The truth is, of course, people want to do for a family that they love. However, no one respects a doormat or a weak pushover. Whitney Houston loved her daddy but he was on her death bed suing her for $100 million dollars, not to mention she supported tons of family members who pushed her to work even though she was not ready in recovering from her addictions. Sometimes I think the people who scream "You always do for family" are just trying to justify their own bad behavior. That said I think Junior's obsession with Devante has something to do with him not facing his fears about college.