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    Married to Medicine Los Angeles

    This is what I thought at first too. But Asha and Noelle grew up together and along parallel lines until Noelle went to med school. Then on last night's episode Britten and Imani were in a picture together as teenagers. So it seems like even if they're not besties now, they've also been familiar with each other for a realy long time. Shanice's husband Robert and Asha's husband Larry did their residences together. The only odd duck is Jazmine and her phantom husband. Did it bother anybody else every time Imani's sister said something like: yeah dad told me opr dad texted me..... lemme get this straight, you not only have a whole nother daughter, but you speak to her every day and I gotta chase you down to answer a text because I haven't seen you in 20 years?? That would fuck with my entire mind body and spirit, for good.
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    S11 E23: Reunion Part 3

    Entertainment Tonight did a little segment on celebs making "throwaway" sums of money (five figures) for 10-30 second personalized birthday shoutouts on YouTube. Like, you can get JLo to say Angie, Mom, Vanessa and Tyler wanted you to have a happy birthday Marquis and many many more. That just cost Angie, Mom, Vanessa and Tyler a year of college. It sounded crazy as shit to me, but between social media and model mess I believe Eva was able to round up a couple hundred grand in a few weeks. These Bravo checks are only essential to Nene, Marlo and Tanya. Anybody notice when Eva veered away from whoever she was talking to to get at Nene about Nene coming outside to talk to her about the mic pack? I was lightweight mad at Eva for making me almost side with Nene in that exchange. It was clear that she relayed Eva's wishes to production and that they ignored her (which was what Eva was holding her responsible for) but the part that was more important because it mimicked Nene's objection with Cynthia was Eva saying yeah I get that you still had your pack on but you didn't tell me that when you came over to talk to me. To which {{pinchesbridgeofnose}} ya'll? to which Nene responded: why should I have had to give you the heads up? Is this or is this not your verbatim beef with Cynthia right this minute? The level of frustration I had that not one of them, including Cynthia, picked up on this moment to illustrate that to her. Shaaaatt!!! Now she might not be familiar with hyperbole but best believe Hosea Williams granddaughter knows some church lol.
  3. ZaldamoWilder

    Online Dating: The good, the bad and the ugly

    Mmm. I was trying to decide if they're mutually exclusive. I agree with @aradia22 in that talking about yourself, distinctively, without sounding as though you're bragging is a tightrope. It's a skill that even if people posses, they don't employ well. There are things I think work better than others: statements like "I love" rather than "I have", "name your favorite thing to do on a Saturday afternoon" rather than "I'm not into skydiving" but especially with online dating, you've got about 6 seconds to keep a reader reading, make it interesting, true and glimpse-y. By virtue of joining the platform and creating a profile, I think it is a sales pitch whether you acknowledge that or not. It's not as though it works differently in person. Flirting with a stranger is about throwing enough charm, funny and memorable their way during a temporary connection to hopefully create a second encounter. Don't get me wrong, sincerity pushes to the front of the pack, but if it were an attention grabber, "he/she had a nice personality" would be the start to every how'd you meet story ever. Girl, it's killing me, was the next word gonna be childhood? lol. I also agree with you that it's not brag worthy, but disagree that it's bragging to begin with. For that guy, his backstory could be: I'm the son of immigrants and the first generation in my family to graduate from college - that could be his amazing accomplishment. Sorry, for the Chandler Bing delivery.
  4. ZaldamoWilder

    Online Dating: The good, the bad and the ugly

    Lol! we figured. I did not, however, realize the brackets were specific to ptv and contained in your profile. I still vote for a mention, just lead with the funny. I highlighted the portion in her book where Michelle Obama admitted that watching housewives franchises was her guilty pleasure because it allowed her to shut her brain down and just relax and sent it to each of my exes who judged me harshly for it. Now, your future wife, who looks like Angelina Jolie and likes rock climbing and George Lucas movies, may also loooooove the Mob Wives series, but not for reasons you've imagined. Dont. Block. Your. Blessing. 😉 LMAO!!!! If you ever get to this point, try and remember that they're also known to flip the fuck out upon seeing Santa, so their judgment isn't to be trusted (generally).
  5. ZaldamoWilder

    Online Dating: The good, the bad and the ugly

    Lol!! You gone have to take my word that I don't need any convincing. My top criteria: he already likes me. 😄
  6. ZaldamoWilder

    Don't Be Tardy

    Tell me you saw the picture of this kid in a car seat? I think she tweeted it out last year because her hashtag said he was 6 (I might be thinking of the other one, what's his name Kash?). Them comments that came back to her? Lol I could not breathe. Somebody said his feet fully touching the seat in front of him, if ya'll don't get this full grown man a job and driver's license and quit playin....... Ah shit. I told myself babies are off limits to laugh at, but....
  7. ZaldamoWilder

    Online Dating: The good, the bad and the ugly

    @Lantern7 ooooh, is my timing impeccable or what? Lol. Um, I don't even know if you're still interested in collecting $.02 but if so, here's mine. The thing is, you're actually a funnier dude than you come across on paper. The thing about Staten Island being redacted for conflict is HILARIOUS but geographically specific and only funny to people who know that a) Staten Island was like the only place on the Eastern seaboard that voted red in the last election and b) you didn't vote for the current guy. Meh, shit, I thought it was funny, so I see what you were going for. I liked @JTMacc99's version too, but dating profiles and attention spans? Not compatible lol. Just to catch you guys up and make it unanimous? dating officially fucking sucks. I called the last guy I went out with before what was to be our 3rd date to tell him we didn't have enough chemistry to justify continuing to see each other and after a lot of push pull, he finally relents we hang up and he texts me: "I just realized what you said to me - that I wasn't flirtatious with you....(I said we didn't have chemistry).....if only you knew, I was on my best behavior, I wasn't exposing my dark side yet." Um, yeah...thanks for confirming my instinct Pill Cosby. Die please. I'm pretty fortunate (put a pin right here) in that to say I meet men on a fairly regular basis because I'm a blerd and I love books and the history channel and I say geeky shit (hey @JTMacc99 "I've ALWAYS had blue eyes!") lol but the packaging runs counter to the personality so I'm only ever attracted to men who act like they were expecting me to like Jeopardy. It's complicated. Anyway, I just wanted to drop by and tell ya'll hi, it's been a minute.
  8. ZaldamoWilder

    Married to Medicine Los Angeles

    3 girl, that last one just got outta diapers. He would figure it out and in a gottam hurry too. Yup, he sees her income as supplemental. If so, good, but he's also a really shitty mcgitty about seeing it as unimportant if it what keeps her going. I'm glad she pulled his collar and reminded him that it was what kept them both going when he was still in school. She traded square footage for arrogant napolean complex.
  9. ZaldamoWilder

    Don't Be Tardy

    It has been. I feel like ya'll forget this on purpose because of the Kim dislike lol. It was a trillion years ago during an episode when the Biermann's went camping. Kim & Kroy were talking about his side of the family rift. He said it wasn't simply about their disapproval, but also their vocal and continuous disparagement (my word) of his soon to be wife. He added that while he respected their opinion and told them so, he also expected the slick talk to stop once and because he'd made it clear to them that Kim was his decision. What cemented it after that was that he asked his parents to apologize for what they'd said to/about her. The way that he articulated it was, it was disrespectful to him. They refused. If you can't stand somebody, it's easier to paint em like this here: this money grubbing whoooer isolated this poor man from his family and there's a whole heap of kids who don't know their grandparents. Ya'll? this man is not a hostage and his parents are not victims. He asked them to meet a condition about the way in which they spoke to and about his wife. They've chosen not to. Now that's sad for everybody involved. But ya'll are really gone need to stop putting that on Kim just because she's unlikeable. In that same episode, Kroy mentions that the few conversations he's had with his parents had been at Kim's encouragement. Modern medicine is making advancements everyday, but it's still pretty difficult to conveniently get pregnant without some help lol.
  10. ZaldamoWilder

    Married to Medicine Los Angeles

    He's an emergency medicine physician (in an ER) which I think means that along with his regular rotation, he's got unpredictable hours when he's the doc on call. I wasn't paying full attention during this part of the conversation but he also referenced some new expanded role (Director of something or other?) that would have him home even less reliably. The keeping the kids up later thing. Grrrr. If he'dve came at her with more sensitivity, I might've been a little sympathetic but, his delivery? No, church. He sounded like a selfish little bastard. I'll wake em up because I ain't seen em all day. Getting em back to bed is your problem. Ay @Empress1? Living husband and gluten free finna keep us wrinkle-less for 40 years gul. Lol. That having been said, has there been something about Shenique's job that we've seen/heard her do that keeps her overwhelmed by work like that? Didn't she have time to brunch with Jazmin in the middle of the day on one episode? Did she not also have time in the middle of the day for a gummy bear jacuzzi photo shoot during another? On camera, she's received a phone call about one of their units flooding (fixable by phone) and another time when her property manager needed to find a key (fixable by phone) - if she's busier than this at work, I'm gone need one of ya'll to point out what I don't see. Anyway if my husband's thing was we don't need the money, I couldn't call mommy'shelpers.org fast enough.
  11. ZaldamoWilder

    S11 E21: Reunion Part I

    Not really. I'm with you though, I still don't think it was a colorism jab. One of her responses, that colorism exists in every culture, was just weird (it that's not what she was going for).
  12. ZaldamoWilder

    S11 E21: Reunion Part I

    I didn't see it when it aired but as they were talking about it I thought: what else could it mean? Like how would black with Q even be a dark skinned slight? Is "with a Q" code for something? Marley's asshole of a father is about Kandi's complexion (isn't he?) Almost forgot my favorite moment of the night: Andy: can anybody confirm that Yovanna really was that bitch RhoATL:
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    S11 E21: Reunion Part I

    A friend of mine makes t-shirts. If you see this blow up in a few months, I don't want you to get upset. I'm not cutting you a check. soooo.....? you think the woman who called her husband for permission to go to a strip club on a bachelorette party weekend, then ultimately didn't go because he objected......slept and conceived a child with someone else while they were married? {whining} which is how my perpetual thought bubble is: what are still doing interacting with this grown ass baby for. Ya'll living your best lives, ain't goin back and forth with her. Yeah I vote this isn't ageism either. Doesn't strike me a literal description more than just a fitting conjoiner adjective. She's acting like a resentful, entitled old ass muffucah. See? it flows. Lol
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    S11; E20 Caught in the Middle

    @LaurelleJ you making me wanna do my best Jenifer Holiday this morning Laurelle? ........where is my dress?? Curtis said... 😄
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    S11; E20 Caught in the Middle

    I'm still giggling at stretchy pants lol. oh, I got that all wrong if so. I thought Shamari was trying to help dispel the rumors. Like: if I was broke I wouldn't bring no big ass expensive bouquet.........conclusion: Eva's not hurting for cash.
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