That's somewhat unfair. I think Ryan wanted some loving guidance from his parents that he never received. He never said he expected anything perfectly laid out. He admits he's struggling and feels stuck.
That's not what happened on this show. On this show a young man swayed a young woman and they married. There was nothing creepy about it. The Meetoo movement has nothing to do with this scenario.
If my husband didn't keep trying when I turned him down, I would have missed out on a wonderful life with a wonder husband and father. Nothing creepy about it.