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90DF Live Chat 3: I Gave Up Everything To Be Here


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1 minute ago, Pepper Mostly said:

Caesar and Debbie? What the fuck? 

Right?  Like are they bringing everyone back as if they have any relevance?

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2 minutes ago, Zombness said:

Cesar?   Giving advise?   Pleaaase!!

Cesar's coat is even worse than Chantel's dress, which I didn't think was possible. 

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1 minute ago, tvrox said:

Cesar's coat is even worse than Chantel's dress, which I didn't think was possible. 

Looks like he stole it from a maitre d'. At a place called Vinny's House of Ravioli. 

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3 minutes ago, tvrox said:

Cesar's coat is even worse than Chantel's dress, which I didn't think was possible. 

He should ask to borrow her dress maybe?

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1 minute ago, Auntie Anxiety said:

Have been watching 3 Body Problem on Netflix. Great at the beginning but toward the end, it’s getting to be a little bit melodramatic. One more thing—Liam Cunningham.

I just watched "Quiet on the Set" on Max, about the pedophiles and creeps at Nickelodeon. Nightmare fuel. I had to pour several episodes of "The Repair Shop" into my brain afterwards. Today I started season three of "No Offence" on Britbox and it is SO GOOD. 

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1 minute ago, Pepper Mostly said:

I just watched "Quiet on the Set" on Max, about the pedophiles and creeps at Nickelodeon. Nightmare fuel. I had to pour several episodes of "The Repair Shop" into my brain afterwards. Today I started season three of "No Offence" on Britbox and it is SO GOOD. 

Quiet on the Set came as no surprise. Interesting that Jennette McCurdy's book was so hateful to her mother, but had no complaints about her actual abuser. Figures.

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4 minutes ago, Auntie Anxiety said:

Josh is dancing around the simple truth that Nuttie is an unstable psychotic loon and he doesn’t want her near his kid.

Can't blame him! 

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Just now, Suzywriter said:

Quiet on the Set came as no surprise. Interesting that Jennette McCurdy's book was so hateful to her mother, but had no complaints about her actual abuser. Figures.

I read Jeanette's book, she didn't name her abuser but she was pretty salty about him. 

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3 minutes ago, Auntie Anxiety said:

Josh, you can’t fix Nuttie. She’s not fixable.

Maybe fixable by a trained psychiatrist. Not by Josh. 

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natalie--Tim hit a sore spot when he mentioned josh was paying you for sleeping with him because you know that it is true. 

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1 minute ago, Pepper Mostly said:

I read Jeanette's book, she didn't name her abuser but she was pretty salty about him. 

I read it as well. Cringey all around.

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Shut up Debbie. Passionate and needy aren't mutually exclusive. 

Just now, OneGuy said:

Great!  I was hoping to hear from Ty and Payton.

Right? I've been worrying that we might not hear their unique perspectives. 

Debbie. You are the mother of COLT. You have no room to call anyone out for being a shit person. 

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On 3/25/2024 at 9:07 PM, Zombness said:

There has to be part three...Ruben the Cuban.  

Yeah, I got over that witticism awhile ago. I'm picturing them  doing that to other ethnic groups. How about "Mack the Black," "Sue the Jew," or "Jason the Caucasian"? Ugh.

This season of the franchise has done what none could do before--gotten me to quit. They are all gross and mean, with a few exceptions such as Tyray, Giannis, Ruben, and Cousin Itt, I mean Miss Debbie, sweet at times despite a Southern shade undertow.

As an American I'm embarrassed by the parade of dregs and how it must appear to people in other countries.  

 

 

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Chantel's mom, whew.  She stuffed herself like a sausage into a sequined jumpsuit too small for her.  Did anyone notice that the cameraman focused the lens on her copious ass several times?  Her hair, make up and extra long false eyelashes are meant for a woman way younger than she is. Maybe her ugly personality is leaking out to her exterior. I just used up my days ration of snarky meanness.

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On 3/25/2024 at 11:46 PM, Annymin said:

Chantel's mom, whew.  She stuffed herself like a sausage into a sequined jumpsuit too small for her.  Did anyone notice that the cameraman focused the lens on her copious ass several times?  Her hair, make up and extra long false eyelashes are meant for a woman way younger than she is. Maybe her ugly personality is leaking out to her exterior. I just used up my days ration of snarky meanness.

You are on the money 100% -What kind of mirror do these people use?

Definitely delusional

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OK, I'm here! Don't know why, but here I am. I've been watching The Repair Shop all weekend and am full of wholesomeness. Let's see how long it takes for Ed to make me ragey.

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Just now, Pepper Mostly said:

OK, I'm here! Don't know why, but here I am. I've been watching The Repair Shop all weekend and am full of wholesomeness. Let's see how long it takes for Ed to make me ragey.

It took me about 30 seconds! 

4 minutes ago, judylo said:

Hi! Who’s here?

I briefly thought about reading a book, but here I am. Unless Angela shows up. 

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