Yolanda Hadid: My Love, My Lemons, My Lyme Disease.

[hoodooznoodooz]

38 minutes ago, Pi237 said:

Yes. 

I never thought he was in love with her. He was in love with how she made him look with a hot blonde on his arm that bowed down to him. Talented man, but it was gross how much validation he needed.  Soon as he saw her illness might mean it was his turn to sacrifice a little for her, he was done. 

I am surprised he didn’t just marry a thirty-something, as Mohamed did, however.

[ZettaK]

2 hours ago, hoodooznoodooz said:

I haven’t rewatched the Lyme disease/Munchausen/leaky breast implants episodes yet. But do any of you have theories about Yolanda and David’s marriage? 
 

David seemed completely in love with her during her first season. Was he a fair weather friend? Was he only willing to devote himself to her when she was able to worship him, cater to him and engage in passionate sex with him as often as possible? 
 

Or did she sense that he was losing interest, and she began fretting about her health, in order to bring his attention back to her? 
 

He’s been married so many times. I guess he has a pattern of dropping women once boredom sets in. 

He is a very selfish person. It was both. He started losing interest in her because she spent time filming the show, and was not as devoted to him and his needs. He was probably also annoyed (jealous?) at the attention she was receiving because of the show. She thought that he would be more caring when she was sick, but her illness, and new needs turned him off. He is a horrible person (not that Yolanda is perfect) who soon after married a woman decades younger than him.

1 hour ago, hoodooznoodooz said:

I am surprised he didn’t just marry a thirty-something, as Mohamed did, however.

He did marry a thirty something year old after Yolanda. 

Edited Yest. at 10:33 PM by ZettaK

[RealHousewife]

6 hours ago, hoodooznoodooz said:

Yolanda also kept telling the makeup artist and Gigi that it was imperative that they apply makeup in a way that would round her eyes, or else she would look Chinese.

And when they were discussing all the food for Gigi’s birthday party, the consumption of which would cause cardiac arrest, Yolanda said it’d be okay if Gigi ignored her diet for just one day.

I remember that makeup scene because I couldn't believe Yolanda said that! I don't think she meant to be offensive, but still. I don't think she ever addressed the remark either. 

I remember that too. I think Yolanda saw all the diet stuff as supporting Gigi's modeling dreams, but again, I was uncomfortable watching. 

I know Yolanda can say offensive things and come across very tough, but I'll give her this. I think she is more authentic than a lot of women who've done the show, a good person at her core, and almond mom and all, raised sweet kids. 

6 hours ago, hoodooznoodooz said:

I haven’t rewatched the Lyme disease/Munchausen/leaky breast implants episodes yet. But do any of you have theories about Yolanda and David’s marriage? 

David seemed completely in love with her during her first season. Was he a fair weather friend? Was he only willing to devote himself to her when she was able to worship him, cater to him and engage in passionate sex with him as often as possible? 

Or did she sense that he was losing interest, and she began fretting about her health, in order to bring his attention back to her? 

He’s been married so many times. I guess he has a pattern of dropping women once boredom sets in. 

I think it was exactly that, sadly. 

5 hours ago, Pi237 said:

Yes. 

I never thought he was in love with her. He was in love with how she made him look with a hot blonde on his arm that bowed down to him. Talented man, but it was gross how much validation he needed.  Soon as he saw her illness might mean it was his turn to sacrifice a little for her, he was done. 

That's what I think too. David enjoyed having this beautiful woman cater to him. I don't think there was anything deep there, at least not on his part. I also admire his talent, but I couldn't imagine being married to him no matter what kind of lifestyle he could provide. I remember when Yolanda took her breast implants out, David joked "Ken has better tits now." I'm sorry, that's not funny. All any woman would want to hear from her partner is that he wants her to get better, that she's beautiful no matter what, etc. 

[dosodog]

He's a pompous jerk.

[ZettaK]

7 hours ago, hoodooznoodooz said:

Yolanda also kept telling the makeup artist and Gigi that it was imperative that they apply makeup in a way that would round her eyes, or else she would look Chinese.

She is clueless, and tone deaf.

[ZettaK]

2 hours ago, RealHousewife said:

I remember when Yolanda took her breast implants out, David joked "Ken has better tits now." I'm sorry, that's not funny. All any woman would want to hear from her partner is that he wants her to get better, that she's beautiful no matter what, etc. 

It reminds me of Simon Barney when he was married to Tamra Judge of the Orange County Housewives. He was extremely unsatisfied with her removing her (large) implants, and replacing them with smaller ones until she removed them permanently (later on) because she had immune system issues. He said that her breasts were like mosquito bites for breasts. These kind of guys don't care about their wives' health. 

Edited 19 hours ago by ZettaK

[RealHousewife]

14 minutes ago, ZettaK said:

She is clueless, and tone deaf.

I'm surprised they even left that scene in.

7 minutes ago, ZettaK said:

It reminds me of Simon Barney when he was married to Tamra Judge of the Orange County Housewives. He was extremely unsatisfied with her removing her (large) implants, and replacing them with smaller ones until she removed them permanently (later on) because she had immune system issues. He said that her breasts were like mosquito bites. These kind of guys don't care about their wives' health. 

That's such a disgusting thing to say. I also think it's mean when men mock women who've had work done. It's like damned if you do, damned if you don't. 

[hoodooznoodooz]

1 hour ago, RealHousewife said:

I think Yolanda saw all the diet stuff as supporting Gigi's modeling dreams, but again, I was uncomfortable watching. 

I know Yolanda can say offensive things and come across very tough, but I'll give her this. I think she is more authentic than a lot of women who've done the show, a good person at her core, and, almond mom and all, raised sweet kids. 

I think it was exactly that, sadly. 

That's what I think, too. David enjoyed having this beautiful woman cater to him. I don't think there was anything deep there, at least not on his part. I also admire his talent, but I couldn't imagine being married to him no matter what kind of lifestyle he could provide. I remember when Yolanda took her breast implants out, David joked "Ken has better tits now." I'm sorry, that's not funny. All any woman would want to hear from her partner is that he wants her to get better, that she's beautiful no matter what, etc. 

I agree. When I watch her talking to Gigi about food and the perils of volleyball, you can tell she means well and is trying to give her advice that will advance her modeling career. But she’s quite clunky with her delivery.

I admired the way Yolanda interacted with the other housewives. She was logical and could be sympathetic. 
 

I guess I am disappointed, because David did take the time to point out things that he loved about her. And they were not superficial reasons. He seemed to appreciate the qualities that she prided herself on. 
 

I still think he should have married a young woman instead of Yolanda, and spared her the heartache, abandoning her when she really needed him.