See, I have always brought food for a family going through a death. BUT ... If I am close enough to ring their doorbell and drop off food, I will give them something that I have already made for them in the past. That I am fairly certain that they will like. For people that I "know" but don't REALLY know, Honey Baked Ham is my go-to.
And yes ... VeraCharles, can I have that cake even if no one dies? Please?