annzeepark914 May 30 Share May 30 Well, some of them were funny so thanks, ethalfrida, for the chuckles 🤓. My MIL would say "unthaw". I mentioned the "nip it in the butt" one at my coffee group this morning. Big hit! 1 1 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/138354-why-grammar-matters-a-place-to-discuss-matters-of-grammar/page/76/#findComment-8382627
ethalfrida May 30 Share May 30 42 minutes ago, annzeepark914 said: Well, some of them were funny so thanks, ethalfrida, for the chuckles 🤓. My MIL would say "unthaw". I mentioned the "nip it in the butt" one at my coffee group this morning. Big hit! Lol, right! Same here. Whenever I hear or read the phrase I think of Barney Phife (sp) sage parenting advice about Opie! Have a great one today, Annzeepark914… 2 1 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/138354-why-grammar-matters-a-place-to-discuss-matters-of-grammar/page/76/#findComment-8382678
shapeshifter May 30 Share May 30 (edited) Is it grammatically correct to say: I just wanted to see where we’re at. I am not opposed to ending a sentence with a preposition, but is there something else amiss with this sentence? I overheard it because I’m babysitting my 5-month-old Lambykins 👩🍼grandbaby because his daycare thought he had a fever yesterday. My daughter works from home, so I overheard bits of a Zoom. All participants have masters degrees. It seems lapses into casual, informal speech are common in the middle of a discussion using formal language. I do it too. Just wondering. Edited May 30 by shapeshifter Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/138354-why-grammar-matters-a-place-to-discuss-matters-of-grammar/page/76/#findComment-8382681
Milburn Stone May 30 Share May 30 16 hours ago, Ancaster said: I stopped reading at "here's my two cents." Was it something in the writer's POV on the grammar issue in that section, or something in the phrase "here's my two cents"? Because I don't see an error in the latter. (I suppose one might say "here are my two cents," but nobody says that.) 3 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/138354-why-grammar-matters-a-place-to-discuss-matters-of-grammar/page/76/#findComment-8382686
Browncoat May 30 Share May 30 1 hour ago, annzeepark914 said: My MIL would say "unthaw". My assistant said that this morning, and it wasn't the first time. 9 minutes ago, shapeshifter said: Is it grammatically correct to say: I just wanted to see where we’re at. I don't think so. Besides ending the sentence with a preposition, the "at" is unnecessary. I just wanted to see where we are. 17 minutes ago, ethalfrida said: Barney Phife It's Fife. There were a couple of episodes where he spelled it, although a magazine article in one episode misspelled it as "Fice." 1 1 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/138354-why-grammar-matters-a-place-to-discuss-matters-of-grammar/page/76/#findComment-8382690
shapeshifter May 30 Share May 30 49 minutes ago, shapeshifter said: Is it grammatically correct to say: I just wanted to see where we’re at. 34 minutes ago, Browncoat said: I don't think so. Besides ending the sentence with a preposition, the "at" is unnecessary. I just wanted to see where we are. Thanks! That explains it. And I’m going to blame this song for it: https://genius.com/The-dave-clark-five-i-like-it-like-that-lyrics Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/138354-why-grammar-matters-a-place-to-discuss-matters-of-grammar/page/76/#findComment-8382718
Quof May 30 Share May 30 59 minutes ago, shapeshifter said: Is it grammatically correct to say: I just wanted to see where we’re at. It's redundant. I loathe it, just as I loathe "whether or not" and "new beginning." 3 1 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/138354-why-grammar-matters-a-place-to-discuss-matters-of-grammar/page/76/#findComment-8382725
Zella May 30 Share May 30 5 minutes ago, Quof said: It's redundant. I loathe it, just as I loathe "whether or not" and "new beginning." "Free gift" drives me crazy! 4 1 4 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/138354-why-grammar-matters-a-place-to-discuss-matters-of-grammar/page/76/#findComment-8382728
fairffaxx May 30 Share May 30 "Future plans", "past history". I cope by just feeling superior, which helps a bit. 1 1 7 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/138354-why-grammar-matters-a-place-to-discuss-matters-of-grammar/page/76/#findComment-8382733
EtheltoTillie May 30 Share May 30 I don’t mind “where we’re at.” That’s an acceptable idiom. 5 1 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/138354-why-grammar-matters-a-place-to-discuss-matters-of-grammar/page/76/#findComment-8382749
annzeepark914 May 30 Share May 30 (edited) Irregardless? Why yes, it's a wonderful restaurant in Raleigh, NC (hope it's still open). ETA: still open. I used to order the avocado toast way back in the 1980's. I think it was in the late 90's that they had a fire. The owners paid their employees the entire time that it was closed for extensive repairs. Edited May 30 by annzeepark914 2 1 1 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/138354-why-grammar-matters-a-place-to-discuss-matters-of-grammar/page/76/#findComment-8382754
isalicat May 30 Share May 30 The one that always provokes fury in me is: "impactful". If that is really a word, then it is the number one most overused word currently. How about: "makes an impact", or "has a significant impact"...or better yet, find something else than "impact"!! 3 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/138354-why-grammar-matters-a-place-to-discuss-matters-of-grammar/page/76/#findComment-8382760
Browncoat May 30 Share May 30 1 hour ago, annzeepark914 said: Irregardless? Why yes, it's a wonderful restaurant in Raleigh, NC (hope it's still open). ETA: still open. I used to order the avocado toast way back in the 1980's. I think it was in the late 90's that they had a fire. The owners paid their employees the entire time that it was closed for extensive repairs. They had an outstanding Sunday brunch, too. 1 1 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/138354-why-grammar-matters-a-place-to-discuss-matters-of-grammar/page/76/#findComment-8382828
Milburn Stone May 31 Share May 31 Just an addendum on why "here's my two cents" (rather than "here are my two cents") is correct. "Two cents" in this context does not mean "more than one penny." It's a stand-in for "opinion." One wouldn't say "Here are my opinion." 7 1 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/138354-why-grammar-matters-a-place-to-discuss-matters-of-grammar/page/76/#findComment-8383218
shapeshifter May 31 Share May 31 7 minutes ago, Milburn Stone said: Just an addendum on why "here's my two cents" (rather than "here are my two cents") is correct. "Two cents" in this context does not mean "more than one penny." It's a stand-in for "opinion." One wouldn't say "Here are my opinion." Unless "two cents" turns out to be more than one opinion that I have? — which is always the case in my brain. 6 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/138354-why-grammar-matters-a-place-to-discuss-matters-of-grammar/page/76/#findComment-8383226
annzeepark914 May 31 Share May 31 Well, nerts to the "rule" about apostrophes. I tried omitting them but 1980s looked too needy, ya know what I mean? Not sure I can get used to the new "look". Are newspapers doing this? Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/138354-why-grammar-matters-a-place-to-discuss-matters-of-grammar/page/76/#findComment-8383267
EtheltoTillie May 31 Share May 31 2 hours ago, annzeepark914 said: Well, nerts to the "rule" about apostrophes. I tried omitting them but 1980s looked too needy, ya know what I mean? Not sure I can get used to the new "look". Are newspapers doing this? I'm confused. Which apostrophes? and which is a new rule? 4 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/138354-why-grammar-matters-a-place-to-discuss-matters-of-grammar/page/76/#findComment-8383365
Mondrianyone May 31 Share May 31 Trade books, fiction and nonfiction, have not used apostrophes in plural years for decades. In my memory it's always been "the 1960s," not "the 1960's." That's how the Chicago Manual of Style mandates anyway. 6 3 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/138354-why-grammar-matters-a-place-to-discuss-matters-of-grammar/page/76/#findComment-8383397
EtheltoTillie May 31 Share May 31 (edited) 24 minutes ago, Mondrianyone said: Trade books, fiction and nonfiction, have not used apostrophes in plural years for decades. In my memory it's always been "the 1960s," not "the 1960's." That's how the Chicago Manual of Style mandates anyway. Thanks, Mondrianyone. When I was a magazine copy editor in the '70s and '80s and early '90s, we also never used apostrophes for plural years. I did not think of this as a new rule. Now, let's not get started on apostrophes for the missing century, as in '60s. That rule still stands--no? And never two apostrophes, right? And that's my two cents. Edited May 31 by EtheltoTillie 5 1 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/138354-why-grammar-matters-a-place-to-discuss-matters-of-grammar/page/76/#findComment-8383414
EtheltoTillie May 31 Share May 31 Ha, at first I forgot the apostrophes in the decades! Then I went back and edited. We can get into a lot of boring copy editor style arguments about whether we should spell out numbers or not. I say, pick a side and stick with it. 1 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/138354-why-grammar-matters-a-place-to-discuss-matters-of-grammar/page/76/#findComment-8383421
annzeepark914 May 31 Share May 31 1 hour ago, EtheltoTillie said: Ha, at first I forgot the apostrophes in the decades! Then I went back and edited. We can get into a lot of boring copy editor style arguments about whether we should spell out numbers or not. I say, pick a side and stick with it. Since I'm no longer writing for a foundation newsletter (never used the years anyway) I'll do whatever I'm in the mood for/to do/awww whatevahhh! 3 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/138354-why-grammar-matters-a-place-to-discuss-matters-of-grammar/page/76/#findComment-8383463
SoMuchTV May 31 Share May 31 2 hours ago, EtheltoTillie said: We can get into a lot of boring copy editor style arguments about whether we should spell out numbers or not. I say, pick a side and stick with it. I'm vaguely aware that there's a rule where it's one way when it's at the start of a sentence and the other when it's within the sentence, but I couldn't tell you which is which. I think I do pick up on it sometimes when it's not right, though. My one numeral-related grammar peeve (or my 1 numeral-related...) is when someone uses "1" when they mean "one". But I don't think I've seen that on anything that has gotten past a copy editor. 3 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/138354-why-grammar-matters-a-place-to-discuss-matters-of-grammar/page/76/#findComment-8383508
shapeshifter June 2 Share June 2 (edited) On 5/31/2024 at 3:15 PM, EtheltoTillie said: We can get into a lot of boring copy editor style arguments about whether we should spell out numbers or not. I say, pick a side and stick with it. When I was doing some freelance side-gig editing of dissertations for scholarly publication, there were specific rules about spelling out the number if it was below, maybe, 10 (I always had to look it up) and to spell it out at the beginning of a sentence. I no longer look it up — or citation styles either — but that work left me with an understanding of when something looks like it will be understood correctly by the reader — which is a long-winded way to say: Just make sure the people reading it will understand it. Edited June 3 by shapeshifter 7 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/138354-why-grammar-matters-a-place-to-discuss-matters-of-grammar/page/76/#findComment-8384627
EtheltoTillie June 3 Share June 3 12 hours ago, shapeshifter said: When I was doing some freelance side-gig editing of dissertations for scholarly publication, there were specific rules about spelling out the number if it was below, maybe, 10 (I always had to look it up) and to spell it out at the beginning of a sentence. I no longer look it up — or citation styles either — but that work left me with an understanding of when something looks like it will be understood correctly by the reader — which is a long-winded way to say: Just make sure the people reading it will understand it. Each publication has "house style." When you work on a publication you have to keep it consistent and follow the style. There is something arbitrary about that custom, but it is the custom. I suppose to make things seem "professional." That's why I was talking about boring copy editor style arguments lol. 1 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/138354-why-grammar-matters-a-place-to-discuss-matters-of-grammar/page/76/#findComment-8385032
shapeshifter June 4 Share June 4 On 6/3/2024 at 6:53 AM, EtheltoTillie said: Each publication has "house style." When you work on a publication you have to keep it consistent and follow the style. There is something arbitrary about that custom, but it is the custom. I suppose to make things seem "professional." That's why I was talking about boring copy editor style arguments lol. I loved that stuff, LOL. 3 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/138354-why-grammar-matters-a-place-to-discuss-matters-of-grammar/page/76/#findComment-8385971
SoMuchTV June 8 Share June 8 8 minutes ago, graybrown bird said: I know this is picky but it is an ongoing peeve I see not just in random posts but in the newspaper from time to time: "lead" as the past tense of "to lead." The past tense is simply "led." Maybe what confuses people is that the element "lead" is pronounced like the past tense of the verb ("led"). Agreed! It seems like I’ve been seeing this more and more lately for some reason - like, multiple times a day! 1 1 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/138354-why-grammar-matters-a-place-to-discuss-matters-of-grammar/page/76/#findComment-8388892
Ancaster June 10 Share June 10 Off of. 2 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/138354-why-grammar-matters-a-place-to-discuss-matters-of-grammar/page/76/#findComment-8389812
graybrown bird June 10 Share June 10 Using "lay" for lie: He was laying ("lying!") on the floor. Or to an innocent doggie: "Lay down, Henry!" (In my head: "Lie down! Lie down!") 3 2 1 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/138354-why-grammar-matters-a-place-to-discuss-matters-of-grammar/page/76/#findComment-8389913
shapeshifter June 10 Share June 10 9 minutes ago, graybrown bird said: Using "lay" for lie: He was laying ("lying!") on the floor. Or to an innocent doggie: "Lay down, Henry!" (In my head: "Lie down! Lie down!") I'm sure I make this mistake. Note to self: Doggies cannot lay eggs. 5 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/138354-why-grammar-matters-a-place-to-discuss-matters-of-grammar/page/76/#findComment-8389923
Ancaster June 11 Share June 11 12 hours ago, graybrown bird said: Using "lay" for lie: He was laying ("lying!") on the floor. Or to an innocent doggie: "Lay down, Henry!" (In my head: "Lie down! Lie down!") Ugh. If you feel the urge to say "lay", ask yourself what you're laying. An egg, maybe? 1 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/138354-why-grammar-matters-a-place-to-discuss-matters-of-grammar/page/76/#findComment-8390616
ABay June 11 Share June 11 Wou Or it be correct to say "he lay back on the bed"? Lay lie laid lying... I'm not at all confident about any of the L words. Is there a mnemonic that might help? Something like "Fewer apples, less applesauce" which I've found helpful for the few/less issue? 5 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/138354-why-grammar-matters-a-place-to-discuss-matters-of-grammar/page/76/#findComment-8390659
Bastet June 11 Share June 11 9 hours ago, ABay said: Wou Or it be correct to say "he lay back on the bed"? Lay is the past tense of lie, so if that's the context in which you're saying it, yes. 2 2 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/138354-why-grammar-matters-a-place-to-discuss-matters-of-grammar/page/76/#findComment-8390915
Mondrianyone June 12 Share June 12 On 6/11/2024 at 5:57 AM, ABay said: Is there a mnemonic that might help? Well, there's a partial one. If you have trouble with the present tense, you can remember that "lie" is in "recLIne" and "lay" is in "pLAce." And "lie" is intransitive while "lay" is transitive, but I suppose a lot of people don't know what that distinction means. As for the rest of the tenses, you're on your own there. Most of the confusion comes from the fact that the past tense of "lie" is "lay," so they cross over. And from the fact that "lie" as in recline is also "lie" as in to tell an untruth. So people tend to shy away from saying that someone is lying in bed and are drawn to saying that someone is laying in bed, because there's no ambiguity to the latter. Even though it's wrong. This is why I have a job. You gotta love English. 6 3 1 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/138354-why-grammar-matters-a-place-to-discuss-matters-of-grammar/page/76/#findComment-8391461
shapeshifter June 12 Share June 12 5 minutes ago, Mondrianyone said: And from the fact that "lie" as in recline is also "lie" as in to tell an untruth. So people tend to shy away from saying that someone is lying in bed and are drawn to saying that someone is laying in bed, because there's no ambiguity to the latter. So would: "My ex could be found lying in bed 12 hours a day" be a grammatically correct double entendre? 1 1 1 7 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/138354-why-grammar-matters-a-place-to-discuss-matters-of-grammar/page/76/#findComment-8391470
Mondrianyone June 12 Share June 12 How would I know? He's your ex, not mine. 😉 1 10 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/138354-why-grammar-matters-a-place-to-discuss-matters-of-grammar/page/76/#findComment-8391474
shapeshifter June 12 Share June 12 9 minutes ago, Mondrianyone said: How would I know? He's your ex, not mine. 😉 Ooo, but I only asked if it was "grammatically correct," not true! 🤣 Feel free to use my query in a PowerPoint.😉 1 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/138354-why-grammar-matters-a-place-to-discuss-matters-of-grammar/page/76/#findComment-8391484
Bastet June 12 Share June 12 24 minutes ago, Mondrianyone said: As for the rest of the tenses, you're on your own there. Lay vs. lie is easy peasy for me, since it simply depends on whether there's an object, but conjugating the various tenses of whichever word is appropriate sometimes requires me to think for a moment. Or two. 1 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/138354-why-grammar-matters-a-place-to-discuss-matters-of-grammar/page/76/#findComment-8391485
Browncoat June 12 Share June 12 Today, I saw, "I wish there was a pneumonic device to help me remember." But my heart rejoiced at the sign by the express lane at Target, which said, "10 items or fewer." 3 1 5 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/138354-why-grammar-matters-a-place-to-discuss-matters-of-grammar/page/76/#findComment-8391605
SoMuchTV June 12 Share June 12 (edited) On 6/12/2024 at 6:24 PM, Browncoat said: But my heart rejoiced at the sign by the express lane at Target, which said, "10 items or fewer." Normally I’m a less/fewer stickler, but in this case I might be able to accept “10 items or less [stuff]”. On the other hand, it should definitely be “10 or fewer (not less) items”. Edited June 15 by SoMuchTV 1 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/138354-why-grammar-matters-a-place-to-discuss-matters-of-grammar/page/76/#findComment-8391645
Quof June 12 Share June 12 A local store apparently solved the debate in the marketing meeting over the correct grammar, putting up signs that say "Up to 12 items". 🥰 3 2 5 1 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/138354-why-grammar-matters-a-place-to-discuss-matters-of-grammar/page/76/#findComment-8391649
Ancaster June 15 Share June 15 On 6/11/2024 at 2:57 AM, ABay said: Would it be correct to say "he lay back on the bed"? On 6/11/2024 at 12:05 PM, Bastet said: Lay is the past tense of lie, so if that's the context in which you're saying it, yes. Yes, because if you say "he lays back on the bed," it's present tense and would mean he had reverted to laying, for example, eggs on the bed again, as opposed to in the hen house, where he'd been doing it for a while. On 6/12/2024 at 4:33 PM, SoMuchTV said: Normally I’m a less/fewer sticker, but in this case I might be able to accept “10 items or less [stuff]”. On the other hand, it should definitely be “10 or fewer (not less) items”. I'll take a sticker of you advocating for the difference between less and fewer. 😉 5 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/138354-why-grammar-matters-a-place-to-discuss-matters-of-grammar/page/76/#findComment-8393036
SoMuchTV June 15 Share June 15 (edited) 18 hours ago, Ancaster said: On 6/12/2024 at 7:33 PM, SoMuchTV said: Normally I’m a less/fewer sticker, but in this case I might be able to accept “10 items or less [stuff]”. On the other hand, it should definitely be “10 or fewer (not less) items”. I'll take a sticker of you advocating for the difference between less and fewer. 😉 Thank you for making fun of my dumb typo within the edit window! I always especially love it when I make mistakes in the grammar thread. (Oh and for stickers, visit my merch page. Like, rate, and subscribe!) Edited June 15 by SoMuchTV 1 1 1 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/138354-why-grammar-matters-a-place-to-discuss-matters-of-grammar/page/76/#findComment-8393122
chitowngirl June 15 Share June 15 (edited) I would be happy if the shoppers would not have more than 10 items in the cart! I hate when shopper with a cart load full of items is attempting to check out in the express lanes. I DO recognize this is a Peeve and not a grammar matter…. Edited June 15 by chitowngirl 2 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/138354-why-grammar-matters-a-place-to-discuss-matters-of-grammar/page/76/#findComment-8393138
shapeshifter June 15 Share June 15 7 minutes ago, chitowngirl said: I DO recognize this is a Peeve and not a grammar matter…. Unless you can find such an offender with 20 items in their cart who says: “The sign said ‘10 items or less,’ but it didn't say less than what.” 1 2 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/138354-why-grammar-matters-a-place-to-discuss-matters-of-grammar/page/76/#findComment-8393144
Milburn Stone June 15 Share June 15 16 hours ago, Ancaster said: ...if you say "he lays back on the bed," it's present tense and would mean he had reverted to laying, for example, eggs on the bed again, as opposed to in the hen house, where he'd been doing it for a while. I love that you are open to this possibility! 1 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/138354-why-grammar-matters-a-place-to-discuss-matters-of-grammar/page/76/#findComment-8393302
Ancaster June 16 Share June 16 16 hours ago, SoMuchTV said: Thank you for making fun of my dumb typo within the edit window! I always especially love it when I make mistakes in the grammar thread. Now I feel bad because I didn't mean to "make fun of you", just share a chuckle. 2 1 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/138354-why-grammar-matters-a-place-to-discuss-matters-of-grammar/page/76/#findComment-8393468
EtheltoTillie June 16 Share June 16 (edited) I think we could tell it was a good natured joke. At least you’re not feeling badly. Edited June 16 by EtheltoTillie 1 1 6 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/138354-why-grammar-matters-a-place-to-discuss-matters-of-grammar/page/76/#findComment-8393487
SoMuchTV June 16 Share June 16 23 hours ago, SoMuchTV said: Thank you for making fun of my dumb typo within the edit window! I always especially love it when I make mistakes in the grammar thread. (Oh and for stickers, visit my merch page. Like, rate, and subscribe!) 7 hours ago, Ancaster said: Now I feel bad because I didn't mean to "make fun of you", just share a chuckle. Om my gosh, I really didn't mean to come across that way! I was making fun of myself, not making a dig at you. That's why I made sure to add a "laugh" reaction to your post when I made my comment! 2 1 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/138354-why-grammar-matters-a-place-to-discuss-matters-of-grammar/page/76/#findComment-8393510
Mondrianyone June 16 Share June 16 You just have to try more hardly next time. 👩🎓 1 1 5 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/138354-why-grammar-matters-a-place-to-discuss-matters-of-grammar/page/76/#findComment-8393579
Ancaster June 16 Share June 16 1 minute ago, Mondrianyone said: You just have to try more hardly next time. 👩🎓 People actually say this?! Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/138354-why-grammar-matters-a-place-to-discuss-matters-of-grammar/page/76/#findComment-8393580
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