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We're just watching one episode per night. Boy, those neighbors are annoying as is their "neighborhood chat". I keep worrying that Dana and possibly Kevin will be killed by police due to their neighbors wild speculations. I do appreciate that Dana's black eye causes concern that she is abused by him. But really? Opening the door and peeking in your brand new neighbor's house, then spreading unfounded gossip? Kind of over the top! I can't figure out what the deal is with Kevin. He seemsto be hiding something that his sister is aware of. Mental issues? Recently deceased wife? I'm not sure, but it does look as if he's going back to the past whether he likes it or not! '
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I read the book years ago too and I think I like the idea of setting it in the present (well, part of the time anyway!). I kind of don't like Dana as she's been introduced. I agreed with the aunt that she was doing impulsive things with her inheritance. If I had never read the book, I'd have thought that the time traveling was related to the new house. I love that they tied in her mother, stuck in the past. I was surprised mother and daughter didn't hug though. Even if you thought you were dreaming, wouldn't you take the opportunity to hug your long dead mother or that the mother would hug her trapped in time daughter? The scenes in the past were terrifying.
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These changes are going to take some getting used to!
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Carlin and Evan: But Mostly Carlin!
BetyBee replied to PrincessPurrsALot's topic in Bringing Up Bates
E&C have two children, but are totally lacking in understanding of children! -
Because it's hilarious. Not!
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I sure as heck wouldn't allow my kids to play at the Forsyth house. It isn't safe. Period.
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IKWYM, @lookeyloo - I don't like to talk about my upbringing except with my sibs or very close friends. It didn't include any physical abuse, but let's just say our home life was not that pleasant. Funny though, when I talk to childhood friends, I learn that functional families seem to be a rarity! My childhood friends though my life was better than theirs! I'm in my 60s and we didn't talk as openly about things like that when I was a kid. Talking to my 52 yo niece, who had a horrific childhood (daughter of recently deceased sil), absolutely terrible. Sometimes I feel like I can't hear any more about it! I wish I had known the extent of what she was going through. Families keep secrets!
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@Scarlett45, that's a sad/heartwarming story. The sad part is when I think of the other side of that story - a thief who probably stole the presents to give to his/her child. The heartwarming part is that Grandma was right that a small child would be happy with a couple of simple gifts. The holidays can also bring out the best and the worst in people! Mr. BB wrapped everything we have so far. We only have a few more things to buy, hopefully in one shopping trip. Well, and a second trip to World Market to buy some goofy stuff for our guests. We're hosting Christmas Eve and next week we'll concentrate on food for that night. We also have to decide which day to visit Mom. We'll want to bring her lunch and gifts for her and my brother. She doesn't really go anywhere but the doctor anymore. But she loves company.
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Thank you everyone, for all the kind words. My husband is doing okay. I know it's a shock for him. There's plenty of good memories and some pretty bad ones too. It's a complicated and far flung family. I'm not sure when or if there will be a memorial service. I just try to be a good listener for her daughters, who are both hurting. I do know about losing a sibling, how the family is never quite the same, with a missing seat at the table. I'm still feeling that from the loss of my sister last year. I expect we'll always feel that empty spot. His sister was a talented musician who played the accordian, all the old songs from memory, at family events for many years. She also served in the military and became an attorney. Her life was very difficult however, due to unhealthy habits and poor choices in men. May she rest in peace.
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My sister-in-law of over 40 years passed away in her sleep and was found this morning. Her partner of 28 years passed away 2 months ago. They were both in their 70s. She cared for him for several years because he had Alzheimers. My husband's sister. I've been on the phone with his other sister and our niece all afternoon. She had the house all packed up and it just went on the market. She was going to move in with her daughter when it sold. You never know. 😢
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Carlin and Evan: But Mostly Carlin!
BetyBee replied to PrincessPurrsALot's topic in Bringing Up Bates
This line cracked me up! -
Carlin and Evan: But Mostly Carlin!
BetyBee replied to PrincessPurrsALot's topic in Bringing Up Bates
Carlin & Evan don't even have the common sense to not post about stupid things they do. -
I just wrote a long rant against technology and deleted it. You can thank me later! Suffice to say that we have new phones and I'm frustrated! And in a bad mood.
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Yes! We're in the NW suburbs. It's sticking here. It is mushy though. I hope we get plowed before it freezes!
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I woke up to a beautiful snowfall. It's still coming down. I'd take a pic, but then I'd have to disturb my cat and put down my coffee and go outside in my pajamas! Trust me, it's beautiful!
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Carlin and Evan: But Mostly Carlin!
BetyBee replied to PrincessPurrsALot's topic in Bringing Up Bates
I think there are two reasons why the whole family goes everywhere together. One is that Carlin is incapable of doing anything alone. The other is that they are desperate for content for clicks. Also, it's not like they are busy! -
I wish she would have twins. Jessa would be so jealous!
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Carlin and Evan: But Mostly Carlin!
BetyBee replied to PrincessPurrsALot's topic in Bringing Up Bates
Unless that whole storyline is played out and she's fine! -
That is wise advice, @GeeGolly! My takeaway is that if you clearly see where the person who is bothering you really fits in on your bull's eye concentric, then it becomes easier to "let it go" when someone not in your inner circle does something to bug you. Like I could look at my sil's behavior and think, "Oh well. We aren't all that close, so it's understandable that we aren't on the same wavelength on this issue. Then I can shrug it off and focus on myself and my inner circle peeps!