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Beat me to it. Clear as day as she was, I wouldn’t put it past either Kevin or Randall to try and steamroll as things get tougher. She needs to have all her preferences stated with power of attorney and advance directives.

In some ways I prefer that; there were instances in the past where you could clearly see people trying to pack in like sardines. On the other hand, you couldn't have spontaneous moments and whatnot. If I recall correctly, there was the time Meyl Streep kissed Mark Ruffalo. I'm sure there are other examples but that one stood out (also, Mark's adorable reaction).

Fun fact: The overlaying of lyrics/harmonies at the end of Bruno’s song is called—wait for it—a madrigal.

I enjoyed the second red chair story, especially Graham's reaction.

Right—missing but thankfully alive. Apparently bio parents lost custody (no explanation for that was provided). She had been reported missing in 2019. Both bio parents were arrested… A policeman noticed something “odd” about the staircase, in grandfather’s home, no less. Policeman then used the flashlight and noticed a blanket (it’s been very cold over the last couple of days in New York). They had been to the house before but people in the house would deny having seen the child.Not much more was provided.

Not sure if this belongs here, but I saw this on the news and thought it had Dateline all over it. Custody issues are always a mess, but the fact that they put that child in a staircase makes me think they won’t be winning any parenting awards anytime soon. I hope she gets access to the care that she needs now – get the child into therapy as soon as possible. Oy, meant to post this in general gabbery but my iPad is acting up.

I watched the first episode and really wanted to like it, but nope-not gonna be a fan anytime soon. Too much back-stabbing (including an actual stabbing). Seemed a little Jerry Springer-ish as well. I prefer shows to be a bit more evergreen—this ain’t it.

Damm. May those monsters still be burning in whichever circle of hell is considered the worst.

Well, I loved this. And yes, there are two songs I want to listen to outside of the movie--"We don't talk about Bruno" and "Dos orugitas" I mean, from the first verse I fell in love with Dos orugitas. Watched it in English and then in Spanish, and discovered more little details on second viewing.

That was revolting. As was the killer’s version or “retelling” of that night.

Yes. Painful to watch, at every turn—all the small but consequential decisions that led to his tragic end, and then the galling lack of accountability; people twisting themselves into pretzels to try and justify the murder of a child in the face of overwhelming evidence. And the knowledge of how it all turned out.

If you are interested, here is a conversation between Will Smith, showrunner Marissa Jo Cerrar, and Jay Z.

Wow. He looked about 12 to me when he first started, and still looks like he has not aged much. Takes me out of the storyline.

Ha! I did love that. Especially with the tone she said "illiterate" because it sounded a lot like the Spanish "analfabeta". Packed a stronger punch for me. I mean, Emily has all the tools and opportunities in the world not to be a dumbass and yet...

Ok, I get it, Will Smith is not for everyone. I.... love him (ducks flying objects). My heart was particularly giddy, as can be imagined, at the Hamilton section. I nerded out hard to that one. I am surprised no one has mentioned Yola--I hadn't heard of her at all but loved the song enough to actually listen to it and then had to go seek her out. Just wonderful. I very rarely like the musical acts on this show (to the point of skipping them altogether to see if there is a red chair), so she was a nice surprise.

I am also in awe. They demonstrated such strength and courage, in spite of the hell they went through almost their entire lives. Their level of resiliency and ability to still smile to the world is something to be admired. I like that Jennifer said she wants the Turpin name to mean strength. They achieved that with me. I know a few macho men who could only wish they had the emotional courage these young women have.

I remember seeing this on the news and wondering how this could go on for so long. Especially if Jennifer was taunted at school due to hygiene issues--hygiene problems in children are an indication (at best) of neglect, and teachers are mandated reporters. Jennifer went all the way up to third grade and no one noticed this, or if they did, they did nothing about it. I mean, what in the fresh hell. But then to see the total mismanagement and secrecy regarding the current status of the family, the fact that they have had to couch surf, struggle to get food, etc... Aw, hells no. Frosts my bum, as a coworker of mine used to say. There is supposed to be a whole system of support with people who care and can actually guide them. There needs to be accountability for all involved, and not this cloud of secrecy. They're trying to hide behind "confidentiality" but the victims are suffering in the meantime. SMH. Edited for spelling

“Her obsession with my child is unsettling, but you know, free babysitting” Gotta love Kelli. This reminds me of when I was 12 years old and my first nephew was born. I thought he was the most adorable baby in. the. entire. world. So yes, free babysitting.

I really liked this one. Always love when Salma is on. They guests seemed to vibe well. Though I did find it odd that the zoom thing wasn’t live-maybe they were trying to avoid tech issues as has happened with other guests, or maybe it was the time difference. Still liked it.

So I have not watched the show but had to come here to share something I thought was kinda funny: Criatián De La Fuente, who was in season 6 with Cheryl is—get this—a judge on a dancing show. It is a show in Spanish, called Así se baila:and presume his qualifications are solely based on his dwts experience.

Yes! It's one of those "I'm never going to live this down" moments. So cool.

Thank you!

Damm, I missed it. Not even sure which couple to look for.

Ok, I did suspect the hustler with all his convenient answers but I settled on the woman because of the car decal—she did “look”:like “Daddy’s little princes”, more than the other two contestants. I really would have put my money on her.

I am starting to get better at this. I’ve had strong hunches the last couple of times, and this last episode too. For me the top choice was “Alaska” guy, with green blazer lady being a second choice. Something about the way he hinted at the answers (but not too strongly), and then had a bit of a visceral reaction to pink lady’s statements about the hustler being scary / creepy. I keep thinking lady in pink looks similar to an actress, but I can’t quite put my finger on who.