I used to think post catfish Meri was only hanging around for the show money. Lately I think she is actually attracted to Kody. In fact, if Kody put Meri back into bedroom rotation, I bet Meri would pick up right where she was before.
I don’t blame Kody for needing a cooling off period, but he needs to decide if he can truly forgive and move on with Meri. If he can’t - he needs to tell her that. It’s passive aggressive and cowardly to not address it.