I think that we as a group of public peoples really have a hard time with women that are the boss. I love the campaign that started after someone called Beyonce bossy. Her answer was, I am the boss. Any driven type A woman seems to really irritate us. Look at the women in reality tv that are getting a lot of flak, Kate G, Jen Arnold, Bethenny - I don't think any of them nor any of the men in their lives are perfect. But why is it that the women seem singled out for being mean, harsh, greedy? Just really not a nice reflection of what happens when a woman steps outside of society's norm.
So because I feel that way I give a whole lot of leeway to women. I assume most of the press negative to Bethenny isn't about the truth but about the fact that she is a driven person that will not take no for an answer. If she was Lee Iacocca we would write books about her process. IMHO :)