BetyBee

Her "close friends" are her downline peeps. Her kids aren't allowed on social media. Maybe she should remove herself from SM too, but that will never happen. She needs the attention.

I agree But she posts on SM, giving all credit to the Lord, for recognizing that she is America's Best Christian. To me that title belongs to Mrs. Betty Bowers, but MMV on that point! 🤣

I sure as heck wouldn't allow my kids to play at the Forsyth house. It isn't safe. Period.

IKWYM, @lookeyloo - I don't like to talk about my upbringing except with my sibs or very close friends. It didn't include any physical abuse, but let's just say our home life was not that pleasant. Funny though, when I talk to childhood friends, I learn that functional families seem to be a rarity! My childhood friends though my life was better than theirs! I'm in my 60s and we didn't talk as openly about things like that when I was a kid. Talking to my 52 yo niece, who had a horrific childhood (daughter of recently deceased sil), absolutely terrible. Sometimes I feel like I can't hear any more about it! I wish I had known the extent of what she was going through. Families keep secrets!

@Scarlett45, that's a sad/heartwarming story. The sad part is when I think of the other side of that story - a thief who probably stole the presents to give to his/her child. The heartwarming part is that Grandma was right that a small child would be happy with a couple of simple gifts. The holidays can also bring out the best and the worst in people! Mr. BB wrapped everything we have so far. We only have a few more things to buy, hopefully in one shopping trip. Well, and a second trip to World Market to buy some goofy stuff for our guests. We're hosting Christmas Eve and next week we'll concentrate on food for that night. We also have to decide which day to visit Mom. We'll want to bring her lunch and gifts for her and my brother. She doesn't really go anywhere but the doctor anymore. But she loves company.

Thank you everyone, for all the kind words. My husband is doing okay. I know it's a shock for him. There's plenty of good memories and some pretty bad ones too. It's a complicated and far flung family. I'm not sure when or if there will be a memorial service. I just try to be a good listener for her daughters, who are both hurting. I do know about losing a sibling, how the family is never quite the same, with a missing seat at the table. I'm still feeling that from the loss of my sister last year. I expect we'll always feel that empty spot. His sister was a talented musician who played the accordian, all the old songs from memory, at family events for many years. She also served in the military and became an attorney. Her life was very difficult however, due to unhealthy habits and poor choices in men. May she rest in peace.

Sounds like Jill's fee fees have been hurt. Guess she's been reading comments from her detractors. I'd say she's right about one thing. They are perfect for each other. Who else would have either of them?

My sister-in-law of over 40 years passed away in her sleep and was found this morning. Her partner of 28 years passed away 2 months ago. They were both in their 70s. She cared for him for several years because he had Alzheimers. My husband's sister. I've been on the phone with his other sister and our niece all afternoon. She had the house all packed up and it just went on the market. She was going to move in with her daughter when it sold. You never know. 😢

This line cracked me up!

Carlin & Evan don't even have the common sense to not post about stupid things they do.

I just wrote a long rant against technology and deleted it. You can thank me later! Suffice to say that we have new phones and I'm frustrated! And in a bad mood.

If Jonathan bought the stockings, I hope that counts as gifts for all of the Rodriguii! That's a lot of money to lay out for a couple of newlyweds.

Yes! We're in the NW suburbs. It's sticking here. It is mushy though. I hope we get plowed before it freezes!

I woke up to a beautiful snowfall. It's still coming down. I'd take a pic, but then I'd have to disturb my cat and put down my coffee and go outside in my pajamas! Trust me, it's beautiful!

I think there are two reasons why the whole family goes everywhere together. One is that Carlin is incapable of doing anything alone. The other is that they are desperate for content for clicks. Also, it's not like they are busy!

Honestly, I think Ma would be safer and better cared for near her other daughters. I wonder how this transpired? I have no doubt that this is Jill's will being done. The only purpose I can see is for Jill to grift. I hope Ma really is getting good care and by care, I don't mean hair and make up.

I wish she would have twins. Jessa would be so jealous!

Unless that whole storyline is played out and she's fine!

That is wise advice, @GeeGolly! My takeaway is that if you clearly see where the person who is bothering you really fits in on your bull's eye concentric, then it becomes easier to "let it go" when someone not in your inner circle does something to bug you. Like I could look at my sil's behavior and think, "Oh well. We aren't all that close, so it's understandable that we aren't on the same wavelength on this issue. Then I can shrug it off and focus on myself and my inner circle peeps!

Hugs, @jcbrown! Ending a friendship is so hard. You probably won't get closure from her, but I'm glad you're finding peace with the situation on your own.

I have tried to put down in words what has been bugging me about my sister-in-law of 45 years. It always turns into tl;dr, so I'll sum up what I'm feeling. I'm mad at me for encouraging Mr. BetyBee to spend time with his sister when he doesn't enjoy spending time with her. She's an egotiscal know it all and I'd rather spend time with friends than with this relative! She went too far recently and when we declined to do as she wished us to do, she got mad and insisted she never asked that of us. I have the texts to prove it! I prefer to spend time with people who are kind and caring towards me. To that end, I'm local Christmas shopping with my oldest daughter today and attending a friendsgiving with actual friends tomorrow. I won't let sil turn me into a bah! humbug! person! ETA: @lookeyloo - what a beautiful granddog!

The mule reacted just like Austin when the camera was on him!

That poor woman!

All through this confusing series, I kept thinking of Star Trek TNG - the maze of same looking hallways, the confusion about reality. I told my husband more than once that they must be on the holodeck. I guess I was proved somewhat right when we saw the spaceship. I don't think I'll bother with another season if there is one. I'm very impressed by those here who know all of the characters' names. I think y'all pay more attention to details than I do!

Thank you, @CalicoKitty & @SunnyBeBe & to all the Small Talkers for the hugs! My back is doing much better tonight. No word today on my cousin.