Well I would be pissed if my douchebag father was gone for four years, then plans his wedding on my birthday! At leaset he could have had a small cake and flowers for her, and made a little speech or something...5 minutes out of your life, but just something to show that he was thinking about her, and that she is important too. its not like David would be paying for it anyway...showing a bit of thoughtfulness to your kid would go a long way. He kept saying that day was about Him and wifey...thats messed up when its your kids birthday, and you keep calling her to come to the stupid wedding