I think that's a gross oversimplification. There's far more complexity to it than that: My [mother, father, brother, sister, grandfather, grandmother, dog, cat, high school teacher, Tiger Beat imaginary boy/girl friend] never [loved, understood, supported, encouraged, coddled, touched, spoke to, looked at] me and I glazed the pastry so that I can win for [him, her, them, it] and [gain respect, finally be loved, prove I'm a good cook, take them on a vacation, bury them, buy them jewelry/eye wear/dentures/surgery/fake boobs, tell them to fuck off]