Retired at last

I think Brett has expressed interest in working out, wasn't he one with gaming set-ups, maintaining his yard, playing with his cat, etc. And I am sure he would love to go on a vacation - one that has been saved for and not put on a credit card.

The "experts" picked some pretty awful women this time. ChristinA and Olivia both need to wipe the smug off their faces, as they are no bargains! I liked Olivia more at the beginning, but she is clearly not right for this show, and certainly not for Brett. At least she admitted to be independent and stuck in her ways. And, now she doesn't even like Brett's cat! I took the budget thing as that she did ask him to help her set up a good budget. I think he just interprets HAVING a budget with FOLLOWING a budget, which she might not be so willing to do. I just can't stand ChristinA and I agree that she is impatient, rude, and, for some reason, feels entitled to be worshipped by all men. I don't get the homeless thing at all and wondered if maybe her lease was over when she was selected so she packed up her car? I was sure they did home visits earlier this season. And, yes, if she is a flight attendant, she needs to live in a hub city. Is NOLA any airline's base? I can't believe that the show recruited her????? ETA: I like Henry and was glad he used the "friend" label. That took her down a bit. I am sure Amelia and Bennett will be fine. I just hope she cleans up a lot before she goes to work at the hospital. They just look dirty and smelly. But, as happy as can be, so I am hopeful for them. Woody and Amani will be fine. I still am not crazy about him, but they seem happy -I think. She always says she is, but with her whiny baby voice, seems to be unsure, so I don't get them, but they will be OK. I feel so bad for Miles that he is being punished for Karen's past relationships. He doesn't deserve that and is really trying to be as patient as she is demanding. I am so glad that Pastor Cal told them both that he needs to be able to get what he needs, too, and not just wait around for her. She is another one who should not have been selected for this show - she is not emotionally ready. And, as gorgeous as she is, no matter what she says, she is NOT happy with who she is. She is miserable and her being an emotional mess sucks the joy out of the room. I was glad to see the scene next week where she is sitting on Miles' lap and his friends dare her to kiss Miles on this lips. LOL - that tiny peck is still more than either Olivia or ChristinA will get this whole show. It will be really interesting to see the shows once the quarantine starts. Anyone know when that will be"? ETA: I do NOT like Bennett's sister. She seems to have a very unhealthy relationship or obsession with her brother and has tried to sabotage this relationship the last time they were together when she told Amelia about how Bennet felt about having kids. Now she is telling him he shouldn't be a grown up and move to be with his wife and she doesn't want him to leave. The family dynamics are so strange, but Bennett seems to be able to know what he wants. His sister needs to lighten up, because he will follow his heart.

ChristinA seems to have forgotten that Henry has been the only man to send her flowers (other than her grandfather). I thought that was all she wanted???

I am guessing that Bennett would have been comfortable packing in a backpack or grocery bag. No need for luggage! I am guessing maybe his mother loaned him a suitcase if he needed one. Well, he's not striking out if all he wants is a hook-up, but if he is looking for a real committed relationship, he has not been successful, other than the time he was engaged.

Not that I think Brett is a wonderful person, but, the fact that he went on a date after he applied to the show, but BEFORE he was cast is not a problem for me. I think it is like a job interview - even if you have a really good feeling about an interview, you keep applying for jobs until you get a firm offer. Thats what he did and when he was selected, he did NOT go on that 3rd date, so I see nothing wrong with that behavior. The Bachelor party was another case completely, and yes, he was a total jerk. But, the fact that he still dated before getting the call is fine.

I read that the mob angle WILL be part of Tripp's story and will also involve Jake and his mob story. These writers are so bad at writing stories like these. Remember when Chloe took down El Fideo (The Noodle) in that ridiculous story?

No one knows anything about the father (and they probably haven't even made it up yet), but Allie was a party girl and she could have taken a trip and met Tripp at a bar or party somewhere. All we know is that she said everyone would be mad if they knew who it was and no more than that. I don't know why anyone would be mad at the idea of two stupid kids making babies they can't afford to take care of. He ended up being a decent guy and got out of the way because of the Claire craziness last time.

I would love it if Tripp comes back and when he hears that Allie had a baby realizes right away that he is the father and goes into court demanding custody - even while Allie is gone! That would certainly shut Sami up! (As long as she doesn't switch the DNA test!)

Both VK and KDP's last day will be next Wednesday, although it was said that Ciara will be in and out, whether that is in flashbacks or reality was not specified. The description of that day just says that Ciara is missing.

I think we maybe saw more of how Olivia reacts when she doesn't get her way. Sometimes, being single and not having long relationships just makes you more independent and less flexible than you want to admit. And, as for ChristinA, who is basing all relationships and marriages on what she sees on TV, she is appearing as a total bitch. Every time she exclaims that she has NEVER had to be the aggressor before and that all the men tell her how gorgeous she is (she isn't, at all), it is obvious what they want, since apparently, none of all those men have bothered to send her flowers! I think you can tell a lot about people based on how they treat others, such as wait servers, and she clearly makes Henry uncomfortable with how impatient and critical she is.

Just finished watching the show and it seems to me that Brett is the one who needs to run. When he finally gave Olivia the reason for his attitude and hurt feelings, she just shut him down with the totally unnecessary, "just put your big boy pants on and do what is expected." She totally blew off what he was feeling and sounded more like a mother than a partner. So, he, it appears, is done. And to me, she seems totally inflexible and just wants to fit him into her already established patterns, without compromising to fit into his. I still feel so bad for Miles. Karen is giving him nothing, except an occasional cheek kiss. He is being patient and respectful and she is going to lose him if she doesn't get over herself.

Just a few thoughts. . . I thought ENOUGH with the toothbrushing and flossing! Also, the constant use of the word "aggressive" bothers me - a lot. I would not want to be with anyone who is aggressive, and yet they keep using that word as if it is a good thing and want Henry to be more aggressive. How about "assertive" or "initiating" if that is what they are looking for? Aggressive is NOT a positive trait, unless you are maybe talking about being cut-throat in business. I always fall asleep when this is on, but did record it. I usually read here to determine if I want to watch. Not sure that I do. I did see that weird conversation (and I agree that it was producer driven) between Olivia and Brett. I am glad that Olivia seems to have a nice support system so that she wasn't alone as a single. But, if she really thinks this relationship is going to work then she needs to compromise and focus on her husband. I agree with those who said they think she just wanted someone for her plus-one invitations and essentially, married someone to be her escort to the things SHE wants to do. I did not see the ratings segment, and I agree that it is not a good thing, but they have only known their spouses for 5 or 6 days. I don't see 7 as a horrible score at this point. But, if he has been doing all of his best things, then I can see where he would be disappointed. I am definitely getting very inflexible vibes from Olivia, especially since she now has the monetary power. Looking forward to the tent and song with Amelia and Bennett. I do like them together. I thought Henry was funny on those paddle boards (except for using the word "widow") and I do kind of like him. She is just not a likable person. Obviously, this is not a good match, but she has pissed off the producers and will get the Brandon edit. Although, if they didn't exhibit those behaviors, they wouldn't have the film to show. Karen is a beautiful woman who acts wayyyyyyy too old for 30. Miles still seems like a really good guy, but she won't give him a chance. No one is perfect, including her, so if she wants to really have a solid relationship, then she needs to understand that he needs to see affection, too. It is not up to him to woo her entirely. I still don't like Amani's voice, but I think she and Woody are doing fine. That is all.

I wonder why all of these articles are coming out LONG before Decision Day. They are still on their honeymoons, for crying out loud! Maybe the show has determined that knowing the outcome doesn't really affect the ratings?

Remember that the scenes we are seeing this week (new haircuts, etc.) are the first shows that were shot after the long November break. They finished up those shows last week or so. There has been a lapse of a few months since these people have filmed. But, it was before the pandemic shutdown, so haircuts were no problem then.

I also remember hearing 'monogamous'.

Yes, I believe that Sami wants Belle to represent her in the custody case and restraining order.

I wonder what Sami has to confess to Marlena? Also, Gabi and Jake get passionate on Thursday and she leaves on Friday? So, if she does return, will she have a miracle Jake baby with her? Once again, Ciara is trapped in a dangerous situation - so so so boring. I am guessing that this spoiler goes with the one that was something about Vincent putting the final nail in her coffin. Ben to the rescue? But, if they did invite her to come back if she wants to, that kind if suggests that she won't be killed. The next few weeks will be interesting (well, relatively) as people start to leave. ETA - now I am guessing that the truth that Sami withholds is that her fighting with John is what lead to his collapse, which she confesses the following week. When will someone tell her to GO HOME? She has way overstayed her return.

Just a few thoughts. . . I kind of liked that they were showing the couples having real conversations to get to know each other. It is really obvious to see the couples who are really into each other. I really like Miles and I hope he is truly the man he appears to be and I hope that Karen lets herself trust him. I think he is genuine. And, while some people didn't like her question asking him if his mother signed a permission slip to go on the honeymoon, I thought it was great and it showed that she was capable of teasing him a little. When he kept calling her a cougar (which I don't think 4 years older qualifies), I loved that she threw back at him that he was younger. By the way, he seems much more mature than she does and seem to have himself figured out, which is great. It is just plain awkward watching Christina and Henry. They sat so far apart from each other when the couples were together. I am not a fan of Christina, but I also noticed that when she said she couldn't figure out why they matched her with hi,, it looked like she was going to say more, but didn't. And she sure hasn't figured it out yet, because there was no reason. Henry is just sad, but I did notice he may have a temper when he was complaining that she was rowing the kayak all wrong. I think Christina may have just decided to do whatever she can to make the best of this disaster and have a good time. Unfortunately he seems to be allergic to fun. But, the saddest art for me is when they do his TH and he seems to think everything is great. I am not getting Amani and Woody. They are both smitten and that is great. He seems to be fine with waiting for sex, especially since she seems to invite him to shower with her several times a day. That's what I don't get. To me, showering together is much more intimate than having sex. But, I guess at their age they aren't fighting gravity when they stand up! Her voice is still annoying to me, but I think they will be fine. He is somehow starting to appear to be the "father figure" to me, giving advice to Miles snd some of his other statements.. Amelia and Bennett are also fine. The pretend drama at her having to relocate was dumb. He will go wherever she is. Olivia is very nice, but I do sense some rigidity in some areas. Again, what is with him not being allowed to brush his teeth without her? And, no, Olivia, peeing in the shower is not what most girls do. I am one who sees no problem with Brett dating until he was selected. Even if you have a good job interview, you don't stop looking until you get the offer. I fell asleep before it was over (and I thought the show was boring). Did anything look good in th previews?

Could they start fining these idiots every time they say, "like?" I could barely make it through that video clip.

I just can't imagine what they will do with Nicole. Now that she is more mature and being an adult and NOT keeping secrets (she has gone the other way and is blabbing everything to everyone), but, without Eric, what will she do? I know she has a job, but all she has been doing is sleeping with Eric and making Sami mad it seems.

Well, according to some of the spoiler scenes they have shown, Bennett and Amelia are in a park and he comes to the camera to tell that he just told Amelia that he loved her. Then Amelia comes up and Bennett says what he told and she said she loves him, too.

Well, I figure that John can't stay on the hospital bed too long since they will need it every single time Lani gets a twinge or feels a kick and gets herself straight to the hospital! I hope that NuClaire turns Eve in, but she probably won't.

Actually, it is NOT just Allie's choice. There is a father and she mentioned that people would be mad if they knew who he was, so that means he has some connection to Salem.

I read somewhere that the scenes that were shot last November should be shown in the next week or two, so Eric should be leaving really soon. I wonder if it will have anything to do with Nicole getting Allie's baby. It is clear that they aren't going to kill him off since he has the offer to come back. (I know, I know)

LOL - hope it doesn't leave Nicole with 2 kids to raise alone!!! Also, maybe Paige comes back to save her mom from spending the rest of her life in jail and tells her that nothing will bring her back and she needs to let go of this revenge plot. Maybe she won't even mention Ben?