It sounded to me like Tori was the one focused on having all of these kids. She mentioned their intimacy and closeness as a couple falling apart with the first child. Um - didn't they meet in 2006, get married soon after (after both of their divorces came through), and get pregnant almost immediately? Not much time there to be just a couple without kids. If only she had waited longer to get to know him, then get married, then wait a couple years to get pregnant, it would have been different.