Totally this. Many of the wives on this show seem really unhappy, and the husbands are in denial about the state of their marriages.
The dads, "Parenting is so much work! Wah, wah, wah" "You mean I actually am supposed to do stuff with my kids?!?" What did you think having kids was all about? And if you don't want to do the work, why are you having 2, 3, or 4 kids!!!
Think of the moms who read books, talk to pediatricians, go online, and talk to other parents to learn how to parent, come up with fun activities, figure out how to discipline kids, and the dads who just want to sit there and watch TV and threaten to hit their kids and call their wives names. Auggh!