90DF Live Chat 3: I Gave Up Everything To Be Here

[tvrox]

9 minutes ago, sainte-chapelle said:

Yea Mary is now playing the innocent virgin with strict grandparents while she turns her phone off while running around with male “friends “

And the even stricter ancestors!!! 

[Doublemint]

Just now, SunnyBeBe said:

I have this thing about needing a certain kind of mattress.  I can’t sleep otherwise.  

Don't move to India!   (Free advice)

[Pepper Mostly]

Now we'll all just stand around awkwardly and not offer their guest so much as a glass of water. 

[Gobi]

"He forgot to tell me that you're a son stealing hoor!"

[Auntie Anxiety]

I need to school these people in the art of small talk (which is ironic, since I hardly talk to anyone in a given week), as in, “tell me about what you’ve cooked here,” “what was Julio like when he was a little boy,”……..

[tvrox]

10 minutes ago, Auntie Anxiety said:

Looks like Kimberly did a lot of shopping at the airport during her layover.

A back massager is the most random gift ever! 

[Gobi]

Just now, Auntie Anxiety said:

I need to school these people in the art of small talk (which is ironic, since I hardly talk to anyone in a given week), as in, “tell me about what you’ve cooked here,” “what was Julio like when he was a little boy,”……..

"What is the air speed velocity of an unladen swallow?"

[Doublemint]

How long is the Mother in the USA?   She speaks no English.  Even my elderly Italian Grandmother spoke some Engllish.  She's the Dominican version of Kenny.

[Auntie Anxiety]

Julio is an adult. Wish him luck and say goodbye.

[sainte-chapelle]

This is awkward….he should have told her privately 

Poor girl:sitting alone at the end of the table while his family huddles together like they are preparing for death 

Edited July 25, 2023 by sainte-chapelle

[Pepper Mostly]

Just now, Auntie Anxiety said:

I need to school these people in the art of small talk (which is ironic, since I hardly talk to anyone in a given week), as in, “tell me about what you’ve cooked here,” “what was Julio like when he was a little boy,”……..

Does no one know how to be even minimally polite? Its continually shocking to me. And really, ladling guilt onto poor Kirsten before she's even had a bite of food? Sweet tap dancing Jesus. These people are rude. 

 

[Gobi]

Just now, sainte-chapelle said:

This is awkward….he should have told her privately 

Maybe he was counting on the film crew's presence preventing an ugly scene.

[Pepper Mostly]

2 minutes ago, Gobi said:

"What is the air speed velocity of an unladen swallow?"

The African swallow or the European swallow?

[tvrox]

9 minutes ago, SunnyBeBe said:

I must admit that when i watch some of these situations, I feel rather spoiled.  I have been called a spoiled brat a couple times before. Lol. The brat part isn’t true. 

You are nowhere near a spoiled brat, unlike the idiots on this show!! 

[Pepper Mostly]

Just now, Gobi said:

Maybe he was counting on the film crew's presence preventing an ugly scene.

Oh that's adorable. When has it ever? 

[Suzywriter]

2 minutes ago, tvrox said:

A back massager is the most random gift ever! 

Well, most people have a back. 

[Gobi]

Just now, Pepper Mostly said:

The African swallow or the European swallow?

I don't know that!

[Doublemint]

1 minute ago, Pepper Mostly said:

Does no one know how to be even minimally polite? Its continually shocking to me. And really, ladling guilt onto poor Kirsten before she's even had a bite of food? Sweet tap dancing Jesus. These people are rude. 

 

This is the expected behavior of younger people today.  No home training.

[Suzywriter]

Oh God, it's the feet commercial again. I looked up and shrieked. 

5 minutes ago, Auntie Anxiety said:

Julio is an adult. Wish him luck and say goodbye.

I suspect that his close close close relationship with his mother involves living rent free, grocery bill free, maybe phone bill free. 

[sainte-chapelle]

Mary perhaps discuss the rules on the way home? You have 3 hours

[Auntie Anxiety]

Brandan’s glasses are fogged up.

[Gobi]

Get a room, guys.

[Doublemint]

She's wearing a giant sweater and she's too hot?   Idiot, take the sweater off.

[Pepper Mostly]

Just now, Doublemint said:

This is the expected behavior of younger people today.  No home training.

It was Julio's mother who was the worst behaved. She has grown kids, she's no young whippersnapper. And really, Dominicans are the most polite, hospitable people. Just the other day houseguest broker her driver's side mirror (hit a pillar in a parking lot), and the Dominican kids playing basketball across the street all stopped playing and checked that she was OK.  

[Suzywriter]

3 minutes ago, Doublemint said:

This is the expected behavior of younger people today.  No home training.

We can't really blame them if they never were taught. 

Just now, Auntie Anxiety said:

Brandan’s glasses are fogged up.

He's probably hard as a rock. I can't wait to see how he walks when he gets out of the car. 

[Pepper Mostly]

1 minute ago, Doublemint said:

She's wearing a giant sweater and she's too hot?   Idiot, take the sweater off.

That might expose the skin on her arms and cause men to gaze upon her with lust in their hearts.

[Auntie Anxiety]

Brandan didn’t have time to research the culture online because he was too busy FaceTime-ing Mary.

[Bees52]

2 minutes ago, sainte-chapelle said:

Mary perhaps discuss the rules on the way home? You have 3 hours

No time for discussion. Must kiss!

[Doublemint]

1 minute ago, Suzywriter said:

We can't really blame them if they never were taught. 

I'm not blaming them - it's poor parenting.

[Pepper Mostly]

Dear lord, all the slurping. 

Oh Mary. You have vast experience of lying and sneaking and keeping secrets. You'll be just fine. 

[Auntie Anxiety]

Even Mary’s grandfather knows it’s texting, not dating.

[sainte-chapelle]

Omg Mary you just keep throwing him under the bus.

[Suzywriter]

1 minute ago, Doublemint said:

I'm not blaming them - it's poor parenting.

I didn't mean to imply that you were.

I work with families, and let me tell you many times there are 4 generations of people in one house who have no raising whatsoever. 

[sainte-chapelle]

Ok fangs.…a skimpy dress is not a rape invitation ..what an asshole

[Pepper Mostly]

1 minute ago, sainte-chapelle said:

Omg Mary you just keep throwing him under the bus.

This is just the beginning. 

[Shelbie]

Can’t wait till next week and more arguments over the clothes a woman is wearing. 🙄 We’ve heard this crap for years.

[Doublemint]

1 minute ago, Suzywriter said:

I didn't mean to imply that you were.

I work with families, and let me tell you many times there are 4 generations of people in one house who have no raising whatsoever. 

I know - the children and grandchildren were in my classroom.

[Auntie Anxiety]

1 minute ago, sainte-chapelle said:

Ok fangs.…a skimpy dress is not a rape invitation ..what an asshole

Holly calls Nicole in for a consult.

[Zombness]

I am surprised Julio brought up that he was leaving during dinner.  Usually those type of conversations are left for after and not at the table.

[Doublemint]

Wait - the new show starts Aug 14 on Monday night?   This only has another 2/3 weeks??

[Suzywriter]

Just now, sainte-chapelle said:

Ok fangs.…a skimpy dress is not a rape invitation ..what an asshole

JWs are somewhat taught that it is--that's why the real ones don't wear anything revealing.  A woman who has been raped is 'counseled' about what she may have done to bring this upon herself. She may be shunned if she didn't try hard enough to prevent it, and the event considered an act of 'fornication' (major sin) instead of an assault. 

 

[Auntie Anxiety]

Just now, Zombness said:

I am surprised Julio brought up that he was leaving during dinner.  Usually those type of conversations are left for after and not at the table.

The cameras were already all set up and Sharp thought it would be economic to kill two birds with one stone.

[Suzywriter]

what is wrong with the apartment? 

[Auntie Anxiety]

TJ sabotaged the apartment remodel because he wants to continue to stay with his parents.

[Pepper Mostly]

Just now, Suzywriter said:

what is wrong with the apartment? 

Its not in the US.

[sainte-chapelle]

2 minutes ago, Suzywriter said:

JWs are somewhat taught that it is--that's why the real ones don't wear anything revealing.  A woman who has been raped is 'counseled' about what she may have done to bring this upon herself. She may be shunned if she didn't try hard enough to prevent it, and the event considered an act of 'fornication' (major sin) instead of an assault. 

 

You are correct, I saw a documentary about JWs and from what I saw it is very suppressive towards women and their rights. 

[Auntie Anxiety]

I’m sure TJ hired only the most professional carpenters.

[Suzywriter]

Hang up a curtain, and shut up, Bitch! This isn't a Ty Pennington show. 

[Pepper Mostly]

"Ew, it smells like curry in here"

[Gobi]

He didn't listen to her Spirit Guide.