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Welcome to the world of a narcissist.   It's all about them.   Other people only exist in relation to the needs of the narcissist at that moment.   Her kids are only there to curry sympathy for the sadness in her life.  When she wants a man, she doesn't need them anymore (except to beg for him to help him take care of them as a way to snag him).   When she needs money, others should just put up the money with no comment because well, she needs it.   

I agree 100%. Some think that a "narcissist" is a preening perfectionist, but not necessarily. As you said, a narcissist is a person who only sees other people in terms of what those people can do for them - and if/when they're no longer useful, those people are dropped cold and replaced. Narcissists are extremely toxic and damaging to their children and partners, as well as anyone else unfortunate enough to encounter them, but because they can be so charming and manipulative they get away with all of it and are well able to fool an awful lot of therapists.

 

If you know anyone who is often described as simply "a terrible person," most likely that's a narcissist.

 

TLC should do a show built around narcissistic spouses. They'd have an endless supply and a lot of people would have their eyes opened. Narcissists are responsible for huge amounts of damage in the world as terrible parents, terrible spouses, terrible bosses and terrible world leaders - but most people don't understand that that's what they are. Narcissists.

 

And if/when they start to use violence to get what they want, they progress to the next step: Sociopath.  Many people struggle their whole lives in a life full of narcissists and even sociopaths but don't know that it has a name. C'mon, TLC and others, redeem yourselves and do a series on this!

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Dani's gofundme is up to $235. One lady gave $100. Insane. Donate to your local shelters, human and or animal. Don't donate to this lady. Sheesh.

Dr. Phil needs to do a show on these simple minds donating to Dani.  Seriously, did all the Nigerian princes get their kingdoms back?

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I always forget about these older season threads. At first, my heart was broken that America's Sweethearts had split, but then I realized, I'M PSYCHIC!!!! I called it on first appearance. I'm going to hang up my shingle and charge the neighbors for my psychic knowledge about obvious things. As a freebee for my fellow PTVsers, the Cleveland Browns will not be making the playoffs. For those of you who don't follow football, they have only won 2 games this year.

 

I am going to start a new cult, become a polygamist, marry 5 men from various foreign countries, and open up a psychic shop where I'll point out the obvious to anyone willing to pay, which will be shown on TLC. One husband will be a little person, one will be a mobster, and one will be a Gypsy. Then, I'll find myself in financial difficulties because my husbands won't work and open a GoFundMe so that all my new, adoring, but probably mentally slow, fans can send me money to take my family on a honeymoon.

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I always forget about these older season threads. At first, my heart was broken that America's Sweethearts had split, but then I realized, I'M PSYCHIC!!!! I called it on first appearance. I'm going to hang up my shingle and charge the neighbors for my psychic knowledge about obvious things. As a freebee for my fellow PTVsers, the Cleveland Browns will not be making the playoffs. For those of you who don't follow football, they have only won 2 games this year.

 

I am going to start a new cult, become a polygamist, marry 5 men from various foreign countries, and open up a psychic shop where I'll point out the obvious to anyone willing to pay, which will be shown on TLC. One husband will be a little person, one will be a mobster, and one will be a Gypsy. Then, I'll find myself in financial difficulties because my husbands won't work and open a GoFundMe so that all my new, adoring, but probably mentally slow, fans can send me money to take my family on a honeymoon.

TLC will never bite unless you get a morbidly obese person in the mix.  But I like where this is going.....

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TLC will never bite unless you get a morbidly obese person in the mix.  But I like where this is going.....

 

And now a requirement will be one that lost all that weight and needs skin removal surgery.....

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"Thank you to everyone who has donated. I still need help though."

 

Because $330 is NOT $700, Dani has said the above on the gofundme page :P

Wow, we all really need to get on the ball or else Dani will never get that car back!

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Maybe Danielle's next husband will be a Nigerian Prince?

You make me wish this show would happen.....Dani/Nigerian Prince.  She goes to Nigeria in search of that 20 million she was supposed to get sending the prince 3,000 from her gofundme account.  Somehow she ends up engaged.  Entertainment ensues!

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Hope springs eternal! http://www.norwalkreflector.com/Television/2015/12/31/The-social-media-drama-needs-to-calm-down.html

“He wanted to leave,” she said. “With the social media and when you throw in the financial trouble and he don’t have no family here and the show and with him not having no job. … I’m giving him time to cool off.”

 

Jbali wasn’t available for comment.

 

Funny, she asked the newspaper to do the interview, they didn't seek her out.

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tehehehehehe, some people want their 15 minute of fame.   Prior to 90 Days I doubt the Norwalk Reflector even knew she existed.

 

Of course, she talks about hot he is and how all these women are throwing themselves at him.   So she can point out she is the one he married.   "Look *I* landed the hot young guy."   Which is also why she wants him back -- well that and all the attention it brings.   

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Yikes....I had to dig back to find this thread when I saw the "sad" news online....

 

Nice of Dani to blame the mean fans...yeah fans broke up this sweet romance

 

Maybe she can get the go fund me money to  take a vacay at the resort where season 3 Devar worked...

Might be a blind guy working there?

 

How Danielle Got Her Groove Back

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I'd like to hear from an immigration attorney because I am not sure non-consummation is enough to declare it "not a legitimate marriage" for immigration purposes.   Lots of marriages aren't consummated for a variety of reasons (hello, impotence).   Doesn't mean the folks weren't really in love at the time of marriage and intending to live happily ever after.   On the other hand, this is immigration.   It could have an HUGE effect if a court of competent jurisdiction declares there was no marriage in the first place, which is what an annulment is.


I'd like to hear from an immigration attorney because I am not sure non-consummation is enough to declare it "not a legitimate marriage" for immigration purposes.   Lots of marriages aren't consummated for a variety of reasons (hello, impotence).   Doesn't mean the folks weren't really in love at the time of marriage and intending to live happily ever after.   On the other hand, this is immigration.   It could have an HUGE effect if a court of competent jurisdiction declares there was no marriage in the first place, which is what an annulment is.

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I also wonder if the annulment would affect Mohamed's status here?

He should have never even been allowed to come here in the first place. It's obvious that his and Danielle's marriage was a scam.

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I'd like to hear from an immigration attorney because I am not sure non-consummation is enough to declare it "not a legitimate marriage" for immigration purposes.   Lots of marriages aren't consummated for a variety of reasons (hello, impotence).   Doesn't mean the folks weren't really in love at the time of marriage and intending to live happily ever after.   On the other hand, this is immigration.   It could have an HUGE effect if a court of competent jurisdiction declares there was no marriage in the first place, which is what an annulment is.

I would be curious to know too.  My husband's late uncle was an "involuntary guest of the Commonwealth" - life term - no possibility of parole.  However, he had a politician who believed in him - he was an accessory to a major crime - driving a getaway car - but he was made an example of.  That politician was close to winning his release, so he married his girlfriend, who he met in a penpal program.  Then someone they had let out on a compassionate release went nuts and killed someone, and that ended that.  They were married for 25+ years when he died, but because conjugal visits are a no-no here, their marriage was never consummated, and she was unable to collect any of his military pension or receive any social security.  I know the situation is slightly different, and we don't live in Ohio, but it will be curious to see if that comes up.

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I would be curious to know too.  My husband's late uncle was an "involuntary guest of the Commonwealth" - life term - no possibility of parole.  However, he had a politician who believed in him - he was an accessory to a major crime - driving a getaway car - but he was made an example of.  That politician was close to winning his release, so he married his girlfriend, who he met in a penpal program.  Then someone they had let out on a compassionate release went nuts and killed someone, and that ended that.  They were married for 25+ years when he died, but because conjugal visits are a no-no here, their marriage was never consummated, and she was unable to collect any of his military pension or receive any social security.  I know the situation is slightly different, and we don't live in Ohio, but it will be curious to see if that comes up.

Thats interesting that you are able to hold back benefits because a marraige was never consummated.  I suppose it makes sense to keep prisoners from getting these benefits from their prison wives, but what about people who just physically can't seal the deal because of an accident or incident.  

 

But I don't worry for Mo, I think this is a manipulative power play from Dani who is playing the only card she has to get Mo to come back.  The minute he does I bet she pulls the petition for an annulment.  How long does it take for him to get his permanent GC?

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Funny enough, they were part of a documentary filmed in the early 80's-ish.  I've seen it, but never been able to put my hands on a copy.  Would love to have one since he's no longer with us. Then a news magazine-type show did a featurette on them in the late 80's/early 90's.  In that featurette, the host said flat-out that the Commonwealth doesn't recognize their marriage since it can't be consummated. 

 

She buried him and all the associated expenses out of her pocket, IIRC.  She ended up in financial difficulty.  She took some flack from people for dating again fairly quickly, but as she explained it to us, his presence wasn't in the house - he'd never lived with her.  She didn't "see" him around the house, or "feel" his presence, or have clothing that smelled like him.  She's since remarried and we've lost touch, which is a shame.  She was a sweet lady.

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Funny enough, they were part of a documentary filmed in the early 80's-ish.  I've seen it, but never been able to put my hands on a copy.  Would love to have one since he's no longer with us. Then a news magazine-type show did a featurette on them in the late 80's/early 90's.  In that featurette, the host said flat-out that the Commonwealth doesn't recognize their marriage since it can't be consummated. 

 

She buried him and all the associated expenses out of her pocket, IIRC.  She ended up in financial difficulty.  She took some flack from people for dating again fairly quickly, but as she explained it to us, his presence wasn't in the house - he'd never lived with her.  She didn't "see" him around the house, or "feel" his presence, or have clothing that smelled like him.  She's since remarried and we've lost touch, which is a shame.  She was a sweet lady.

Who would ever give her flack for dating again quickly.  Goodness, she stuck by a man she couldn't hold, hug or love up on for over 20 years.  She buried him and put herself in financial trouble to do so.  What more did she have to do to prove her love?  Throw herself in the casket with him?

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Who would ever give her flack for dating again quickly.  Goodness, she stuck by a man she couldn't hold, hug or love up on for over 20 years.  She buried him and put herself in financial trouble to do so.  What more did she have to do to prove her love?  Throw herself in the casket with him?

She said at his funeral that it sucked that the first time she could be free with him was that.  When they lowered the casket, a huge flock of birds few overhead.  We all said it was him - he was finally free.  Don't get me wrong - he deserved jail time for his involvement in a major crime, but not life with no parole.  He turned himself in and flipped on the other guy, and he got a harsher sentence.  Just a sad situation.

I always think of him when I see these shows.  The two of them married in the prison chapel at the insistence of the film crew.  They would have gotten married anyway, but it made for a better film.  The crew paid the bills, and paid the photographer who took their photos.  And she watched the movie with us and told us all of the lines that the producers told her to say, including one that was something like "You'll be out in time for my dad's birthday".

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She said at his funeral that it sucked that the first time she could be free with him was that.  When they lowered the casket, a huge flock of birds few overhead.  We all said it was him - he was finally free.  Don't get me wrong - he deserved jail time for his involvement in a major crime, but not life with no parole.  He turned himself in and flipped on the other guy, and he got a harsher sentence.  Just a sad situation.

I always think of him when I see these shows.  The two of them married in the prison chapel at the insistence of the film crew.  They would have gotten married anyway, but it made for a better film.  The crew paid the bills, and paid the photographer who took their photos.  And she watched the movie with us and told us all of the lines that the producers told her to say, including one that was something like "You'll be out in time for my dad's birthday".

That is sad.  I was just watching an HBO documentary about how life without parole is becoming the new thing now that the death penalty is being taken off the table in so many states.  I do think there will be another shift where we get rid of the death penalty altogether, and life w/o parole becomes the punishment for the very worst of the worst, and others, like your uncle ends up with 20+ years or even less.  I think a lot of other countries don't really have a life without parole sentence, even for murder.  However, I do think there are some people that probably should stay locked up, but a lot of people made a terrible error in judgment and after 20 years they have been punished and are unlikely to re-offend.  I'm surprised your uncle ended up with more time -- no legal representation?

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That is sad.  I was just watching an HBO documentary about how life without parole is becoming the new thing now that the death penalty is being taken off the table in so many states.  I do think there will be another shift where we get rid of the death penalty altogether, and life w/o parole becomes the punishment for the very worst of the worst, and others, like your uncle ends up with 20+ years or even less.  I think a lot of other countries don't really have a life without parole sentence, even for murder.  However, I do think there are some people that probably should stay locked up, but a lot of people made a terrible error in judgment and after 20 years they have been punished and are unlikely to re-offend.  I'm surprised your uncle ended up with more time -- no legal representation?

Public defender, and a guy who made his political career on the case.  :(

 

Sorry to the mods to drag this off topic.  Sore subject.

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Public defender, and a guy who made his political career on the case.  :(

 

Sorry to the mods to drag this off topic.  Sore subject.

Last OT post from me -- but that is really sad.  I used to think if I ever got into criminal law I would be a prosecutor, because you could pick cases that would only further the interest of justice.  But I see now that a lot of times, its a numbers game.  Keeping your stats up, and its so sad that that thinking has a place in something as important as criminal justice.  But, on the bright side, I think that public defenders are getting better, after the recession there weren't a lot of biglaw jobs coming out of law school and a lot more talented attorneys wanted a job that had good benefits and a steady paycheck and so they became public defenders.

 

Now I know, I would just avoid criminal law like the plague.  The stakes are just too high either way.

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He just announced that he is leaving for South Carolina to meet his old blond mistress.  She is excited!

 

Now Danielle, who never listened when she was warned he was here only for the green card, is trying to warn his horde of hungry beavers that he is only here for the green card... only they are not listening to her.

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He just announced that he is leaving for South Carolina to meet his old blond mistress.  She is excited!

 

Now Danielle, who never listened when she was warned he was here only for the green card, is trying to warn his horde of hungry beavers that he is only here for the green card... only they are not listening to her.

No! It was true love because she was acceptable! He tried his best with Dani. The pulling away when she pawed him, the disgusting pizzas he posted on social media, the family dinners at the 2.99 all you can eat buffets... it was true love on Mo's part.  What makes me think she will GoFund to bring another con artist in the country?

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He was recently spotted with a woman and another couple in photos taken in Miami.

I saw his posts. He is moving to FL? So basically he can meet a lonely lady online, marry her (who knows if they ever had a physical relationship), travel the USA (NYC, VEGAS Chicago, more vacations then most middle class Americans take in 10 years) , get divorced and move to FL and live here forever.

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No! It was true love because she was acceptable! He tried his best with Dani. The pulling away when she pawed him, the disgusting pizzas he posted on social media, the family dinners at the 2.99 all you can eat buffets... it was true love on Mo's part.  What makes me think she will GoFund to bring another con artist in the country?

you should see the dude she is courting now....you really should just see him.....he is........how do I put this politely....maybe a little more into the outties than into the innies......like perhaps he prefers a good summer sausage to a meat pie....

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you should see the dude she is courting now....you really should just see him.....he is........how do I put this politely....maybe a little more into the outties than into the innies......like perhaps he prefers a good summer sausage to a meat pie....

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I see the pic you're talking about. The mirror one. Gross!! And he's supposedly married. I don't get it but still gross!!

hilariously, his ex-wife is a slightly younger version of Dani.  Listen, there is a lid for every pot, but I feel like this guy wants to get with another lid...not really a pot.

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hilariously, his ex-wife is a slightly younger version of Dani.  Listen, there is a lid for every pot, but I feel like this guy wants to get with another lid...not really a pot.

 

That's the same vibe I got. I also figured he was married to another pot.

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Maybe he's a chubby chaser.  There are guys who do like us bigger girls.  So I get that. What I don't get is that Danielle is a mess. She could be a size 5, and still be a mess, making her equally unattractive.  Maybe this guy likes the notoriety.  Who knows?

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