ChristmasJones February 13, 2015 Share February 13, 2015 According to the show (because who knows what the truth is in real life), did Mar and Jenn just meet for the first time at the convention? Because if I am remembering that correctly, I always found the immediate intense level of their faux friendship irritating. The "I love you's" and talking about how much they missed each other seemed on the level of how a couple of 13 year olds might act. And then the truth comes out when with one perceived mis-step (the word fat) they are straight up hating and at each others throats! I felt the same way... but I am an introvert and am slow to warm up to people, so I was wondering if it was just me. They do seem emotionally stunted- which would make sense. I actually know an overweight/obese woman who reminds me of Kristi in terms of how over-the-top outgoing she is- to me it comes off as a bit of overcompensation - I think the women on this show have mentioned feeling like they have to prove themselves with their personality due to how people judge them due to their weight. 3 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/20073-big-women-big-love-general-discussion/page/4/#findComment-823914
4leafclover February 14, 2015 Share February 14, 2015 Feel free to add to the list, this girl...ugh! Stop trying to outdrink your dates Stop making out at the table Stop licking the guy's face--you're not a kitten's mother Stop talking about Richie Stop singing about skateboard riding lovers 4 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/20073-big-women-big-love-general-discussion/page/4/#findComment-824543
CentralTexas February 14, 2015 Share February 14, 2015 Stop trying to outdrink your dates Stop making out at the table Stop licking the guy's face--you're not a kitten's mother Stop talking about Richie Stop singing about skateboard riding lovers Thank you!!! How did I forget about her sucking face at dinner? I guess because she's provided so much material since last week! 2 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/20073-big-women-big-love-general-discussion/page/4/#findComment-824569
sasha206 February 14, 2015 Share February 14, 2015 Jenn: after listening to her declare in her cutesy, smug baby voice that she's going to eat all the pizza in New York, and "eat her weight in pizza," I have NO sympathy whatsoever for her overdramatic meltdown over the factual statement that she is fat. How can these women live with themselves after making a disgusting spectacle out of spraying their crotches with perfume and deodorant? This exhibitionist, crude behavior is so beyond my comprehension. That's my issue with her. She alternates between almost being proud of her weight and appetite and then when two women -- both almost as fat as she is -- dare to basically do the "we're all fat..." she gets upset? Seems like she was less upset when the obnoxious date was making comments about her stomach hanging out during their bowling date. Stop trying to outdrink your dates Stop making out at the table Stop licking the guy's face--you're not a kitten's mother Stop talking about Richie Stop singing about skateboard riding lovers Stop kidding yourself that you have a following that will notice your 40 pound weight gain since the only people at your show were related to you. And Sabirina. 5 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/20073-big-women-big-love-general-discussion/page/4/#findComment-824585
Sims Addict February 14, 2015 Share February 14, 2015 Kristi/Jessica are starting to bore me. **Ducking** Jessica is kind of growing on me now that she's not with the other ladies. She seemed, dare I say, interesting and nice during her date with the chef. Of course, maybe she's just putting on a good front in the beginning and then the bitch flag will wave when he says or does something she doesn't like. Shallowness here...but Kristi and Sabrina's lips fascinate me. In every one of Kristi's THs, I can't help but stare at how thin her top lip is. She holds it so tight, it looks like it hurts. Sabrina needs a lip liner, new application technique, or something, because her messy lipstick looks like she just took a nap facedown. And I'm still mad at her for going the entire dance-lesson date with Kareem without realizing her Maybelline was all over her front teeth. Yes, to whoever upthread said if I never hear Jefferson or turn up again, I will be happy for life. 3 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/20073-big-women-big-love-general-discussion/page/4/#findComment-825400
CousinOliver February 14, 2015 Share February 14, 2015 Jessica is a horrible person. Nothing can be added to that. Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/20073-big-women-big-love-general-discussion/page/4/#findComment-825700
CousinOliver February 14, 2015 Share February 14, 2015 Jessica, still horrible. I'm binge watching, so it may be a little amplified by the back to back episodes. I did find it interesting that Jessica had to ask for help off the floor because she couldn't get up. Contrast with Sabrina who could get herself up and her date went to help, unasked. And how tight were her spanx? I say get a bigger size and be able to move. She's fat, clearly. It doesn't matter if those painted on black pants are an 18 or 20, you're hiding nothing. Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/20073-big-women-big-love-general-discussion/page/4/#findComment-825831
CousinOliver February 14, 2015 Share February 14, 2015 (edited) I'm kind of bothered by the big jars of candy in the background of everyone's talking heads. Same candy, obviously set up by production. And Jessica doesn't want to end up like the sad ppl in LA? You mean those women who were making fools of themselves on the dance floor, making sure they were hypersexual to grab attention away from the prettier girls? Oh. Wait, that pathetic sad girl was Jessica. As her date said, my bad. I have to wonder if she knew she would be portrayed as the straight up delusional a-hole, of if she really, sincerely thinks all of these things? Light as a feather? Slim thick? Size small? Better than the other people? Edited February 14, 2015 by CousinOliver Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/20073-big-women-big-love-general-discussion/page/4/#findComment-825841
CousinOliver February 14, 2015 Share February 14, 2015 Why don't these women make an effort to lose some weight? J Well, Jessica obviously is trying to lose weight. But, probably because it's not a diet show, but a show about dating. I haven't even noticed what they're eating (outside of the whole fruit thing). It's just not the point of the show. Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/20073-big-women-big-love-general-discussion/page/4/#findComment-825938
CousinOliver February 14, 2015 Share February 14, 2015 I have some sympathy for Jenn. Fat has been flung at her, and many other fat people, as an insult. It hurts to be reduced to something superficial. That said, she does need therapy. She needs to be able to differentiate between people who are using "fat" as a descriptor and "fat" as an insult (which it should never be), and be able to confront those small minded people in a calm, dismissive way. Overall, she needs to stop caring about what other people think. 1 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/20073-big-women-big-love-general-discussion/page/4/#findComment-825961
CousinOliver February 14, 2015 Share February 14, 2015 (edited) Also, everything in this show is painfully set up. With the exception of the woman that lives in LA (hello, desperate actors answering casting calls), most of these "dates" are ex boyfriends or friends of friends. Then there's things like the fake "city taxi" minivan, the seminar that didn't really happen, etc. This is mostly a show about fat women struggles: girdles, amusement rides, waiters putting you on a diet, etc. The dating part is really unimportant to the overall plot line: it hard to be fat (or "thin", in Jessica's case.) Edited February 14, 2015 by CousinOliver 3 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/20073-big-women-big-love-general-discussion/page/4/#findComment-825999
sasha206 February 14, 2015 Share February 14, 2015 I have some sympathy for Jenn. Fat has been flung at her, and many other fat people, as an insult. It hurts to be reduced to something superficial. That said, she does need therapy. She needs to be able to differentiate between people who are using "fat" as a descriptor and "fat" as an insult (which it should never be), and be able to confront those small minded people in a calm, dismissive way. Overall, she needs to stop caring about what other people think. I have sympathy for anyone who struggles with weight, particularly when they get to the point of being so large they can't fit into a go-cart. But at the same time, she seemed more bothered by a fat girl lumping her into being fat -- along with her and the others -- than a guy she's on a date with who is talking about her rolls of fat. It's like she wants to talk about being fat, but doesn't want to be lumped into being fat. Not to mention, she calls herself "curvy." That's not curvy. She's not chubby. She's not fluffy. She's obese. If she wants to make no effort in losing weight and adopting a healthier lifestyle, maybe she needs to toughen up when it comes to a fat girl calling her what she is. 3 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/20073-big-women-big-love-general-discussion/page/4/#findComment-826506
ethalfrida February 15, 2015 Share February 15, 2015 Do we need to know what area of their bodies they are deodorizing? Seriously? Personally I've just about had it with this bunch. 3 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/20073-big-women-big-love-general-discussion/page/4/#findComment-826675
jonesingjay February 15, 2015 Share February 15, 2015 (edited) I have sympathy for anyone who struggles with weight, particularly when they get to the point of being so large they can't fit into a go-cart. But at the same time, she seemed more bothered by a fat girl lumping her into being fat -- along with her and the others -- than a guy she's on a date with who is talking about her rolls of fat. It's like she wants to talk about being fat, but doesn't want to be lumped into being fat. Not to mention, she calls herself "curvy." That's not curvy. She's not chubby. She's not fluffy. She's obese. If she wants to make no effort in losing weight and adopting a healthier lifestyle, maybe she needs to toughen up when it comes to a fat girl calling her what she is. I'd go as far as saying morbidly obese. Especially if you manage to profusely sweat while doing little to no moving about. No tea, no shade. @ethalfrida did Jenn really roll deodorant on her vagina or was it just her sweaty thighs. Either way, all I could think was 'Isn't she going to have to use that on her under arms?'. Edited February 15, 2015 by jonesingjay 2 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/20073-big-women-big-love-general-discussion/page/4/#findComment-826813
sasha206 February 15, 2015 Share February 15, 2015 I'd go as far as saying morbidly obese. Especially if you manage to profusely sweat while doing little to no moving about. No tea, no shade. @ethalfrida did Jenn really roll deodorant on her vagina or was it just her sweaty thighs. Either way, all I could think was 'Isn't she going to have to use that on her under arms?'. I was hoping that she was just doing her thighs, but maybe... 2 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/20073-big-women-big-love-general-discussion/page/4/#findComment-826939
ethalfrida February 15, 2015 Share February 15, 2015 It was the dissertation on why she was doing it while spraying the area. Honestly I tried to look away until she was finished. 2 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/20073-big-women-big-love-general-discussion/page/4/#findComment-826967
Smooching Frogs February 17, 2015 Share February 17, 2015 Looks like Jessica might have found love on this episode. Check out this exclusive interview with the Glam Boss herself: http://smoochingfrogs.com/blog/2015/2/17/big-women-big-love-jessica-gives-smooching-frogs-exclusive-interview. Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/20073-big-women-big-love-general-discussion/page/4/#findComment-836309
Smooching Frogs February 17, 2015 Share February 17, 2015 Check out this exclusive interview with Jessica spilling the behind-the-scenes beans: http://smoochingfrogs.com/blog/2015/2/17/big-women-big-love-jessica-gives-smooching-frogs-exclusive-interview Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/20073-big-women-big-love-general-discussion/page/4/#findComment-836321
mytmo February 18, 2015 Share February 18, 2015 I believe Jenn mumbled something about the deodorant was being applied to the thighs to avoid them from rubbing together. I just don't understand why these ladies wear these ridiculously tight spandex things that does not do them any favors in the least. There has to be better plus sized fashion than this? 1 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/20073-big-women-big-love-general-discussion/page/4/#findComment-839002
Tooch February 18, 2015 Share February 18, 2015 This show gives me so much second hand embarassment. Mostly for these sad, sad ladies but also for myself. I'm a fat woman (yes, we can call ourselves that, it's okay Jenn! It's just true! It's just like saying you're short, or tall, or blonde, or brunette--it's descriptive!) and I've overcome all my issues surrounding it, but oh were they plentiful. I am now mid-thirties and married with kids, so I'm so far removed from all this. But the show is so bringing back horrific memories. I was the overly outgoing and loud party girl like Kristi. I lost my virginity at 22 to a one night stand like Jenn. I was mega-slutty in my twenties, racking up one nighter after one nighter and being way overly sexual in my behavior, like Mar. I was even in a bit of denial about my own hotness like Jessica at one point, having lost a ton of weight and then was shocked (shocked!) when I found that going from a size 22 to a 14 did absolutely nothing to solve my love life problems because I hadn't changed a bit on the inside (cue after school special music). So I am hooked on this show...it's like watching an awful highlight reel of every embarassing thing from my twenty-something life. I thank my lucky stars I worked out my issues and met my husband. Of all these hot messes, Jenn definitely needs the most help. I want to take her under my big fat wing and give her a stack of fat acceptance literature to read. 9 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/20073-big-women-big-love-general-discussion/page/4/#findComment-840219
Taylorh2 February 18, 2015 Share February 18, 2015 And vocal exercises. 5 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/20073-big-women-big-love-general-discussion/page/4/#findComment-840417
DanaMB February 18, 2015 Share February 18, 2015 The thing is, and others have mentioned it, is that her voice changed when she was upset. She actually sounded mature. I don't know why she thinks the Minnie Mouse shit is cute. 2 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/20073-big-women-big-love-general-discussion/page/4/#findComment-840943
ChaChaSlide February 19, 2015 Share February 19, 2015 Kristi confronts Jefferson and Jenn takes a big tumble down the stairs. Meanwhile, Jessica rides a ferris wheel during a moonlit date with Eric and Mar isn't sure if she will be able make it to Sabrina's a full-figured fashion show. 1 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/20073-big-women-big-love-general-discussion/page/4/#findComment-842086
Katara February 19, 2015 Share February 19, 2015 Is the whole series over? Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/20073-big-women-big-love-general-discussion/page/4/#findComment-842264
mamey2422 February 19, 2015 Share February 19, 2015 Is the whole series over? I haven't heard a mention of season two so I'm not sure. My DVR cut off the ending. Does anyone remember Jen's update? Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/20073-big-women-big-love-general-discussion/page/4/#findComment-842905
ChaChaSlide February 19, 2015 Share February 19, 2015 (edited) Jen's update was that she continues to date and looking for her "perfect lumberjack". I think this show was a miniseries just to test the waters; LifeTime had gotten burnt by the whole BAPs fallout and probably didnt want to pay for a full series for a show they weren't sure was going to draw the ratings. They're sooo heavy handed with the producer manips, no one has honey just randomly on hand, and no one would put adulterated as crap honeybear honey in their eyes. If anything, they would use raw honey or medicinal grade honey. And the "pizza makes me wet" scene, HUGE cringe. I'm happy this show is over because I don't know how much more I can take. I hope they at least get a reunion episode though, I'd like to know if Kristi or Jessica are still with their guys. ETA it seems like a pretty common thing for LifeTime reality programming, they generally start small and see what kind of buzz you merit, then from there give you more episodes as time goes on. Like Little Women:LA started with 9 episodes in its first season last summer, and now has a much heartier 12 or 13 episodes this season and even a spinoff. I wouldn't be surprised if LifeTime started filming a second season, either with new girls or the same, especially if the ratings were good. Edited February 19, 2015 by ChaChaSlide 2 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/20073-big-women-big-love-general-discussion/page/4/#findComment-843118
sasha206 February 19, 2015 Share February 19, 2015 I hate to say I told you so but...my post from last episode: Kristi...I"m glad she woke up, but at the same time it wouldn't surprise me if next week after she does the "I have to protect myself and Laila" if he ends up saying something really simple that convinces her to stay with him. Like "Okay, I understand." And then she thinks to herself, "He took this so well! Maybe he is actually a great guy!" 4 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/20073-big-women-big-love-general-discussion/page/4/#findComment-843402
sasha206 February 19, 2015 Share February 19, 2015 I enjoyed this show, but I could do without EVERY FUCKING THING THAT HAPPENS TO THEM = BECAUSE I'm CURVY! Jenn, for fux sake, "regular girls" have a hard time in heels as well. 3 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/20073-big-women-big-love-general-discussion/page/4/#findComment-843462
MrsPatrickBateman February 19, 2015 Share February 19, 2015 I have fallen asleep with my contacts in numerous times, they can be agitated but never that much drama. I would never miss something over it. Also during the honey scene Jenn used her normal voice, not the squeaky baby voice. 3 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/20073-big-women-big-love-general-discussion/page/4/#findComment-844221
Hero February 19, 2015 Share February 19, 2015 (edited) I wonder how many slices of pizza they ate on that pizza tour? Does anyone else think that Jenn looks sloppy? She needs better color on her hair and she definitely needs to brush it. Edited February 19, 2015 by Suzy123 2 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/20073-big-women-big-love-general-discussion/page/4/#findComment-844912
Taylorh2 February 19, 2015 Share February 19, 2015 (edited) Yes, I did notice that Jenn's voice wasn't so squeaky during the "honey" scene. Edited February 19, 2015 by Taylorh2 1 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/20073-big-women-big-love-general-discussion/page/4/#findComment-845137
jonesingjay February 20, 2015 Share February 20, 2015 (edited) I wonder how many slices of pizza they ate on that pizza tour? Does anyone else think that Jenn looks sloppy? She needs better color on her hair and she definitely needs to brush it. I think Jenn's hair is the least of her problems. Although, you are correct. That her hair being as unkempt as it is with a less than flattering color doesn't help with the 'look' she has going for her on this show. If this comes back for a second season. They need a new group of girls, located within the same city. Or they need to do an overhaul of this cast. Why did this show end on Jenn? Is she the 'star' of the show? Someone the viewers root for and identify with the most out of all these women? I don't see it. Edited February 20, 2015 by jonesingjay 2 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/20073-big-women-big-love-general-discussion/page/4/#findComment-845425
sasha206 February 20, 2015 Share February 20, 2015 I think Jenn's her is the least of problems. Although, you are correct. That her hair being as unkempt as it is with a less than flattering color doesn't help with the 'look' she has going for her on this show. If this comes back for a second season. They need a new group of girls, located within the same city. Or they need to do an overhaul of this cast. Why did this show end on Jenn? Is she the 'star' of the show? Someone the viewers root for and identify with the most out of all these women? I don't see it. I would watch a second season, but I could do it without Mar, Jessica. I wouldn't mind seeing Kristi again to see if Jefferson is the loser we expect him to be because well 3 marriages and no job. Jenn irritates the hell out of me, but I could watch her again. 1 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/20073-big-women-big-love-general-discussion/page/4/#findComment-845430
jonesingjay February 20, 2015 Share February 20, 2015 I would watch a second season, but I could do it without Mar, Jessica. I wouldn't mind seeing Kristi again to see if Jefferson is the loser we expect him to be because well 3 marriages and no job. Jenn irritates the hell out of me, but I could watch her again. Kristi doesn't irk me as much as some of the others. I don't like how crazy she is over this Jefferson guy though. I wouldn't mind seeing her again. They could nix Jessica, Sabrina, Mar, and last but not least Jenn. I think that pretty much leaves Kristi. I feel like I'm leaving someone out? Might as well start over from scratch. 1 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/20073-big-women-big-love-general-discussion/page/4/#findComment-845436
jennylauren123 February 20, 2015 Share February 20, 2015 (edited) I don't understand the Jefferson love, either. Being not atrocious doesn't mean that he has much to offer. He's a passive type. I would not expect him to display much emotion. He's a big talker; he's big on complimenting a heavy woman and making her feel beautiful. What better way is there to manipulate someone? And the stuffed horse? Well, that's a pretty obvious little thing to do when you're meeting a small child. It would not make me swoon. Nor would having a man tell me to take time to figure out what I want--right after I'd told him what I wanted: no more relationship with him because he doesn't have a job, isn't financially stable, and reminds me of some exes. I think my response to "Mr. Jefferson" would have been more along the lines of, "What part didn't you understand?" And Jenn does the Debbie Downer thing just after she mouse-squeaks/baby talks about something. Wah-wah, and the crooked lip thing with a shrug. Not cute, Jenn. It worked for Debbie Downer, but it doesn't work for you. She is obviously a special snowflake to her parents. Edited February 20, 2015 by jennylauren123 3 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/20073-big-women-big-love-general-discussion/page/4/#findComment-847016
sasha206 February 20, 2015 Share February 20, 2015 I don't understand the Jefferson love, either. Being not atrocious doesn't mean that he has much to offer. He's a passive type. I would not expect him to display much emotion. He's a big talker; he's big on complimenting a heavy woman and making her feel beautiful. What better way is there to manipulate someone? And the stuffed horse? Well, that's a pretty obvious little thing to do when you're meeting a small child. It would not make me swoon. Nor would having a man tell me to take time to figure out what I want--right after I'd told him what I wanted: no more relationship with him because he doesn't have a job, isn't financially stable, and reminds me of some exes. I think my response to "Mr. Jefferson" would have been more along the lines of, "What part didn't you understand?" Totally agree. I knew last week that he'd barely have to do ANYTHING in order for her to change her mind. And sure enough, he didn't. She's so desperate for love I think she'd hold onto just about anything. 2 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/20073-big-women-big-love-general-discussion/page/4/#findComment-847590
ChristmasJones February 20, 2015 Share February 20, 2015 Not having a job, IMO, is a pink flag compared to the fact that Jefferson has been married three times. I would have liked to see her ask him, when they were talking at the park, why each of his marriages ended. 4 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/20073-big-women-big-love-general-discussion/page/4/#findComment-847820
4leafclover February 20, 2015 Share February 20, 2015 Had to laugh at Mr. Wonderful telling Kristy that he made room in his life for her--haha, you're unemployed, have nothing to offer and you've "made room" for her??? That's rich. The other guffaw I had was hearing Jenn say Mar was being a "drama queen." Pot, meet kettle. Not sure if Mar's eye pain was so much due to sleeping with contacts as it was due to having a hangover. And honey in the eyes? She'll be lucky if she doesn't end up with a major eye infection, or worse. Hate to admit it but, when Jessica and her mother were both inside her old sweatpants, I began to understand her calling herself "skinny." I imagine after being so large, she really does feel skinny now. I hated saying that, if tasted awful in my mouth. 2 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/20073-big-women-big-love-general-discussion/page/4/#findComment-847894
Cranky One February 20, 2015 Share February 20, 2015 Mar's eyes were probably killing her because she most likely tried to take her contacts out without using contact eye drops or putting some saline in her eyes first and they were stuck to her eye from sleeping in them. I thought I heard her say to Jenn that she found some eye drops in her purse. Jenn's voice during the honey scene was unrecognizable. My expert opinion is that she doesn't like her real voice and thinks this fake one is cute. If I was her friend, I'd tell her to stop talking in that ridiculous voice since it's obvious it's not her real one. And she needs to stand up straight. Her posture is horrible. 1 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/20073-big-women-big-love-general-discussion/page/4/#findComment-848033
cerealboxkilla February 20, 2015 Share February 20, 2015 (edited) Where does Jenn live? Can we all ambush her apartment and give that chick a makeover? She's the sloppiest of the bunch--the hair, her clothes, the fake chipmunk voice. I think she wants to come across as funny and adorable and "curvy," but it's not working. When Sabrina asked that guy how old he thought she was, and he said 27, did anyone else think Sabrina expected him to go a lot lower? She was like, "Uh, 30!" Awkward. Now just because you dress like a 23 year old... Kristi reminds me so much of my best friend. I never understood why my friend was so bad at meeting men. She dated the biggest losers, most who were butt ugly, and then she would gloat about how good it felt to be called pretty by these ugly dudes. I always told her that she had a lot to offer and that she shouldn't look to losers to validate her beauty, but oh well. She's married to some dude with no teeth now. I'm actually kind of...obsessed with this show? It's such a trainwreck; I've been enjoying every second of it. I would be happy if all of them came back, excluding Jessica of course. However, this show can only work if their storylines take off. If it's just the same ol' bad dudes/bad decisions/inevitable embarassments, it can get old. Edited February 20, 2015 by cerealboxkilla 4 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/20073-big-women-big-love-general-discussion/page/4/#findComment-848637
Hero February 20, 2015 Share February 20, 2015 Kristi reminds me so much of my best friend. I never understood why my friend was so bad at meeting men. She dated the biggest losers, most who were butt ugly, and then she would gloat about how good it felt to be called pretty by these ugly dudes. I always told her that she had a lot to offer and that she shouldn't look to losers to validate her beauty, but oh well. She's married to some dude with no teeth now. My friend is exactly like that. She hates being alone and picks losers who don't have a job. She also supports him with the money that SHE makes from working two jobs. I told her a million times that she is better than that, but the guy gives her a compliment or buys her something, and she falls right back to him. I understand where Kristi is coming from, it feels nice when someone pays you compliments, but she needs a reality check. Go out, have fun and date, but don't make it serious so fast. She needs to learn her self- worth and only then will she be able to get through her problems. 1 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/20073-big-women-big-love-general-discussion/page/4/#findComment-848796
Cranky One February 20, 2015 Share February 20, 2015 Have you seen the promotional pictures on Lifetime? They photoshopped them all so much, especially Jenn. They must've photoshopped her voice also! 1 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/20073-big-women-big-love-general-discussion/page/4/#findComment-848919
Autumn0516 February 21, 2015 Share February 21, 2015 The editing drives me crazy. It's obvious that the fashion show happened before the "fat" incident in last weeks episode. They were dressed the same, hair did the same. I don't care if Kristi keeps dating Jefferson. They'd only been on a few dates. Go ahead and explore...but my goodness...wait to introduce your child until it's Dixie Chick serious! She doesn't have Layla's best interest at heart there at all. I still like Sabrina. Mar and Jenn bug. Jessica got better the last few episodes. She was cute with her mom, but does she live at home too? As a big girl, I can relate to a lot of their issues and yet I'm also embarrassed and hope not everyone thinks we are like these girls. Sabrina is fine, but Jenn is just...sad. Very sad. 4 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/20073-big-women-big-love-general-discussion/page/4/#findComment-849232
sasha206 February 21, 2015 Share February 21, 2015 I'm actually kind of...obsessed with this show? It's such a trainwreck; I've been enjoying every second of it. I would be happy if all of them came back, excluding Jessica of course. However, this show can only work if their storylines take off. If it's just the same ol' bad dudes/bad decisions/inevitable embarassments, it can get old. I would actually prefer to watch this show if they stopped making every effing thing in their world have to do with being fat. Tripping in heels? "I'm a curvy girl..." This show would interest me more if they weren't contracted to talk endlessly about being fat. I mean, we can all infer that their size has caused them problems in dating. But do we need to hear every five minutes that gee, the booth was tight. Gee, I hope the fucking Ferris Wheel doesn't tip over because I'm fat. I don't care if Kristi keeps dating Jefferson. They'd only been on a few dates. Go ahead and explore...but my goodness...wait to introduce your child until it's Dixie Chick serious! She doesn't have Layla's best interest at heart there at all. I think the only reason she's worried about introducing them is because Jefferson apparently doesn't have a home or anywhere that they can do fucky fuck times. So if she moves out, Layla has to know mommy's friend Mr. Jefferson who is going to be making squealing noises in the bedroom. 3 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/20073-big-women-big-love-general-discussion/page/4/#findComment-849233
ChristmasJones February 21, 2015 Share February 21, 2015 Kristi got a new place so she can have sexy time with Jefferson!! Did anyone notice the pile of multiple bags of chips/snacks in the hotel? I guess I shouldn't be surprised - the girls are all very overweight and aren't making any attempts to lose weight... so of course they are going to have a bunch of snacks to snack on after their pizza tour. Am I the only one who cringes when Jenn is doing a TH and she makes those dumb facial expressions and shrugs her shoulders and tries to make a witty/funny comment? Ugh.... that bugs. 7 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/20073-big-women-big-love-general-discussion/page/4/#findComment-849250
sasha206 February 21, 2015 Share February 21, 2015 Kristi got a new place so she can have sexy time with Jefferson!! Did anyone notice the pile of multiple bags of chips/snacks in the hotel? I guess I shouldn't be surprised - the girls are all very overweight and aren't making any attempts to lose weight... so of course they are going to have a bunch of snacks to snack on after their pizza tour. Am I the only one who cringes when Jenn is doing a TH and she makes those dumb facial expressions and shrugs her shoulders and tries to make a witty/funny comment? Ugh.... that bugs. OMG, yes. And if I hear "lumberjack" one more freaking time! Despite her odd desperation for Jefferson, I do have a soft spot for Kristi. I think she really is a beautiful woman. Her skin is flawless and her coloring is beautiful. I know she's a big girl but she shouldln't sell herself short. And Jessica, as obnoxious as she first was, seems like she's actually a decent person. And I do think she's a beautiful woman as well. Jenn, Mar are just flat out embarrassing. 3 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/20073-big-women-big-love-general-discussion/page/4/#findComment-849270
ChristmasJones February 21, 2015 Share February 21, 2015 Despite her odd desperation for Jefferson, I do have a soft spot for Kristi. I think she really is a beautiful woman. Her skin is flawless and her coloring is beautiful. I know she's a big girl but she shouldln't sell herself short. Does Kristi dye her hair? I thought I noticed roots in one episode.... not that there's anything wrong that - I dye mine! Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/20073-big-women-big-love-general-discussion/page/4/#findComment-849286
sasha206 February 21, 2015 Share February 21, 2015 Does Kristi dye her hair? I thought I noticed roots in one episode.... not that there's anything wrong that - I dye mine! Oh, good question! I don't know but the red on her is beautiful. She's got milky skin. I really think she's lovely. Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/20073-big-women-big-love-general-discussion/page/4/#findComment-849289
Katara February 21, 2015 Share February 21, 2015 On another forum, someone claimed to have remembered Kristi from an episode of Toddlers and Tiaras. Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/20073-big-women-big-love-general-discussion/page/4/#findComment-849493
sasha206 February 21, 2015 Share February 21, 2015 On another forum, someone claimed to have remembered Kristi from an episode of Toddlers and Tiaras. Oh geez. She's one of *those*? 1 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/20073-big-women-big-love-general-discussion/page/4/#findComment-850548
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