Her ex Larry Butler who just happened to be best friends with her first husband, Peter Sussman. Larry was an usher at their wedding.
"In Bethenny’s memoir: A Place of Yes she explains that she married Peter Sussman at 26 to escape the instability of being a fledging actress, and because she felt like her time was running out to get married. She writes:
I felt like if I didn’t marry Peter, who loved me so much and was such a good friend, who had such a wonderful welcoming family, that I was never going to