90DF Live Chat 3: I Gave Up Everything To Be Here

[AR Traveler]

Just now, Auntie Anxiety said:

Nikki thinks if she brow beats Igor enough, he’ll decide to have sex with her.

Because sex I have to browbeat a man for is so satisfying and natural.

[Bees52]

Uh, Nikki... oops. Maybe you should have stayed home...

[sainte-chapelle]

Fuck off Nikki. What did he do? You picked up a 19 year old when you were in your thirties …that’s gross.

[magemaud]

If Nikki leaves will we finally get to see Closet Mom? 

[LEILANI2]

 

Manuel  doesn't know what WIFI is and that he can  access it at Starbucks,  Walmart,  lots of cities have it FREE. 

 

[Suzywriter]

Nikki still carries very masculine ideas about how a "beautiful woman" behaves. She expects men to be running after her, panting, and blows up when it doesn't happen.

I'd prefer a man who wanted to find a beautiful space to share time together getting to know each other. He even brought games that require little language and lots of connection.

[Auntie Anxiety]

Rob is now second-guessing his airport proposal song and dance.

[judylo]

Nikki is starting to look more normal to me. Maybe because I watch too many YouTube makeup videos. Or maybe because Igor is uglier in his own way.

[Pepper Mostly]

Rob is looking for an excuse not to get married. He's having serious buyer's remorse. So he's relying on the time honored "be an asshole to her until she dumps you" method. 

[LEILANI2]

Nikki and Jasmine cant' get sex from their  men, porn has really killed  sex  between humans hasn't it.

 

1 minute ago, Suzywriter said:

Nikki still carries very masculine ideas about how a "beautiful woman" behaves. She expects men to be running after her, panting, and blows up when it doesn't happen.

I'd prefer a man who wanted to find a beautiful space to share time together getting to know each other. He even brought games that require little language and lots of connection.

Both Jasmine and Nikki work so hard to be blow up dolls to be sexy to men,  both are controlling psychos too though.   No matter what they  look like, any man will be turned off,  even Gino the cuck can't get it up for her.

[tvrox]

1 hour ago, MagicEyes said:

So many red flags! 

Biggest red flag is he heard NEW YORK and thought Rochester and NYC were right near other. 

[Auntie Anxiety]

1 minute ago, Suzywriter said:

Nikki still carries very masculine ideas about how a "beautiful woman" behaves. 

I find it so demeaning and disrespectful to women. We do not prance around, kicking up our heels, giggling and fluttering our eyelashes. 

[magemaud]

Nikki and Igor’s fake storyline is coming to an end. 

[LEILANI2]

1 minute ago, Pepper Mostly said:

Rob is looking for an excuse not to get married. He's having serious buyer's remorse. So he's relying on the time honored "be an asshole to her until she dumps you" method. 

Rob needs to level up and strive for indoor plumbing before he worries about being in a relationship.

[AR Traveler]

Nothing is sacred anymore.  Now it's urinary incontinence.  I don't even want to know how that's supposed to work.

[Suzywriter]

4 minutes ago, AR Traveler said:

Because sex I have to browbeat a man for is so satisfying and natural.

It sounded like she was having an anxiety attack.

[Shelbie]

1 minute ago, magemaud said:

Nikki and Igor’s fake storyline is coming to an end. 

Fingers crossed.

[magemaud]

Just now, AR Traveler said:

Nothing is sacred anymore.  Now it's urinary incontinence.  I don't even want to know how that's supposed to work.

And gambling while you’re taking a dump 

[Suzywriter]

1 minute ago, Auntie Anxiety said:

I find it so demeaning and disrespectful to women. We do not prance around, kicking up our heels, giggling and fluttering our eyelashes. 

It's a porn-driven persona.

[Auntie Anxiety]

Rob is drowning his sorrows in a PacMan game.

[tvrox]

1 hour ago, Pepper Mostly said:

Manuel is sulking like a teenager. And that sideways ball cap! I mean, you can see why Ashley fell for him. 

Doesn't he always look stoned? 

[MagicEyes]

A woman’s body does so many more things than having children. 🙄

[Auntie Anxiety]

Sophie, go back to your sugar daddies in England. It’s best for everyone involved.

[sainte-chapelle]

His sister said it might be a medical thing and he has no empathy…zero…God forbid you get sick one day. Run 

She’s right…marriage doesn’t equal the obligation to have kids. It isn’t the 1800s. I’m married, no kids, we love our lives. We travel and go to dinner and hang with friends etc. 

[Suzywriter]

2 minutes ago, tvrox said:

Doesn't he always look stoned? 

Looks like a drinker to me.

[Eldemarge]

His communication skills are shit.  And she's going to sign up to deal with that forever?  Noooooooo thanks.

[Auntie Anxiety]

Being in a relationship with a sulker/silent treatment asshole is always an adventure, Sophie.

[sainte-chapelle]

What the fuck mom in a closet?!?!

[Suzywriter]

I want to see the guinea pigs!!

[Pepper Mostly]

He is the king of passive aggressive. Just stomps in and repairs to the corner to sulk eloquently. There will be firm and meaningful door closing, fraught silences, and sighs heaved. And of course now he's going out "walking". Meaning he'll go sit in his car for a couple of hours listening to music. I hope Sophie is sleeping blissfully when he decides to come back to his hovel. 

[LEILANI2]

Why are we getting two  new couples tonight four episodes in?

Imagine berating a man for not having sex with you versus just leaving and finding a man who will.

[Auntie Anxiety]

Igor, find a nice German fraulein and have a happy life.

[MagicEyes]

Don’t worry, Sophie, you’ll find another sugar daddy who actually has an indoor toilet.

[judylo]

Goodnight all! Off to Sister Wives!

[AR Traveler]

What the heck?  His mother lives in the closet,?   AND a hoarder.  Oh this looks like it's a keeper.

[Suzywriter]

2 minutes ago, sainte-chapelle said:

What the fuck mom in a closet?!?!

Oh, why not?

[Pepper Mostly]

Well peeps, we made it. That was a tough slog tonight! See you die hards tomorrow night if we're all recovered. Meanwhile, have a great Monday, love you all loads, MWAH!

[Doublemint]

Off to Sister Wives - see some of you tomorrow, everyone have a Happy Halloween.   Trick or Treat!

[magemaud]

1 minute ago, LEILANI2 said:

Why are we getting two  new couples tonight four episodes in?

 

There’s even one more couple to meet after these two 

[Eldemarge]

Goodnight all! 💘  You're the loves of my life!

[Zombness]

Good night to all!  Happy Halloween to all!!

[Auntie Anxiety]

That was a long two hour slog, but I’m addicted and too lazy to do the Twelve Steps. Have a Happy Halloween and don’t toilet paper your neighbor’s house—it’s too expensive! Eat a lot of chocolate bars! Adios.

[tvrox]

1 hour ago, Suzywriter said:

Thank you for asking. I'm an hour and a half out, which in Maine is close. I often work in that area, but was nowhere near when the incident happened. 2 coworkers' family members are among the wounded.

Prayers for their recovery. 

[Gobi]

Till next time. Looks like Nikki is out and they're bringing in the understudies.

[Bees52]

Well, Rob, evidently whatever you and Sophie talked about over the years, I'm guessing having kids never came up. You  probably talked about the practice of making them, a lot, I bet.

Hmm... from the preview, it looks like it's only going to get worse for some of the couples. Sophie's crying and Nikki's telling Igor to get out. 😲

Alright, see y'all either tomorrow or next week. Have a good one! 🎃✌🏿️❤️

[tvrox]

1 hour ago, Doublemint said:

She had a cyst.  That doesn't cause infertility.  I call bull shit.

Tetraomas though-aren't those the cysts that can grow hair and teeth and stuff? Not a regular cyst. 

[tvrox]

1 hour ago, AR Traveler said:

I just thought of something.  How does Rob do his laundry?  Actually having a laundry room in your home is bougie beyond belief.

I don't have a laundry room in my apt. In the building yes. I'm not bougie! I bet Rob's is the same-has machines elsewhere, maybe near the bathroom? 

[Booey]

6 minutes ago, tvrox said:

Tetraomas though-aren't those the cysts that can grow hair and teeth and stuff? Not a regular cyst. 

Sounds like it. I just Googled Tetraomas and the images are terrifying and fascinating! The human body is so freaking weird!

Do you guys know the YouTuber Mama Doctor Jones? She's an OB/GYN. The thing with the cysts and also Jasmine's hymen surgery really make me wish she would do a video on these episodes. It would be really interesting to hear her take on things.

Lastly, hello everyone! I'm a long time lurker coming out of the shadows to make this comment. I really enjoy following the conversation. Hope everyone has a great night!

[sainte-chapelle]

3 minutes ago, Booey said:

Sounds like it. I just Googled Tetraomas and the images are terrifying and fascinating! The human body is so freaking weird!

Do you guys know the YouTuber Mama Doctor Jones? She's an OB/GYN. The thing with the cysts and also Jasmine's hymen surgery really make me wish she would do a video on these episodes. It would be really interesting to hear her take on things.

Lastly, hello everyone! I'm a long time lurker coming out of the shadows to make this comment. I really enjoy following the conversation. Hope everyone has a great night!

Welcome! Come sit by me and have a maple whiskey. 

[tvrox]

1 hour ago, Pepper Mostly said:

And it costs six bucks! 

6 bucks of deliciousness!