spectrum, I am SICK AND TIRED of assholes who use “autism,” or “ADD,” or “Asperger’s,” or “the spectrum” as an excuse for their own shitty, cruel behavior when they are rightly called out on it. It is insulting and demeaning to those who truly have that diagnosis, as well as to those who love them, and fuels the stereotype that they are somehow unstable and can’t function in a “normal” world. My kids’ roads through school were difficult. It took a lot out of my family, as we tried to find a definitive diagnosis. It doesn’t help that this is perhaps one of the most misunderstood and difficult to pinpoint psychological conditions out there, which is why people like Tamra see it as an easy out. 

I have dictionary-sized binders full of medical and psychological records from literally years of doctor visits, as we tried to figure out how to best support these two, especially my younger son, who had a particularly tough road as a kid. It took every ounce of our love and patience on a daily basis, but we got through. They are young adults now and are finding their own ways in life, but never, ever have they displayed the disgusting traits that Tamra has shown over the years. In fact, they are two of the kindest, gentlest, most empathetic humans I have known, so yes, Slakkie, you are most correct with your comment.

Tamra and her therapist have no fucking CLUE about any of this.

Since she’s opened the door to armchair psychology, I’ll play. I see Tamra Judge as a narcissistic, sadistic, alcoholic personality who can only be happy when she is tearing down others. She lives for their failures and celebrates when they hit bottom. She loves to see people go at each other. She has pushed the envelope for years, and this season her actions have finally gone too far — and they look to be costly (hopefully at the expense of her orange). She’s backed herself into a corner, so she goes for the sympathy excuse, which insults and demeans people like my kids, and my family for that matter. I. Am. Over. It.

Why Bravo and Andy brought her back is truly a mystery for the ages because they have enabled this. 

If she truly has these issues, the best thing she can do for herself and us is to get off our TVs, go to Big Bear, find and work a program and GET BETTER to DO BETTER.

/Rant Off.

 

 

Edited October 15, 2024 by RoseAllDay

[Stats Queen]

2 hours ago, Slakkie said:

On Two T's it seems the reason Tamra is unable to be empathetic is a therapist told her 'she is on the spectrum

 

17 minutes ago, bosawks said:

She just doesn't care.  That is not the Spectrum, I believe diagnosis wise, that is called being an asshole

 

6 minutes ago, RoseAllDay said:

This “diagnosis” is BULLSHIT, and I am so livid right now that I probably can’t write anything that makes sense.

She is really up there on the asshole spectrum.

Just when I think she can’t get worse, she surprises me.

The disservice she has done with people actually on the spectrum is awful.

@RoseAllDay You’ve been through a lot and you have my love and respect. I hope someone like you takes her down.

[Baltimore Betty]

1 minute ago, Stats Queen said:

She is really up there on the asshole spectrum.

Yeah, why can't people just be assholes without having some medical diagnosis? Some people are just assholes, nothing any doctor can do about it.

[RoseAllDay]

44 minutes ago, Stats Queen said:

 

 

She is really up there on the asshole spectrum.

Just when I think she can’t get worse, she surprises me.

The disservice she has done with people actually on the spectrum is awful.

@RoseAllDay You’ve been through a lot and you have my love and respect. I hope someone like you takes her down.

Thank you so much. That means a lot. When you’re going through it you feel isolated because nobody really understands it, which is why it becomes such a convenient excuse for jerks like Tamra.

[Slakkie]

50 minutes ago, RoseAllDay said:

Thank you so much. That means a lot. When you’re going through it you feel isolated because nobody really understands it, which is why it becomes such a convenient excuse for jerks like Tamra.

Hey there mama I understand.  My son has sensory issues due to hearing issues as a young child and I had teachers saying he has Asperger and here I am saying 'no the actual specialists say XXXX'. Believe me had he had Asperger that would have been fine but people do not get the amount of time and effort it takes to get a diagnosis and the fact this woman is using her poor behavior and excusing it - I am enraged.  You cannot diagnose anything off of ONE session nor because you know someone with something.

I do know how lonely it can be when your child is different, and for Tamra to throw this out is beyond gross.  Like I don't want to see her on TV again gross.  Hugs.

Oh and off topic she pretty much blamed Simon on her "trauma" and her anxiety required her to drink to be able to film so that makes it that she has a drinking problem...

[RoseAllDay]

12 minutes ago, Slakkie said:

Hey there mama I understand.  My son has sensory issues due to hearing issues as a young child and I had teachers saying he has Asperger and here I am saying 'no the actual specialists say XXXX'. Believe me had he had Asperger that would have been fine but people do not get the amount of time and effort it takes to get a diagnosis and the fact this woman is using her poor behavior and excusing it - I am enraged.  You cannot diagnose anything off of ONE session nor because you know someone with something.

I do know how lonely it can be when your child is different, and for Tamra to throw this out is beyond gross.  Like I don't want to see her on TV again gross.  Hugs.

Oh and off topic she pretty much blamed Simon on her "trauma" and her anxiety required her to drink to be able to film so that makes it that she has a drinking problem...

It is always somebody else’s fault. Thanks for your post.

Edited October 15, 2024 by RoseAllDay

[Natalie68]

4 hours ago, Slakkie said:

On Two T's it seems the reason Tamra is unable to be empathetic is a therapist told her 'she is on the spectrum' which does not really align with what I know about neurodivergent people as they usually are overly empathetic versus act like a Honey Badger.

I am trying desperately not to judge but I am calling this diagnosis as very interesting timing wise and also a ready made excuse. 

On the spectrum? Lack of empathy is a sign of sociopathy but not typically a sign of autism. Based on google and my personal experience with both. Here are the signs:

Other signs of sociopathy include:

Not feeling remorse for bad actions

Taking advantage of others for personal gain

Disregarding the rights or feelings of others

Being dishonest

Being impulsive

Being self-centered

Having shallow relationships 

Of course I am just a viewer and my medical knowledge is School of Google but this seems like a reach.  Sorta like the 'I found god' storyline.

[RoseAllDay]

41 minutes ago, Natalie68 said:

On the spectrum? Lack of empathy is a sign of sociopathy but not typically a sign of autism. Based on google and my personal experience with both. Here are the signs:

Other signs of sociopathy include:

Not feeling remorse for bad actions

Taking advantage of others for personal gain

Disregarding the rights or feelings of others

Being dishonest

Being impulsive

Being self-centered

Having shallow relationships 

Of course I am just a viewer and my medical knowledge is School of Google but this seems like a reach.  Sorta like the 'I found god' storyline.

“Sociopath” is probably a more accurate description than “narcissist,” which I used. Damn, I’m still testy at her using “the spectrum” to explain/excuse her actions. The reason why Tamra is resorting to this asinine ploy is because she has nothing left. This is right up there with Brooks claiming cancer, with all his bogus medical reports. You don’t fuck with other people’s deeply personal experiences like this to make a buck or to save your own ass.

 

 

Edited October 15, 2024 by RoseAllDay

[Natalie68]

1 minute ago, RoseAllDay said:

“Sociopath” is probably a more accurate description than “narcissist,” which I used. Damn, I’m still testy at her using “the spectrum” to explain/excuse her actions. The reason why Tamra is resorting to this asinine ploy is because she has nothing left. This is right up there with Brooks claiming cancer, with all his bogus medical reports. You don’t fuck with other people’s deeply personal experiences like this to make a buck or to save your own ass.

 

 

Up and Adam brought up maybe she is using this to say she has a disability so Bravo doesn't fire her.  I find this new 'revelation' disgusting. 

[RoseAllDay]

28 minutes ago, Natalie68 said:

Up and Adam brought up maybe she is using this to say she has a disability so Bravo doesn't fire her.  I find this new 'revelation' disgusting. 

🤬This is exactly why people who truly have disabilities or needs have such a hard time. If this doesn’t work, will she get a pet ferret and claim it’s an “emotional support animal”?

[bosawks]

3 minutes ago, RoseAllDay said:

🤬This is exactly why people who truly have disabilities or needs have such a hard time. If this doesn’t work, will she get a pet ferret and claim it’s an “emotional support animal”?

Didn't she already do this and it's called "Eddie"?

[Palimelon]

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will she get a pet ferret and claim it’s an “emotional support animal”?

I think a cobra or alligator would be more appropriate.

[RoseAllDay]

23 minutes ago, bosawks said:

Didn't she already do this and it's called "Eddie"?

BWAHAHAAA. 😂 Thanks for the much-needed laugh. Eddie is a doormat, and I have zero respect for that man. You could pay me all the money in the world and nothing would keep me tied to that woman. Grow a pair, dude.

[Pi237]

Tamra is very calculated in how she uses the information she has on people. She love bombs them to get them to let their guard down, saves all the texts and phone calls between them to store and use for a later date. That is not the diagnosis of someone who misses social cues. I was willing to give her the benefit of the doubt, that she’s only this way because it keeps her on the show and the producers expect it.  But this is a step Way too far.  Karma, come get your bitch.

[RoseAllDay]

29 minutes ago, Pi237 said:

Tamra is very calculated in how she uses the information she has on people. She love bombs them to get them to let their guard down, saves all the texts and phone calls between them to store and use for a later date. That is not the diagnosis of someone who misses social cues. I was willing to give her the benefit of the doubt, that she’s only this way because it keeps her on the show and the producers expect it.  But this is a step Way too far.  Karma, come get your bitch.

Trying to catch up on the show and I started with the episode where Shannon “butt-dialed” Tamra. Tamra could not wait to tell Heather about the call, and the look on her face was anything but the care and concern of a good friend. This goes back as far as her pointing her finger at Gretchen and yelling “DID YOU GO TO BASS LAKE??” Humiliation is always the point with this bitch, always has been, her usual MO of running away when called on it has grown old so she’s moved on to this. That is not, in my experience, the behavior of someone who is on the spectrum.

🎻 — world’s smallest violin, playing just for her.

[Stats Queen]

Not sure how to embed an Instagram link. But here is Tamra’s response to all the backlash she is getting.

 

started therapy because this year had been really hard on me. I started feeling really insecure, I was having intrusive thoughts, and I didn’t wanna leave my house unless I had to. I even considered just being admitted into a mental health facility.

In my conversations with my therapist, who I’ve known for years, we talked about a lot over the course of two hours. And she told me that many of the things about me — like how I process information, my sensory issues, my social anxiety, my aversion to eye contact with new people, my not wanting to be out of my routine, etc. — were all signs of being on the spectrum.

Now, ‘On the spectrum’ it’s such a broad term. I don’t really understand it fully, and my therapist told me more evaluation was needed. But when I sat down at the mic to record my podcast 15 minutes later and my head was spinning from what she had said. I had no time to process things, or even talk to my family — I was just back at work. And I was so emotional, I just blurted it out.

Afterwards, my instinct was to have it removed. But I’m used to being so open with everything in my life, I thought against it. Now, I wish I had. I just want to take people through the journey with me as I’ve always done, but I realize now I spoke too soon publicly, and that processing this with such an onslaught of negative comments has been horrible.

If you know me, you know I don’t like to look weak or play the victim. I also hate labels, just as much as I hate excuses. But I’m working on myself — not a TV show; to be a better person for me and the people around me. This isn’t some storyline. It’s my real life.

I have past trauma that is deep and painful. This is something I’ve suppressed for 15 years. But I’m finally getting the help I need, and I’m proud of myself for that.

So as much as I appreciate the amazing people who reached out, I think it’s best to move forward more privately until I get to a better mental space. My mental health is just not strong enough where I can be judged and hated on right now. Yes, I’m admitting I’m weak. And I’m okay with that right now.

 

https://www.instagram.com/p/DBKHkxrp5nD/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link&igsh=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==

[RoseAllDay]

48 minutes ago, Stats Queen said:

Not sure how to embed an Instagram link. But here is Tamra’s response to all the backlash she is getting.

 

started therapy because this year had been really hard on me. I started feeling really insecure, I was having intrusive thoughts, and I didn’t wanna leave my house unless I had to. I even considered just being admitted into a mental health facility.

In my conversations with my therapist, who I’ve known for years, we talked about a lot over the course of two hours. And she told me that many of the things about me — like how I process information, my sensory issues, my social anxiety, my aversion to eye contact with new people, my not wanting to be out of my routine, etc. — were all signs of being on the spectrum.

Now, ‘On the spectrum’ it’s such a broad term. I don’t really understand it fully, and my therapist told me more evaluation was needed. But when I sat down at the mic to record my podcast 15 minutes later and my head was spinning from what she had said. I had no time to process things, or even talk to my family — I was just back at work. And I was so emotional, I just blurted it out.

Afterwards, my instinct was to have it removed. But I’m used to being so open with everything in my life, I thought against it. Now, I wish I had. I just want to take people through the journey with me as I’ve always done, but I realize now I spoke too soon publicly, and that processing this with such an onslaught of negative comments has been horrible.

If you know me, you know I don’t like to look weak or play the victim. I also hate labels, just as much as I hate excuses. But I’m working on myself — not a TV show; to be a better person for me and the people around me. This isn’t some storyline. It’s my real life.

I have past trauma that is deep and painful. This is something I’ve suppressed for 15 years. But I’m finally getting the help I need, and I’m proud of myself for that.

So as much as I appreciate the amazing people who reached out, I think it’s best to move forward more privately until I get to a better mental space. My mental health is just not strong enough where I can be judged and hated on right now. Yes, I’m admitting I’m weak. And I’m okay with that right now.

 

https://www.instagram.com/p/DBKHkxrp5nD/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link&igsh=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==

I don’t need to go on this journey with you, Tamra. Been there, done that.

This all just rings hollow, sorry. If she’s that concerned, she needs to leave the show and enter therapy.

EDIT: I copy the Instagram post and save it to photos, then add it below. This is a long post, though, so it might have been too large anyway.

 

Edited October 15, 2024 by RoseAllDay

[Cosmocrush]

She's got the buzzwords down.   But honestly, my reaction is "wah, wah, wah.  I don't care Tamra."   

She needs to hire a better publicist because this SorryNotSorry post of hers is ridiculous.  Also, maybe find a better therapist because if she's been seeing this one FOR YEARS it's not working. 

Then again, I'm not her target audience because, yeah I don't care about her tough year or therapy or whatever.   I do however, appreciate getting all the info here.  🙂

[Cosmocrush]

1 hour ago, Stats Queen said:

Tamra:

...So as much as I appreciate the amazing people who reached out, I think it’s best to move forward more privately until I get to a better mental space. My mental health is just not strong enough where I can be judged and hated on right now. Yes, I’m admitting I’m weak. And I’m okay with that right now.

Does that mean she's going to stop her Podcast?  Get off social media?   Or is it just that filming for the show has ended for the season?  Because being "judged and hated on" is exactly what she spend the whole season doing to Shannon.  Ugh.  She's gross. 

[Stats Queen]

16 minutes ago, Cosmocrush said:

Does that mean she's going to stop her Podcast?  Get off social media?   Or is it just that filming for the show has ended for the season?  Because being "judged and hated on" is exactly what she spend the whole season doing to Shannon.  Ugh.  She's gross. 

She wrote that crap because of backlash and it is backfiring on her.

I would say that her feelings are hurt, but not sure she has feelings.

[RoseAllDay]

13 minutes ago, Cosmocrush said:

Does that mean she's going to stop her Podcast?  Get off social media?   Or is it just that filming for the show has ended for the season?  Because being "judged and hated on" is exactly what she spend the whole season doing to Shannon.  Ugh.  She's gross. 

No, just like when she cuts and runs, she thinks avoidance and deception will cure all ills. She needs to just STFU. I thought there was no way I could like her even less — until I saw this post. Andy, please read the room and don’t ask her back. Even Vicki or Alexis would be an improvement over that woman.

[Palimelon]

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Does that mean she's going to stop her Podcast?  Get off social media?   Or is it just that filming for the show has ended for the season? 

It means she is possibly trying to secure a story for herself next season.

Or what Stats Queen said. Or both.

I know that sounds cynical but this is Tamra we are talking about.