Social Media: What's Up With Her?

[ClareWalks]

God help me, I went on FB and looked up the woman's pics, and it looks like she was with that dude 3 years ago or so. I'm not sure why Whitney is NOW throwing such a fit about it. Who the fuck cares? I casually dated a guy for a summer 7 years ago, if I found out now that he'd been dating someone else too I would just shrug.

[Dot]

36 minutes ago, Ketzel said:

Seems that the guy had a type. The fiancée is also a body-positive "woman of size." She also claims he has "a fat girl on every continent." So Whitney ran into an online asshole and now she's going to set her whole raging posse on him. (Because, as with the doctor she claims sent her an insulting letter, she ever-so-classily did not name the guy at first. She put up a lot of coy hints, then the fiancee (with whom Whitney has totes bonded) outed him on her Facebook page and the posse tracked it down. One thing I noticed is that neither of them say when this all happened.  But it doesn't seem as if Whitney broke the news to the fiancée.

Where's the fiancee's FB page?

[Ketzel]

1 minute ago, Dot said:

Where's the fiancee's FB page?

Link

[Dot]

2 hours ago, Ketzel said:

Link

Thanks. Wow. She looks like Twit's twin, with a Mid-Eastern slant. She even sounds like Twit: "I'm fat and I love it." And her immersion in Feminist Studies.

This guy really, really has a type.

Edited April 8, 2017 by Dot
correct typo

[AmyB]

2 hours ago, ClareWalks said:

God help me, I went on FB and looked up the woman's pics, and it looks like she was with that dude 3 years ago or so. I'm not sure why Whitney is NOW throwing such a fit about it. Who the fuck cares? I casually dated a guy for a summer 7 years ago, if I found out now that he'd been dating someone else too I would just shrug.

How did you find out it was three years ago? I am totally slipping on my facebook stalking lol

Edited April 8, 2017 by AmyB

[ClareWalks]

1 hour ago, AmyB said:

How did you find out it was three years ago? I am totally slipping on my facebook stalking lol

I just breezed through her profile pics and it looks like she had a lot of pics with that dude and "love" sentiments in 2014 :-P

[AmyB]

Omg

24 minutes ago, ClareWalks said:

I just breezed through her profile pics and it looks like she had a lot of pics with that dude and "love" sentiments in 2014 :-P

Oh are you friends with Twit in Fb? I can only follow so I can only see a handful of pictures and those were definitely not ones I can see :( 

[ClareWalks]

5 minutes ago, AmyB said:

Omg

Oh are you friends with Twit in Fb? I can only follow so I can only see a handful of pictures and those were definitely not ones I can see :( 

Not Whitney, the other girl (the fiancee) :)

[Dot]

27 minutes ago, AmyB said:

Omg

 

Thanks for the link. I particularly like the comment, "Get over it, girl. You're starting to look pathetic." So much bitchin' & moanin' after 3 years? Pathetic doesn't begin to describe it.

A question I have every time I see Twit "dance," i.e., fling her arms around: is that a shadow or does she not shave her armpits? Is she doing that "I'm feminist & hairy" thing from the 1970s?

[AmyB]

11 minutes ago, Dot said:

Thanks for the link. I particularly like the comment, "Get over it, girl. You're starting to look pathetic." So much bitchin' & moanin' after 3 years? Pathetic doesn't begin to describe it.

A question I have every time I see Twit "dance," i.e., fling her arms around: is that a shadow or does she not shave her armpits? Is she doing that "I'm feminist & hairy" thing from the 1970s?

Welcome. And she now has deleted it. Also the profile pic and the other she posted with Nada about figure all this out. Good thing I saved them :) 

[Ketzel]

Nada's pulled the picture and all the comments from her page as well. I wonder if someone had a few choice words to say behind the scenes.

Edited April 9, 2017 by Ketzel

[auntjess]

9 hours ago, Ketzel said:

Oh good grief - one of her fans has posted (apparently without irony) "The right man will scoop you up one day!"

https://sites.google.com/site/howellengineeringinc/Home/we-fabricate-things

Edited April 9, 2017 by auntjess

[AmyB]

20 minutes ago, Ketzel said:

Nada's pulled the picture and all the comments from her page as well. I wonder if someone had a few choice words to say behind the scenes.

Probably and now its like it didn't happen. Funny on Nada's instagram she has pictures with the guy and Twit liked them. Why in the hell would you like a picture of your ex with another girl? I retract my previous statement. She is acting like a pubescent tween. I am sure Avi doesn't gives two shits what is being said about him. And sure he will keep playing women all around the world. Acting like and idiot online isn't gonna change a thing. 

[Maggienolia]

On 4/1/2017 at 4:59 PM, Toaster Strudel said:

sensuous: relating to or affecting the senses rather than the intellect.

I guess it does partially apply!

But we've seen how she's gone nose-blind thanks to cat sh*t everywhere and her own non-showered-off-aroma... and too blind to see that Roy wasn't interested in her or that Amanda grimaced whenever she had to pretend to pant after Twit. So... yeah... her senses (let's add a lack of "good sense" to that) are affected.

[AZChristian]

1 hour ago, Dot said:

 

A question I have every time I see Twit "dance," i.e., fling her arms around: is that a shadow or does she not shave her armpits? Is she doing that "I'm feminist & hairy" thing from the 1970s.

Maybe Babs hasn't been available to shave Whit's pits.

[Maggienolia]

On 4/5/2017 at 4:37 PM, ClareWalks said:

Ugh, she is assuming that people who notice how greasy she is "don't love themselves."

Amen. It's one thing to be confident enough to say go out without a full face of makeup or having hot-rolled/flat-iron/styled-to-a-tee hair. It's another to say go out with showering, wearing your hair in a way that shows the taped-in extensions or just plain dirty. Two. Totally. Different. Things. The latter shows not confidence and self-love but laziness and a lack of self-respect. We're talking basic hygiene and cleanliness on a consistent basis. It's not a one-off-throw-on-a-baseball-cap-to-run-to-the-grocery kind of thing. It's how she shows up for "work", for a "paid" gig to belly-dance at a restaurant, etc, etc, etc. 

[Ketzel]

1 hour ago, AmyB said:

Probably and now its like it didn't happen. Funny on Nada's instagram she has pictures with the guy and Twit liked them. Why in the hell would you like a picture of your ex with another girl? I retract my previous statement. She is acting like a pubescent tween. I am sure Avi doesn't gives two shits what is being said about him. And sure he will keep playing women all around the world. Acting like and idiot online isn't gonna change a thing. 

Nothing on the internet ever goes away completely. Life and Style Magazine has a big headline on their website: Whitney Thore Exposes Her Ex-Boyfriend Avi Lang For Cheating On His Fiancee.  It refers to Whitney as his "side chick" which I imagine she'll really enjoy.

[AmyB]

i got a response from the fitness marshall on when this supposedly youtube video is going to be posted. April 18. So why wait so long to post it?? Still calling bullshit on the whole thing. I bet you he asked her to go on tour with him and that is what her choice is about. 

[spankydoll]

On 4/8/2017 at 11:24 AM, AmyB said:

You beat me too it! She posted a picture with pictures of the other guy. The other woman posted a tag with the guys name in it. Strange though, the other woman lives in Cairo, Egypt and the guy apparently lives in Bloomington, IN. So not sure how much truth there is to it. But if it is true its completely f'ed up! As for people saying she is being petty as much as i hate to say this if it is true I have to side with Whitney on it cuz I have had this exact same thing happen to me.  

Is it Cairo, GA maybe? They pronounce it as Karo like the syrup  pretty little town

[TaylorTalk]

7 hours ago, AmyB said:

i got a response from the fitness marshall on when this supposedly youtube video is going to be posted. April 18. So why wait so long to post it?? Still calling bullshit on the whole thing. I bet you he asked her to go on tour with him and that is what her choice is about.

Fitness Marshal already has a #MBFFL dancer, although she may have retired because just looking at his videos, that dancer had some pretty bad, hyperextended knees.  Not even as big as Whitney either.

 

Ima gonna subscribe to him just to see if whit pops  up in the feed.

 

I'm dying to see Whit dance a full zumba routine without jump cuts.  Fitness Marshall does a single cam operation with veeerry few cuts, so no cheating whatsoever.
 

[AZChristian]

Or Cairo, Illinois?  Only 275 miles from Bloomington.

[Ketzel]

3 hours ago, spankydoll said:

Is it Cairo, GA maybe? They pronounce it as Karo like the syrup  pretty little town

No, it's Cairo in Egypt. Her Facebook page today is full of lamenting and commentary on the terrorist attacks on two churches in Egypt on Palm Sunday that killed 44 people. ISIS has claimed responsibility for the bombings.

In less intense Facebook news, Whitney has posted a big "Karma Has No Deadline" sign, followed by #aviously. So subtle and clever, that girl!

Edited April 10, 2017 by Ketzel

[Dot]

Here's an interesting article concerning whether or not MBFFL will be renewed for a 5th season.

https://premieredate.news/tv-series/2544-my-big-fat-fabulous-life.html

[mamadrama]

This chat reminds me of the time Whit's posse attacked ME on FB and tried to sabotage my book reviews because I got on Kerryn's page and told her to "hang in there." ( Did not mention Whit at all. That was literally all I said-and not the Kardashian meaning of the word.) Her social media followers are scary as hell. Thanks to you guys for updating cause I am too scared to go back.

[AmyB]

4 hours ago, Dot said:

Here's an interesting article concerning whether or not MBFFL will be renewed for a 5th season.

https://premieredate.news/tv-series/2544-my-big-fat-fabulous-life.html

Hmmmm. I think last year they announced its renewal during the skinny which is at the end of the month. I really hope it doesn't get renewed.   

[TurtlePower]

2 hours ago, mamadrama said:

This chat reminds me of the time Whit's posse attacked ME on FB and tried to sabotage my book reviews because I got on Kerryn's page and told her to "hang in there." ( Did not mention Whit at all. That was literally all I said-and not the Kardashian meaning of the word.) Her social media followers are scary as hell. Thanks to you guys for updating cause I am too scared to go back.

Her followers have a very "Mean Girls" vibe to them, and Whit is their version of Regina George. 

[AmyB]

You know what something just doesn't seem right with this bashing that Avi guy. I wish we had an accurate timeline of it cuz for some reason it just don't seem right. From what I can tell he was with nada in 2014 to I think recently or up until maybe a few months ago. But Twit was with Lennie from what april? 2015-sometime june 2016 (if anyone knows the exact dates please let me know).  So for avi and twit to have even dated to overlap for nada it either had to be for less than a year before Lennie or right after and either way it wasn't for that long.  

[Tosia]

I'm guessing the article abt renewing MBFFL was to garner responses either way. 

Surely there are better role models out there for being fit and fabulous,  and overweight.

Hell, even someone who is 100 pounds overweight would be more plausible for being fit-- and then we could watch as this person evolves with healthier habits.  

But I don't know if any TV network wants positive situations. I mean, now that I think abt it,  what shows have happier struggles--if there is such a thing?  Fuller House? Yuck. The Hallmark Channel? Too sappy for me.  Sit-Coms usually have alot of putdowns from characters who supposedly love each other. IDK. 

[Cherrio]

Wow, I am disgusted by the bully Whitney is.  She has no brakes, no filters, just juvenile behavior of a delusional spoiled brat.

[Ketzel]

Aaand Whitney put her post bashing her "ex" up again, although this time without changing her profile pic to the picture montage of her and the guy with his face covered. The comments remain hilarious - at least once every ten posts or so, someone yelps "Is it Lenny who did this to you?" and one of the minions rushes over to say "no, not Lenny." Hasn't that guy taken enough grief from the minions without Whitney being oblivious to the possibility that her complaint would be assumed to be about him?  But who else has she been dating in the past year? Even she has said she was exclusive with Lenny.  The timeline is completely jacked up!  (Also someone in the comments posted a picture of the guy in a suit with his arm around  a woman in a wedding gown and an older woman beside them. But before the flames could erupt, Nada-the-fiancée appeared to comment that it's a pic of him and his mother with his sister at her wedding. She then goes on to blame his mother and sister for facilitating his hobby of preying on women.)

Aaaand even as I typed, Whitney took the post back down yet again. And while she still has the "Karma's A Bitch" posting up, she's deleted the #aviously.  WTF is going on in her head?

Edited April 10, 2017 by Ketzel

[ClareWalks]

Good GOD, Whiney [sic] is SO IMMATURE. Holy shit, it's amazing she is potty-trained, TBH. And her friends think it's so hilarious, I saw that video of Donna and Heather dancing around gloating about it. Isn't Heather a mom? Jesus christ. She should be a little less tone deaf about bullying the fuck out of someone online. I don't understand how Whiney is deriving so much satisfaction from siccing her dogs on an ex-fuckbuddy from YEARS AGO. Get over it. You'd think he was engaged to *Whit*, the way she's carrying on.

[AmyB]

20 minutes ago, Ketzel said:

Aaand Whitney put her post bashing her "ex" up again, although this time without changing her profile pic to the picture montage of her and the guy with his face covered. The comments remain hilarious - at least once every ten posts or so, someone yelps "Is it Lenny who did this to you?" and one of the minions rushes over to say "no, not Lenny." Hasn't that guy taken enough grief from the minions without Whitney being oblivious to the possibility that her complaint would be assumed to be about him?  But who else has she been dating in the past year? Even she has said she was exclusive with Lenny.  The timeline is completely jacked up!  (Also someone in the comments posted a picture of the guy in a suit with his arm around  a woman in a wedding gown and an older woman beside them. But before the flames could erupt, Nada-the-fiancée appeared to comment that it's a pic of him and his mother with his sister at her wedding. She then goes on to blame his mother and sister for facilitating his hobby of preying on women.)

Aaaand even as I typed, Whitney took the post back down yet again. And while she still has the "Karma's A Bitch" posting up, she's deleted the #aviously.  WTF is going on in her head?

Omg i missed it. Did u screenshot it?  Wtf is wrong with her. Let it go chick. Posting your dirty laundry like that on social media is just classless. 

[John M]

1 hour ago, ClareWalks said:

Good GOD, Whiney [sic] is SO IMMATURE. Holy shit, it's amazing she is potty-trained, TBH. And her friends think it's so hilarious, I saw that video of Donna and Heather dancing around gloating about it. Isn't Heather a mom? Jesus christ. She should be a little less tone deaf about bullying the fuck out of someone online. I don't understand how Whiney is deriving so much satisfaction from siccing her dogs on an ex-fuckbuddy from YEARS AGO. Get over it. You'd think he was engaged to *Whit*, the way she's carrying on.

Exactly, Whit is acting like they have had the conversation, you know, like this is really serious, marriage is on the roadmap, if something goes wrong we are going put some serious work into fixing it before we go our separate ways. 

What I suspect actually happened is they were casually dating and since Whit is a lonely child desperate for a man, marriage and kids and feeling like time is running out turned it into a serious relationship in her head and felt completely betrayed because he was the one in her head and she thought they were totally on the same page even though they hadn't talked about it.

Edited April 10, 2017 by John M

[Ketzel]

1 hour ago, AmyB said:

Omg i missed it. Did u screenshot it?  Wtf is wrong with her. Let it go chick. Posting your dirty laundry like that on social media is just classless. 

No, I didn't bother. Honestly, I'm already feeling like I've lost a few IQ points just from following this nonsense as closely as I have! My only excuse is that I am stuck waiting for someone with nothing to distract me but my computer.  It's a lame excuse, I know.  *Ketzel pokes randomly at her favorites list and ends up on The Real Housewives of Beverly Hills forum.*  Oh come on! I SWEAR I have NPR on here somewhere . . . .  :-)

[Dot]

24 minutes ago, John M said:

Exactly, Whit is acting like they have had the conversation, you know, like this is really serious, marriage is on the roadmap, if something goes wrong we are going put some serious work into fixing it before we go our separate ways. 

What I suspect actually happened is they were casually dating and since Whit is a lonely child desperate for a man, marriage and kids and feeling like time is running out turned it into a serious relationship in her head and felt completely betrayed because he was the one in her head and she thought they were totally on the same page even though they hadn't talked about it.

As she did with poor Roy.

[Brooklynista]

24 minutes ago, Dot said:

As she did with poor Roy.

And Lennie who was hiding behind curtains when she would visit.

[auntjess]

Just went to the FB olfficial show page, and it shows no visitor posts, which I think means they aren't supportive, so I'll go and vote no more seasons.
It may not show up on the page, but TLC will see itl

OK, I wrote "

I see renewal is still up in the air. Honestly, this show has already overstayed its welcome, as far as I'm concerned, and I know others who feel the same.

I wish Whit well, but it's time for her to get a real life."

[LocalGovt]

So....I guess this goes here, since this is one of Whitney's instagram photos.

I'm just so weirded out by it. Her oddly shaped and slanting eyes, her porn-star pout...her naked shoulders....take your pick.

 

[auntjess]

Is this an old photo?  She looks a lot smaller.
 

[LocalGovt]

On 4/8/2017 at 4:28 PM, Dot said:

Thanks. Wow. She looks like Twit's twin, with a Mid-Eastern slant. She even sounds like Twit: "I'm fat and I love it." And her immersion in Feminist Studies.

This guy really, really has a type.

I was just coming here to post that! GMTA!

5 minutes ago, auntjess said:

Is this an old photo?  She looks a lot smaller.
 

I have no idea. Likewise, I have no idea what strange and mystical road it was that took me to the website that listed them.  I was just taken aback by that one. I don't know why.   Oh wait! Now I remember: I was wondering how Babs was doing after her stroke, and ended up here: http://www.lifeandstylemag.com/posts/whitney-thore-dog-died-124922/photos/whitney-thore-231153

[okerry]

9 hours ago, Tosia said:

But I don't know if any TV network wants positive situations. I mean, now that I think abt it,  what shows have happier struggles--if there is such a thing?  Fuller House? Yuck. The Hallmark Channel? Too sappy for me.  Sit-Coms usually have alot of putdowns from characters who supposedly love each other. IDK. 

You know what I've found relaxing and enjoyable to watch? And never thought I would? Homebuying and home renovation shows. They always end well, they're pretty to look at - some call them "house porn," lol - and you learn a lot. And seeing as how Tarek and Christina's marriage imploded on Flip or Flop, they're still pretty snarkworthy!

[auntjess]

Oh, Mike Holmes shows are my favorites, and I have lots of them on my DVR.  I'm over House Hunters and Tiny Houses, and the too many flippers.
In a pinch, I can watch the judges, but they must be recorded, because they have too many commercials.
And I watch a lot of ID shows, and Forensic Fies, and the First 48.

[AmyB]

22 minutes ago, auntjess said:

Is this an old photo?  She looks a lot smaller.
 

She posted that one back on November 10. Apparently on one of her "days off" lol.

10 minutes ago, okerry said:

You know what I've found relaxing and enjoyable to watch? And never thought I would? Homebuying and home renovation shows. They always end well, they're pretty to look at - some call them "house porn," lol - and you learn a lot. And seeing as how Tarek and Christina's marriage imploded on Flip or Flop, they're still pretty snarkworthy!

So off topic but have you seen what Tarek looks like now. Wow. He got buffed up. Apparently he went through a second cancer during this whole thing too. 

[TurtlePower]

1 hour ago, auntjess said:

Is this an old photo?  She looks a lot smaller.
 

Could be body positioning/poses. The ombre hair matches her current look.

But she could be pulling a Big Fat Greek Wedding 2 trick and someone is behind her pulling her neck skin back ;)

Edited April 11, 2017 by TurtlePower

[auntjess]

1 hour ago, okerry said:

You know what I've found relaxing and enjoyable to watch? And never thought I would? Homebuying and home renovation shows. They always end well, they're pretty to look at - some call them "house porn," lol - and you learn a lot. And seeing as how Tarek and Christina's marriage imploded on Flip or Flop, they're still pretty snarkworthy!

Tomorrow, DIY is showing some episodes of Disaster Decks, a fun show.  http://www.diynetwork.com/shows/tv-schedule-2017.04.11.EST
If you like Tabatha, the beauty shop shows, some are on Wed. AM, on Bravo.  Old shows.

[AmyB]

Oh no stop the presses! whitney goes to a yogurt shop in the next episode. <facepalm>

[MegD]

4 hours ago, LocalGovt said:

So....I guess this goes here, since this is one of Whitney's instagram photos.

I'm just so weirded out by it. Her oddly shaped and slanting eyes, her porn-star pout...her naked shoulders....take your pick.

That picture looks like it's been photoshopped. Especially with the eyes and nose. Her nose is completely flattened across the bridge. Her eyebrows look off too.

[Cherrio]

2 hours ago, AmyB said:

Oh no stop the presses! whitney goes to a yogurt shop in the next episode. <facepalm>

Oh geez, not another tasting.  That bakery thing made me sick with Whitney seemingly in a trance shoveling huge piles of cake in her mouth.

[ClareWalks]

9 hours ago, Cherrio said:

Oh geez, not another tasting.  That bakery thing made me sick with Whitney seemingly in a trance shoveling huge piles of cake in her mouth.

She almost ruined cupcakes for me, she'd better not do the same with fro-yo. I can just imagine her taking "a spoonful," and just tipping the whole 16 oz cup upside down into her unhinged jaw like a Big Fat Fabulous Pelican.

Edited April 11, 2017 by ClareWalks

[Tosia]

And we all know how healthy frozen yogurt is (eyeroll). 

Yep, Cherrio, it's going to be sickening to watch  Twit shovel that shit in--not only cuz she's already really, really fat to the point of disabling herself and encouraging others that's it's okay to continue on that path -- but also because she'll be touting the "health" benefits of eating yogurt over ice cream.  The ignorance is strong in this one.  

Check the labels on yogurt for sugar content. and fat content.  Might as well eat ice cream.  

You know,  when I was writing this post,  I switched from using the term "morbidly obese " to "really, really fat" because, IMHO, the m.o. term has lost it's  power to warn or scare or accurately describe in many cases.  

Clarification: This is a rant on semantics, NOT HAES. 

 We all know people ( or have been) who were m.o., but they didn't die. I have had three friends for over 30 years who were and are m.o.

Yes, they were disabled in different ways. Overall, though, they have lived productive, accomplished,  fulfilled, happy lives, with lovers,  husbands,  kids, and grandkids.  I don't know their private pain abt their fatness, just my own.

My point is that we need to change the term m.o. to something like "disabling weight" ,  because that is more descriptive and accurate. Or "painful weight".  Or "wheelchair/walker weight".  Or "crushing your knees weight".  Or "heart-crushing weight".  

Or even "DEFINITELY NOT fit or fabulous weight".  

For me, I'm tempted to call it "Can't find the cute clothes ( that fit or look good) that you really want to wear weight".  

I guess I don't feel like being medically polite any more, plus a graphic term might forecast the pain and practical issues and forestall some people from gaining/eating so much.  

It's not m.o., it's "living a lesser life with more weight." 

Yes, the HAES people could argue that their lives are as outwardly  wonderful as my friends' lives above, but privately, would they choose to be an average weight?   Without physical or emotional pain?