90DF Live Chat 3: I Gave Up Everything To Be Here

[SunnyBeBe]

I was in a relationship with someone who was 21 years older than me.  It was scary……didn’t work out.  There are many considerations. 

Edited October 3, 2022 by SunnyBeBe

[Auntie Anxiety]

Liz needs 5xweek therapy. 

[Hotel Snarker]

Liz, the sooner he’s out of your life, the better.

[Frozendiva]

1 minute ago, OneGuy said:

After 3 or 4 more marriages.

Giving JLo a run for her money. She can’t be alone and has to be desirable every single day.

[Pepper Mostly]

OK peeps, last half hour! Lets finish strong! 

[LEILANI2]

Who at 28 living in Los Angeles and just a year or so ago was very attractive would consider wasting their life away settling for Ed the gas lighting asshole.

[sainte-chapelle]

Ewww with the yammy

[Suzywriter]

Just now, LEILANI2 said:

Who at 28 living in Los Angeles and just a year or so ago was very attractive would consider wasting their life away settling for Ed the gas lighting asshole.

Who wouldn't want to be married to an abusive fig? 

[Frozendiva]

1 minute ago, LEILANI2 said:

Who at 28 living in Los Angeles and just a year or so ago was very attractive would consider wasting their life away settling for Ed the gas lighting asshole.

She may have financial or other issues.

[Gobi]

They're eating catfish, how appropriate.

[Bees52]

Sheesh! Kim stop with all the talk  about Second Life... I mean wife!

[GrammyPammy]

1 minute ago, LEILANI2 said:

Who at 28 living in Los Angeles and just a year or so ago was very attractive would consider wasting their life away settling for Ed the gas lighting asshole.

Someone with serious mental health issues who also craves attention and being on television.

[Shelbie]

Liz could easily end up taking care of Ed and her grandparents. It could be never ending drudgery.

[Auntie Anxiety]

Kimbelly can promise that she wouldn’t get pissed about a second wife but we all know that words are cheap.

[SunnyBeBe]

Angela and Kimberly have the same routine of being totally done, out of there, all over it, THEN……they’re back on.  Reconsidered, recommitted…..head spinning.😳

[LEILANI2]

Sojaboy must love being on TV cuz just eating with Kimbally is vomit inducing.

[Gobi]

"If we can agree on me having a second, younger, hotter wife than this will work out."

[Auntie Anxiety]

Usman: Love me, love my dog second wife and kids.

[OneGuy]

1 minute ago, Shelbie said:

Liz could easily end up taking care of Ed and her grandparents. It could be never ending drEDgery.

[sainte-chapelle]

During his relationship with Lisa this never came up right? I can’t remember. Why now all of a sudden? He married Lisa right?

[Frozendiva]

If you don’t want to have someone with multiple wives, end it.

[Grifter Lives]

"How would you like if I said that I don't want to have anything to do with Jamal?"  

I'm sure Jamal would love it.

[GrammyPammy]

1 minute ago, Auntie Anxiety said:

Kimbelly can promise that she wouldn’t get pissed about a second wife but we all know that words are cheap.

“I promise to never pour a milkshake over your baby-maker’s head”

[Auntie Anxiety]

Kimbelly, Usman will tell you whatever you want to hear at that moment. When are you going to figure this out? Stop being so desperate.

[LEILANI2]

Raise your hand if you think Sojaboy and Kimbally will ever actually get married.

[sainte-chapelle]

America is  large country. Why not? Cheaper to fly within the US than to Nigeria. Her reasoning makes no sense.

[Eldemarge]

What are they even arguing about? You can't marry two women in America, KIMBAHLY.  

Get a lip lift.

[Hotel Snarker]

Kim is committed to this ugly ass half up ponytail.

[LEILANI2]

I sense another drink about to be thrown.

[Suzywriter]

Just now, Eldemarge said:

What are they even arguing about? You can't marry two women in America, KIMBAHLY.  

Get a lip lift.

Tell Kody.

[Tuneful]

13 minutes ago, Auntie Anxiety said:

Liz looks waywayway older than 28. I’d say mid to late 30’s.

I was going to say she's aged 10 years since she got together with him. 

Her grandparents are very skeptical and very disappointed. The grandma is trying to put her best face on about it. She knows she can't stop it. 

[GrammyPammy]

1 minute ago, sainte-chapelle said:

During his relationship with Lisa this never came up right? I can’t remember. Why now all of a sudden? He married Lisa right?

Lisa probably thought she was ultra-fertile and convinced him of the same…

[Doublemint]

6 minutes ago, Pepper Mostly said:

OK peeps, last half hour! Lets finish strong! 

Need toothpicks for my eyes - they keep closing.

[Pepper Mostly]

Just now, sainte-chapelle said:

America is  large country. Why not? Cheaper to fly within the US than to Nigeria. Her reasoning makes no sense.

But the whole thing is so ridiculous! Why is she putting up with this at all? Why is she accepting it and talking about it like its a rational plan? I want to shake her!

[Emmeline]

It looks like Libby and Andrei and having another child.

[LEILANI2]

1 minute ago, Tuneful said:

I was going to say she's aged 10 years since she got together with him. 

Her grandparents are very skeptical and very disappointed. The grandma is trying to put her best face on about it. She knows she can't stop it. 

3 marriages at 28....that should be criminal. Maybe if they actually showed they didn't approve it would jiggle something in that brain of hers.  It surely couldn't hurt considering the path she's on.

Edited October 3, 2022 by LEILANI2

[SunnyBeBe]

Is her cheek swollen?

[Tuneful]

6 minutes ago, GrammyPammy said:

[Who would want to be with Ed?] Someone with serious mental health issues who also craves attention and being on television.

Someone who...doesn't want to be alone. Doesn't want a regular job. Has Daddy issues. 

Edited October 3, 2022 by Tuneful

[Pepper Mostly]

Just now, Doublemint said:

Need toothpicks for my eyes - they keep closing.

Same, friend. Same. 

[Suzywriter]

Why do these people start with a fertility doctor before they even try unprotected sex? It seems to me that birth control is a much bigger issue than fertility for most people.

[OneGuy]

1 minute ago, Pepper Mostly said:

But the whole thing is so ridiculous! Why is she putting up with this at all? Why is she accepting it and talking about it like its a rational plan? I want to shake her!

Be careful.  You don't know what might fall out of that.

[Auntie Anxiety]

2 minutes ago, LEILANI2 said:

I sense another drink about to be thrown.

The Magic 8 Ball 🎱says “all signs point to yes.”

[Hotel Snarker]

Someone tell Deb you probably shouldn’t profess your love the first time you meet someone. Didn’t she learn from Coltee???

[goofygirl]

5 minutes ago, sainte-chapelle said:

During his relationship with Lisa this never came up right? I can’t remember. Why now all of a sudden? He married Lisa right?

I can't remember either!  I think old SojaBoy likes the older American women because they have some $$$ and can buy him stuff!!  But hey! Is he driving a small MERCEDES??

[Pepper Mostly]

Just now, Suzywriter said:

Why do these people start with a fertility doctor before they even try unprotected sex? It seems to me that birth control is a much bigger issue than fertility for most people.

Sharp playbook, chapter two: If the couple does not visit an immigration lawyer, a fertility specialist must be consulted. Bonus for women who agree to have gynecological exam filmed, up to and including trans-vaginal ultrasound. 

[sainte-chapelle]

2 minutes ago, Pepper Mostly said:

But the whole thing is so ridiculous! Why is she putting up with this at all? Why is she accepting it and talking about it like its a rational plan? I want to shake her!

Right? “ You can have a second wife but she has to be treated like no more than a brood mare and stay Nigeria “  women supporting women 🙄

[GrammyPammy]

Just now, goofygirl said:

  But hey! Is he driving a small MERCEDES??

He shares it with Bile.

[OneGuy]

1 minute ago, sainte-chapelle said:

Right? “ You can have a second wife but she has to be treated like no more than a brood mare and stay Nigeria “  women supporting women 🙄

The personal is political.

[Pepper Mostly]

3 minutes ago, Hotel Snarker said:

Someone tell Deb you probably shouldn’t profess your love the first time you meet someone. Didn’t she learn from Coltee???

No one in this blasted hellscape of a franchise ever learns a thing. 

Edited October 3, 2022 by Pepper Mostly

[sainte-chapelle]

Balil talks like a serial killer. That calm patronizing tone. Fun