Season 18 Live Chat

[Straycat80]

Those don’t look like Valentine painting/decorations. 

[Suzywriter]

Meri, girl, your hair!

[altopower]

Murder for hire. Yeah, Meri needs that.

[Ms.Lulu]

I think Meri was using moving the Lularags business to Parowan as a way to explore being away from the toxic Kody and Robyn.

It feels like a test, and there even seems to be a sense of relief.

Edited September 25, 2023 by Ms.Lulu

[Elizzikra]

Hah! Who becomes besties with the roach killer?

[altopower]

You should clean out the carriage house before you bring the clothes up.

And now we have Janelle having an appointment with Kody. And he wants a hug? He's such a jerk. Just wait til she drops some bombs on you, buddy.

[mythoughtis]

I really dislike the crappy looking jeans trend.  Why spend money on jeans that look like they are worn out? And people over 30 shouldn’t indulge in this trend

[Rabbit Hutch]

Kootie will never take responsibility for anything.  So sad for Janelle.

[Art Of Noiz]

8 minutes ago, Rabbit Hutch said:

Christine seems to be regressing back to high school, emotionally.  Trying to support her, but I wish she'd maintain some semblance of dignity.

I think she's emotionally stunted from being sheltered as a princess of her church, and because she has never dated.

[Ms.Lulu]

Kody seems to forget that he went through counseling with Christine. We saw them in therapy and the struggles discussed were the same ones that broke them up.

[For Cereals]

Just now, mythoughtis said:

I really dislike the crappy looking jeans trend.  Why spend money on jeans that look like they are worn out? And people over 30 shouldn’t indulge in this trend

Yes!  And the barrel waisted mom jeans from the 90’s.  We didn’t know then!  Everyone walking around looking like extras from Full House…

[altopower]

She is just radiating defensiveness.

[General Days]

"I have not really missed Kody."

So say we all, Janelle.

[mythoughtis]

Janelle doesn’t want to be there  and he knows it. He might actually be ashamed about the fight 

Edited September 25, 2023 by mythoughtis

[altopower]

Kody is getting what he deserves from Janelle. Yeah, that last fight was ugly. This conversation will not be good for you either.

[General Days]

Kody is awfully triggered by the departure of Christine, the woman he never loved, "sacrificed" to love, was never attracted to, and was relieved by the fact that she wanted to end the marriage.

[mythoughtis]

Kody you chose not to go to the Airbnb for Christmas. 

[altopower]

Kody, pick up the phone and call your children. You could do one a day so it's not too much of a burden.

[Ms.Lulu]

It is very interesting that Kody doesn't acknowledge that it was wrong for him to ignore Savannah for 6 weeks.

And I love that Janelle doesn't let him off the hook, there is more to a marriage than physical attraction--that is table stakes. It is really about emotional connection and trust.

And she is clear that her children come first. Given that Kody has no loyalty or apparently affection for his kids with Janelle, she would be a fool to take him back.

And it does seem clear, Janelle offers to go to counseling and we know that Kody won't do it. He won't do it without Robyn and he won't acknowledge that the third person in their relationship is the problem.

 

Edited September 25, 2023 by Ms.Lulu

[Straycat80]

No Janelle, don’t waste your time with therapy, just cut dumbass out of your life, you’ll be much happier. 

Edited September 25, 2023 by Straycat80

[Adeejay]

Kody keeps saying that Christine just "dropped it on me."  He told her that he didn't want to be intimate with her anymore.  He said she was telling everyone she was going to leave.  So why was he surprised when she left?

[General Days]

Just now, Ms.Lulu said:

And it does seem clear, Janelle offers to go to counseling and we know that Kody won't do it. He won't do it without Robyn and he won't acknowledge that the third person in their relationship is the problem.

 

Just like Christine agreeing to divorce counseling. Yeah sure, Kodes. You set it up.

[Straycat80]

Cody thinks he hot? He’s delusional. 

[General Days]

Don't worry, Kody. You and Robyn are still the main mean girls.

[Adeejay]

 Kody said that Janelle only wants him for his bod.  The ego on this guy.  

Edited September 25, 2023 by Adeejay

[mythoughtis]

So make plans with Savannah AND Gwen - who also lives in Flagstaff at this time 

Edited September 25, 2023 by mythoughtis

[General Days]

I wish Janelle had said, "Whoa buddy, you're not that hot."

[altopower]

Kody's words and behavior tonight only clarifies Janelle's need to get away from him and the whole mess.

 

[65mickey]

What the hell Kody saying that Janelle thinks he is hot. He has nice pecs. and great abs. or some such garbage?? He sure has an inflated view of himself.

Edited September 25, 2023 by 65mickey

[altopower]

The man needs to stop going on and on about Covid and the rules, and about Christine dropping the divorce on him and sticking a knife in the kidney. No one cares anymore.

[Ms.Lulu]

Janelle is also talking like she's had coaching (if not counseling) at the lunch with Kody.

She doesn't let him get away with his woe is me, you don't accept Sol and Ari as much as you accept the other kids. When he says you didn't support me when Christine left (who you told me you didn't love and weren't attracted to) she brings him back to their relationship.

He is trying to create guilty feelings. Yep, he is a gaslighter.

[General Days]

Asshat could invite Gwen and Savanah to Robyn's. His main conflict was with Garrison and Gabe (and I think Garrison more than Gabe, since Garrison is the one who levied accusations against The Blessed Mother Robyn). 

If Savanah and/or Gwen didn't want to come, they wouldn't, but he would know he tried.

[Art Of Noiz]

3 minutes ago, General Days said:

Don't worry, Kody. You and Robyn are still the main mean girls.

Like he nows what Mean Girls means!! He is Robyn's parrot.

[altopower]

Just now, Ms.Lulu said:

Janelle is also talking like she's had coaching (if not counseling) at the lunch with Kody.

I wouldn't be surprised if she did. Plus she's had time to think things through and respond more carefully. She's making him stay on point, which we all know is not is natural way.

[Elizzikra]

His behavior with Savannah and his lame excuses about it are pathetic. “She took away the context in which I knew my kids?” So they are strangers unless their mothers broker their relationships with you?? 

[65mickey]

When Janelle finally got around to bringing up that he had not even called Savannah at Christmas he stuttered and stammered and could not even finish a sentence. He knows he is being filmed looking like a POS. 

[mythoughtis]

Just now, 65mickey said:

When Janelle finally got around to bringing up that he had not even called Savannah at Christmas he stuttered and stammered and could not even finish a sentence. He knows he is being filmed looking like a POS. 

And then implied he doesn’t have any desire to see Savannah  without Janelle 

[altopower]

Meri, just pull the plug and get out of there. Robyn makes you sit outside in the cold when you come over.

[sparrowthebrave]

I’m still reeling from the nice pecs and abs comment 🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮

[altopower]

Robyn, Robyn. My Sister Wife's Closet is not the same as raising children. Honestly, it was a stupid project.

[mbaywife123]

Kodys word of the day calendar landed on transmute for this episode.

[sparrowthebrave]

Anytime I hear the name “My Sister Wives Closet” I start howling with laughter. 

[altopower]

You wanted Janelle to be independent, Kody.

[General Days]

Whenever Meri talks about healing her marriage with Kody, I hear Spike in my head. 

[altopower]

You were not doing it for the whole family. His obligation was for the littles, and then you and Robyn didn't get vaccines, either, or factor them into your little rules.

[General Days]

Just now, sparrowthebrave said:

Anytime I hear the name “My Sister Wives Closet” I start howling with laughter. 

Right?

Aside from it being a clunky name with no flow, it wasn't even a clothing business. So so so so dumb.

[Ms.Lulu]

Kody thinks trying to pull Janelle back to their happiness in Las Vegas 5 years ago will sway her.

Janelle should realize that he thinks she is interested in him for sex and money. She thought they were best friends.

It is about Kody's ego. 

[Rabbit Hutch]

Kootie's really worried that Christine will turn Janelle to the divorced side.

[Straycat80]

Kody is gaslighting Janelle. I’m sure she tried to make things works, not him, all he cared about was Robyn and her kids. 

[Elizzikra]

I just want to throat punch Kody when he says Janelle didn't do anything to support plural marriage. She gave up every nickel every single nickel she had to that family and she raised six kids largely alone. What did Kody do besides donate sperm.