90DF Live Chat 3: I Gave Up Everything To Be Here

[Frozendiva]

What happened to the legs?

[Suzywriter]

Just now, sainte-chapelle said:

Damn Rishi packed on the pounds

I'd be emotional eating too if I had to deal with Jen's nonsense. 

[Gobi]

Dance, Rishi, dance!

[Drogo]

2 minutes ago, Welshman in Ca said:

Genuine question. Is it better to assume people are not until they tell you otherwise ?

I’d say it’s best to assume someone is not developmentally disabled unless they (or their verbal advocate/s) identify them that way.  

I think an issue is that most assumptions (and message board statements like “I think Castmember X is autistic”) are based in the most well known and *most negative* stereotypes, which in turn keeps the most negative aspects of the disorders the most well known.

[Hotel Snarker]

So much fakeness in one room. Acting like they all like each other and get along.

[Auntie Anxiety]

Rishi should just tell them to believe whatever they want to believe about him and call it a day.

[Hotel Snarker]

1 minute ago, Drogo said:

I’d say it’s best to assume someone is not developmentally disabled unless they (or their verbal advocate/s) identify them that way.  

I think an issue is that most assumptions (and message board statements like “I think Castmember X is autistic”) are based in the most well known and *most negative* stereotypes, which in turn keeps the most negative aspects of the disorders the most well known.

No question. It’s just as bad as saying “all autistic people flap their hands in a weird way”.

[goofygirl]

I CANNOT with this whole conversation!!! Those friends are just awful. So is Jen.

[sainte-chapelle]

It’s doesn’t matter Jen. He never met any of them.

[greekmom]

This conversation is soooooooo boring

[Auntie Anxiety]

For a minute there, I thought Rishi was wearing a girdle.

[tvrox]

1 hour ago, LEILANI2 said:

LIP I have enjoyed and will watch.  

I'm in for watching!! 

[Hotel Snarker]

3 minutes ago, Auntie Anxiety said:

Rishi should just tell them to believe whatever they want to believe about him and call it a day.

I guess they want to stay in the Nile.

[Drogo]

It’s like an echo chamber full of hairspray and Michael Kors bags.  
But the restaurant is really pretty.

[Suzywriter]

9 minutes ago, Welshman in Ca said:

Genuine question. Is it better to assume people are not until they tell you otherwise ?

Not everyone has a diagnosis. Treating people as thought they have a diagnosis is a separate issue from noticing struggle or behavior patterns. I maintain that TLC exploits people with differences. 

[goofygirl]

You SHOULD question your judgement, Jen.  Girl. You are a MORON.

[magemaud]

1 minute ago, Auntie Anxiety said:

For a minute there, I thought Rishi was wearing a girdle.

It’s “shapewear” 

[Shelbie]

Jen if you’re questioning everything go home.

[Frozendiva]

1 minute ago, Drogo said:

It’s like an echo chamber full of hairspray and Michael Kors bags.  
But the restaurant is really pretty.

Or Coach.

[sainte-chapelle]

4 minutes ago, Hotel Snarker said:

No question. It’s just as bad as saying “all autistic people flap their hands in a weird way”.

My nephew is mildly autistic. He struggles with certain things but doesn’t meet the stereotype or most well know behaviours associated with Autism. It can be very different from case to case.

Edited April 17, 2023 by sainte-chapelle

[Hotel Snarker]

They all need to cut their losses. Everyone is the asshole here.

[Eldemarge]

1 minute ago, Drogo said:

It’s like an echo chamber full of hairspray and Michael Kors bags.  
But the restaurant is really pretty.

Oooooh and I bet they smell like clashing Bath and Body Works scents!

[tvrox]

58 minutes ago, Gobi said:

She's kidding about the coconut, right? 

The Shaman is. 

[Suzywriter]

1 minute ago, magemaud said:

It’s “shapewear” 

My Spanx have their own drawer. 

[Drogo]

Debbie thought she was coming here to be cared for. 
 

Oussama:

[Eldemarge]

Just now, Suzywriter said:

My Spanx have their own drawer. 

Goals.

[goofygirl]

We may not get the donkey tonight, peeps.  Looks like Debbie & Oussama are having a conversation sort of in the AREA where the donkey may be... AND Deb's wearing that blue hat... in the preview for next week.  AARRGGGHH!!!

[Welshman in Ca]

Just now, Frozendiva said:

Or Coach.

I have a pair of prescription glasses with Coach frames, funny thing is of the frames I liked they were the cheapest. 

[tvrox]

57 minutes ago, Gobi said:

I was surprised she broke that coconut so easily, but then again she is good at breaking nuts.

Johan does like those nuts... 

[magemaud]

So this damn donkey ride is going to be the Grand Finale? 

[Suzywriter]

Just now, Drogo said:

Debbie thought she was coming here to be cared for. 
 

Oussama:

I hold you responsible for making me pee. 

[Zombness]

Just now, magemaud said:

So this damn donkey ride is going to be the Grand Finale? 

Maybe the donkey is the ride Debbie is taking to the  airport to come back to America.

Edited April 17, 2023 by Zombness

[Welshman in Ca]

Just now, magemaud said:

So this damn donkey ride is going to be the Grand Finale? 

Are you talking about Johan or an actual donkey type donkey. 

[Gobi]

1 minute ago, magemaud said:

So this damn donkey ride is going to be the Grand Finale? 

Maybe she'll ride it to the airport in the finale.

Ninja'd by @Zombness!

Edited April 17, 2023 by Gobi

[Hotel Snarker]

3 minutes ago, sainte-chapelle said:

My nephew is Miley autistic. He struggles with certain things but doesn’t meet the stereotype or most well know behaviours associated with Autism. It can be very different from case to case.

Exactly the reason why some people have those exact stereotypes when it comes to autism.

[Bees52]

Just now, magemaud said:

So this damn donkey ride is going to be the Grand Finale? 

I didn't miss that, either? What the? They've been teasing us with this dang ride (and fall) forever!

[Suzywriter]

I hate this mustache girl commercial so much...and I hope that she ordered more than one absurd outfit. There's 180 school days in most states. 

[magemaud]

1 minute ago, Welshman in Ca said:

Are you talking about Johan or an actual donkey type donkey. 

A real ass either way

Edited April 17, 2023 by magemaud

[Auntie Anxiety]

My anecdote: Because the weather was so warm earlier this week, I slept with the windows open. At around 5:30am, my dog starts barking like someone was breaking into the house. Turns out she heard the wild turkeys gobbling as they walked through the backyard. Fucking turkeys are around all the time.

[Frozendiva]

Just now, Auntie Anxiety said:

My anecdote: Because the weather was so warm earlier this week, I slept with the windows open. At around 5:30am, my dog starts barking like someone was breaking into the house. Turns out she heard the wild turkeys gobbling as they walked through the backyard. Fucking turkeys are around all the time.

Cobra chickens here aka Canada Goose.

[Welshman in Ca]

Just now, magemaud said:

A real ass 

Now you confused the issue even more. 😆

[greekmom]

Since the last 5 mins are these yahoos, I am saying goodnight.

Snark with you guys next week!

[Auntie Anxiety]

Daniele/Sharp spent a few pennies on this soirée, only to have Daniele flounce out.

[Suzywriter]

2 minutes ago, Hotel Snarker said:

Exactly the reason why some people have those exact stereotypes when it comes to autism.

Nobody ever believes that I'm on the spectrum. "But you're not like that..."

[Hotel Snarker]

2 minutes ago, Bees52 said:

I didn't miss that, either? What the? They've been teasing us with this dang ride (and fall) forever!

It was in the form of a camel!

[Eldemarge]

Oh my god, can you not make it about YOU for a SECOND, Danielle.

[magemaud]

Who’s paying for this fiesta? 

[Gobi]

No, no, no! You're supposed to flounce out of the Tell All!

[Hotel Snarker]

Okay, she’s throwing a fit over not being thanked for her last minute planning? Grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr…I want to smack Danielle

[sainte-chapelle]

Holy shit Dani kinda waddles now. Why is she mad?