If my guy called me with any hint of an ultimatum (even joking) with his drunken buddies ON CAMERA yahooing in the background I would be done. If I thought that his friends were all talking about our relationship in that way I would never want to be around them again. EFF that.
Aside from what Tinsley says, we know nothing about Scott other than his poor taste in flower arrangements, and seems like Bethenny's guy has the same poor taste.
What is with Bethenny jumping all over Scott for not being able to commit, meanwhile she considered herself "engaged" to a guy who couldn't seem to manage to get a divorce. Um, Ok.
If Dennis were alive would she have taken a drunken dare to call him with an ultimatum to get a divorce? ON CAMERA?
Maybe next season we will see where she is at with Paul, if he is still around. By then he should be serious enough to have put a ring on it.