90DF Live Chat 3: I Gave Up Everything To Be Here

[tvrox]

52 minutes ago, Doublemint said:

Night all - daughter is going to hospital this week for medical testing.  72 hr EEG and MRI of brain.   Wish us luck.

Good luck! 

[Raja]

2 hours ago, greekmom said:

Ohhhh honey....

Don't you remember what they taught us?

No glove. No love.

Live it. Love it. Commit to it.

As a great woman asked in song "what's love got to do with it?"

[Raja]

3 hours ago, CrazyInAlabama said:

Probably no U.S. work permit, I think working without one would be a big "No" on his K-1, and cancel their chance to be on another season of 90 Day fiance.  

So, Meisha gets her annulments.   Since they're so Catholic, won't they have to do the premarital counseling through the church?  And that takes a long time, I hope they do it over Zoom these days. 

There is actually a school solution. The couple can get married in a civil service within the 90 day time frame for the United States' rules . But for the church to be in good standing and able to share in communion they are to ignore the sexual benefits of being married and live as brother and sister until the proper ceremony is held in church, officiated by a Deacon or Priest and only then does the marriage becomes "valid" in the church's eyes with full conjugal benefits and responsibilities to each other now in play. 

Edited September 25, 2023 by Raja

[magemaud]

We know Jasmine made it to the US but if you’re wondering who else is here: 

Spoiler

Meisha and Nicola were spotted shopping at the Mall of America and Riley and Violet have been seen in Pennsylvania 

 

[EtheltoTillie]

I believe it was implied that Nicola would be coming on a tourist visa, not a K1.  They can get married civilly.

[Shrek]

26 minutes ago, EtheltoTillie said:

I believe it was implied that Nicola would be coming on a tourist visa, not a K1.  They can get married civilly.

It wasn't really implied, she was asked if it was a K1 visa & she said no it is not he's just coming to visit so he can only be on a tourist visa which allows the same amount of time as the K1 but you get to leave & come back any time you want to. 

[Raja]

1 hour ago, EtheltoTillie said:

I believe it was implied that Nicola would be coming on a tourist visa, not a K1.  They can get married civilly.

Getting married on a tourist visa would be seen as  gaming  the system to save time on an earlier entry than what a spousal visa approval would take. It  is one of those USCIS red flags for further investigation when adjusting the spouse's status.

[Shrek]

54 minutes ago, Raja said:

Getting married on a tourist visa would be seen as  gaming  the system to save time on an earlier entry than what a spousal visa approval would take. It  is one of those USCIS red flags for further investigation when adjusting the spouse's status.

I know someone who did this & the USCIS didn't bat an eyelid, in fact they didn't even ask a single question about it. As it was almost 20 years ago they may have tightened it up since but it also probably depends on which country you're from and what reason you give for entering the country. 

[Pepper Mostly]

Hola peeps! How's everyone's Monday? It is cold and rainy here, and I am so tired. Busy weekend hitting the estate sales and flea markets and thrift shops, went to a wedding Saturday night, spent the morning today scrubbing down the old school desk I found and finding a spot for it in my living room. It looks great. I planned to do nothing today but that was not in store. Very happy to be in my pillow nest with 90 Day idiots to snark on. 

[Auntie Anxiety]

“Here I am, reporting for service duty,” said Stapler.

Does Armando have baby fever? 

Edited September 25, 2023 by Auntie Anxiety

[Pepper Mostly]

Kimberly just doesn't want to come back home, unmarried and with her tail between her legs. It would be worse than having a lip on the sink. 

[Auntie Anxiety]

Is there a male version word for “slut?” Maybe it should just be “you’re a real Sarper.”

[Pepper Mostly]

Anny cracks my shit up, for real. 

[Gobi]

Ready to snark.

[Auntie Anxiety]

Kimberly, no you did not give up everything (see Jenny).

[Bees52]

Good evening, all!

[Pepper Mostly]

Danielle doesn't know if they have sufficient trust? She's not sure about their relationship? Girl, you MARRIED him! Jesus, my blood pressure's taking a beating with this chica.

[Gobi]

So who has had sex with the most partners, Sarper or Stapler?

[Auntie Anxiety]

Literally, on that fucking couch.

[Pepper Mostly]

Just now, Gobi said:

So who has had sex with the most partners, Sarper or Stapler?

Two words: Cage match. Let them duke it out.

[kacesq]

These two are so fake. In love with their plastic good looks.

[Auntie Anxiety]

Just now, Gobi said:

So who has had sex with the most partners, Sarper or Stapler?

A question for the ages. 

[Pepper Mostly]

"Saging and....metaphysical things....". Sweet tap dancing Jesus. 

[Gobi]

Sarper is suffering from sex withdrawal. Or chlamydia, it's a toss-up.

[Bees52]

Something is wrong with Shak. Sageing his body?!

[kacesq]

This is scintillating. Weighing your woman…

[Auntie Anxiety]

Just now, Gobi said:

Sarper is suffering from sex withdrawal. Or chlamydia

Yes.

[Pepper Mostly]

Just now, Gobi said:

Sarper is suffering from sex withdrawal. Or chlamydia, it's a toss-up.

Why not both? I think its both. 

[CSunshine76]

F this guy and his scale. Fuck right on off.

[Doublemint]

Don't forget to order your new bed.   New beginnings and no bed bugs...

[Gobi]

132 pounds. It's okay, Shekinah, fake tits add ten pounds to your weight.

[Auntie Anxiety]

These two are like watching a freak show. The plastic surgery is so distracting.

[sainte-chapelle]

Sharer is gross. I don’t think very many women slept with him…like why?  “ Life in plastic, it’s fantastic “

[Pepper Mostly]

And now he's going to tell her what she can wear. Oh wait, he "had a vision" for her. 

[Shelbie]

Sarper is a controlling asshat.

[Pepper Mostly]

Just now, Gobi said:

132 pounds. It's okay, Shekinah, fake tits add ten pounds to your weight.

The extra four pounds is the weight of her lip fillers.

[Auntie Anxiety]

Shekinah (rhymes with vagina) is the perfect woman for Sarper….or will be when he gets done with changing her.

[kacesq]

Kudos to whoever framed that opening shit of Danielle and what’s his name…

[tvrox]

Hi all!!

[Bees52]

2 minutes ago, Bees52 said:

Something is wrong with Shak. Sageing his body?!

I take this statement back. With him weighing her, they're both ridiculous.

[sainte-chapelle]

I gain 4 pounds before my period….women’s bodes are different ….fuck  off reject Ken doll

[Pepper Mostly]

Oooh, Johan! (Fanning self). He certainly is a magnificent slab of man. 

[judylo]

Hi all! … A former coworker of Shekinah is over on Reddit. She says vapid, transactional, didn’t play well with others, had meathead boyfriend, wore too much makeup for aesthetician, but had good skin.

[kacesq]

Johan didn’t expect to pay for electricity or internet?? Wait, is it free and only idiots like me pay for it?

[Doublemint]

Oh God Danielle!   I had to go to the hospital twice today, my daughter is on 76 hour EEG since 9 AM.   Friday she gets an MRI of her brain.   We'll see what's up with the seizures and tongue biting.  

I like Yohan.

[Auntie Anxiety]

Johan thought he was going to marry a gold mine woman who had two nickels to rub together. He should have hired a PI, right, Riley?

[Pepper Mostly]

Johan, you should have bided your time and found a more promising sugar mama.  Silly Johan! 

[sainte-chapelle]

1 minute ago, Doublemint said:

Oh God Danielle!   I had to go to the hospital twice today, my daughter is on 76 hour EEG since 9 AM.   Friday she gets an MRI of her brain.   We'll see what's up with the seizures and tongue biting.  

I like Yohan.

Sending all my well wishes to your daughter…that is frightening!

[Auntie Anxiety]

Maybe you should reconsider the idea of having a kid, Johan. It ain’t cheap.

[Pepper Mostly]

Danielle did outright lie to him. She let him think that they'd go to the US. 

TJ. It is IMPOSSIBLE to make her happy. Get out now while the getting is good.