DkNNy79 June 2, 2015 Share June 2, 2015 (edited) Anyone have any online dating success stories? I've gone out with various guys that I've met online (Eharmony, Match, OkCupid), but alas am still single. So any success stories to keep my spirits up? Any horror stories for us to have a chuckle over? I've only had one weirdo, who was obsessed with having a baby with me and we hadn't even met up yet. My co-worker has met some guys who like went off on her when she declined a second date. Also, what things in a person's profile will make you automatically "decline" them? For me, if a guy has shirtless pics (especially if they're flexing) because that just seems douchey/vain to me. If they don't want kids - that's a deal breaker for me. I don't have any kids and would like to have some one day. If they don't have a profile pic and/or all they have is a pic and no information about themselves. If they have kids - I'm just not looking to date someone with kids. Kids = baby mama. Baby mama = drama, usually. If I met this person through another venue (at a bar, event...etc) and start chatting them up and later found out they had more kids, then I might be open to dating them. But I feel like online dating lets you be more choosey. But then again, maybe that's a bad thing. Pet Peeves: I hate is when they message you and say "hey." That's it, that's all you have to say to me? When guys in their early to mid-20s message me. I'm in my mid-thirties and am looking for a relationship and not hookups. I just don't think that's what guys in their early to mid-20s are looking for. Am I being wrong for dismissing them so fast? Moderator: Can we change the thread title? I am totally using the same name for the family topic thread and it didn't occur to me. Sorry! Edited June 2, 2015 by DkNNy79 1 Link to comment
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