Thanks for clearing that up for me. I was confused by that scene. When his daughter said, "Haven't you ever loved someone you knew was wrong for you?" After the themes of molestation, I wondered if that's what was being hinted at. Then Ray went on to deny it being the girl who was murdered. Of course, even when drunk I doubt Ray would've admitted it was the murdered girlfriend. One thing I took away from that scene is Abby 'Harpy' Donovan might've been the rebound that became the wife.