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S08.E04: The Boy Who Cried Divorce


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4 hours ago, magemaud said:

Fun fact. I was looking up Our Lady of Perpetual Help in Rochester, and while there is a church by that name there, the interior shots were from OLPH in BUFFALO, 75 miles away. 

They were driving for a while.  They didn't show the readings.  It's possible they looked for a Spanish language service (I know what was shown was in English, but that's a tiny fraction of the mass) and didn't look that well.

2 hours ago, goldensglitter said:

WTH happened in the chat?? I came here as I do every Sunday night to read the snark and have a few laughs, and its locked.  Im in the dark about why this happened.  This sucks.

There was a message posted Tuesday night by a mod at the top of the last page of the Live Chat (1634) saying we haven’t been playing nice so the chat is shut down until we behave. 

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Just came to read the live chat & it's locked! I know I missed stuff because my posts were being moderated and even having asked about 6 different mods what I had said & what the guidelines were I got ZERO replies so you guys are out of luck if you want to know.

Great lesson in how to kill a message board. I knew it was bad before as I'm on my 2nd account anyway but jeez. 

 

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Probably just makes the most sense to start talking about the show on.....another platform. Perhaps one that starts with a primary color (that isn't blue or yellow) and ends with "dit," for me. This whole green light/red light system makes me feel like I'm being spoken to like a preschooler. Kinda had a feeling that was the direction this site was going after the third or fourth long-term shutdown to "improve." 

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10 hours ago, anoninrva said:

They were driving for a while.  They didn't show the readings.  It's possible they looked for a Spanish language service (I know what was shown was in English, but that's a tiny fraction of the mass) and didn't look that well.

I doubt they had to go that far to find a Spanish Mass and the responses they showed would usually be said in Spanish. I think it might be because they needed to find a church that would allow them to film. 

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29 minutes ago, magemaud said:

I doubt they had to go that far to find a Spanish Mass and the responses they showed would usually be said in Spanish. I think it might be because they needed to find a church that would allow them to film. 

They might have had to drive that far to find a deacon who wanted to be filmed and spoke fluent Spanish, though.

Our Cathedral does Spanish readings with English mass.  There are plenty of churches here with all Spanish services.  Richmond doesn't have a particularly large Hispanic population, but they are a very large proportion of practicing Catholics.

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1 hour ago, heatherchandler said:

I couldn’t find the note but I saw an admonishment on another forum… This is insane.  We can’t make fun of the people on the show?  That’s why we are here.

I'll cut and paste it here: 

Message added by CM-CrispMtAir, Tuesday at 11:06 PM

  Red Light: Community Check-In

This live chat thread has been assigned red light status due to a number of posts that don’t align with our community values of respect, diversity and inclusivity.

As it is representative of the general tone across the 90Day Fiancée forums, the live chat will remain locked until we observe a broader adoption of a more inclusive tone in the other topics.

Let’s shift the focus from the individual to their actions, fostering a space where every participant feels respected in their humanity. Consider how your words might influence not only current members but also those who observe from afar and how it shapes their perception of our forum's culture.

The topics will maintain this Red Light status until we observe a broader adoption of a more inclusive tone.

Here's what we're focusing on:

- Improvement Period: We have until May 2nd, 2024 to enhance the quality of our discussions. Otherwise, the entire 90Day Fiancée forum will be assigned Yellow Light status.

- Guidance: Highlighting what works well and identifying areas for growth are crucial. Our aim is constructive, respectful dialogue that includes all perspectives. The principle of kindness and inclusivity applies to everyone, even to the participants of the show. (Please note that that doesn’t mean you have to condone everything they say and do. It just means that comments should be mindful of their humanity).

- Assistance: If you’re unsure about contributing constructively, please consult our guidelines for helpful advice and best practices.
Check out the Top Chef S20 Live Chat for reference on healthy discussions of contestants.

- Your Contribution: Your active, respectful participation can help guide our discussions toward a Green Light status.

Together, we're committed to making this forum an inclusive environment for everyone. Your thoughtful engagement is essential to our collective progress.

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1 hour ago, magemaud said:

I'll cut and paste it here: 

Message added by CM-CrispMtAir, Tuesday at 11:06 PM

  Red Light: Community Check-In

This live chat thread has been assigned red light status due to a number of posts that don’t align with our community values of respect, diversity and inclusivity.

As it is representative of the general tone across the 90Day Fiancée forums, the live chat will remain locked until we observe a broader adoption of a more inclusive tone in the other topics.

Let’s shift the focus from the individual to their actions, fostering a space where every participant feels respected in their humanity. Consider how your words might influence not only current members but also those who observe from afar and how it shapes their perception of our forum's culture.

The topics will maintain this Red Light status until we observe a broader adoption of a more inclusive tone.

Here's what we're focusing on:

- Improvement Period: We have until May 2nd, 2024 to enhance the quality of our discussions. Otherwise, the entire 90Day Fiancée forum will be assigned Yellow Light status.

- Guidance: Highlighting what works well and identifying areas for growth are crucial. Our aim is constructive, respectful dialogue that includes all perspectives. The principle of kindness and inclusivity applies to everyone, even to the participants of the show. (Please note that that doesn’t mean you have to condone everything they say and do. It just means that comments should be mindful of their humanity).

- Assistance: If you’re unsure about contributing constructively, please consult our guidelines for helpful advice and best practices.
Check out the Top Chef S20 Live Chat for reference on healthy discussions of contestants.

- Your Contribution: Your active, respectful participation can help guide our discussions toward a Green Light status.

Together, we're committed to making this forum an inclusive environment for everyone. Your thoughtful engagement is essential to our collective progress.

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WHAT???

 

1 hour ago, Gobi said:

So, we’re in a red light district now?

That’s the kinda talk that’s going to get us kicked off!  Lolololol

 

So I assume the forum is over (probably all forums) and we are all off to somewhere else right?

I’ve seen the end of days before.  RIP televisionwithoutpity.  

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Bg Brother is watching!  Thought forums were a place for watchers to react to shows. I have lost faith in TLC with the inclusion of the repetitive cast and creating "stars " out of the people on the shows BUT enjoyed reading an paticipating in the forums esp the one just closed SO I am done with both and the result I'll be an increase amount of free time,,,Will miss the posters here but FAREWELL PRIMETIME and TLC,,,,somehow I feel that my free speech has been diminished....beware

 

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