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90DF Live Chat 3: I Gave Up Everything To Be Here


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7 minutes ago, Mrs. Landingham said:

Now that is a top tier throwback comment. Sesame Street, Mr. Rogers, and Electric Company were my childhood.

Oh, The Electric Company!

 

Just now, Drogo said:

You know how bad that smelled

 Poor Sheila 

I must say, not all sweaty people are smelly. Some are just leaky. 

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1 minute ago, renatae said:

She's "turned on" by the fact he's a virgin. I felt the same about my virgin then-boyfriend now husband but, well, he's actually sexy. Nikola is, well, let's say not in the same league. Shudder.

Are we twins?  Mine was actually running away from religion and I was all “welcome to the dark side” (literally and figuratively…more Guess Who’s Coming to Dinner in rural PA stories later).

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10 minutes ago, Mrs. Landingham said:

Now that is a top tier throwback comment. Sesame Street, Mr. Rogers, and Electric Company were my childhood.

Oh, The Electric Company!

 

2 minutes ago, Drogo said:

You know how bad that smelled

 Poor Sheila 

I must say, not all sweaty people are smelly. Some are just leaky. 

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Oh update on the freelancer situation…she works remotely so I send her a long note trying not to be rude but explaining her mistakes and why we couldn’t use her work. It was fine but holy shit I found out the reason she is getting so much work is she was recommended by my colleague..she is her sons girlfriend and I get the impression that she covers for a lot of her mistakes. This isn’t the first project I worked with her on where I had to chase because she missed deadlines. 

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Just now, sainte-chapelle said:

Oh update on the freelancer situation…she works remotely so I send her a long note trying not to be rude but explaining her mistakes and why we couldn’t use her work. It was fine but holy shit I found out the reason she is getting so much work is she was recommended by my colleague..she is her sons girlfriend and I get the impression that she covers for a lot of her mistakes. This isn’t the first project I worked with her on where I had to chase because she missed deadlines. 

Nepotism doesn’t equal competence.

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1 minute ago, sainte-chapelle said:

Oh update on the freelancer situation…she works remotely so I send her a long note trying not to be rude but explaining her mistakes and why we couldn’t use her work. It was fine but holy shit I found out the reason she is getting so much work is she was recommended by my colleague..she is her sons girlfriend and I get the impression that she covers for a lot of her mistakes. This isn’t the first project I worked with her on where I had to chase because she missed deadlines. 

so what is this? just someone who is a typist?

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Christian is very "extroverted". That's Christian for "I'm a skeevy creep who can't resist trying to get over on some sweet young thing". Cleo is right, he never "strikes up a conversation" with another dude. My son is an extrovert par excellence, and he'll chat with ANYONE. He's a Chat Machine. He's genuinely friendly and interested in people. Christian is so not that.

I'll have to remember, if I'm ever in an awkward social situation, to just say "Sooooo.....does anyone want some more cheese?"

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Just now, Pepper Mostly said:

Christian is very "extroverted". That's Christian for "I'm a skeevy creep who can't resist trying to get over on some sweet young thing". Cleo is right, he never "strikes up a conversation" with another dude. My son is an extrovert par excellence, and he'll chat with ANYONE. He's a Chat Machine. He's genuinely friendly and interested in people. Christian is so not that.

I'll have to remember, if I'm ever in an awkward social situation, to just say "Sooooo.....does anyone want some more cheese?"

All of this. Including the cheese.

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4 minutes ago, sainte-chapelle said:

Oh update on the freelancer situation…she works remotely so I send her a long note trying not to be rude but explaining her mistakes and why we couldn’t use her work. It was fine but holy shit I found out the reason she is getting so much work is she was recommended by my colleague..she is her sons girlfriend and I get the impression that she covers for a lot of her mistakes. This isn’t the first project I worked with her on where I had to chase because she missed deadlines. 

This person may not want so much work!

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5 minutes ago, greekmom said:

so what is this? just someone who is a typist?

She is a designer…we lost some freelancers and were desperate but I don’t think she is up to snuff on certain things and my colleague covers for her due to their relationship. It is a tough situation and I don’t want to rock to boat. It is a job by job basis so I guess it’s fine but I’d rather find other freelancers to avoid conflict of interest.

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3 minutes ago, Suzywriter said:

This person may not want so much work!

I agree, she is so young and has a lot going on. It’s an awkward situation. It’s hard to manage work and turn down jobs when you are first getting started. She is lovely but not the right fit in this moment.

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