90DF Live Chat 3: I Gave Up Everything To Be Here

[Frozendiva]

Jealousy may be a part of it, but I would be wondering if I had to fund the wives. That would be a massive dealbreaker.

[Pepper Mostly]

Yanno, I don't know much about Nigerian culture, but I suspect that a good many Nigerian women would enjoy a hearty laugh at Usman's notion that they must be "submissive" to their husbands. 

[Hotel Snarker]

I see she upgraded to milkshake. How mature and classy.

[Bees52]

Kim is all angry and upset about Usman marrying women who don't even exist yet. Throwing a drink at him, again?  Let him go, and come back to the States.

[sainte-chapelle]

So is Usman going to live with wife 2 or expects Usman to move to the US and just leave his kids there?

[endure]

Kimbally says...... "I'm not a show pony"

[Auntie Anxiety]

Is Kimbelly having a come to Jesus moment and realizing what she’s a part of? Yeah, never mind.

[Frozendiva]

I would have shook my head and passed on returning to Nigeria. Good luck, Useman.

[sainte-chapelle]

Just now, endure said:

Kimbally says...... "I'm not a show pony"

Lol we all know that Kimball

[endure]

1 minute ago, Hotel Snarker said:

I see she upgraded to milkshake. How mature and classy.

And such a waste too.

[Hotel Snarker]

Usman talks a big game after that but he won't send her back to America. And Kim talks a big game but she won't leave yet.

[charmed1]

1 minute ago, Auntie Anxiety said:

Kimbelly, that half-leopard t short you’re wearing doesn’t make you look sexy. Just saying. Try zebra stripes.

I swear I almost bought that top from Family Dollar at my fattest point during the shutdown. It was a two-piece set.

[LEILANI2]

Oh Kimbahhly, no one thinks you're a show pony except you.

[Zombness]

Kimberly, Usman just wants the green card, get out of there and find a good man here in the US.

[Gobi]

1 minute ago, endure said:

Kimbally says...... "I'm not a show pony"

"Just a horse's ass."

[Auntie Anxiety]

I’d love a milkshake. I forgot to have my homemade Frappuccino this summer (my limit). I guess it’s still summer officially, right? Maybe tomorrow.

[Pepper Mostly]

2 minutes ago, Hotel Snarker said:

Go home and stalk an old American man, Kim.

She could take up golf, go to Bingo, hang out at the senior center, get involved in local politics, do volunteer work for an animal shelter or a hospital, join a garden club, take a class......she could meet someone suitable. But she thinks she's hot stuff and can hook a young stud. 

3 minutes ago, endure said:

Kimbally says...... "I'm not a show pony"

The jokes, they write themselves!

[Auntie Anxiety]

1 minute ago, Pepper Mostly said:

She could take up golf, go to Bingo, hang out at the senior center, get involved in local politics, do volunteer work for an animal shelter or a hospital, join a garden club, take a class......she could meet someone suitable. But she thinks she's hot stuff and can hook a young stud. 

4 minutes ago, endure said:

She prefers someone  who catfishes her.

[magemaud]

Brought to you by Dairy Queen 

[Auntie Anxiety]

Having a baby is like the plague? Shut the fuck up, BileDuct.

[tvrox]

Um, Shaeda, he's comparing your potential child to a plague. RUN. 

[endure]

2 minutes ago, Auntie Anxiety said:

I’d love a milkshake. I forgot to have my homemade Frappuccino this summer (my limit). I guess it’s still summer officially, right? Maybe tomorrow.

I'm so into affogatos in the summer(espresso & ice cream)

[Grifter Lives]

Bile's tangerine shirt is so much more muted than the bright fuchsia shirt Shaeheeda chose for him.  I hate him.

[LEILANI2]

1. Bilal and what's her name: snoozefest narcissism.

2. Angela: snoozefest and abusive.

3. Libby's singing career and alcholic family: snoozefest

4. Kimbally: yawn

5. Summit and Jenny: waiting for Jenny to die and/or Summeat to go back to catfishing.

[goofygirl]

So old Bilal was just blowing smoke up Shaeda's ass, huh???

[endure]

Who is trying to dupe who Bilal and MYOB sister in law

[Hotel Snarker]

Bilal really thinks doing required charity work means he can be a complete asshole in every other aspect of life.

[Auntie Anxiety]

BileDuct wants to wait until Shae is menopausal and then when she can’t conceive, he’ll say it’s her fault and Allah’s wishes.

[Frozendiva]

You are stringing her along, Bilalzebub.

[Gobi]

1 minute ago, LEILANI2 said:

3. Libby's singing career and alcholic family: boozefest

FTFY

[sainte-chapelle]

Just now, Hotel Snarker said:

Bilal really thinks doing required charity work means he can be a complete asshole in every other aspect of life.

John Gacey went to church and did charity work

[Hotel Snarker]

Wait? For what? For her to be past child bearing age? Bilal suuuuucccckkkkks.

[Auntie Anxiety]

My sons would never cone to me with a problem like that. It’s called boundaries, BileDuct.

[Hotel Snarker]

Your son IS a red flag.

[Gobi]

Too early? She's in her thirties, how long do you plan on waiting?

[Pepper Mostly]

What red flags are you talking about, you haggish old busybody? 

Bilal: "I'm very busy now, breaking Shaeeda's spirit. I can't bring a baby into the mix until this process is complete" 

Fuck you Bilal. 

[sainte-chapelle]

Ummm they should have addressed the red flags before getting married 

[magemaud]

Bilal, you ARE stringing her along!  

[endure]

Oh great the bitch is back, her grandkids think she's an idiot too

[sainte-chapelle]

Why…why is she at a gross buffet

[Auntie Anxiety]

Please, can someone take Grangie behind the barn and “set her free?”

[magemaud]

God, Angela hacking over the salad bar! 

[Hotel Snarker]

Is Barbara Dean's buffet a chain or just local to Meemaw's town?

[Pepper Mostly]

Ugh, Angela. Bathroom break.

[Frozendiva]

All you can eat and maybe a doggie bag to take home.

[LEILANI2]

That salad buffett did not look good. They could have just bought some Taylor Farms.

Edited September 19, 2022 by LEILANI2

[Gobi]

They should change the name of the show to 90 Delusional Fiancés.

[GrammyPammy]

I usually fast-forward through Bilal’s nonsense but I went to the kitchen to refill my drink and it played just long for me to begin to hear his foolishness and get irate.

First his braggy virtue-signaling about his food pantry charity efforts. Give me a break.

Then he calls the baby store and Shaeeda’s campaign to get pregnant “the plague”. Ugh.
She NEVER should have married him or trusted him to take her desire to become a mother seriously. That pre-nush isn’t worth the paper it’s printed on.

Now he is running to his mommy to once again throw Shaeeda under the bus about her “duping” him into having a baby. Just because that’s HIS M.O. doesn’t mean everyone is manipulative and shady. Yeah, Mother Bilal, her clock IS ticking wild because she is 37 years old and counting! It takes time to conceive and “incubate” a baby, not to mention if they have more than one…her 40th birthday will have come and gone quickly.

So then Bilal says that in his FIRST marriage they had children right away. Are you talking about your SECOND marriage, to Shahideous, Bilal? Then Mother Bilal brags that Bilal has been a counselor himself in the past as an Imam!?!? WTF??? I would no more trust this gaslighting egomaniac with my mental health than I would use him as a realtor! 
Add on his uneducated grammar usage and…well, I will be ever more vigilant in the future to try to skip his ish in the future!

[sainte-chapelle]

Not to be an asshole but some of those kids are grossly overweight. They need to learn healthy eating habits young as they will carry them into adulthood 

[renatae]

Bilal doing doctoring on himself? I think his endgame is no more kids period. As usual, everything has to be his way. This guy obviously has no understanding of biological clocks, and he's not listening at all. Why would we think he ever would?